Im a girl and falling for this girl , advice?

i think i like girls but never came out. the thing is i am a virgin so i have yet to find out what i like. and another thing is that in the past i was kind of homophobic. like i was afraid of women and idk i still kind of am but cant explain it. and now im really confused about that.i have fallen 4 my best friend and i kno i have no chance with her.i am pretty sure she is straight,but i cant help it.i think im in love with her and it just hurts to kno i probably will never have a chance. .. and like its just hard to get her off my mind. when i wake up in the morning and when i go to sleep at night. she has this smile that i just cant even explain how it makes me feel when i see her.i think shes an angel.i would do anything for her.and she totally leads me on when shes drunk she has kissed me a couple times b4. and i just hate my life so much bcuz i can never get wat i want. my life was all wrong from the start. at least if i was a guy id have somewhat of a chance. but no its not that way.i really just want 2 get over her.and the only way i can get over someone is if i fall for someone else.Im a girl and falling for this girl , advice?
hey...i know ALL TOO WELL what ur going through...i would go over to my friends house, like, all the time and somewhere along the way...i fell in love with her...i know that i have no chance and i die a little everyday when i see her with her boyfriend and when i hear wat they did the night before...i know that YOU are seeking help...i just want you to know that...there are others in ur position...and i know that you dont wanna hear about some scientific crap (Don) because scientist dont know excactly what ur feeling...well i agree that if you 'come out' and tell her... she might get freaked out and ur relationship with her might wither away...and you dont wanna keep it in...because its killing you on the inside...i have to go now...but...contact me...i might be able to help you... born-a-baby@hotmail.comIm a girl and falling for this girl , advice?
hey awww..hugs.does she ever give you this feeling like she might like you too. like staring or something. have you ever told her youre bi or something. hey if you wanna talk about this more im me: lilylove@live.com maybe i can help you clear youre head by talking.
Discount the drunken fooling around . Consider having a talk w her about your feelings . If she pushes you away , at least you tried to take it to the next level . You might never forget this girl , so dont drive yourself nuts trying to .
wel... u can ask hr is she is straight,bio,or lesbo but dont git to nervous bout it!!!!!
maybe it is just a phase. a few years ago i used to kind of have a little bit of a crush on one of my girl friends. but i still fancied a boy at the same time and still found boys more attractive than girls. i wasn't like sexually attracted to her. or anything but i kind of fancied her a little bit. but a soon grew out of that phase after about a couple of weeks. if you still find yourself attracted to boys and that its probably just a phase. you are most likely to grow out of it if you are in your teens its probably just a little same-sex crush. which is nothing to worry about. a lot of teenagers get same sex crushes when there going through puberty or sometimes if there not so you know its nothing to worry about. don't let it bring you down or anything. instead of like being totally obsessed with her and not thinking about any ones else. keep your options open and try to see a few boys but if its not working maybe you are lesbian or bi. but like you shouldn't be ashamed of being lesbian or bi. just because your not like your friends doesn't mean you should be ashamed or anything. hope that helped. and good luck. X
Don, you copy and paste this answer into every single post who talks about someone being gay or bi, try a sincere answer.
You should know that, especially during puberty, many people have same sex feelings. It is considered normal. It does not mean you are gay...merely having same sex feelings. You should also know that you will have personality changes...possibly into your twenties and maybe even into your thirties. Again, this is all normal. Trying to establish your sexual orientation during this period is like calling yourself a football fan before you've ever even seem the first game. Take your time. There's no rush. You are doing the right thing by asking questions. I would recommend that you speak with your parents if you think they will be supportive of you. You know them better than anyone else. If you don't feel comfortable speaking to your parents...speak with your family doctor. He should be able to address your concerns...if he doesn't or can't, he will refer you to someone who can. You should also have the option of your school counselor. Doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists and school counselors should be confidential. Ask if you're not sure. Your sexual orientation shouldn't overly concern you...don't stress about it. You are what you are...if you're heterosexual, then you're heterosexual...if you're bisexual, then you're bisexual...and, if you're gay, then you're gay. You sexual orientation/identity is not an abnormality nor a disease...it's just your sexual inclination. Again, it's not something to get stressed about. Take your time and enjoy yourself, you're just beginning a wonderful journey through life...don't rush it. You will look back over these years with fondness...just relax.

What would you say to this girl...advice?

hiyaWhat would you say to this girl...advice?
wat the heck?








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Please make an appointment with your GP.





there is something seriously wrong with you - why do you keep asking the same question over and over again!






Show off your natural beauty
Oh no not you again





The other day you was Sarah and now your Leanne.





Why don't you just f*ck off and leave us alone. Freak.





And I'm a nice person usually.
Leave the zoo and join America.
somethings on her head.


possibly a birds nest..
I think you may have leprosy.
at first i thought dominatrix lol
Clean yourself up and i will ask you out
What is wrong with you?
get out more?



I'm getting fed up of looking at you.
To leave us alone.

















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Is she that Sarah C girl..??

