Girl advice?

OK people, I'm gonna dive right in:





There's this girl at my school in Leicester. She is really hot and has a great personality (I fancy her - no $@#%26amp; Sherlock LOL). Anyways, sometimes I hear her saying how cute she thinks I am. I have heard her myself about twice. Then, today, she told one of my friends, when I was elsewhere, that I am hot. Now I believe my mate about this, and I was happy when he told me the AMAZING news. If she does and I'm 'well in there', I am quite crap at making conversation. Not that I'm not confident or anything, but how do I go about chatting her up? I will definately find the courage to ask her out when I get to know her, that is not my problem. My problem actually lies in the chatting up and making conversation department.





For you kind souls who have read all of this, and who are going to answer, please discuss the following:





-If you think she likes me


-If I have a chance with this girl


-How to chat her up


-Personal experience (possibly?)Girl advice?
Okay, first of all, it's impossible to know whether or not she likes you. Admiring and liking are two very different things. I would make the assumption though that if she has taken the time to say it three times, taht she likes you. :)





There's always a chance, and it sounds like a distinct possibility.





Hmmm...talking with someone in the first little while that you like them can be pretty difficult. I'd find out stuff she likes and try chatting with her about that. Or talking with her about your school, etc. And asking her questions. Lots of questions. Just not stalkerish sorts. ;) Ask her about her interests; how her day is going; how many siblings she has; favorite things. You could possibly try getting her screen name on one of the various internet messenging services so you guys could IM for a while. It's amazing how well things work on there. :) My boyfriend and I started chatting on there way more than we ever talked, and then it just kind of naturally morphed into being able to sit and talk for hours.





Personal experience, well, I guess i have it. I've been dating the same guy for 5 years, and I'm 17. :) If you want to get to know her, just really take the time to seem interested, and understand that sometimes even if a girl blows you off at first, or seems to, she might just be nervous. I hope everything works out!Girl advice?
Don't try 'chatting her up'. You might just end up making a fool of yourself. Instead just be yourself - go up to her say hi, and just speak to her like you would any other person. For example just ask her how what her last class was. Basically just find something to say that will break the ice! And hopefully the conversation will follow on fro there!! Once you have become better aquainted then ask her out on a date!!! Good Luck!!





P.S. It does sound like she likes you, and I think you do have a chance with her based on what you have said she has said about you!!
1.) it sounds like she likes u


2.) of course you have a chance with her, you have a chance with any girl as long as you try, there should be no limits when it comes to like someone


3.) you can easily just talk to her, i like it when guys just talk to me like a human being, not trying to be all smart or different from what they're usually like. talk to her about anything, what she likes(food,weather,dates,anyyything), ask her if shes been n e where interesting, like on vacation or anything. any movies uve seen lately, u could talk to her about that.


just talk to her like ur talking to one of ur friends, the best thing is to be comfortable, not change who you really are, and dont try too hard, it usually becomes awkward if you go waaay outa your way.


just make sure u compliment her, she looks nice/smells nice, has a cute laugh
It sounds to me that she is interested. You won't know for certain until you start to talk to her and spending time together. I think you could end up having a good chance with her. As for talking to her you just need to break out of your shell. Maybe just start talking about everyday things. What she enjoys doing. Maybe even what she plans to do for her career. That's a good one because then you get to know a little more about what interests them and then you can ask all sorts of questions on the subject. Starting it is hard but do what you feel in the moment. Good luck. You'll do great.
If she's telling your friend that she thinks you're hot, she really likes you and wants him to tell you what she said so that you'll ask her out. That's how girls work, through a friend-connection. So; to questions one and two; yes and yes!!





