I have a crush on this girl at my school. I've known her since elementary school (we're 16). She's a lesbian, and I'm bi. I think she is a gorgeous, funny, intelligent human being, and I would love to have a relationship with her. There are some problems though:
1. She has a girlfriend (it seems for real, but you never know...)
2. I'm not her type (I'm fat and ugly. Possibly too masculine.)
3. She might not think of me this way
4. Basically any other negative you can think of
Should I tell her how I feel, or would it be a waste of my time anyway? Since she has a gf, i dont want her to be upset with me. I really do have strong feelings for her, but I don't want to make things weird. I just can't stop thinking, ';What if she doesn't even like me?';. Should I just let her go? Am I an idiot? I need some help...I need some girl advice! Help?
Don't tell her now, she'll just feel weird...tell her when she's single, and until then ( even though you're probably not as fat and ugly as you think you are, cheer up), you can work on exercise, getting a new look. Make her realize there could be a connection BUT realize that you might not have a chance- if you really love her, you'll want her to be happy, no matter who she's with. Don't wait up for her- just focus on being a better person, get on with your life, and look for another girl. There are lots of funny, smart, great women out there, and you shouldn't blind yourself. Maybe one day it'll work, maybe not.I need some girl advice! Help?
You sound like the troubles I've went through in the past couple of years. Except that I'm the lesbian. To tell her how you feel, write a letter and do not sign it, unless you want her to know, then have someone deliver it or leave it in a place where you know she'll look. You are not an idiot for liking someone that is close to you. Good luck, and I hope it works out for you better than it did for me.
I think you shouldn't tell her with an attitude like that. If you have that low confidence then it'll just be weird. I'm sry but that's how i feel.
I feel sorry for you being in this position, but I would leave it until you find time to tell her. Not yet tough, if you tell her her gf will find out and she will get her claws out!
Yes you are a idiot!
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need some girl advice?
ok i really like this girl.Lets call her Girl1. she likes me too but her best friend really likes me also.We'll call her Girl2. Girl1 wont go out with me because she doesn't want to hurt her friendship with Girl2. I don't really like Girl2 other than a friend. and to make things worse girl 1 also likes my 2 best friends.Girl 1 knows i have feelings for her.And so does Girl2. But Girl1 always shows her affection towards my 2 best friends and its really awkward and i just want her know how i feel....Any advice anyoneI need some girl advice?
ask girl1 how she feels and if girl2 is not happy for girl1 then she anit a friend.
i suggest you tell her how you feel.I need some girl advice?
Be the assertive one, the girls aren't making any moves, so you have to.
i would just go out with her. girl2 is probably just jealous. you can't always make people happy in these situations. Good luck,
Samantha
ask girl1 how she feels and if girl2 is not happy for girl1 then she anit a friend.
i suggest you tell her how you feel.I need some girl advice?
Be the assertive one, the girls aren't making any moves, so you have to.
i would just go out with her. girl2 is probably just jealous. you can't always make people happy in these situations. Good luck,
Samantha
Need some genuine girl advice?
I'm 20 years old in college. I met this girl the other day in the library whom I think is very cute. I got her number. I called her a couple of hours later(which I know was my first mistake). Anyways, when I talked to her I asked her to hang out with me and she said she would call me the next day. She never did as I expected. She called me a couple of days later and said sorry and gave me her excuse. We talked for a while and had a few things in common and I'm interested in getting to know her more. I've asked her out and she gives me some excuse about how its not a good weekend because she is busy. I'm no idiot I know if she was interested she would make a little bit of time. I need some advice in how to make this girl more interested in me. I know, obviously, that she is somewhat interested due to her giving me her number. I have a feeling I'm being too forward and she sees that. Anyways I really want to take her out and her not think that I'm desperate. If there are any girls out there that would know what they would want the guy to do in this situation, I would really appreciate your advice.Need some genuine girl advice?
Maybe shes just not comfortable going out with a stranger. If she's ok just talking to you on the phone, you can call her a couple more times and see if she warms up the more she knows you.Need some genuine girl advice?
You need to wait a good 2 weeks before asking her out again. Then she'll wonder why you aren't asking her out. Making a girl think about you is the first way to get a date lol.. unless they are thinking ';man I wish this guy would stop bugging me'; Then when you do ask her out, be genuine and straight-forward. if she says no then she is just mean,
If you're worried about coming on too strong, don't take her on a date-date. Just see if she wants to go for some coffee, or on a ';friend date'; (like, invite her to the bars with your friends [have her invite some of hers too!] or to a party or something.)
But you don't want to ignore her, either!
Be upfront with her and ask ';Would you want to hang out sometime?'; if she says yes than say ';You seem pretty busy. When's a time that works for you?'; If she's just making excuses then that's the time she'll have to tell you if she's interested or not.
Good luck!
do ever know if she has a boyfriend? maybe the reason she gave you her number is because she only wants to make friends. um, in my opinion, she does kinds of sound that she wasn't interested. or maybe she is a very busy girl? i don't know. well if she acts this way, it is best that you just give her some time. i don't like guy been way to close and doesn't give me any freedom. maybe another couple of weeks you give her a call, asks her hows it going. just don't be too pressuring. when you sees her, just act normal, don't show that you're really into her, something like that. she maybe felt uncomfortable if you suddenly appear in her world and be that desperate guy
i'm sorry but good luck! xxalmay
Maybe shes just not comfortable going out with a stranger. If she's ok just talking to you on the phone, you can call her a couple more times and see if she warms up the more she knows you.Need some genuine girl advice?
You need to wait a good 2 weeks before asking her out again. Then she'll wonder why you aren't asking her out. Making a girl think about you is the first way to get a date lol.. unless they are thinking ';man I wish this guy would stop bugging me'; Then when you do ask her out, be genuine and straight-forward. if she says no then she is just mean,
If you're worried about coming on too strong, don't take her on a date-date. Just see if she wants to go for some coffee, or on a ';friend date'; (like, invite her to the bars with your friends [have her invite some of hers too!] or to a party or something.)
But you don't want to ignore her, either!
Be upfront with her and ask ';Would you want to hang out sometime?'; if she says yes than say ';You seem pretty busy. When's a time that works for you?'; If she's just making excuses then that's the time she'll have to tell you if she's interested or not.
Good luck!
do ever know if she has a boyfriend? maybe the reason she gave you her number is because she only wants to make friends. um, in my opinion, she does kinds of sound that she wasn't interested. or maybe she is a very busy girl? i don't know. well if she acts this way, it is best that you just give her some time. i don't like guy been way to close and doesn't give me any freedom. maybe another couple of weeks you give her a call, asks her hows it going. just don't be too pressuring. when you sees her, just act normal, don't show that you're really into her, something like that. she maybe felt uncomfortable if you suddenly appear in her world and be that desperate guy
i'm sorry but good luck! xx
I need some girl advice,(boys I GUESS,too,if you understand.)?
Okay I like diz guy and today was taks.After TAKS I was in my reading teachers class,and I told him I couldn't find a seat.He said there is one right there! He pointed to a chair with a book on top.EVERYONE laughed at me.Even my friend ( :( I saw the stupid desk,but there was a book on it so I thought sum1 sat there! Gosh I hate teachers.My crush said USE UR BRAIN! And now I am kinda mad.I cried of course,and I am mad at him for saying dat.But I still like him.What would you have dun? ( :)I need some girl advice,(boys I GUESS,too,if you understand.)?
Dont stress about it !! Boys are boys..nothing you can do about it ! Try living with 4 of em !!! Boys ALWAYS tease so thats normal !! Could be a sign that he likes you !
Dont stress about it !! Boys are boys..nothing you can do about it ! Try living with 4 of em !!! Boys ALWAYS tease so thats normal !! Could be a sign that he likes you !
Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
whats the best way to ask a girl out? be straightforward and be like ';would you like to go out with me?'; or more like ';maybe we can go out sometime';?
also when i ask her out is it ok to just ask and then say you will call her once you get her number to tell details and such or is it better to say where you wanna take her out right then cause i really dont know where i would ask her to go out? any ideas on places? things to do?Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
Straightforward might be better, and first ask her what things she like to do for fun. If she says that she likes playing tennis, then take her to lunch and play tennis afterwards, or vice versa. If she says she likes seeing movies, then ask her to go to a new movie.Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
Be straightforward! When you get her number call and ask her when shes not busy then ask her if she wants to go bowling, that way you can find out more about her and have fun playing a game.