Chances of this girl calling me? Girl advice needed?

so i went to Guess today to shop for some clothes, and they were like 5-6 girls working there, but as soon as i stepped foot this girl kept chatting me up and talking to me. we ended up talking for like 30 min about there styles and made fun of retarded clothes they had there . we talked alot and got along pretty good. she kept making side jokes such as ';i should be your personal clothing bff'; and ';we should shop for each others style';





well when i was checking out, as she rung me up, she kept smilling and etc. and when she put my clothes in the bag, she asked me for my number. i was going to ask her for hers, but she asked me first, but only thing is that i never got hers!





so what are the chances of her calling/texting me? shes very pretty and i wanna get something with her . how long would she take to call me if she wanted to?





this happened on thursdayy btwChances of this girl calling me? Girl advice needed?
If she doesnt call with in the week of you giving it to her. Your not getting a call. If you like her. Make an excuse to re-go to the store.Chances of this girl calling me? Girl advice needed?
Ugh, she probably will get around to texting/calling you, but I think she's just toying.


Someone who actually likes you wouldn't be so brazen to display it outwardly, especially if you guys only met for some minutes.
Like the other person said, if she doesn't call within a week she won't call at all. Just go back to the store. Is there any chance that she thought you were gay? ';Personal clothing bff's'; and shopping together don't really sound like boyfriend/girlfriend kinda things...

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OK GUYS what attracts you on about a girl? ADVICE AND TIPS?

hi im from australia and i just interested what attracts most guy? i like this guy in my class and i really need a way for him to focus on me more without acctully telling him i like him. SO should i do my or mess it up more.should i tone my body up more. PLEASE HELP IREALLY LIKE HIM. guyS SOME TIPS AND OR ADVICE





LUV YA THANKS XXXOK GUYS what attracts you on about a girl? ADVICE AND TIPS?
Just casually flirt with him. If he can't pick up on the fact that you like him then he your probably going to be disapointed when you manage to start something up with him.





Basically to get our attention you need to have looks that we find attractive. Unfortunatly the sick reality is if we don't find you physically appealing at all then we probably won't want to have anything to do with you. (Judging from your SN you probably won't have any problems there).





Next you need to have a likeable personality. If your cold and closed off then the only guys that are going to be able to reach you are the so-called players. Then your going to sprout off about how trashy guys are and how you want a nice man, then a bunch of wimpy hopeless romantics will be knocking at your door with flowers and eventually you'll get tired of them to.





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Well good luckOK GUYS what attracts you on about a girl? ADVICE AND TIPS?
Depends wat kinda guy he is....if he likes to get laid..turn him on....if he's just one of those nice guys...be nice and just be urself...
for me it is her stomach flat is good sign that she is fit and i look for cleanliness
First of all if you have a Australian accent you are half way there. Anyway you are a girl you got all the power.
ask for his help with your homework...make sure you show a little skin...get his brain thinking about you...flirt with him while you study together and maybe make a move for the kiss!
Confidence and poise.
nice ****


puts my **** in her mouth
1st of all, how old are you? Every guy is different- EVERY guy! If you are going to play the guessing game- you're gonna be awhile. The best approach- ask him what he looks for in a girl. Ask HIM, not your friends or his friends or anybody else. If he says legs, show your leg and ask his opinion on what he thinks. If he doesn't get it, niether will you. Be blunt, upfront and to the point. Don't waste your time w/ him. If he says no- know this, there will be at least 5 other guys who will say YES!
PERSONALITY %26amp; just don't fake!!!
Put your hair down, wear loop earrings, and lipgloss, slippers or high heeled shoes, and a short skirt. Look at him and make some eye contact. If he touches you in a non sexoffinding, or sexofinding (whichever you like) way, let him and cuddle/physical with him. When you leave from him, hug and give him a kiss. Don't forget to smell ok
just stay as u r. b urself.
well.. most guys honestly.. like hot sexy big plumpy future of lust with flawless curves of chaos that goes through the shallow and thin layers of command central inside the brain of a guy....





the point is you must be god damn hot!!!
Just talk to him. Us guys are really easy.





Thigh and cleavage never hurt either.
just be yourself but act flirty. be confident but not cocky
What attracts a man? ok, lets see. Well, it depends which way she is going. You got the answer. concentrate on the main issues, leave the sideissues.

You think this girl likes me? girl advice needed plz?

I JUST REALIZED I WROTE A LOT AND NOT EVEN ENOUGH TO DESCRIBE BUT PLZ HELP SORRY





Now just normally i dont ask for girl advice but this girl is something else.She is driving me crazy and i think i have a small crush on her.I also think she likes me too but recently im just not sure.


Well this girl is beautiful and me and her share something. last year before summer we hung out a lot after school and wed laugh and stuff.And shed ask me some stuff like


';Do you only like me for my big boobs?'; (cause she actually has a nice body )


and id say ';no, dont think of me like that. thats not all i like. i like your smile, your personality and everything else';


what do you think she meant?like me?