Chat her up when you see her doing/struggling with something you know and can hold a conversation about. It's a good way to start off a great relationship.
FIRST OF ALL MAKE SURE THAT YOU ALWAYS BE YOURSELF............NO EXCEPTIONS. SECONDLY KEEP IN MIND THAT SHE MIGHT SHOOT YOU DOWN (GIRLS ARE FUNNY ABOUT THINGS WHEN THERE YOUNG) ACTUALLY THEY WILL ALWAYS BE A LITTLE FUNNY ABOUT THINGS ( LOL ) TRY TO APPROACH HER WITH A COMMON INTEREST, BE CONFIDENT (WOMEN LIKE A GUY WHO IS CONFIDENT) STAY TRUE TO YOUSELF ON THIS ONE. IT SOUNDS LIKE SHE ALREADY LIKES YOU SO DONT PROCASTINATE, YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS YOUR OPPERTUNITY............ AND ALSO TRY TO MAKE SURE YOU CAN STRIKE UP THIS CONVERSATION IN PRIVATE (DON'T WANT TO DO THIS AROUND HER FRIENDS)
ask her for ther myspace url chat with her know her(maybe you will make out when she calls you her boyfriend.)
I def. think you have a chance! You've heard her call you cute twice! Convo. sometimes can be uneasy and awkward. Just trying and mention a sport she plays, or what she does after school can get a good convo. started. Maybe ask her what kind of music she is into. Good luck.
mmm i'm not too sure if your mate's telling you the truth, i mean it happened to me too. I fanced this boy at school and believe you me i could never stop thinking about him, I heard that he fancied me too. One day me and my mates decieded to get the truth out of him, i wanted to know if he really really fancy me. I went behind the art class door and my mates called him up for a chat, He thought I was up in the canteen. My mates asked him all sorts of tquestion about me and I was listening away. A question was asked does he fancy me, he said to my mate's that he was leading me on, and that he never fancied me ever. He said that he find it so funny that a girl like me fancied him like mad and was having a great time making a fool out of me. When he lefted, i came out from behind of the door feeling sick in stomach hearing that. I never spoke to him ever. I just hope this girl not making a fool out of you. But i wish you luck. Takecare. xxxx
give her a turkey and a slice of beef from walmart
She maybe likes you but you need to wait a while to know for sure. You don't want to be dumped, trust me with personal experience. You should sit next (if you can) to her and look for signs. If she does like you for sure, try not to go overboard. You might have a chance with this girl. How to chat her up? Well ask someone else for that. Yes, I do have personal experience. Well, here it goes. There is this girl who is popular amd hot. I wanted to win her heart. Well, I just wait and give it some time. Then she started flirting with me. She talk weired around me, smiles at me alot and likes talking to me. Well, now, we know that we like each other. So I wrote her a love note. Well, you know the rest. Hope this help and go dude!
Well, # 1. i would like to point out that girls are stupid, haha. we say stupid things . and do stupid things.





-She might like you , but don't be so sure, because just because someones hot doesnt mean you have to like them.


for example, i have a boyfriend and sometimes i think other guys are hotttttttttt. thats just how girls are =)





- you might have a chance with her, but theres no guarantee ( see the first point i made )





-To talk to her, ask her about herself.. and then add to it. for example.





'; hey whats up ';


';nothing. ';


'; so what class do you have next? ';


'; English ';


'; oh i have it 8th. ';





And so on.





H0PE i HELPED. G00D LUCKKK !=)
..it sounds as if she really likes you so that would answer the question about whether you have a chance .





..as for chatting up she must already know you as a ';friend'; so just be yourself ,start chatting ,smile, it sounds old cliches but it would work,as she thinks you are hot a conversation would be easy to start .





good luck
just talk about her. get to know her more. What movies does she like? What songs is she into? What are her hobbies? How are her classes? Do you have anything in common? What are some stuff that she has that your don't? (you know, maybe she's your other half)


I told another guy with this same problem to just talk aout her. Not about yourself. If you do, then you'll seem to be so full of yourself.





she definately shows she likes you, saying all the stuff. Well now, she could say then not mean it. Cuz if you know girls, then you know that we sometimes like a guy one day and totally like someone else the next.





