I have been good friends with a girl since 4th grade. we are now sophomores and will both be 16 soon. I know i like her a lot. But does she like me? She isn't allowed to go out with anyone until she is 16. I have been waiting all these years and not gone out with anybody else. She will be 16 soon and I'm wondering if i should keep waiting or if I should start looking for someone else. She has never admitted who she likes, although her friends and family says she likes me. So what should i do? Also, idk if this matters or not but she is not a girly girl.I need girl advice! Please help me?
Aww.
Honestly, if that many people say she does, then there probably is a little spark. You just need to find the right way to make it ignite into a flame.
The day she turns sixteen, offer to do something with her that she loves to do. Completely make the time all about her and doing what she desires, for this will put her into a great mood with you. Perhaps even after, let her know how you feel.
I'm not saying go on your knee and propose, but tell her how long you've liked her and such. Chances are, she'll feel really wanted, and every girl loves to feel that way.
That's so sweet for you to care that much...if she doesn't have feelings for you, then she's absolutely insane.I need girl advice! Please help me?
I think that you should keep waiting. I think it will totally steal her heart when you tell her that you have been waiting and not dating this whole time because you wanted to wait until she was 16 and could date. Believe me-that is too sweet and if she doesn't fall for that then I think her lost. Also, how would you feel knowing you waited all this time and threw it away almost when getting close to what you wanted. Don't give up when being so close. Just keep on being around her. By the way, alot of times, girls know when guys like them. Wait, tell her you waited, then take her out and show her that you have liked and cared about her since 4th grade. I think it is worth the wait on you and her behalf. Good Luck!!!!!
I think it is very sweet that you have waited for her this long. That being said, if you still feel the same way about her, what's the harm in waiting a little longer for her? She should acknowledge that you waited for her for so long, and if her peers and family says she likes you, it is a very good chance that she does. Go for it.
DONT GIVE UP! those 6 years of waiting for her will go to waste! on her 16th birthday, get her a present, along with red roses, that says ';happy 16th birthday, my unrequited love';
[say something LIKE that, this is kinda corny, though you can use it if you want]
besides, youre not sure of her feelings, and the worst thing that could happen is her saying, 'thank you for waiting all these years, but i like someone else.'
so be a man and tell her as soon as she turns 16
If she is not a girly girl, she might liked you but too shy to do anything about her feelings and you have to do the 1st move.
But since you been friends with her for a long time, she might just think of you as a best friend, so to be sure you need to ask your self this :
1. Is she look happier when I'm around?
2. Is she asking for me when I didn't contact her?
3. Is she kinda nervous when I looked at her?
If the answer of the above questions is YES.
You better make the first move and ask her out on a REAL DATE.
I hope this helps.
Ask her out before she turns 16 and starts looking for someone else herself.
She probably likes you and is just too scared to admit it.
Ask her out, if she says she rather not, then be her friend.
6 months is not too much... maybe make her you ';promise to gf';?
Another way of saying: We're dating without your parents approval right now, so lets say it's not official, but date anyways and make it official when you turn 16.
Well, she seems to be shy about her feelings.
Waiting for her like you did was really sweet and that proves that it's more than just a silly little week long crush that most teenagers/elementary school kids get.
You should confess to her.
She seems as though she might.
But, flirt with her a little first.
If she flirts back then she does like you or if she goes all blushy and such that means she does.
But, if she's like ';ew. dude, I love you like a big bro';, drop it...
It's better to stay friends with her than to ruin it by pursuing an unrequited affection.
i think you should wait too...but its def a good sign that her family and friends say that she likes you. and since she isn't a girly girl she probably isn't very open about who she likes or any ';girl'; stuff. so if her friends and family can tell by her actions, you're in. but wait a little longer for the right time
How long before she turns 16?
okay, then definitely you can wait..6mo isn't really that long. You waited 7yrs whats 6months?? Wow, impressive...I'm sure that made a statement to her fam!! oh and according to what you stated, ';fam %26amp; friends says she likes me.'; you know she probably does.
';Love will stand the test of time.';
Tell her that she looks really beautiful on her birthday.
On that 16th birthday, tell her that she's beautiful. Every woman likes to be called beautiful, no matter how tom-boyish they are. That will light a spark in her head. Also, give her a hug. Smile, and work really hard at getting her attention. Flirt with her, she will get the message, and theres about a 9/10 chance that she likes you too! Good luck!
Think about the possibility of awkwardness after you tell her. If she doesn't feel the same....would she feel weird after and be distant? If she feels the same then great, date her, but at the same time you have to think....what if you break up? Do you think that would be awkward afterwards? It's really hard to go back to the same friendship with someone after you date and it doesn't work out.
go for it when shes 16 if she seems interested i mean you have known her for so long so you're already on a level of a good friendship...flirt with her, is shes blushy or flirts back then shes prob into you. watcha got to loose if you've never been in a relationship before??if shes a tomboy maybe play some kind of sport with her like tennis..you'd probably have a lot of fun and its flirty..i say wait for her at least until shes 16 and if shes not interested keep looking=]
omg you ahve waited this long, keep waiting! dont give up, no matter waht the day she turns 16 go for it. if her family and everyone says she likes you, im sure she does, this is coming from a 16 year old girl! you could have a little fairy tail story, just wait for her, i bet seh likes you! tell me how everyting works out... if you need more help message me! good luck!
Well if you are shy than i would just write her and if she is shy i would write her. Girl like notes anyway! no matter what age they are. I would just tell her how you feel. She probable likes you back and if you dont say anything to her and you move on you will see her with other guys ';the girl you have been waiting forever for'; And you will regret it so much.