She makes me jealous because at least 10 guys are over her but she dont take nobody.thats something about me that im not all over her hugging her and touching her like all the boys.


any ways since the summer was over we havent really talked much. also i do this thing that if girls are talking to me i kinda shortly ignore them and then just smotthly turn my head and say ';huh?'; its hot you should see me in action


anyways i did this thing were she tried to hug me and i pushed her off me and she just walked away mad.and we aint talk for days until today but just a few words.


besides that i also kinda ignore girls but mostly her in the hallways .not completely ignore them but just dont look at them directly, let them look at me and then just talk. and then she DID IT TO MEand so we never talk evrytime we see each other . isee her lookin at me though and coming near me to get my attention, even bumping me sumtimes.any ways wat do yu think?does she like me?wat should i do?i ve had other girls but shes something else!!!helpYou think this girl likes me? girl advice needed plz?
wow ok the whole ignoring thing? not really a turn on? like at all? if some guy did that to me i'd actually be pretty pissed off. And if you said you dont treat her like other guys treat her maybe she thought you'd treat her different then the other girls. if i were you then i'd apologize to her and be pretty flat out with the apology. Then i'd change what i was doing and start to pay alot of attention to her. seriously a girl will fall in love with you if you are GENERALLY INTERESTED IN HER. no guy seems to get that if your concerned when im upset, you ask me about my day, and just generally respect me and value me as a person i am guarenteed to fall in love with you.


Sorry I gave such a long answer but it was a long question. please please please please please give me some male advice on my question?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>You think this girl likes me? girl advice needed plz?
You should have never pushed her off in the first place dude...

Girl advice please help!!!!!!?

ok so i've know this girl for a while and the we've hung out before but latley i havent been able to see her because i've been having prior engagments like hockey and work or family. and i've blown her off several times bc of those things. anyway we've talked and i still havent flat out told her i like her. but yesterday we were supposed to hangout and i couldnt and i felt SO bad that i had to cancel again. and i told her how sorry i felt and she said she completly understands and that she can tell that i care (which i do) and that im the nicest guy ever. so what i wanna know is does it seem like she likes me or am i still a friend? do you guys think i should go for her?Girl advice please help!!!!!!?
You'll never know till you tell her how you feel! From what you've said it sounds like she's chrushin on you. Life is too short to hold back.

Girl advice needed. Thanks?

Whenever i have f'd this girl i have been seeing, I end up f'n her ,slow, deep and sensual. After a bit i try to rear up a little so i can find a faster rhythm and really 'bang' her, sometimes she lets this happen till completion, most of the time she will pull me intowards her and start kissing me because she knows I cannot bang hard and kiss at the same time.


Don't get me wrong I like this, but do i take this as a sign she really prefers not to get 'banged'?


I for some reason find it takes a LOT longer to *** when we do it long and slow and get a little self consious about length of time after a while (she also cums alot however we do it)





thanks for adviceGirl advice needed. Thanks?
give her one for meGirl advice needed. Thanks?
hhmmm oka well, if your trying to ';bang'; her and she pulls you in for a kiss or something then it probably hurts her. but if shes pulling you IN towards her like your thing more in her than maybe she wants it more.


umm, you would really have to ask her.


'personally' i like to be ';banged'; because i could feel it SOO much better [not that its small, i mean its a REALLY good size] but i pull him in towards me for he could know i want it more. but it all depends on your girl!!
Ask her if shes good and if so can you go to town. If she doesn't understand, let her know that for you a real good orgasm depends on how far you shoot and when you bang on her it feels best. Now she might tell you it hurts, and it might, if so find a position where it won't hurt when you do it. Once a girl has *** a few times she should be ready to let you. That is, if she is not faking it. Most are.
Holy crap your stupid. if your making her *** then be happy with your performance.





and yes most girls prefer to have actually intimacy rather then have you slam your c*ck into us till we cry. ok


Being ';Banged'; isn't all that pleasurable unless you really know what your doing. (which you obviously don't.)
I *think* what she's trying to tell you is that you're crap at rooting. Boring soft sex is also the hardest to mess up.





Try watching some more pornographic films/animals having sex, and ask yourself ';How do *they* do it?';.
Your selfish and inconsiderate
It's really hard to tell.





Um.





To be honest if my b/f does something I dislike I'll distract him by doing something like that, but the only way to be sure is by asking her.
if you can't figure out sex maybe you shouldn't be having it. maybe you could introduce her to a guy who doesn't have to ask really stupid questions
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im not sure what your Q is
getting ';banged'; is probably not fun for her. That does not feel good or do anything for girls, it just makes the guy look pathetic if thats all he does- likes hes a horny little 17 year old that doesn't know what he's doing. If she is pulling you in to kiss take a hint she doesn't want to lie there and get banged like shes some hooker off the street or some object you are trying to get off on. Do a combo of going slow and some sort of meduim speed. Don't just go all fast and make her not enjoy it, then she will just think you suck in bed.