But when you get to know her, and chat up a storm....you'll notice if she's into you or not. I'm not the kind of person to go ';ok if she hugs you goodbye she likes you';...or some crap like that you'll know when you see it and feel it. after a while you'll start talking about your feelings to her that you like her alot. if she responds the same way, then you'll know. But if she says, lets just be friends....*ouch* that hurts. I'm not gonna tell you don't worry about, becuz I know guys too. They always get worked up when the wonder if the girl they like, likes them back. So just keep positive. Show her that your a gentleman (I hope).





Personal experience?....not really, on account that I'm not a guy...but I just know and have seen guys act like this. best of luck to ya!
i think she does like u and she makes it sound like u have a nice body and it does sound like u have a VERY good chance with her talk about things in everyday life but dont do all the talking let her say stuff to and my personal experiance would be...well...not much but dont just stare at her body shell think thats all your after(personal experiance lol)


p.s. good luck u seem like ud be a nice guy
Stop mincing about with the pro's and cons bollox. From personal experience if you look too deep into somthing ya tend not to see the wood for the trees,


Lets look at the facts here.


You like her


She likes you


She's told your friend this so it gets back to you- (women can be quite cunning on these matters)





Take a deep breath and go make conversation, relax, be yourself, make her laugh then ask her on a date.





Good luck my man...
yes she likes you yes you have a chance, just go upto her and say something funny. make her laugh (but not at you).
Of course she likes you! The fact that she does means you definitely ';have a chance';. If you want to get to know her better and you can't think of anything to say when you're talking in person, I suggest e-mailing her or talking to her on an instant messaging program like AIM. Naturally, though, that wouldn't make sense if you're not from a place where that's very popular. When you want to talk to her in person, just think of her as already your good friend. That will help you think of good chatting topics. What will also help is finding out what kind of person she is(her interests, hobbies, all that stuff) if you don't know already.





Good luck!
I love the way you write....





Anyway! Sounds like she's interested in you, and that you do have a great chance seeing how she keeps dropping your name. In my personal experience the best way to keep start a conversation and keep it going is to ask a lot of questions about that person. Ex: favorite type of music, dream job, hobbies, movies, etc. This also helps in finding common interests.





Good luck!
She fancies you.





It sounds like you've a goot shot with her.





Approach her and strike up casual conversation about a class or her shoes or something that you both share in common ... but relax, what do you have to lose ... and be yourself, youd hate for her to fall for a phony you.





A good looking gent with suave conversation stole my heart... I'm sure it works with other girls...
-yes she likes you ;)


-i do believe you have a very good chance of getting together with her


-hmm chatting her up, shouldn't be too hard if she already likes you


just be yourself (never try to be something you ain't) ~ a simple compliment like saying ';i think you're cute too'; or maybe even ';i think you're hot too'; kinda thing would be nice =P


-from personal experience i believe honesty is the way forward, if you really think someone is great, tell them


%26lt;3 hope this helps
listen hon honesty is a revelation at this age just say i like you loads and she will be well impressed, she doesn't know the foresight you already have
hmmm... ok... sounds like she likes u... u can start by making ur friend inroduce u to her... n from there u can be like... ';yeah i now u...'; n tell her that u seen her around in school... grls like compliments... tell her that she's pretty... ..





it's not that hard.. ur not the only one talkin... once u ask her a question or compliment her she'll start talkin to u n then u'll b comfortable around her...





i my self have trouble talkin to gyu's... i am so bad at flirting... i get eaily embaressed.. so becareful... if u didn't say anythin or talk abit too much she'll go away... so... take ur time.. relax...
It couldn't be more obvious that she likes you, what the hell are you waiting for? Of course you have a chance, leave your PC alone and ask the female to go out for a drink.....you chump! Dont spin her a line, she already likes you so be yourself. Dont boast, brag or spin her a line. Find common ground, laugh at her jokes and dont stick your hand up her skirt unless she asks you to.





You devil!
Just start talking to her.If she really likes you it won't really matter if you spout nonsense- this is what worked when I picked up my bf.

Girl Advice!?

