I'm male.
I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)
I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i wouldn't want any other services, (bj etc)...
I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)
But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!
I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...
Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????
Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...
I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...
I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??
I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.
Help me please.
I don't know where i could meet any girls? I don't go to party, im not a party person :p
If you feel like chattin to me, post ur msn:)
I dont know what to do:(I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
I'm sure every 16 yo boy (and girl) thinks they are going to be single forever. We all feel that way sometimes and for 99.9% of people it just isn't true. It will happen to you sooner or later.
Your frenulum is a problem that cannot afford to wait. The older you are when you have any operation, the longer it takes to heal. Your frenulum problem may need an operation to loosen it so it won't help you to wait. Bite the bullet and get it sorted. Your parents do not need to know if you see your doctor and unless you have daisies growing out the end, the doctor will have seen thousands of penises exactly like it.
As for finding girls, you have just given us a whole long list of places that you won't go to or try. You need to change your approach. Put it this way: you're not finding girls in the places you go to/things you do now. That suggests to me that you need to look somewhere different to find girls rather than waiting for them to show up where you are.
Everybody is a party person at the right kind of party. And trying a new hobby or activity doesn't mean you are stuck with it forever. Just give something new a go and if you don't like it try something else. What is there to lose?
Something else to bear in mind is that teenage girls tend to have sex to boost their self-esteem. Unfortunately, it often works completely the opposite way - the sense of rejection when he doesn't call and the reputation as a tramp undermines their self-esteem and a vicious cycle starts. Everyone wants a ';nice'; partner who will treat them right and love them, but some people just have very bad judgement. Don't discount someone just because they have a reputation or because they don't seem to be your ';type';. Get to know them before you judge them.
You will get there in the end, just don't give up on yourself and don't hide away waiting for love to find you because it won't. Get out there, try something new, broaden your horizons and meet someone new. Good luck.I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
UGH. Teen sex is horrible! It's like you're throwing it all away..
I say have it after 21.. or else it's so.. so, UGH.
But, I'm not in charge of you, so here: You can meet girls at the mall, at school {if you still go to school} anywhere actually. All you have to do is get the nerves to talk to her.
I go to a Catholic school and I don't to church when we have to go I would rather be siting on a big farm some where Just because they go to church doesn't mean they want to be there. I was more into guy stuff more than half the guys in my class last year. so the hobby thing wouldn't mater
too be honest....
if a girl just wants sex they are not worth wasting you time on....
girls feel the same about guys....a lot of girls want a relationship/to be friends first/etc...more than just sex...and you would be surprised how many want to wait before they have sex!
take your time to find a friend 1st...
build on a friendship
be confident, and more importantly BE YOURSELF!!!
feel free to email me if you want to chat.
Smile! -_^
don't worry i know you'll find a perfect girl and no not all girls want sex trust me and they don't have to be church girls in order not to have sex sum girls are raised right by their parents and know that they should wait
just keep lookin you could find girls anywhere there's more than enough in the world!
Your 16...you have plenty time to find a girlfriend...find some of the kind girls at school you can see yourself with and start chatting to them...and maybe it will go somewhere...
ok this the third time you posted this question. or the third time ive read it.
i think u seem very sweet and that but not all girls are like that eventually one will come along for u just stop thinking about it, it WILL happen! good luck hun
your only 16...your life is just begining...dont worry things will happen for you...just be happy with what and who you are and the rest will follow...
Oh hey i just answered ur other question lol email meeee catslover2222@yahoo.co.uk Xx
wait. in the beginning it says 'if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex' but then you ask if there are any nice girls that don't just want sex..?
anyways,
in high school your stuck with the same friends but in college you'll get to meet allll kinds of different people. so for now, just have fun and stop worrying about the sex situation. if you want a real relationship, focus more on the personality
firstly i dont know a frenulumn is but go to the doctors about it, they wont tell your parents! just tell your parents your meeting friends and go.
there are lots of girls, especially who will be 14/15/16 and not want sex so dont think of them all like that!
normally you can tell when you meet girls what they will be like.
are u going to college next year? u will meet lots of girls there
or ask your female friends if they know anyone
or take up a new hobbie where u might meet girls, you dont have to worry about being shy, as long as you have SOMETHING to say to them, shy is nice!
just smile at girls when u see nice ones, when yout out and about. stop looking for a girlfriend, just look to make friends.
goodluck
also there will be loads of girls out there your age thinking the same thing as you!
First thing you should know: don't be desperate. that's one thing nobody likes. Secondly you don't only have to go to parties to meet girls. having a drink or going to festivals, concerts, whatever is enough. get out of your house and go to places. If you do this enough you'll meet enough girls. and once you start meeting them it becomes a lot easier..
Well you seem like a nice guy and everything but dont give up ! Im sure that soon youll be able to find that girl that you just described. Yeah no only some girls just want to have sex all the time but not all of them! You could probably look for a girl like by going out for a walk or soemthing around your neighborhood or something. You can also ask like some of your cousins for friends that might be single . Hope this helped!
Dont worry im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend yet either ... and i certainly wouldnt be having sex like them little slags .. girls like that just get a bad name and used ..
me and all my mates are respectable and not into that at all ..
if you dont mind me asking where these girls are from ..
there all little sluts lately ...
u sounds like a nice lad .. and just wait theres plenty of time for girlfriends and just coz ur mates tink there mad and cool coz they have sex with sluts doesnt mean u have to do all that ..
wait til u meet a nice girl that u can trust and is very respectful .. someone ur parents would like to .. thats the best girl not a little tart that will cheat on u wioth ur best mate.
good luck i hope you find a nice girl soon but if you dont .. dont be worryign you have plenty of time for girlfriends just enjoy being young .. and then focus on girls for now dont worry let them chase you :).
hope that helps :D.
xxxx
um, no offense, but your friends are sluts. Not all girls have sex. not all pretty girls have sex. usually if they are insecure, and desperate and need a man to make them feel better about themseleves, then they will do it. i'm sure there are plenty of girls where you live who don't want that. i' don't want that. haha. i'm not a church girl. i want to find a guy like you actually! and i think i found him but i'm pretty sure he doesnt like me back. :( slowly killing me.
just look around and talk to people. good luck :)
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