Tip: Do NOT let her win, whats the fun of that? And also it's like your saying she cant win unless you let her.
Just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. The best relationship is between friends, so before you even think about ';going out';, just be a friend.
tell her if u could eat lunch with her
or
if she like being complimented tell her shes beautiful, or, sexy, or pretty, gorgeuos ect. everyday!
hope it helps answer bak plz
also when i ask her out is it ok to just ask and then say you will call her once you get her number to tell details and such or is it better to say where you wanna take her out right then cause i really dont know where i would ask her to go out? any ideas on places? things to do?Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
Straightforward might be better, and first ask her what things she like to do for fun. If she says that she likes playing tennis, then take her to lunch and play tennis afterwards, or vice versa. If she says she likes seeing movies, then ask her to go to a new movie.Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
Be straightforward! When you get her number call and ask her when shes not busy then ask her if she wants to go bowling, that way you can find out more about her and have fun playing a game.
Tip: Do NOT let her win, whats the fun of that? And also it's like your saying she cant win unless you let her.
Just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. The best relationship is between friends, so before you even think about ';going out';, just be a friend.
tell her if u could eat lunch with her
or
if she like being complimented tell her shes beautiful, or, sexy, or pretty, gorgeuos ect. everyday!
hope it helps answer bak plz
I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
There's this guy i really, really like. the thing is, im way to shy to talk to him. i cant even say a simple ';hey';. what's wrong with me? my friends keep telling me that we'd be a perfect couple, and that we are eachother's type. But hes the type of guy that needs to really know you and be friends with you. How can i do that if i cant talk to him and he wont talk to me? seriously, the most contact we come to is when he looks at me when im looking the other way, and when i look at him when hes looking the other way. i really like him, but im too shy! HELP.I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
Ask one of your friends that know him to introduce you two. Don't be shy. If you really like him then don't let being shy get in your way.I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
If your in a situation where you are talking to the same group, etc. comment on something he says. Then, if you see him around, just smile or maybe say hi...if you dont try, you will always regret it.
sorry, first you find out way,to check what type of relation you are looking for,if it is for life ,then find out what the guy want and this can be done by some middle person and then try to figure out your way of approach .as you are shy by nature the yes and no from the guy can hurt you too much so ,don't hurry take your time ,just give your want ,and love for that guy more fuel ,your urge will do the rest ,because in relationship planning is important. dont be shy,be confident ,hey girl! that guy will be also pleased ,you are equally important for him ,so babes go for it ......good luck and let us inform how you have done it .see you
aww
ive experienced the same problem.
try talking online at first.
over aim or myspace/facebook
or get a friend to introduce you guys(:
goodluck!
First, try to get to know some of his other friends. Then they will probably end up introducing you to him. If that doesn't work, try writing him a note. That's what worked for me! Good luck to ya!
are you friends with ANY of his friends (even if its only an aquaintance?!) if so, suggest to the acquaintance/friend that you and a few people (includ the guy you like ) should go out and see a movie sometime or hang out at the park.
that way, you'll have a chance to talk to this guy and if things get awkwardyou can just talk to the other people that are there. :)
well, you really need to set up a plan. tell your friend what the deal is and she'll help, trust me.
explain that you can't talk to him because you're too chicken (shy isn't the right word, sorry to say. shy people aren't quite so antisocial towards guys).
then tell her this plan: you want her to push you into him next time you go by his locker or something. it would be a perfect way to get aquainted. =] haha. seriously, try it.
I really like the first girl's answer. Talking online is a great idea. My husband and I met when we were 12 years old and we both really liked each other, but we were both SO shy and too young to even have a real relationship, anyway. But over the next 6 years (I know, a long time, but I had moved away, so we were STILL too young to have a relationship until we were able to travel to see each other), we talked a lot online and we got to know each other so well. We wouldn't have been able to talk this much in person, because we were just too shy. But online, we were able to really open up and get to know each other. We've now been married for over 2 years and we are best friends! Good luck! =)
Who says that words are the only outlet for communication?
Body language is even more affective then any word one could utter. And the good thing about it is, you don't even have to be that close to him to express that you like him! A flirty look from across the room. A smile. Guys are very visual and respond to things like that even more then words. plus if you give him a flirty look he will know that you are into him, as opposed to talking to him all the time he could take it as you guys are ';just friends';. I say you should try that also pick up a cosmo for more advice. Good luck girl!
xoxo
-A
you just have to gain the courage to say something to him. that's the only way anything will happen between you guys. just start small like saying hi to each other. then work your way up to conversations.
Ask one of your friends that know him to introduce you two. Don't be shy. If you really like him then don't let being shy get in your way.I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
If your in a situation where you are talking to the same group, etc. comment on something he says. Then, if you see him around, just smile or maybe say hi...if you dont try, you will always regret it.
sorry, first you find out way,to check what type of relation you are looking for,if it is for life ,then find out what the guy want and this can be done by some middle person and then try to figure out your way of approach .as you are shy by nature the yes and no from the guy can hurt you too much so ,don't hurry take your time ,just give your want ,and love for that guy more fuel ,your urge will do the rest ,because in relationship planning is important. dont be shy,be confident ,hey girl! that guy will be also pleased ,you are equally important for him ,so babes go for it ......good luck and let us inform how you have done it .see you
aww
ive experienced the same problem.
try talking online at first.
over aim or myspace/facebook
or get a friend to introduce you guys(:
goodluck!
First, try to get to know some of his other friends. Then they will probably end up introducing you to him. If that doesn't work, try writing him a note. That's what worked for me! Good luck to ya!
are you friends with ANY of his friends (even if its only an aquaintance?!) if so, suggest to the acquaintance/friend that you and a few people (includ the guy you like ) should go out and see a movie sometime or hang out at the park.
that way, you'll have a chance to talk to this guy and if things get awkwardyou can just talk to the other people that are there. :)
well, you really need to set up a plan. tell your friend what the deal is and she'll help, trust me.
explain that you can't talk to him because you're too chicken (shy isn't the right word, sorry to say. shy people aren't quite so antisocial towards guys).
then tell her this plan: you want her to push you into him next time you go by his locker or something. it would be a perfect way to get aquainted. =] haha. seriously, try it.
I really like the first girl's answer. Talking online is a great idea. My husband and I met when we were 12 years old and we both really liked each other, but we were both SO shy and too young to even have a real relationship, anyway. But over the next 6 years (I know, a long time, but I had moved away, so we were STILL too young to have a relationship until we were able to travel to see each other), we talked a lot online and we got to know each other so well. We wouldn't have been able to talk this much in person, because we were just too shy. But online, we were able to really open up and get to know each other. We've now been married for over 2 years and we are best friends! Good luck! =)
Who says that words are the only outlet for communication?
Body language is even more affective then any word one could utter. And the good thing about it is, you don't even have to be that close to him to express that you like him! A flirty look from across the room. A smile. Guys are very visual and respond to things like that even more then words. plus if you give him a flirty look he will know that you are into him, as opposed to talking to him all the time he could take it as you guys are ';just friends';. I say you should try that also pick up a cosmo for more advice. Good luck girl!
xoxo
-A
you just have to gain the courage to say something to him. that's the only way anything will happen between you guys. just start small like saying hi to each other. then work your way up to conversations.
I need female/girl advice.......urgent assistance required.thanks?
DOES SHE LIKE me or is there interest?????
I met this girl on friday.....she said she wants to be in contact with me (I presume as friends of course cos u cant have a realtionship after 30 mins)
we exchanged phone numbers and we added each other on facebook
after three days of no contact, i send her a text message asking her how she was doing and that we had a nice conversation the other day
she then replied with:
';Hey tim...what a suprise! How are you? Yeah, it was a really nice conversation and I enjoyed it a lot! I am on my way to bowling, what are you up to now?';
I then said I am cooking (lol), but seriously, I was! I also told her to make a strike for me while playing bowling!