You sound like a very sensitive and kind young man who wants to do the right thing....if you like her that much then wait for 6 months when both of you will be the right age. Believe me time flies....and 6 months is not that long .....it doesn't matter if she is a sporty type person....I'm sure there is something about her that attracts you to her.....some females are not comfortable in fancy clothes....but they are still the same as other girls....with the same feelings.
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
Do you know how much it would mean to her if you told her that you've been waiting for her all this time?...IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO HER!!
It's completely adorable. Just tell her how pretty she looks on her birthday, always complement her, flirt a TON, and she will get the hint.
At some point of the day on her birthday, take her outside..go on a nice long walk and just tell her how you feel. You will feel great!
=]
well u've been waiting for her these whole years so why wouldn't wait for her for another few months,,u've got nothing to lose by waiting a few more months,,but the most important is just follow ur bliss,,if your heart tells u to wait then follow what ur heart says,,don't let urself regret anything in the end of the day,,
good luck!!
^________^
well if you have been waiting all these years for her there is no reason why you shouldn't wait a little bit longer for her. You should tell her that you have liked her all this time, she will probably think that it's sweet that you have waited for her.
If she likes you it would be better for you to wait because you are still young. In other words that you still have time to give her space. This is if you are ready for serious relationships it takes a lot of commitment and patience.
ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE IM SURE IF YOU HAVE BEEN HER FRIEND FOR THAT LONG SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU IF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAYS SHE LIKES YOU TAKE A CHANCE AND ASK HER OUT SHES ALMOST 16 AND IM SURE SHELL DATE YOU
dude im 16 right now and as a fellow teenager im telling you to wait for her 16 b day.. if only i was in ur position, i would be one of the happiest guys on earth you lucky SOB
I think that you should definitely wait for her. If you have been waiting for this long than I think you can wait 6 more months and see what happens.
Good luck! =)
well, if her friends and family are telling you, and she won't tell who she likes, you should most definitely give it a shot!
Take the chance, ask her out.
same thing i did, to the girl i like.
just do it.
Wait!!!. If you've waited that long and she's turning 16 soon than it'd be kinda dum not to wait just a little longer to ask her something you've been waiting ages to ask..^0^
Wait it out man cause it might be worth it.
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She probably likes you to. Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? You're only young once. Go for it.
I think you should ask her if she would ever go out with you so that you will know if she likes you or not and if she doesn't then you could move on.
hmmm. so u really like her.
and u have waited and not gone out with anyone.
and all her friends and family say she likes u.
wow this is tough.
try it....u have nothing to loose...
its ok to loose your pride over someone u love...
dont loose your love tho over your pride....
Ask her if she would like to go out sometime maybe to dinner and a movie. See how she reacts.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
I have been dating my girl for about 10 months, we love eachother and used to have alot of fun, but when I got my own place (just moved for college) she started staying with me every night, and we started to argue and become angry with eachother alot more, but we kept it in and never fought.
She recently moved all her stuff into my place. I was completley fine with it, no big deal to me, but now she is saying that she thinks we moved to fast, and that she should move back out since we argue pretty much every day...
I am worried that she won't ever want to live me now, that she will never be ready to again..
I don't want to loose her, but I am worried..should I be?
Thanks.I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
Well with all relationships you expect to fight a little or disagree on things but fighting every day does not sound good. Yous both need to sit down and talk about why you both just cant agree to disagree with each other. Men and Woman will always have different views on things so you both need to meet half way. I don't think its a matter of you both moving to fast its the fact that you need to communicate on a level in which you can both meet in the middle. There this saying that you always truly get to know someone when you live with them. If she wants to move out then let her but gentle remind her that you both are better off trying to live together to see if the relationship will work. Hope i have helped good luck and never give up on the person you truly love
She recently moved all her stuff into my place. I was completley fine with it, no big deal to me, but now she is saying that she thinks we moved to fast, and that she should move back out since we argue pretty much every day...
I am worried that she won't ever want to live me now, that she will never be ready to again..
I don't want to loose her, but I am worried..should I be?
Thanks.I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
Well with all relationships you expect to fight a little or disagree on things but fighting every day does not sound good. Yous both need to sit down and talk about why you both just cant agree to disagree with each other. Men and Woman will always have different views on things so you both need to meet half way. I don't think its a matter of you both moving to fast its the fact that you need to communicate on a level in which you can both meet in the middle. There this saying that you always truly get to know someone when you live with them. If she wants to move out then let her but gentle remind her that you both are better off trying to live together to see if the relationship will work. Hope i have helped good luck and never give up on the person you truly love
I need girl advice! Please help me?
I have been good friends with a girl since 4th grade. we are now sophomores and will both be 16 soon. I know i like her a lot. But does she like me? She isn't allowed to go out with anyone until she is 16. I have been waiting all these years and not gone out with anybody else. She will be 16 soon and I'm wondering if i should keep waiting or if I should start looking for someone else. She has never admitted who she likes, although her friends and family says she likes me. So what should i do? Also, idk if this matters or not but she is not a girly girl.I need girl advice! Please help me?
Aww.
Honestly, if that many people say she does, then there probably is a little spark. You just need to find the right way to make it ignite into a flame.
The day she turns sixteen, offer to do something with her that she loves to do. Completely make the time all about her and doing what she desires, for this will put her into a great mood with you. Perhaps even after, let her know how you feel.
I'm not saying go on your knee and propose, but tell her how long you've liked her and such. Chances are, she'll feel really wanted, and every girl loves to feel that way.
That's so sweet for you to care that much...if she doesn't have feelings for you, then she's absolutely insane.I need girl advice! Please help me?