When a guy is kinda annoying and picks on you alot... is that a sign that he likes you. Im not sure... it sounds stupid to me... but I really like him. So I do whatever to impress him. I even brought a baby picture of me so my friend could show him but act like she never intended to show him. But he talks to my best friend more now. And Im so jealous. He used to talk to me alot but now its awkward to talk to him because I starting to like him more and more. So I try to stay away but not to far away. Huh... its so fustrating!!!HELP!!!!Girl Advice!?
pretend you dont like him. He will notice, and try to get your attention. Its an ego thing!Girl Advice!?
well im a guy and it does mean that he like u...ask him for money if he gives it to you he likes you
well if he still likes you try being mean to him to attract attention and then when you've got it just ignore him trust me it works
Oooh. Well when immature guys pick on you, its a good sign he likes you. He may be getting more interested in your friend, or hes trying to get closer by talking to your friend first. You should get his attention or something, or he might end up liking your friend.
I think that he likes you, and I think that you just need to pretend that you don't like him, and kinda feorce yourself to thinkt hat while your around him. Invite him over to your house to study, when your parents leave, tell him how you feel, and ask him how he feels. Who knows, maybe he'll kiss you!!
u should tell ur friends how u feel about him. then they will give u and him some space.
awww, this is so cute. reminds me of when my life was innocent :) it's a golden rule that when a guy is annoying you and picks on you alot...he likes you! as far as him talking to your friend more than you. well, isn't it normal to talk to everyone but the person you have a crush on? you are talking to us instead of him, aren't u? :) so maybe your best friend is the closest he can get to you.
yea..
yes, guys tend to do annoying things to show you that they are interested and mainly it is to get your attention. so if he thinks that annoying you is going to tell you that he likes you, annoy him back! do what he does to you, that way you will tell him that you like him without saying a word about it. try it!
Boys need to be hit over the head to notice you. You need to talk to them every day and smile a lot and acknowledge them by saying ';Hi'; to them when you are around your friends or they are around their friends. If you really like them touch his arm or something when you say hi!
well he might be talkin to your friend to make u jealous or to kno something about u wat u need to wen he is talkin to your friend jump in start talkin wit them try to fit in n if hurt u that your friend is talkin to that boy u like n feel dat she might like him n she might go out wit him you need to tell her how u feel
well if he is buging u ALOT then ya he likes ya sorry if u dont like him u like him talk to him let him know how u feel but u know if he spreds rommers then b careful when u tell him he probably likes u too
of course he does.. well it depends.. does he know that you like him? if he knows you like him.. then yes.. he likes you.. well a 60% chance he does.
Well some guys are like that, one day they might like you and the other day they like your best friend...guys change girls just like they change underwear everyday...if you really like him then just tell him how you feel and get it over with...try to tell your feelings...don't be shy! Good luck!
yeha it could be
Does he pick on you in a mean way, or a jokingly kind of way? And also, flirt with him, and steal him away from your friend.
sweetie just talk to him
a baby picture!? how about showing him lingerie instead
Sounds like a player. Go find someone else who isn't a jerk.
maybe you should just tell him you like him.
If you really like him, talk to him, and be yourself.

Girl advice?

so theres this girl who i really like but she has a boyfriend but now they're on the verge of breaking up any time now. should i let her know how i feel now or wait a little bit? i dont know what to say too or anything that'll make it obvious.Girl advice?
Just be around! Attention will make her feel better, but not too much! She will be too busy by getting her life back on track.Girl advice?
start flirting with her more but don't tell her how you feel until way later on when you are in a relationship with her if it gets to that point, if you tell her how you feel about her before the two of you are together, she is going to classify you into the desperate nice guy category and you will then be stuck in the friend zone forever. Do what jerks do without being an asshole like a jerk, be confident, be a leader in the relationship, be unpredictable, treat her like you've known her for a long time and she's like a best friend, that way you won't be nervous around her. Hope I helped you and good luck.
Wait until she is single, and when she is upset about the break up, be there to comfort her.
wait till she is completley single

Girl advice?