She then replied
';Cooking? Well I like the fact that you are cooking! I will try my best to make a strike.....Have a great night and thanks for adding me on facebook';
I then sent her a message back saying thank you too and i wish her sweet dreams as she sleeps.
I heard nothing back from her since then.
I KNOW THIS IS THE WRONG SECTION BUT MOST GIRLS COME HERE SO IT MADE SENSE TO POST IT HERE IN THIS SECTIONI need female/girl advice.......urgent assistance required.thanks?
i hate it when a guy tells me sweet dreams. be unique when you say something sweet. she may think you are cute, but she may not like like you. you know what i mean. she probably wants to get to know you. so take your time. dont rush. that scares us girls away.I need female/girl advice.......urgent assistance required.thanks?
Uhh you asked this yesterday??? And alotta ppl answered...........
You were golden up to the 'sweet dreams' part.
That was an overstep -sometimes, we don't want to hear that from a guy we just met - gives up creepy vibes.
There is interest obviously otherwise she wouldn't have allowed you the add on face book... try not to read to much into things and enjoy it. It seems like a bit of friendly chat. If you want to know for sure make it clear that you like her...somebody has to make the first move, why not you ? And how do you expect her to reply to your last message? its a nice way to end the night but what would you say back if someone said that to you.
Seems like she's interested.
Just keep talking/texting her.
but not obsessively.
and don't say sweet dream stuff, just say good night.
'Sweet dreams' can be creepy. ahha
ha ha i see your problem. this girl (i think) is thinkign to herself ';should i text him or message him on facebook??'; same as you. the next time you talk to her, keep it casual...like ';hi katie havent heard from you in a while...whats up?'; or just DO IT. do it as in ASK HER OUT ON A DATE!! she obviously likes the way you are, your cooking self. (if u ask her) on the date, you should go bowling and then cook her dinner!! i think she'd like that alot.
hope i helped %26lt;333 xoxo Julia
Well it sounds like she likes you, that is no doubt. If I girl didn't like you I don't think she would of gave you her number. How she likes you is the question....She either likes you just as a friend or she is attracted to you and is interested in more. And how you treat her could greatly affect that. So far I think you have done great. A woman wants to know your thinking about her but doesn't want to know your waiting by the phone for her. Ya know?! If she is interested she is just as confused as you are, trust me! If she is interested in you she is wondering why she hasn't heard from you since then and debating whether or not she should contact you and how. So save yourself and her the stress and text her again. Be honest just let her know you are thinking about her and ask her how her day is going. Come on what is the worst thing that could happen? She doesn't respond, then oh well at least you know how she feels and best situation she is glad to hear from you and the conversation takes off from there!
Good luck!
:) Ashley
she is interested in you because SHE was the one asking to exchange contact information and she was being totally sweet to a guy she just met! haha and this was the right section cuz i know I'M always here lol
Probably interested.. Sounds like she may have even wanted you to come on the bowling outing. Don't trip on the last unanswered text message. She may have have a few drinks at the bowling alley and just gotten caught up with her friends.
You're overthinking this and it's probably projecting to her and creeping her out a bit. Keep it casual. Stay in touch. It sounds like she likes you and you'll get a better feel as to if there's interest but if there's not, wouldn't you like her as a friend? Give it time.
We don't know!!! LOL. Try asking her out casually...like to go bowling or to a movie with a group of friends. Read her body language. Or, you could just flat out ask her! That way you'll have an answer. It sounds like you like her...I hope it works out for you!
she most likely doesnt like you if she isnt replying to your message. its great that you had a good conversation, but thats all it was. it doesnt sounds like there is any interest.
Give it a few days then call her. Try not to show her too much attention because most girls dont go for it. Good luck!
nope
It sounds like shes interested in you. but she might just be interested in being friends with you rather then being in a relationship with you. but don't expect her to reply to every text you send her right away, or for her to text and call you often, because girls don't like to go nuts and be obsessed over guys like that. just give her time and space and everything will work out fine. good luck=)
Well here's the thing....most girls lay low and expect the guy to call them, not the girls to call guys after you met or had a date,that's just how it is. And she might be playing hard to get to get you to think about her, and to get you to chase after her. I would say just to text her and say hi casually, and after asking her hows it going and stuff maybey say like, so did you get a strike the other night? or make a joke (but not an insulting joke!) then ask her to on a date, and if she says like well im not free this week, but mabey another time? then shes not interested, but if she says yes id love to or some thing then she's definately interested! (and dont not talk to her for a while or she will think your not interested in her)
Did you not answer this question earlier today? Cuz I answered it.
I really need girl advice? Anybody can probably help?
I like this girl. I have for a couple weeks now. I've talked to her enough to where it doesn't feel weird anymore. So far, she hasn't showed any signs of not liking me. She's a senior and I'm a sophomore. We both run Cross Country which is where I usually talk to her. She is in two of my classes.. Algebra 2 and PE 2. Like I said, I could probably go up and talk to her whenever I wanted without feeling creepy. I really like her. Almost every love song I hear makes me think about her. I am constantly thinking about her. I get that feeling in my stomach whenever I talk to her. I was thinking about asking her to the Homecoming Dance (mid-October) Monday. Do you think it's too soon? Should I go for it? Is there anything I should do before I start to see if she likes me in that way?I really need girl advice? Anybody can probably help?
I would honestly say go for it. If you like her, don't be afraid to tell her or ask her to the dance. But, don't expect that she'll say yes. Not to be a down-spirit person, but there is always that chance that she's not interested in that way or anything like that. So don't instantly expect a yes. If anything, expecting a no, but having enough strength to ask, then getting a yes - well that's got to be the greatest feeling when it comes to asking someone out (:
Go for it! And good luck (:I really need girl advice? Anybody can probably help?
Go for it man its okay to ask the girl out just be YOURSELF and shel either like you for you or not even like you because shes not interested
BEST ADVICE: dont lie to a girl just dont tell her everything
I think you should go for it! it sounds like you really like her.. Good Luck!!
I would honestly say go for it. If you like her, don't be afraid to tell her or ask her to the dance. But, don't expect that she'll say yes. Not to be a down-spirit person, but there is always that chance that she's not interested in that way or anything like that. So don't instantly expect a yes. If anything, expecting a no, but having enough strength to ask, then getting a yes - well that's got to be the greatest feeling when it comes to asking someone out (:
Go for it! And good luck (:I really need girl advice? Anybody can probably help?
Go for it man its okay to ask the girl out just be YOURSELF and shel either like you for you or not even like you because shes not interested
BEST ADVICE: dont lie to a girl just dont tell her everything
I think you should go for it! it sounds like you really like her.. Good Luck!!
I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Ok now i am seeing this girl (Jenna). She is an extremely nice girl but she is very shy. I met her because my dad is her coach and we have been seeing each other for a little while but nothing serous. I like her and want to ask her to be my girlfriend but i am nervous. I was talking to some of her friends and they all said the same thing is that she finds is weird that she would be going out with the coach's son (my father by the way does not care). I want to figure what the right course of action would be:
A. Go and talk to her (i am not sure what to say yet)
B. Do nothing and see what happens
C. Your Idea's (I don't know that is why I am asking)I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mmmm,
i Say You talk to her about it.
tell her if she wants to give it a try.
tell her what you feel about her
that'd be the best thing to do:]]]
HONESTY!:]]]
Ahaha!I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mate i would just go and talk to her and let her know how you feel and let her know that your dad don't care if she feels the same for you she might be relieved that you made the first move as being a shy female is hard i should know i am one and being shy makes it hard to make the first step you never know what could happen also let her know you can still be friends if she don't feel the same way as it sounds like you both get along real well
Well, you said you've only been seeing each other for a little while..so why rush it? Go ahead, take yur time to get to know her %26amp; when you feel like the time is right, then you should talk to her %26amp; tell her how you feel. Hopefully, that'll change her mind about dating the coach's son.