I think that you should keep waiting. I think it will totally steal her heart when you tell her that you have been waiting and not dating this whole time because you wanted to wait until she was 16 and could date. Believe me-that is too sweet and if she doesn't fall for that then I think her lost. Also, how would you feel knowing you waited all this time and threw it away almost when getting close to what you wanted. Don't give up when being so close. Just keep on being around her. By the way, alot of times, girls know when guys like them. Wait, tell her you waited, then take her out and show her that you have liked and cared about her since 4th grade. I think it is worth the wait on you and her behalf. Good Luck!!!!!
I think it is very sweet that you have waited for her this long. That being said, if you still feel the same way about her, what's the harm in waiting a little longer for her? She should acknowledge that you waited for her for so long, and if her peers and family says she likes you, it is a very good chance that she does. Go for it.
DONT GIVE UP! those 6 years of waiting for her will go to waste! on her 16th birthday, get her a present, along with red roses, that says ';happy 16th birthday, my unrequited love';
[say something LIKE that, this is kinda corny, though you can use it if you want]
besides, youre not sure of her feelings, and the worst thing that could happen is her saying, 'thank you for waiting all these years, but i like someone else.'
so be a man and tell her as soon as she turns 16
If she is not a girly girl, she might liked you but too shy to do anything about her feelings and you have to do the 1st move.
But since you been friends with her for a long time, she might just think of you as a best friend, so to be sure you need to ask your self this :
1. Is she look happier when I'm around?
2. Is she asking for me when I didn't contact her?
3. Is she kinda nervous when I looked at her?
If the answer of the above questions is YES.
You better make the first move and ask her out on a REAL DATE.
I hope this helps.
Ask her out before she turns 16 and starts looking for someone else herself.
She probably likes you and is just too scared to admit it.
Ask her out, if she says she rather not, then be her friend.
6 months is not too much... maybe make her you ';promise to gf';?
Another way of saying: We're dating without your parents approval right now, so lets say it's not official, but date anyways and make it official when you turn 16.
Well, she seems to be shy about her feelings.
Waiting for her like you did was really sweet and that proves that it's more than just a silly little week long crush that most teenagers/elementary school kids get.
You should confess to her.
She seems as though she might.
But, flirt with her a little first.
If she flirts back then she does like you or if she goes all blushy and such that means she does.
But, if she's like ';ew. dude, I love you like a big bro';, drop it...
It's better to stay friends with her than to ruin it by pursuing an unrequited affection.
i think you should wait too...but its def a good sign that her family and friends say that she likes you. and since she isn't a girly girl she probably isn't very open about who she likes or any ';girl'; stuff. so if her friends and family can tell by her actions, you're in. but wait a little longer for the right time
How long before she turns 16?
okay, then definitely you can wait..6mo isn't really that long. You waited 7yrs whats 6months?? Wow, impressive...I'm sure that made a statement to her fam!! oh and according to what you stated, ';fam %26amp; friends says she likes me.'; you know she probably does.
';Love will stand the test of time.';
Tell her that she looks really beautiful on her birthday.
On that 16th birthday, tell her that she's beautiful. Every woman likes to be called beautiful, no matter how tom-boyish they are. That will light a spark in her head. Also, give her a hug. Smile, and work really hard at getting her attention. Flirt with her, she will get the message, and theres about a 9/10 chance that she likes you too! Good luck!
Think about the possibility of awkwardness after you tell her. If she doesn't feel the same....would she feel weird after and be distant? If she feels the same then great, date her, but at the same time you have to think....what if you break up? Do you think that would be awkward afterwards? It's really hard to go back to the same friendship with someone after you date and it doesn't work out.
go for it when shes 16 if she seems interested i mean you have known her for so long so you're already on a level of a good friendship...flirt with her, is shes blushy or flirts back then shes prob into you. watcha got to loose if you've never been in a relationship before??if shes a tomboy maybe play some kind of sport with her like tennis..you'd probably have a lot of fun and its flirty..i say wait for her at least until shes 16 and if shes not interested keep looking=]
omg you ahve waited this long, keep waiting! dont give up, no matter waht the day she turns 16 go for it. if her family and everyone says she likes you, im sure she does, this is coming from a 16 year old girl! you could have a little fairy tail story, just wait for her, i bet seh likes you! tell me how everyting works out... if you need more help message me! good luck!
Well if you are shy than i would just write her and if she is shy i would write her. Girl like notes anyway! no matter what age they are. I would just tell her how you feel. She probable likes you back and if you dont say anything to her and you move on you will see her with other guys ';the girl you have been waiting forever for'; And you will regret it so much.
You sound like a very sensitive and kind young man who wants to do the right thing....if you like her that much then wait for 6 months when both of you will be the right age. Believe me time flies....and 6 months is not that long .....it doesn't matter if she is a sporty type person....I'm sure there is something about her that attracts you to her.....some females are not comfortable in fancy clothes....but they are still the same as other girls....with the same feelings.
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
Do you know how much it would mean to her if you told her that you've been waiting for her all this time?...IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO HER!!
It's completely adorable. Just tell her how pretty she looks on her birthday, always complement her, flirt a TON, and she will get the hint.
At some point of the day on her birthday, take her outside..go on a nice long walk and just tell her how you feel. You will feel great!
=]
well u've been waiting for her these whole years so why wouldn't wait for her for another few months,,u've got nothing to lose by waiting a few more months,,but the most important is just follow ur bliss,,if your heart tells u to wait then follow what ur heart says,,don't let urself regret anything in the end of the day,,
good luck!!
^________^
well if you have been waiting all these years for her there is no reason why you shouldn't wait a little bit longer for her. You should tell her that you have liked her all this time, she will probably think that it's sweet that you have waited for her.
If she likes you it would be better for you to wait because you are still young. In other words that you still have time to give her space. This is if you are ready for serious relationships it takes a lot of commitment and patience.
ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE IM SURE IF YOU HAVE BEEN HER FRIEND FOR THAT LONG SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU IF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAYS SHE LIKES YOU TAKE A CHANCE AND ASK HER OUT SHES ALMOST 16 AND IM SURE SHELL DATE YOU
dude im 16 right now and as a fellow teenager im telling you to wait for her 16 b day.. if only i was in ur position, i would be one of the happiest guys on earth you lucky SOB
I think that you should definitely wait for her. If you have been waiting for this long than I think you can wait 6 more months and see what happens.
Good luck! =)
well, if her friends and family are telling you, and she won't tell who she likes, you should most definitely give it a shot!
Take the chance, ask her out.
same thing i did, to the girl i like.
just do it.
Wait!!!. If you've waited that long and she's turning 16 soon than it'd be kinda dum not to wait just a little longer to ask her something you've been waiting ages to ask..^0^
Wait it out man cause it might be worth it.
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She probably likes you to. Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? You're only young once. Go for it.
I think you should ask her if she would ever go out with you so that you will know if she likes you or not and if she doesn't then you could move on.
hmmm. so u really like her.
and u have waited and not gone out with anyone.
and all her friends and family say she likes u.
wow this is tough.
try it....u have nothing to loose...
its ok to loose your pride over someone u love...
dont loose your love tho over your pride....
Ask her if she would like to go out sometime maybe to dinner and a movie. See how she reacts.trilogy
Aww.
Honestly, if that many people say she does, then there probably is a little spark. You just need to find the right way to make it ignite into a flame.
The day she turns sixteen, offer to do something with her that she loves to do. Completely make the time all about her and doing what she desires, for this will put her into a great mood with you. Perhaps even after, let her know how you feel.
I'm not saying go on your knee and propose, but tell her how long you've liked her and such. Chances are, she'll feel really wanted, and every girl loves to feel that way.
That's so sweet for you to care that much...if she doesn't have feelings for you, then she's absolutely insane.I need girl advice! Please help me?
I think that you should keep waiting. I think it will totally steal her heart when you tell her that you have been waiting and not dating this whole time because you wanted to wait until she was 16 and could date. Believe me-that is too sweet and if she doesn't fall for that then I think her lost. Also, how would you feel knowing you waited all this time and threw it away almost when getting close to what you wanted. Don't give up when being so close. Just keep on being around her. By the way, alot of times, girls know when guys like them. Wait, tell her you waited, then take her out and show her that you have liked and cared about her since 4th grade. I think it is worth the wait on you and her behalf. Good Luck!!!!!
I think it is very sweet that you have waited for her this long. That being said, if you still feel the same way about her, what's the harm in waiting a little longer for her? She should acknowledge that you waited for her for so long, and if her peers and family says she likes you, it is a very good chance that she does. Go for it.
DONT GIVE UP! those 6 years of waiting for her will go to waste! on her 16th birthday, get her a present, along with red roses, that says ';happy 16th birthday, my unrequited love';
[say something LIKE that, this is kinda corny, though you can use it if you want]
besides, youre not sure of her feelings, and the worst thing that could happen is her saying, 'thank you for waiting all these years, but i like someone else.'
so be a man and tell her as soon as she turns 16
If she is not a girly girl, she might liked you but too shy to do anything about her feelings and you have to do the 1st move.
But since you been friends with her for a long time, she might just think of you as a best friend, so to be sure you need to ask your self this :
1. Is she look happier when I'm around?
2. Is she asking for me when I didn't contact her?
3. Is she kinda nervous when I looked at her?
If the answer of the above questions is YES.
You better make the first move and ask her out on a REAL DATE.
I hope this helps.
Ask her out before she turns 16 and starts looking for someone else herself.
She probably likes you and is just too scared to admit it.
Ask her out, if she says she rather not, then be her friend.
6 months is not too much... maybe make her you ';promise to gf';?
Another way of saying: We're dating without your parents approval right now, so lets say it's not official, but date anyways and make it official when you turn 16.
Well, she seems to be shy about her feelings.
Waiting for her like you did was really sweet and that proves that it's more than just a silly little week long crush that most teenagers/elementary school kids get.
You should confess to her.
She seems as though she might.
But, flirt with her a little first.
If she flirts back then she does like you or if she goes all blushy and such that means she does.
But, if she's like ';ew. dude, I love you like a big bro';, drop it...
It's better to stay friends with her than to ruin it by pursuing an unrequited affection.
i think you should wait too...but its def a good sign that her family and friends say that she likes you. and since she isn't a girly girl she probably isn't very open about who she likes or any ';girl'; stuff. so if her friends and family can tell by her actions, you're in. but wait a little longer for the right time
How long before she turns 16?
okay, then definitely you can wait..6mo isn't really that long. You waited 7yrs whats 6months?? Wow, impressive...I'm sure that made a statement to her fam!! oh and according to what you stated, ';fam %26amp; friends says she likes me.'; you know she probably does.
';Love will stand the test of time.';
Tell her that she looks really beautiful on her birthday.
On that 16th birthday, tell her that she's beautiful. Every woman likes to be called beautiful, no matter how tom-boyish they are. That will light a spark in her head. Also, give her a hug. Smile, and work really hard at getting her attention. Flirt with her, she will get the message, and theres about a 9/10 chance that she likes you too! Good luck!