Ok its really uncomfortable being in the same room as your ex when she wants to get back together. i want to also but when ever i get see her i run away. What to do??Girl advice?
There is only one thing to do and that is let her know how you feel.... because if you dont... one day your gonna run and when you try to go back and get her she isnt gonna be there.Girl advice?
If you can't take the face to face by accident thing, how about either planning to meet her or sending her a letter, or an email. Anything! Just let her know now, before she gives up on you. Do it now, or you will regret it!

Girl advice?

so theres this girl who i really like but she has a boyfriend but now they're on the verge of breaking up any time now. should i let her know how i feel now or wait a little bit? i dont know what to say too or anything that'll make it obvious.Girl advice?
Just be around! Attention will make her feel better, but not too much! She will be too busy by getting her life back on track.Girl advice?
start flirting with her more but don't tell her how you feel until way later on when you are in a relationship with her if it gets to that point, if you tell her how you feel about her before the two of you are together, she is going to classify you into the desperate nice guy category and you will then be stuck in the friend zone forever. Do what jerks do without being an asshole like a jerk, be confident, be a leader in the relationship, be unpredictable, treat her like you've known her for a long time and she's like a best friend, that way you won't be nervous around her. Hope I helped you and good luck.
Wait until she is single, and when she is upset about the break up, be there to comfort her.
wait till she is completley single

Girl advice?

Ok its really uncomfortable being in the same room as your ex when she wants to get back together. i want to also but when ever i get see her i run away. What to do??Girl advice?
There is only one thing to do and that is let her know how you feel.... because if you dont... one day your gonna run and when you try to go back and get her she isnt gonna be there.Girl advice?
If you can't take the face to face by accident thing, how about either planning to meet her or sending her a letter, or an email. Anything! Just let her know now, before she gives up on you. Do it now, or you will regret it!

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Girl Advice?

I've been into this girl for a while now. We're supposed to go see a movie on Saturday night. How do I know if it's a date or not?Girl Advice?
Who cares? I mean if you are going to spend time with her then it does not really matter. You can get to know eachother, and talk or whatever. Anyway, if you keep it as a casual thing, it will make both of you less uncomfortable, and if it all goes well, at the end of the night say, would you like to go out again sometime. You should be able to tell from her answer whether she in interested in dating or just being friends.Girl Advice?
Your going to the moves if it is only her and you then it is probobly a date. If you feel like its a date when the film end tern to her and kiss her on the cheek. it will work
Well if its just the two of u it usally means it is a date
if the two of you are alone.....bam.....its a date!!.............if you/she invited other people to go along.......crash.....it ain't a date.......easy as that!! :) peace
going to movie is a date i think
Well if she is the one who said that u guys should go to the movies then it sounds llike she asked u out on a date. what u should do is act like u r on a date. buy her popcorn or wutever and slowly get romantic with her. if she gets your flow then it is a date, if not then i guess she just wants to be friends. Or u could call her and remind her about the movies and when you say bye say ';it a date then.'; and if she says alright then it is a date.
i would guess that it is a date but i wouldnt be so sure, just ask her an she will tell you the truth, but if u like her and she likes ou then it is definitely a date.
movies?duh, it's a date!!I don't go to the movies with some guy for the hell of it!
Ask her.
it's a date
just enjoy the time as it is just a movie !


then if you enjoy ur self then ask her for another night out !





oh dont say the word '; date';





could be a big mistake , have fun !











now and then , frappie
Its a date, but who is the one who started talking about the movie first/......
It probably is.
Going to the movies sounds like a date to me.... have fun.
Maybe if you treat it like a date without making it an OFFICIAL date, she'll dig you even more.


If you asked her out as pals, then she won't be expecting anything, so do something a little ';unexpected'; but not corny like candles or flowers.


PS Candles and flowers arent corny, they just would be on the first date.
it doesnt matter, just enjoy your time with her.
It sounds like you guys are going out on a date to me.. but if you're not so sure then just ask her
Try to hold her hand and if she pulls away


She's only into you as a friend
Not too sure. I't would seem like a date to me if a guy invited me to a movie... :) Have fun...
just ask her if this is considered a date or not, if not, make her pay her own way in.