Good Luck!
pick A and say: i heard that you think that it would be weird if we were together because my dad is your coach but i really like you and i think we would be good together. and also my dad doesn't care if we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
if she really did like yeu she wuldnt care if yeu were the coaches son, tell her that
Talk with her about it! Sometimes it's hard to get up the nerve to start that kind of conversation, but you should. Just tell her that you like her first, and see where the conversation goes from there. She may or may not have a problem with the fact your dad is the coach. You can't necessarily trust what her friends say; they may not really know how she feels. There is a possibility she's not interested in going out with you, but the worst thing that can come of this conversation is her telling you that. Give it a shot and she might be your girlfriend!almay
A. Go and talk to her (i am not sure what to say yet)
B. Do nothing and see what happens
C. Your Idea's (I don't know that is why I am asking)I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mmmm,
i Say You talk to her about it.
tell her if she wants to give it a try.
tell her what you feel about her
that'd be the best thing to do:]]]
HONESTY!:]]]
Ahaha!I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mate i would just go and talk to her and let her know how you feel and let her know that your dad don't care if she feels the same for you she might be relieved that you made the first move as being a shy female is hard i should know i am one and being shy makes it hard to make the first step you never know what could happen also let her know you can still be friends if she don't feel the same way as it sounds like you both get along real well
Well, you said you've only been seeing each other for a little while..so why rush it? Go ahead, take yur time to get to know her %26amp; when you feel like the time is right, then you should talk to her %26amp; tell her how you feel. Hopefully, that'll change her mind about dating the coach's son.
Good Luck!
pick A and say: i heard that you think that it would be weird if we were together because my dad is your coach but i really like you and i think we would be good together. and also my dad doesn't care if we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
if she really did like yeu she wuldnt care if yeu were the coaches son, tell her that
Talk with her about it! Sometimes it's hard to get up the nerve to start that kind of conversation, but you should. Just tell her that you like her first, and see where the conversation goes from there. She may or may not have a problem with the fact your dad is the coach. You can't necessarily trust what her friends say; they may not really know how she feels. There is a possibility she's not interested in going out with you, but the worst thing that can come of this conversation is her telling you that. Give it a shot and she might be your girlfriend!
I need some girl advice!?
sorry i put this in polls. more people are in p%26amp;s, and I need help URGENTLY!
if you want you can leave your questions with your answers. I'll gladly try to help you out.
okay.
I've started liking this guy, and he has always been like a brother to me. It just came on kind of fast.
The first day we met, he developed this huge crush on me. I didn't feel like that towards him, so I basically shot him down and told him ';I could never feel that way about'; him.
Well, I lied, because now I do.
He's been calling me a lot over the summer, and we've been hanging out a lot, too. I've started seeing him in this entirely new light. I'll admit it, I'm crazy about him.
And he's crazy about girls.
He always has about four girls he has crushes on, and he loves going on little dates that never amount to much. He has always told me that I'm his favorite, and he would take me above anyone else, but that doesn't really make a difference to me. A guy shouldn't have a list of girls. I told him he should be faithful, and he told me that if he had a girlfriend, he would forget about all of the other girls. True? Probably not. But still.
Two nights ago, he went on a movie date with this girl. He seems very excited about her, and told me about what a great time he had. Not to rub it in my face. We are just very close, and talk about nearly everything. I was going to tell him how I felt that night he called me to talk about his date. I couldn't tell him after I heard about his new interest.
What do I do? Do I tell him how I feel? I'm dying to... but he's so happy about this new girl he met.
I'm afraid it would be weird, and he'd ditch that girl for me, only to find out things aren't going to work out.
Oh, what in the world am I supposed to do?! I should have said something sooner! Do I just keep quiet?I need some girl advice!?
you should just tell him to get it off of your chest.
if you want you can leave your questions with your answers. I'll gladly try to help you out.
okay.
I've started liking this guy, and he has always been like a brother to me. It just came on kind of fast.
The first day we met, he developed this huge crush on me. I didn't feel like that towards him, so I basically shot him down and told him ';I could never feel that way about'; him.
Well, I lied, because now I do.
He's been calling me a lot over the summer, and we've been hanging out a lot, too. I've started seeing him in this entirely new light. I'll admit it, I'm crazy about him.
And he's crazy about girls.
He always has about four girls he has crushes on, and he loves going on little dates that never amount to much. He has always told me that I'm his favorite, and he would take me above anyone else, but that doesn't really make a difference to me. A guy shouldn't have a list of girls. I told him he should be faithful, and he told me that if he had a girlfriend, he would forget about all of the other girls. True? Probably not. But still.
Two nights ago, he went on a movie date with this girl. He seems very excited about her, and told me about what a great time he had. Not to rub it in my face. We are just very close, and talk about nearly everything. I was going to tell him how I felt that night he called me to talk about his date. I couldn't tell him after I heard about his new interest.
What do I do? Do I tell him how I feel? I'm dying to... but he's so happy about this new girl he met.
I'm afraid it would be weird, and he'd ditch that girl for me, only to find out things aren't going to work out.
Oh, what in the world am I supposed to do?! I should have said something sooner! Do I just keep quiet?I need some girl advice!?
you should just tell him to get it off of your chest.
I need some girl advice......?
ok so heres the problem, i like this girl a lot (obviously), and she has told me she likes me also. the only real problem is that she just broke up with her ex about 2-3 weeks ago after about an 8 month relationship. (This guy is a total douche and texts her all the time and says she a ';worthless *****'; and that she ';never meant anything to him';. basically i want to hurt this kid but thats besides the point.) i told her i liked her about 2 months ago and she did the same. now that she has actually broken up with this guy she doesn't want to be in a relationship b/c she ';doesn't want to mess things up';.... we still hang out almost everyday but we've never kissed or anything like that. we both flirt w/ each other and i want to start going out with her but she still doesn't want a relationship. the thing im most afraid of is that we will become too close as friends and then it would just be awkward if we went out (has happened to me before and it sucks, entire friendship got ruined). i really like her a lot but i dont know what to do. i dont want to be too close as friends but it seems inevitable seeing as how we hang out so much already... PLEASE HELP!!!!
I need some girl advice?
I really like this girl at my school. I told her how I felt about a month ago and I thought she felt the same way too. I was going to ask her out but my friend said I shouldn't. He said that I should wait a little bit. Then he said that he liked her and that she said she didn't like me. Being the gullible idiot I am I believed him. I pretty sure she likes me but I still have that feeling that I'm wrong and If I ask her out she will reject me.The last two weeks every time I see her she is looking at me and smiling.The other day I was playing basketball with some friends and I look over to the bleachers and she is staring at me. I looked over a lot and she was still looking at me. I want to ask her out tomorrow because after tomorrow we go on thanksgiving break. I just need some advice that could help her say yes. I know that she likes me but I'm very shy and I don't want to be rejected.
I need some girl advice!?
Serious answers only, I'm sick of seeing immature people trying to be funny.
So there's this girl, she a year younger than me. I really think she's great, I met her once when a group of my friends was hanging with her. I didn't really talk to her much, but that night I went home and she sent me a Facebook request immediately. This was back in November, and I have all the sudden seen her around but have not spoken to her and I have gotten a lot of interest in her. I want to be friends with her, maybe even more. I just want to know how I should approach this. Serious answers only please.I need some girl advice!?
when you see her just be like hey whats up and start a converstaion from thereI need some girl advice!?
Just talk to her on face book OR just have some small talk be nice to her say hi whenever you see her.
Just go up to her and say ';Hey!'; or talk to her on Facebook and say that we haven't talked in forever! What's up? or something like that. =]
Try to be around her as much as possible and then when ur comfortable u ask her out. This could take a few weeks to months or even years.
when u see her at school, just smile, then say hi. then maybe one day u guys will start talking. but if she seems like she dont wanna tlak to u. dont talk to her cuz shes gonna think that ur wierd
So there's this girl, she a year younger than me. I really think she's great, I met her once when a group of my friends was hanging with her. I didn't really talk to her much, but that night I went home and she sent me a Facebook request immediately. This was back in November, and I have all the sudden seen her around but have not spoken to her and I have gotten a lot of interest in her. I want to be friends with her, maybe even more. I just want to know how I should approach this. Serious answers only please.I need some girl advice!?
when you see her just be like hey whats up and start a converstaion from thereI need some girl advice!?
Just talk to her on face book OR just have some small talk be nice to her say hi whenever you see her.