Think about the possibility of awkwardness after you tell her. If she doesn't feel the same....would she feel weird after and be distant? If she feels the same then great, date her, but at the same time you have to think....what if you break up? Do you think that would be awkward afterwards? It's really hard to go back to the same friendship with someone after you date and it doesn't work out.
go for it when shes 16 if she seems interested i mean you have known her for so long so you're already on a level of a good friendship...flirt with her, is shes blushy or flirts back then shes prob into you. watcha got to loose if you've never been in a relationship before??if shes a tomboy maybe play some kind of sport with her like tennis..you'd probably have a lot of fun and its flirty..i say wait for her at least until shes 16 and if shes not interested keep looking=]
omg you ahve waited this long, keep waiting! dont give up, no matter waht the day she turns 16 go for it. if her family and everyone says she likes you, im sure she does, this is coming from a 16 year old girl! you could have a little fairy tail story, just wait for her, i bet seh likes you! tell me how everyting works out... if you need more help message me! good luck!
Well if you are shy than i would just write her and if she is shy i would write her. Girl like notes anyway! no matter what age they are. I would just tell her how you feel. She probable likes you back and if you dont say anything to her and you move on you will see her with other guys ';the girl you have been waiting forever for'; And you will regret it so much.
You sound like a very sensitive and kind young man who wants to do the right thing....if you like her that much then wait for 6 months when both of you will be the right age. Believe me time flies....and 6 months is not that long .....it doesn't matter if she is a sporty type person....I'm sure there is something about her that attracts you to her.....some females are not comfortable in fancy clothes....but they are still the same as other girls....with the same feelings.
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
Do you know how much it would mean to her if you told her that you've been waiting for her all this time?...IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO HER!!
It's completely adorable. Just tell her how pretty she looks on her birthday, always complement her, flirt a TON, and she will get the hint.
At some point of the day on her birthday, take her outside..go on a nice long walk and just tell her how you feel. You will feel great!
=]
well u've been waiting for her these whole years so why wouldn't wait for her for another few months,,u've got nothing to lose by waiting a few more months,,but the most important is just follow ur bliss,,if your heart tells u to wait then follow what ur heart says,,don't let urself regret anything in the end of the day,,
good luck!!
^________^
well if you have been waiting all these years for her there is no reason why you shouldn't wait a little bit longer for her. You should tell her that you have liked her all this time, she will probably think that it's sweet that you have waited for her.
If she likes you it would be better for you to wait because you are still young. In other words that you still have time to give her space. This is if you are ready for serious relationships it takes a lot of commitment and patience.
ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE IM SURE IF YOU HAVE BEEN HER FRIEND FOR THAT LONG SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU IF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAYS SHE LIKES YOU TAKE A CHANCE AND ASK HER OUT SHES ALMOST 16 AND IM SURE SHELL DATE YOU
dude im 16 right now and as a fellow teenager im telling you to wait for her 16 b day.. if only i was in ur position, i would be one of the happiest guys on earth you lucky SOB
I think that you should definitely wait for her. If you have been waiting for this long than I think you can wait 6 more months and see what happens.
Good luck! =)
well, if her friends and family are telling you, and she won't tell who she likes, you should most definitely give it a shot!
Take the chance, ask her out.
same thing i did, to the girl i like.
just do it.
Wait!!!. If you've waited that long and she's turning 16 soon than it'd be kinda dum not to wait just a little longer to ask her something you've been waiting ages to ask..^0^
Wait it out man cause it might be worth it.
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She probably likes you to. Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? You're only young once. Go for it.
I think you should ask her if she would ever go out with you so that you will know if she likes you or not and if she doesn't then you could move on.
hmmm. so u really like her.
and u have waited and not gone out with anyone.
and all her friends and family say she likes u.
wow this is tough.
try it....u have nothing to loose...
its ok to loose your pride over someone u love...
dont loose your love tho over your pride....
Ask her if she would like to go out sometime maybe to dinner and a movie. See how she reacts.
I need girl advice. please help?
im so weird. ok, so im in 7th grade and i guess you could say im average. im small chested. which does not bother me at all. i have my period, so my face is breaking out bad. im no ashamed of myself and im totally happy with where i am. my grades are good and i have so many friends. so i just wanna be a little cooler. i mean like how should i dress for middle school and any tips. i'll take any tips on this. please no negative feedback i dont have time. thx so muck. best answer, 10pts.I need girl advice. please help?
well remember, youre only in middle school, so you dont want to dress too much like an adult, or too much older than your age, a mistake i think alot of young girls are making these days. i guess what i can tell you, is that a great pair of jeans can take you anywhere. if a pair of jeans fits you well, are comfortable, and are appropriate for your body tpe, youre good to go. but never try to be something youre not. wear whatever you feel confident in. confidence = coolness in my book.I need girl advice. please help?
I remember the akwardness in middle school, but I also remember that was the year I became a ';cool kid';. I would just stay up on todays style. Rock some clothes that you see at the mall, just dont go to extreme and make sure you feel comfortable in them. Oh and for your face, if your parents can afford it get some proactive, it works great and will make you more confident. I know it is tuff to fit in sometimes but just remember that you are just perfect the way you are!!
Oh and I always like to do something totally different with my hair, try a new style or cut!! good luck girl!!
Try teenmagazine.com for ideas (:
Just be yourself. Dress in what you like and are comfortable in and be glad that you have friends and just chill with them. You dont want to start trying to dress a certain way in order to ';fit in'; and look ';cool'; cause in the end, you will be giving off a false impression of who you are. When you get a little older and get out of grade school and high school, you will discover that most people could care less about how you dress, they care more about having a good personality.
ok, I'm not sure if this is what you're looking for, but here we go:
-be yourself! trying to be someone else will just end in losing self-confidence, self-knowledge, possibly some of your greatest friends, etc. don't care too much about what people think, because the people who don't like you don't matter in the end.
-wear what you think is cute/fun and not necessarily what ';everyone else'; is wearing. if you need inspiration, look through magazines and stuff but don't copy exactly what the models wear because that's just tacky. and don't break the school dress code.
-if your parents and school allow it and you personally want to, wear SOME makeup. don't overdo it, because that's just tacky. A little lip gloss or balm and curling your lashes (with maybe a little mascara) is nice.
-have fun and make a ton of memories!
when i was in 7th grade
i went thru the same thing.
soo no worries. im in 10th
now. but as far as dressing its all up to you
every one has their own style
its just about wear what you like
and what you feel comfortable in.
for example my style is like skinny legs and some Jordans/dunks
spike belt/chain and a tee
that may not work because thats not your style or
something your use to. just goof around
untill you find the style that is Simply you
:)
Haha weird I'm the same way. Try and make friends with the popular people maybe. Get at least one hoodie or t-shirt from Hollister and a person willl remember you as prep. And preps are the popular people. Just do what the cool kids do. And that doesn't mean drugs or sex. Don't change who you are though.
I don't think you can dress how people that don't know you would tell you to dress. If you want to be ';cooler'; you need to be comfortable in your own skin, which it seems you are, AND dress as a reflection of your inner self.
well remember, youre only in middle school, so you dont want to dress too much like an adult, or too much older than your age, a mistake i think alot of young girls are making these days. i guess what i can tell you, is that a great pair of jeans can take you anywhere. if a pair of jeans fits you well, are comfortable, and are appropriate for your body tpe, youre good to go. but never try to be something youre not. wear whatever you feel confident in. confidence = coolness in my book.I need girl advice. please help?
I remember the akwardness in middle school, but I also remember that was the year I became a ';cool kid';. I would just stay up on todays style. Rock some clothes that you see at the mall, just dont go to extreme and make sure you feel comfortable in them. Oh and for your face, if your parents can afford it get some proactive, it works great and will make you more confident. I know it is tuff to fit in sometimes but just remember that you are just perfect the way you are!!
Oh and I always like to do something totally different with my hair, try a new style or cut!! good luck girl!!
Try teenmagazine.com for ideas (:
Just be yourself. Dress in what you like and are comfortable in and be glad that you have friends and just chill with them. You dont want to start trying to dress a certain way in order to ';fit in'; and look ';cool'; cause in the end, you will be giving off a false impression of who you are. When you get a little older and get out of grade school and high school, you will discover that most people could care less about how you dress, they care more about having a good personality.
ok, I'm not sure if this is what you're looking for, but here we go:
-be yourself! trying to be someone else will just end in losing self-confidence, self-knowledge, possibly some of your greatest friends, etc. don't care too much about what people think, because the people who don't like you don't matter in the end.
-wear what you think is cute/fun and not necessarily what ';everyone else'; is wearing. if you need inspiration, look through magazines and stuff but don't copy exactly what the models wear because that's just tacky. and don't break the school dress code.
-if your parents and school allow it and you personally want to, wear SOME makeup. don't overdo it, because that's just tacky. A little lip gloss or balm and curling your lashes (with maybe a little mascara) is nice.
-have fun and make a ton of memories!
when i was in 7th grade
i went thru the same thing.
soo no worries. im in 10th
now. but as far as dressing its all up to you
every one has their own style
its just about wear what you like
and what you feel comfortable in.
for example my style is like skinny legs and some Jordans/dunks
spike belt/chain and a tee
that may not work because thats not your style or
something your use to. just goof around
untill you find the style that is Simply you
:)
Haha weird I'm the same way. Try and make friends with the popular people maybe. Get at least one hoodie or t-shirt from Hollister and a person willl remember you as prep. And preps are the popular people. Just do what the cool kids do. And that doesn't mean drugs or sex. Don't change who you are though.
I don't think you can dress how people that don't know you would tell you to dress. If you want to be ';cooler'; you need to be comfortable in your own skin, which it seems you are, AND dress as a reflection of your inner self.
I need girl advice really badly, please?
I've never been kissed, been on a date, or had a girlfriend (though I came close a few time) and I'm 16
I'm fairly socially awkward, quiet, shy, and I like to think that I'm relatively good looking, I'm really bad with conversation, although i can talk fairly well once I get going, and I can actually be pretty funny sometimes
Any helpful advice?
I mean really helpful, not just the same ';Be more social and talk more'; specifics would be nice.I need girl advice really badly, please?
text a girl first that seems to break the ice. then hangout just the two of you though. that way its less akward. there is nothing wrong with being shy and quiet you just gotta find a girl thats into that kind of guy. im sure there are some girls that you have your eye on. talk to them online first move it to texting then hangout .. that way your moving at a slower pace thats more comfortable to you. and then hopefully youll be able to come out of your shell a little bit on a date (:I need girl advice really badly, please?
Glad u dont look like your avatar.. I think the key is to be spontaneous and natural and when its right youll know it. First you have to get yourself into a situation with a girl? guy? Lke ask them to a basketball game or a movie is a great place to make out! make it scarey and shell snuggle up toyou.. You cant just go up to her and say will you kiss me.. there has to be some level of a connection. and at your age most likely you will be making the first move. Its simply a matter of comfort and connection.. see how she feels about it.. when you show consideration and interest, she will probably respond to it.
I'm fairly socially awkward, quiet, shy, and I like to think that I'm relatively good looking, I'm really bad with conversation, although i can talk fairly well once I get going, and I can actually be pretty funny sometimes
Any helpful advice?
I mean really helpful, not just the same ';Be more social and talk more'; specifics would be nice.I need girl advice really badly, please?
text a girl first that seems to break the ice. then hangout just the two of you though. that way its less akward. there is nothing wrong with being shy and quiet you just gotta find a girl thats into that kind of guy. im sure there are some girls that you have your eye on. talk to them online first move it to texting then hangout .. that way your moving at a slower pace thats more comfortable to you. and then hopefully youll be able to come out of your shell a little bit on a date (:I need girl advice really badly, please?