Just go up to her and say ';Hey!'; or talk to her on Facebook and say that we haven't talked in forever! What's up? or something like that. =]
Try to be around her as much as possible and then when ur comfortable u ask her out. This could take a few weeks to months or even years.
when u see her at school, just smile, then say hi. then maybe one day u guys will start talking. but if she seems like she dont wanna tlak to u. dont talk to her cuz shes gonna think that ur wierd
Ladies, i need girl advice?
so i like this girl ALOT. and i thought she liked me at one time but now we are just friends. anyway, she asked if she could use my phone in class one day and i said 'sure'. so while she was txting someone on it, another girl, cassy, txted me. the girl i like was like 'oh whose this' and i told her and shes like 'i know her!'.. anyways she kept txting on my phone and cassy txted me and said something like i miss you to me. and the girl i like read it and was like 'awwww' and waved it in my face lol.
anyways, so the girl i liked has been going around and saying i have a thing with cassy to some of our mutual friends. 3 people came up and asked me.
what does this mean? is she jealous of cassy? idk why she would be telling so many people. i just want her to like me lolLadies, i need girl advice?
haha yeah i think she's a little jealous or she would have forgotten about it by now. but who knows?
anyone who sees this please answer
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anyways, so the girl i liked has been going around and saying i have a thing with cassy to some of our mutual friends. 3 people came up and asked me.
what does this mean? is she jealous of cassy? idk why she would be telling so many people. i just want her to like me lolLadies, i need girl advice?
haha yeah i think she's a little jealous or she would have forgotten about it by now. but who knows?
anyone who sees this please answer
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I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
Ok, i'm 16, and i'm feeling really upset:(
I'm male.
I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)
I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i wouldn't want any other services, (bj etc)...
I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)
But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!
I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...
Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????
Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...
I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...
I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??
I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.
Help me please.
I don't know where i could meet any girls? I don't go to party, im not a party person :p
If you feel like chattin to me, post ur msn:)
I dont know what to do:(I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
I'm sure every 16 yo boy (and girl) thinks they are going to be single forever. We all feel that way sometimes and for 99.9% of people it just isn't true. It will happen to you sooner or later.
Your frenulum is a problem that cannot afford to wait. The older you are when you have any operation, the longer it takes to heal. Your frenulum problem may need an operation to loosen it so it won't help you to wait. Bite the bullet and get it sorted. Your parents do not need to know if you see your doctor and unless you have daisies growing out the end, the doctor will have seen thousands of penises exactly like it.
As for finding girls, you have just given us a whole long list of places that you won't go to or try. You need to change your approach. Put it this way: you're not finding girls in the places you go to/things you do now. That suggests to me that you need to look somewhere different to find girls rather than waiting for them to show up where you are.
Everybody is a party person at the right kind of party. And trying a new hobby or activity doesn't mean you are stuck with it forever. Just give something new a go and if you don't like it try something else. What is there to lose?
Something else to bear in mind is that teenage girls tend to have sex to boost their self-esteem. Unfortunately, it often works completely the opposite way - the sense of rejection when he doesn't call and the reputation as a tramp undermines their self-esteem and a vicious cycle starts. Everyone wants a ';nice'; partner who will treat them right and love them, but some people just have very bad judgement. Don't discount someone just because they have a reputation or because they don't seem to be your ';type';. Get to know them before you judge them.
You will get there in the end, just don't give up on yourself and don't hide away waiting for love to find you because it won't. Get out there, try something new, broaden your horizons and meet someone new. Good luck.I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
UGH. Teen sex is horrible! It's like you're throwing it all away..
I say have it after 21.. or else it's so.. so, UGH.
But, I'm not in charge of you, so here: You can meet girls at the mall, at school {if you still go to school} anywhere actually. All you have to do is get the nerves to talk to her.
I go to a Catholic school and I don't to church when we have to go I would rather be siting on a big farm some where Just because they go to church doesn't mean they want to be there. I was more into guy stuff more than half the guys in my class last year. so the hobby thing wouldn't mater
too be honest....
if a girl just wants sex they are not worth wasting you time on....
girls feel the same about guys....a lot of girls want a relationship/to be friends first/etc...more than just sex...and you would be surprised how many want to wait before they have sex!
take your time to find a friend 1st...
build on a friendship
be confident, and more importantly BE YOURSELF!!!
feel free to email me if you want to chat.
Smile! -_^
don't worry i know you'll find a perfect girl and no not all girls want sex trust me and they don't have to be church girls in order not to have sex sum girls are raised right by their parents and know that they should wait
just keep lookin you could find girls anywhere there's more than enough in the world!
Your 16...you have plenty time to find a girlfriend...find some of the kind girls at school you can see yourself with and start chatting to them...and maybe it will go somewhere...
ok this the third time you posted this question. or the third time ive read it.
i think u seem very sweet and that but not all girls are like that eventually one will come along for u just stop thinking about it, it WILL happen! good luck hun
your only 16...your life is just begining...dont worry things will happen for you...just be happy with what and who you are and the rest will follow...
Oh hey i just answered ur other question lol email meeee catslover2222@yahoo.co.uk Xx
wait. in the beginning it says 'if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex' but then you ask if there are any nice girls that don't just want sex..?
anyways,
in high school your stuck with the same friends but in college you'll get to meet allll kinds of different people. so for now, just have fun and stop worrying about the sex situation. if you want a real relationship, focus more on the personality
firstly i dont know a frenulumn is but go to the doctors about it, they wont tell your parents! just tell your parents your meeting friends and go.
there are lots of girls, especially who will be 14/15/16 and not want sex so dont think of them all like that!
normally you can tell when you meet girls what they will be like.
are u going to college next year? u will meet lots of girls there
or ask your female friends if they know anyone
or take up a new hobbie where u might meet girls, you dont have to worry about being shy, as long as you have SOMETHING to say to them, shy is nice!
just smile at girls when u see nice ones, when yout out and about. stop looking for a girlfriend, just look to make friends.
goodluck
also there will be loads of girls out there your age thinking the same thing as you!
First thing you should know: don't be desperate. that's one thing nobody likes. Secondly you don't only have to go to parties to meet girls. having a drink or going to festivals, concerts, whatever is enough. get out of your house and go to places. If you do this enough you'll meet enough girls. and once you start meeting them it becomes a lot easier..
Well you seem like a nice guy and everything but dont give up ! Im sure that soon youll be able to find that girl that you just described. Yeah no only some girls just want to have sex all the time but not all of them! You could probably look for a girl like by going out for a walk or soemthing around your neighborhood or something. You can also ask like some of your cousins for friends that might be single . Hope this helped!
Dont worry im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend yet either ... and i certainly wouldnt be having sex like them little slags .. girls like that just get a bad name and used ..
me and all my mates are respectable and not into that at all ..
if you dont mind me asking where these girls are from ..
there all little sluts lately ...
u sounds like a nice lad .. and just wait theres plenty of time for girlfriends and just coz ur mates tink there mad and cool coz they have sex with sluts doesnt mean u have to do all that ..
wait til u meet a nice girl that u can trust and is very respectful .. someone ur parents would like to .. thats the best girl not a little tart that will cheat on u wioth ur best mate.
good luck i hope you find a nice girl soon but if you dont .. dont be worryign you have plenty of time for girlfriends just enjoy being young .. and then focus on girls for now dont worry let them chase you :).
hope that helps :D.
xxxx
um, no offense, but your friends are sluts. Not all girls have sex. not all pretty girls have sex. usually if they are insecure, and desperate and need a man to make them feel better about themseleves, then they will do it. i'm sure there are plenty of girls where you live who don't want that. i' don't want that. haha. i'm not a church girl. i want to find a guy like you actually! and i think i found him but i'm pretty sure he doesnt like me back. :( slowly killing me.
just look around and talk to people. good luck :)almay
I'm male.
I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)
I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i wouldn't want any other services, (bj etc)...
I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)
But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!
I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...
Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????
Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...
I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...
I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??
I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.
Help me please.
I don't know where i could meet any girls? I don't go to party, im not a party person :p
If you feel like chattin to me, post ur msn:)
I dont know what to do:(I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
I'm sure every 16 yo boy (and girl) thinks they are going to be single forever. We all feel that way sometimes and for 99.9% of people it just isn't true. It will happen to you sooner or later.