Glad u dont look like your avatar.. I think the key is to be spontaneous and natural and when its right youll know it. First you have to get yourself into a situation with a girl? guy? Lke ask them to a basketball game or a movie is a great place to make out! make it scarey and shell snuggle up toyou.. You cant just go up to her and say will you kiss me.. there has to be some level of a connection. and at your age most likely you will be making the first move. Its simply a matter of comfort and connection.. see how she feels about it.. when you show consideration and interest, she will probably respond to it.
Sick Baby girl, advice appreciated!?
My baby has been sick she is 2 1/2 years old. Today is th 4 day(shes been to the doc and ER in the past few days), she hasn't thrown up in almost 26 hours and no diarrhea in 10 hours. She has been drinking (little soda, apple juice %26amp; lots of water) shes eaten some fishies. She been crying of stomach pain brought her to the doc and she checked her out and said it was cramping.. just give her tylenol which seems to help some what. She went into a screaming fest and said ';my poopy hurts'; and then you could hear his stomach turn and then she was fine.. went to change her and it was just a ton of pee! That was 3 hrs ago and she has not peed since.. she is know going through the whole cramping thing again.. and shes been drinking about the same amount as she was when she was diarrheaing but she doesn't seem to make tears anymore.. I'm very worried... pleaes tell me anything that might help!Sick Baby girl, advice appreciated!?
No, no Karo, it is for constipation.
I think she just has a bug and from what you say she is drinking, it may be hurting her stomach. Soda's can cause gas and be hard on the stomach acids esp when there is no food in there and apple juice is what you drink when are constipated so it will not help w/ the diarrhea it can make it worse.
It sound's like a lot of gas, I would try that. When it is sudden tummy aches that stop suddenly that it usually the reason. It is good she is peeing and 3 hrs is not a long time ago, I think she is on her way to getting better. She needs to drink pedialite or Gatorade, they have them in Popsicles now, lay off the soda's (unless it's diet sprite) and don't worry about eating too much now. Her appetite will improve in a day or so.Sick Baby girl, advice appreciated!?
Have you tryed giving her some kayro syrup?
Here it what you do put a teaspoon and a half in her cup with her favorite drink mix it up and give it to her. It will help.
My 3 year old had the same thing. The doctor said no to soda or any carbonated drinks... this causes the stomach to get upset. I tried the little sips of drinks esp. gatorade (sorry about the spelling)... Mine daughter was still in pain... so I took her back and they told me not to feed her anything or give her anything to drink for at least 12 hours... so whatever bug is in her body would come out - that actually worked for me. After that, you slowly start introducing the rice or toast and see how she reacts to it.
If you are concern at anytime go to the hospital, don't wait. Use your own judgement
What's her temp?
Try an after-hours clinic. There is probably one in the nearest large town. They are much faster and less expensive than the ER, but they'll send you to the ER if needed. My daughter likes the pediatric one we go to. They have satellite TV in every room so she can watch her favorite channel!
**The BRAT diet is bananas, rice, applesauce, and toast. Don't give it to her until her stomach settles.
No more goldfish until her stomach is completely settled. Tell her they are making her tummy be naughty and her tummy doesn't like them right now. Keep up with the liquids. For variety you might try Pedialyte or Gatorade or pear juice. Check the diaper again and see if it's wet.
If she doesn't wet in 5 more hours, or if she really seems dehydrated, she needs to be seen again. You'll need to stay up or get up to check on her, but you are probably doing that anyway. If she loses consciousness, call an ambulance immediately (not likely, but theoretically possible). Or you could take her to the nearest fire station with a medic, and ask the medic if she needs the ER.
my little guy (3 months) was really sick like that and I had him at the dr and ER four times in a week and there was nothing they could do. Then my almost 3 yr old got it too. It sounds like it is just a stomach bug. You could try the b.r.a.t diet. I think it is bread, rice, applesauce, and . . . I don't remember what the t is. Those are all stomach friendly foods. Just keep offering fluids so she doesn't get dehydrated and it is completely normal for little ones appetite to go away when they don't feel well. After a few days she should be ok - and possibly want to eat a ton more to make up for the last few days! Good luck - I know how hard it is when they are sick!
Shes got cramps from crying and stressing. Both of you should calm down. Put a movie on and lay down and watch it.
Give her toast with Corn syrup(it will help her have regular bowel movements, the right amount.)
Does she have a fever? if she does give her some Tylenol, don't let her wear any blanket, and cool cloths under her arm pits. If t doesn't go down, get a sheet and put cold water on it lay it on her(she needs to get cold)
Again, if its not working talk her to the ER, they will fix this.
(remember to tell them everything you did.)
If she starts throwing up give her sodium crackers. and ginger ale.
If she gets diarrhoea. she has to go as much as possible(She WILL get dehydrated if you don't give her lots of water.) She has a bug and its gotta come out.
Shes just peeing because of all the fluids.
(Check her temperature)
Get her to stop crying, its whats giving her cramps.
Get her to lay down and watch a movie or something. She needs to relax and keep her mind off of it(She can tell that your stressed out too, so you need to relax too.). It may pass.
(When you give her ginger ale stir it wil a metal spoon for about five minutes to get it flat. This will help with her stomach, and won't be so hard on her tummy.)
Hope she feels better soon! =)
No, no Karo, it is for constipation.
I think she just has a bug and from what you say she is drinking, it may be hurting her stomach. Soda's can cause gas and be hard on the stomach acids esp when there is no food in there and apple juice is what you drink when are constipated so it will not help w/ the diarrhea it can make it worse.