Your frenulum is a problem that cannot afford to wait. The older you are when you have any operation, the longer it takes to heal. Your frenulum problem may need an operation to loosen it so it won't help you to wait. Bite the bullet and get it sorted. Your parents do not need to know if you see your doctor and unless you have daisies growing out the end, the doctor will have seen thousands of penises exactly like it.
As for finding girls, you have just given us a whole long list of places that you won't go to or try. You need to change your approach. Put it this way: you're not finding girls in the places you go to/things you do now. That suggests to me that you need to look somewhere different to find girls rather than waiting for them to show up where you are.
Everybody is a party person at the right kind of party. And trying a new hobby or activity doesn't mean you are stuck with it forever. Just give something new a go and if you don't like it try something else. What is there to lose?
Something else to bear in mind is that teenage girls tend to have sex to boost their self-esteem. Unfortunately, it often works completely the opposite way - the sense of rejection when he doesn't call and the reputation as a tramp undermines their self-esteem and a vicious cycle starts. Everyone wants a ';nice'; partner who will treat them right and love them, but some people just have very bad judgement. Don't discount someone just because they have a reputation or because they don't seem to be your ';type';. Get to know them before you judge them.
You will get there in the end, just don't give up on yourself and don't hide away waiting for love to find you because it won't. Get out there, try something new, broaden your horizons and meet someone new. Good luck.I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
UGH. Teen sex is horrible! It's like you're throwing it all away..
I say have it after 21.. or else it's so.. so, UGH.
But, I'm not in charge of you, so here: You can meet girls at the mall, at school {if you still go to school} anywhere actually. All you have to do is get the nerves to talk to her.
I go to a Catholic school and I don't to church when we have to go I would rather be siting on a big farm some where Just because they go to church doesn't mean they want to be there. I was more into guy stuff more than half the guys in my class last year. so the hobby thing wouldn't mater
too be honest....
if a girl just wants sex they are not worth wasting you time on....
girls feel the same about guys....a lot of girls want a relationship/to be friends first/etc...more than just sex...and you would be surprised how many want to wait before they have sex!
take your time to find a friend 1st...
build on a friendship
be confident, and more importantly BE YOURSELF!!!
feel free to email me if you want to chat.
Smile! -_^
don't worry i know you'll find a perfect girl and no not all girls want sex trust me and they don't have to be church girls in order not to have sex sum girls are raised right by their parents and know that they should wait
just keep lookin you could find girls anywhere there's more than enough in the world!
Your 16...you have plenty time to find a girlfriend...find some of the kind girls at school you can see yourself with and start chatting to them...and maybe it will go somewhere...
ok this the third time you posted this question. or the third time ive read it.
i think u seem very sweet and that but not all girls are like that eventually one will come along for u just stop thinking about it, it WILL happen! good luck hun
your only 16...your life is just begining...dont worry things will happen for you...just be happy with what and who you are and the rest will follow...
Oh hey i just answered ur other question lol email meeee catslover2222@yahoo.co.uk Xx
wait. in the beginning it says 'if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex' but then you ask if there are any nice girls that don't just want sex..?
anyways,
in high school your stuck with the same friends but in college you'll get to meet allll kinds of different people. so for now, just have fun and stop worrying about the sex situation. if you want a real relationship, focus more on the personality
firstly i dont know a frenulumn is but go to the doctors about it, they wont tell your parents! just tell your parents your meeting friends and go.
there are lots of girls, especially who will be 14/15/16 and not want sex so dont think of them all like that!
normally you can tell when you meet girls what they will be like.
are u going to college next year? u will meet lots of girls there
or ask your female friends if they know anyone
or take up a new hobbie where u might meet girls, you dont have to worry about being shy, as long as you have SOMETHING to say to them, shy is nice!
just smile at girls when u see nice ones, when yout out and about. stop looking for a girlfriend, just look to make friends.
goodluck
also there will be loads of girls out there your age thinking the same thing as you!
First thing you should know: don't be desperate. that's one thing nobody likes. Secondly you don't only have to go to parties to meet girls. having a drink or going to festivals, concerts, whatever is enough. get out of your house and go to places. If you do this enough you'll meet enough girls. and once you start meeting them it becomes a lot easier..
Well you seem like a nice guy and everything but dont give up ! Im sure that soon youll be able to find that girl that you just described. Yeah no only some girls just want to have sex all the time but not all of them! You could probably look for a girl like by going out for a walk or soemthing around your neighborhood or something. You can also ask like some of your cousins for friends that might be single . Hope this helped!
Dont worry im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend yet either ... and i certainly wouldnt be having sex like them little slags .. girls like that just get a bad name and used ..
me and all my mates are respectable and not into that at all ..
if you dont mind me asking where these girls are from ..
there all little sluts lately ...
u sounds like a nice lad .. and just wait theres plenty of time for girlfriends and just coz ur mates tink there mad and cool coz they have sex with sluts doesnt mean u have to do all that ..
wait til u meet a nice girl that u can trust and is very respectful .. someone ur parents would like to .. thats the best girl not a little tart that will cheat on u wioth ur best mate.
good luck i hope you find a nice girl soon but if you dont .. dont be worryign you have plenty of time for girlfriends just enjoy being young .. and then focus on girls for now dont worry let them chase you :).
hope that helps :D.
xxxx
um, no offense, but your friends are sluts. Not all girls have sex. not all pretty girls have sex. usually if they are insecure, and desperate and need a man to make them feel better about themseleves, then they will do it. i'm sure there are plenty of girls where you live who don't want that. i' don't want that. haha. i'm not a church girl. i want to find a guy like you actually! and i think i found him but i'm pretty sure he doesnt like me back. :( slowly killing me.
just look around and talk to people. good luck :)
So theres this girl... advice please?
So there was this girl that I had my eye on back at school. Well we got into a fight, over her lateness to an an event, and then i got mad at her. I apologized and said that I was looking forward to hanging out with her, and got upset when i did not think she was coming, and overreacted at her being late. We left it at that, and i felt like i came on wayyyyyyy to strong when i said this. Now about a month later, with no communication in between, while were still on break from school, she IMs me to ask about how my break is going and starts talking to me and stuff, calling me smart, and asking for my advice on this stuff. I still like her, what am I to make of these actions?So theres this girl... advice please?
well if u like her go along with it. ask her similar questions to what she asks you but dont make it obvious. start a conversation with her and see where it goes.
well if u like her go along with it. ask her similar questions to what she asks you but dont make it obvious. start a conversation with her and see where it goes.
Getting over a girl.. Advice needed?
Hey,
I met this girl some time ago now... I was bumming around Thailand at the time .. we stayed in the same hostel.. She was really pretty, super nice and all the rest of it..
Anyway, I facebooked her like a love sick puppy and she didn't reply to any of my messages or my friend request..
But she's still stuck in my brain..
Obviously she doesn't fancy me (hey she might not even like me much as a person) but it still doesn't make the love sickness any easier to get over...
How do you get someone who's obviously not interested in you out of your brain?? Advice needed folks!!!Getting over a girl.. Advice needed?
Just try to keep busy with something else such as a sport or hobby. Spend time with your mates doing something unrelated to girls. You'll eventually learn to get over her and in the process get closer to your mates, win-win.
But one thing, don't worry if it takes a while, I had a major crush on a girl and it took me nearly a year to move on. But trust me you will.
Alternatively you could just focus your entire life on her and end up stalking her forever.. i mean it's your choice :PGetting over a girl.. Advice needed?
For me its...
Not talking to me
not wanting to be around me
etc, etc ..stuff like that =p
Just try not to think about it =p..andd...ummm dont use the internet? =p
try looking for another girl the same type nice, pretty, so u can get her off your head. this helped me get over a guy:)
Im having a similar problem, liked a girl for a while, had my chance, blew it, now she hates me but im madly in love!!
best solution is to try and fancy someone else
Oh the life of a teenager...
I know how hard this is.
OK here's the question you need to ask yourself. Why would I want to be with a girl that ignores me like this? Clearly someone like that doesn't deserve a nice guy like you.
Look around, I find that the one that that can take my mind off of a girl is... another girl!
lol =P
There has to be someone out there that wouldn't treat you like this.
find a neww hobby meet another girl...that fancies you...read the news paper
Really all you can do is try to move on. Time will make it better. Go out and have fun and slowly you will forget the feelings.
find a new girl
That's love at first site dude, actually it's not love it's just crush. you can easily get over her. Go find another girl and get off the things that make you remember her like, avoid seeing her account in facebook, friendster, Hi5 etc.
Live your life dude girls are everywhere. Soon you will find a beautiful girl who is better than her.
Being mature. Accepting a situation like this would be easier. Don't go for things you can't really have. Just keep yourself busy I'm pretty sure you are just too preoccupied thinking over her which will just make your situation harder.
Just be nice
I'm sorry buddy, you're just going to have to move on. If she doesn't even bother to reply to your messages or anything, she's apparently not interested. I would move on, find another girl that treats you good. Good luck :D
You have no control over the situation you should stop worrying about it. Go facebook someone who does respond. I know it may be difficult but this seems to be an infatuation with someone you can not have.
I would go read a book to help focus my brain on another character.
hang out with friends or something. get ur mind off of her!
If you really like her, you would put an effort to try to court her, romance her, into liking you, or seduce her. If you're not trying hard enough, than obviously you're not as into her as you say. If you did try ur hardest, then I'm sorry, because I know getting over someone if really hard. Perhaps if you wait a little longer, you'll meet someone new, someone who would like you back. Good luck man.
Don't keep trying to contact her ...that will help out. Try to talk to other girls and keep busy.
It's not like you were in a relationship with her...there is not much you can do but try to move on.
get over her its that simple
I met this girl some time ago now... I was bumming around Thailand at the time .. we stayed in the same hostel.. She was really pretty, super nice and all the rest of it..
Anyway, I facebooked her like a love sick puppy and she didn't reply to any of my messages or my friend request..
But she's still stuck in my brain..
Obviously she doesn't fancy me (hey she might not even like me much as a person) but it still doesn't make the love sickness any easier to get over...
How do you get someone who's obviously not interested in you out of your brain?? Advice needed folks!!!Getting over a girl.. Advice needed?
Just try to keep busy with something else such as a sport or hobby. Spend time with your mates doing something unrelated to girls. You'll eventually learn to get over her and in the process get closer to your mates, win-win.
But one thing, don't worry if it takes a while, I had a major crush on a girl and it took me nearly a year to move on. But trust me you will.
Alternatively you could just focus your entire life on her and end up stalking her forever.. i mean it's your choice :PGetting over a girl.. Advice needed?
For me its...
Not talking to me
not wanting to be around me
etc, etc ..stuff like that =p
Just try not to think about it =p..andd...ummm dont use the internet? =p
try looking for another girl the same type nice, pretty, so u can get her off your head. this helped me get over a guy:)
Im having a similar problem, liked a girl for a while, had my chance, blew it, now she hates me but im madly in love!!
best solution is to try and fancy someone else
Oh the life of a teenager...
I know how hard this is.
OK here's the question you need to ask yourself. Why would I want to be with a girl that ignores me like this? Clearly someone like that doesn't deserve a nice guy like you.
Look around, I find that the one that that can take my mind off of a girl is... another girl!
lol =P
There has to be someone out there that wouldn't treat you like this.
find a neww hobby meet another girl...that fancies you...read the news paper
Really all you can do is try to move on. Time will make it better. Go out and have fun and slowly you will forget the feelings.
find a new girl
That's love at first site dude, actually it's not love it's just crush. you can easily get over her. Go find another girl and get off the things that make you remember her like, avoid seeing her account in facebook, friendster, Hi5 etc.
Live your life dude girls are everywhere. Soon you will find a beautiful girl who is better than her.
Being mature. Accepting a situation like this would be easier. Don't go for things you can't really have. Just keep yourself busy I'm pretty sure you are just too preoccupied thinking over her which will just make your situation harder.
Just be nice
I'm sorry buddy, you're just going to have to move on. If she doesn't even bother to reply to your messages or anything, she's apparently not interested. I would move on, find another girl that treats you good. Good luck :D
You have no control over the situation you should stop worrying about it. Go facebook someone who does respond. I know it may be difficult but this seems to be an infatuation with someone you can not have.
I would go read a book to help focus my brain on another character.
hang out with friends or something. get ur mind off of her!
If you really like her, you would put an effort to try to court her, romance her, into liking you, or seduce her. If you're not trying hard enough, than obviously you're not as into her as you say. If you did try ur hardest, then I'm sorry, because I know getting over someone if really hard. Perhaps if you wait a little longer, you'll meet someone new, someone who would like you back. Good luck man.
Don't keep trying to contact her ...that will help out. Try to talk to other girls and keep busy.
It's not like you were in a relationship with her...there is not much you can do but try to move on.
get over her its that simple
Need some quick girl advice!?
First a little info on the school, Im a culinary student at the Art insitute of houson,
So there is this girl that's in my class. the first couple weeks of the class me and her would glance at each other and smile and share some eye contact, last week, she metioned we should try for the same cooking lab next semester, (which i thought that was really weird because i havnt talked to her for more then 5 minutes at a time when she ask me this) the next class we talked on break for a while, well this week the first day of the cooking class of the week, we went to break together and shortly after we started talking, then she ask me for my number so i gave it to her and she called me so i would have hers, day after that we had class and she ask me to take my breaks with hers, she seems a bit out of my league, we talked made good eye contact shared some laughs, long story short I think she looks good and I want to see where this could end up. only thing is what should i do? its saturday and she gave me her number thursday. should i call or txt her?..
P.S. I think she might be shy.. only talks to a hand full of people so far from what ive seen!!! plz help me!!!
I went to add her on facebook and myspace but her main picture is her and some guy?
says she's ina relationship as well
Could this be because she wants to be friend or could it be she is attracted to me and wants to get to know be better?Need some quick girl advice!?
might shez judging u through ur expression or how u interact wid others when she came 2 knw lil abt u she talked 2 u n asked u 4 same classes den she started talkin 2 u rite? might be possible dat while interactng wid u she find u polite n intersted in ur frndship dats the reason she gave her no everyone like to people make frnds u also like i think !just call her n spend some time wid her if u think dat u r comfortable talkin to her den be her frnd
So there is this girl that's in my class. the first couple weeks of the class me and her would glance at each other and smile and share some eye contact, last week, she metioned we should try for the same cooking lab next semester, (which i thought that was really weird because i havnt talked to her for more then 5 minutes at a time when she ask me this) the next class we talked on break for a while, well this week the first day of the cooking class of the week, we went to break together and shortly after we started talking, then she ask me for my number so i gave it to her and she called me so i would have hers, day after that we had class and she ask me to take my breaks with hers, she seems a bit out of my league, we talked made good eye contact shared some laughs, long story short I think she looks good and I want to see where this could end up. only thing is what should i do? its saturday and she gave me her number thursday. should i call or txt her?..
P.S. I think she might be shy.. only talks to a hand full of people so far from what ive seen!!! plz help me!!!
I went to add her on facebook and myspace but her main picture is her and some guy?
says she's ina relationship as well
Could this be because she wants to be friend or could it be she is attracted to me and wants to get to know be better?Need some quick girl advice!?
might shez judging u through ur expression or how u interact wid others when she came 2 knw lil abt u she talked 2 u n asked u 4 same classes den she started talkin 2 u rite? might be possible dat while interactng wid u she find u polite n intersted in ur frndship dats the reason she gave her no everyone like to people make frnds u also like i think !just call her n spend some time wid her if u think dat u r comfortable talkin to her den be her frnd
I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
Ok so theres this girls see and ive gone up to her and talked to her yesterday. Im not sure if she knows i like her and im kinda scared about making girls know i like them but thats another issue and another story.
any ways i saw her again in class today, should i have gone up to her and spoken to her. would that look like im desperate. even though that might seem unreasonable to say.
Yesterday we were talking for a decent time and she was doing as much talking as i was even though i think i messed that up too.
I think im gonna see her tomorrow and i think we might talk for a bit more time than last time. what should i do or talk about. where should my head be. i know im not suppose to make sure a big deal out of it like there will be no other. for me its hard to find a girl i have real interest in.