It sound's like a lot of gas, I would try that. When it is sudden tummy aches that stop suddenly that it usually the reason. It is good she is peeing and 3 hrs is not a long time ago, I think she is on her way to getting better. She needs to drink pedialite or Gatorade, they have them in Popsicles now, lay off the soda's (unless it's diet sprite) and don't worry about eating too much now. Her appetite will improve in a day or so.Sick Baby girl, advice appreciated!?
Have you tryed giving her some kayro syrup?
Here it what you do put a teaspoon and a half in her cup with her favorite drink mix it up and give it to her. It will help.
My 3 year old had the same thing. The doctor said no to soda or any carbonated drinks... this causes the stomach to get upset. I tried the little sips of drinks esp. gatorade (sorry about the spelling)... Mine daughter was still in pain... so I took her back and they told me not to feed her anything or give her anything to drink for at least 12 hours... so whatever bug is in her body would come out - that actually worked for me. After that, you slowly start introducing the rice or toast and see how she reacts to it.
If you are concern at anytime go to the hospital, don't wait. Use your own judgement
What's her temp?
Try an after-hours clinic. There is probably one in the nearest large town. They are much faster and less expensive than the ER, but they'll send you to the ER if needed. My daughter likes the pediatric one we go to. They have satellite TV in every room so she can watch her favorite channel!
**The BRAT diet is bananas, rice, applesauce, and toast. Don't give it to her until her stomach settles.
No more goldfish until her stomach is completely settled. Tell her they are making her tummy be naughty and her tummy doesn't like them right now. Keep up with the liquids. For variety you might try Pedialyte or Gatorade or pear juice. Check the diaper again and see if it's wet.
If she doesn't wet in 5 more hours, or if she really seems dehydrated, she needs to be seen again. You'll need to stay up or get up to check on her, but you are probably doing that anyway. If she loses consciousness, call an ambulance immediately (not likely, but theoretically possible). Or you could take her to the nearest fire station with a medic, and ask the medic if she needs the ER.
my little guy (3 months) was really sick like that and I had him at the dr and ER four times in a week and there was nothing they could do. Then my almost 3 yr old got it too. It sounds like it is just a stomach bug. You could try the b.r.a.t diet. I think it is bread, rice, applesauce, and . . . I don't remember what the t is. Those are all stomach friendly foods. Just keep offering fluids so she doesn't get dehydrated and it is completely normal for little ones appetite to go away when they don't feel well. After a few days she should be ok - and possibly want to eat a ton more to make up for the last few days! Good luck - I know how hard it is when they are sick!
Shes got cramps from crying and stressing. Both of you should calm down. Put a movie on and lay down and watch it.
Give her toast with Corn syrup(it will help her have regular bowel movements, the right amount.)
Does she have a fever? if she does give her some Tylenol, don't let her wear any blanket, and cool cloths under her arm pits. If t doesn't go down, get a sheet and put cold water on it lay it on her(she needs to get cold)
Again, if its not working talk her to the ER, they will fix this.
(remember to tell them everything you did.)
If she starts throwing up give her sodium crackers. and ginger ale.
If she gets diarrhoea. she has to go as much as possible(She WILL get dehydrated if you don't give her lots of water.) She has a bug and its gotta come out.
Shes just peeing because of all the fluids.
(Check her temperature)
Get her to stop crying, its whats giving her cramps.
Get her to lay down and watch a movie or something. She needs to relax and keep her mind off of it(She can tell that your stressed out too, so you need to relax too.). It may pass.
(When you give her ginger ale stir it wil a metal spoon for about five minutes to get it flat. This will help with her stomach, and won't be so hard on her tummy.)
Hope she feels better soon! =)
I need girl advice on this?
i know i screwed up, but i need your help. i lied to my best friend. he got his face slapped by this girl, and i told him i knew how to block it. she swung her hip out at the same time placing her hand on her hip and used the other hand and slapped his face. he was totally frozen. i asked him why he didn't block the slap, and he said he can't cuz of how they do it. i told him i guaranteed i can block that. then a girl used it on me too. hip to the side, left hand on the hip, and her right hand got me on the cheek, there was no way to block her hand i was stuck too! but i lied and told him a girl tried it on me and i blocked it! so he's like ';good, than god somebody finally knows how to, now show me how to block it, 2 girls got me with it and i can't.'; so i showed him a way to block that, and a way to duck. but they're bogus! now he went and showed a friend of ours those moves, cuz he got smacked like that once too, but he comes up and says 'dude, you think you can block it from Melissa?'; she's one of the popular girls, a cheerleader type. and i said ';oh, easily!'; so he says for me to go up and do something to make her use it on me too, cuz BOTH OF THEM have got slapped by her! if she uses that move against me, i'll get slapped! i can't block it, i dunno how to! it confuses me so i can't! but they won't believe what i showed them until they see her try it on me! how can i block that move? what do i do?I need girl advice on this?
you gotta tell them before it's too lateI need girl advice on this?
first of all,this just sounds kinda immature. but it just depends on your reflexes cause when girls slap,we slap fast when were angry. just watch the hand you think she'll slap you with and the moment you can tell she is about to slap you, lift your arm in front of your face to block. but you might just not be quick enough. like i said,it all depends on how fast your reflexes are.
you gotta tell them before it's too lateI need girl advice on this?
first of all,this just sounds kinda immature. but it just depends on your reflexes cause when girls slap,we slap fast when were angry. just watch the hand you think she'll slap you with and the moment you can tell she is about to slap you, lift your arm in front of your face to block. but you might just not be quick enough. like i said,it all depends on how fast your reflexes are.
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