Im not scared of talking to her i just dont want to mess up. put your self in my shoes what would you do.I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
I think you should relax and be yourself she wont know you like her unless you tell her. Maybe if your not so confident talking to her smile as you walk past or something and see if she comes and talks to you. :)I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
Tell her you're going to run to the cafeteria for a cup of coffee and see if she wants to come along.. You don't ask, you don't get. Be cool if she says no.
any ways i saw her again in class today, should i have gone up to her and spoken to her. would that look like im desperate. even though that might seem unreasonable to say.
Yesterday we were talking for a decent time and she was doing as much talking as i was even though i think i messed that up too.
I think im gonna see her tomorrow and i think we might talk for a bit more time than last time. what should i do or talk about. where should my head be. i know im not suppose to make sure a big deal out of it like there will be no other. for me its hard to find a girl i have real interest in.
Im not scared of talking to her i just dont want to mess up. put your self in my shoes what would you do.I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
I think you should relax and be yourself she wont know you like her unless you tell her. Maybe if your not so confident talking to her smile as you walk past or something and see if she comes and talks to you. :)I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
Tell her you're going to run to the cafeteria for a cup of coffee and see if she wants to come along.. You don't ask, you don't get. Be cool if she says no.
I need some girl advice.?
Alright this is a little gay, but i need some help. I met this girl at the beginning of the school year and we became really good friends. I really wasn't attracted to her, and we hung out sometimes. When the school year was ending i began to have to some feelings for her.
She is a really flirty girl. Basically any guy who gives her attention, but besides that she is really cool. Now as soon as i begin to like her, my best friend begins to like her. Our friendship has always been a like a competition, one has to be better than the other.
My friend is really trying to get her to like him now so they hang out a lot more than we use too. Now, i am extremely pissed, and considered i do not have a car yet, i cant do anything. It seems more and more the girl i like is leaning towards my friend. I am confused because i have always been there for the girl and now i am being pushed aside. I could really just use some advice.I need some girl advice.?
By your own words you said that this girl is a flirt and likes guys who give her attention. Your friend is giving her buckets of attention. Also, this girl and you were friends before she and your friend became close. In all this time you never asked her out or gave her the idea that you were interested in her. So, by her reckoning you are just a really good guy friend. If you like this girl, and are not just entering into a competition with your other friend, then you have to let her know it. So, you can either flirt with her a lot more then you have been, or jump the gun completely and ask her out. If you ask her out then you risk that she鈥檒l say no but you鈥檒l known exactly where you stand. Also, if this girl like attention then having two guys follow her and flirt with her maybe so good for ego that she kind of gets of on it. You don鈥檛 want to give anyone power over you like this. If this girls likes you then she likes, however if all she likes is attention then your friend should get her because girls like this will still flirt with other guys and crave attention. So, man up and ask her out and take your chances. Also, just note if a girl really likes you it doesn鈥檛 matter if you have a car or not. She鈥檒l ride the bus with you to get to where you are going.
also, how is this in anyway gay?I need some girl advice.?
if you really like her, stay with her and support her with whatever decision she chooses, even if it may be hard. If she does choose your friend, and you are still supportive of both of them, they will both see what a good friend you are. and if she ever needed anything, you might be the one she'd go to for help. =)
from a girls point of view just back off let him have her. if shes as flirty as you say he'll be the unlucky one. your best bet is to just wait it out for a bit find a better girl, one that shares common interests and and you really just genuinely enjoy being around you'll be much happier for it in the end
This sort of happened to me, my slutty best friend of 7 years dated the guy I was dating at the same time behind my back. Yeah, they cheated on me.
Listen....
if the girl likes your friend better than you, she isn't worth it.
if your friend is trying to take the girl you like away from you, he isn't worth it.
Moral of the story: If they both get together, dump them BOTH.
maybe since yall have been friends for so long maybe she doesnt think that u like her like that and yall are at that friends stage now and since ur ';best friend'; is in competition for it then just be friends with her...now if u really want to be with her u should tell her how u feel and go from there
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
Just let fate do it's work.
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
i know a girl just like her. they just want every guy to like them, even if they dont like the guy. try and get over her even if its hard. just try, she wont be worth it , if she just wants every guy.
slow down,go to her %26amp; tell her how you feel!ok!good.when you r done don't wait 4 d response give her space %26amp; time %26amp; just keep checkin' up on her if she wants you too.us girlz if don't say anything we assume dat you just don't like us,simple.
Find a way to show her you like her in a special way. Otherewise how is she going to know that? 'cause this is what he's doing, he's showing her he likes her!
:)
Thats how my boyfriend felt for at least a year. And when the guy got expelled I noticed him and now we've been going out for nearly a year.
Seriously, if she means a lot to you, don't give up on her.
try flirting back and if that doesn't work then ask her out to a place you can walk to
How about you tell the girl that you like her? Then you would've definitely gotten to her first!
sorry bro....girls like that break hearts .....
your mate is a dick tell him to **** off!!
She is a really flirty girl. Basically any guy who gives her attention, but besides that she is really cool. Now as soon as i begin to like her, my best friend begins to like her. Our friendship has always been a like a competition, one has to be better than the other.
My friend is really trying to get her to like him now so they hang out a lot more than we use too. Now, i am extremely pissed, and considered i do not have a car yet, i cant do anything. It seems more and more the girl i like is leaning towards my friend. I am confused because i have always been there for the girl and now i am being pushed aside. I could really just use some advice.I need some girl advice.?
By your own words you said that this girl is a flirt and likes guys who give her attention. Your friend is giving her buckets of attention. Also, this girl and you were friends before she and your friend became close. In all this time you never asked her out or gave her the idea that you were interested in her. So, by her reckoning you are just a really good guy friend. If you like this girl, and are not just entering into a competition with your other friend, then you have to let her know it. So, you can either flirt with her a lot more then you have been, or jump the gun completely and ask her out. If you ask her out then you risk that she鈥檒l say no but you鈥檒l known exactly where you stand. Also, if this girl like attention then having two guys follow her and flirt with her maybe so good for ego that she kind of gets of on it. You don鈥檛 want to give anyone power over you like this. If this girls likes you then she likes, however if all she likes is attention then your friend should get her because girls like this will still flirt with other guys and crave attention. So, man up and ask her out and take your chances. Also, just note if a girl really likes you it doesn鈥檛 matter if you have a car or not. She鈥檒l ride the bus with you to get to where you are going.
also, how is this in anyway gay?I need some girl advice.?
if you really like her, stay with her and support her with whatever decision she chooses, even if it may be hard. If she does choose your friend, and you are still supportive of both of them, they will both see what a good friend you are. and if she ever needed anything, you might be the one she'd go to for help. =)
from a girls point of view just back off let him have her. if shes as flirty as you say he'll be the unlucky one. your best bet is to just wait it out for a bit find a better girl, one that shares common interests and and you really just genuinely enjoy being around you'll be much happier for it in the end
This sort of happened to me, my slutty best friend of 7 years dated the guy I was dating at the same time behind my back. Yeah, they cheated on me.
Listen....
if the girl likes your friend better than you, she isn't worth it.
if your friend is trying to take the girl you like away from you, he isn't worth it.
Moral of the story: If they both get together, dump them BOTH.
maybe since yall have been friends for so long maybe she doesnt think that u like her like that and yall are at that friends stage now and since ur ';best friend'; is in competition for it then just be friends with her...now if u really want to be with her u should tell her how u feel and go from there
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
Just let fate do it's work.
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
i know a girl just like her. they just want every guy to like them, even if they dont like the guy. try and get over her even if its hard. just try, she wont be worth it , if she just wants every guy.
slow down,go to her %26amp; tell her how you feel!ok!good.when you r done don't wait 4 d response give her space %26amp; time %26amp; just keep checkin' up on her if she wants you too.us girlz if don't say anything we assume dat you just don't like us,simple.
Find a way to show her you like her in a special way. Otherewise how is she going to know that? 'cause this is what he's doing, he's showing her he likes her!
:)
Thats how my boyfriend felt for at least a year. And when the guy got expelled I noticed him and now we've been going out for nearly a year.
Seriously, if she means a lot to you, don't give up on her.
try flirting back and if that doesn't work then ask her out to a place you can walk to
How about you tell the girl that you like her? Then you would've definitely gotten to her first!
sorry bro....girls like that break hearts .....
your mate is a dick tell him to **** off!!
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