theres this girl in my class (in college) for about 7 weeks now and there are about 3 more weeks to go.
i only see her for 1 hour 2 times a week, shes in lecture but she sits on the other side of this huge room 2 other times a week but i dont go up to her after because i dont want to seem all eager only to get disappointed. The other classes are smaller so i get a better excuse to talk to her after this class. i talk to her for about 5 minutes on the way to her next class even though my next class is completely the opposite direction (she doesnt know that). i might have over heard her saying ';love you'; when she was talking on her phone once. im hoping she was talking to her parents.
this is my concern. she hasnt been dismissive to me when i talk to her. im sure she has a clue i like her. its been 2 weeks since i started talking to her. i kinda want her to start coming up to me to talk. what should i do and what im a missing or not doing or should be doing. how would you go about it.I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Don't assume that she knows you're interested. It might seem obvious to you, but you don't know what's in her head. If you want to go out with her, then ask her. You've got nothing to loose, and if she's not interested, then you can stop waisting time thinking about her, and move on to somebody who is right for you. Good luck!I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Hi John,
Just ask her out for coffee or a real date and you will get a much better sense of where she is coming from. Good luck Pal.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
im 16 years old. female. i dated this boy, brandon, for a few months about a year ago. ever since we broke up, i've always really wanted him back but we only talked a little in the past year. he recently called me and we went on a date a few nights ago. it seems like he only wants me back though because he wants a girlfriend. im not sure if he just knew i would get back with him so he came running back to me when no other girl wanted him. but then again, he could just miss me and want me back. but when we were broken up, i became friends with a boy named blake. we got pretty close and a few nights before brandon called me, i told brandon that i liked him and he said he liked me too. but i dont know if he likes me enough to go out with me. he could have just said that for all i know. but there is a chance that he could really like me and me and blake could have something..i really like him..but i really like my ex and i want him back too. i cant have both though. so if you were me, what would you do? advice, please?2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
2 boys, 1 girl 1 cup lol2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
2 girls 1 finger was worse than 2 girls 1 cup. It had nothing to do with fingers, just a sequel to 2 girls 1 cup.
2 boys, 1 girl 1 cup lol2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
2 girls 1 finger was worse than 2 girls 1 cup. It had nothing to do with fingers, just a sequel to 2 girls 1 cup.
Need lots of girl advice!!! (10 points)?
btw srry for the really bad grammar and if it gets confusing
alright so im 13 (boy) about 5'9 and i like this 14 year old girl named breaunna whose about 5'2. i go to a private school and thats where i first saw her. at the beginning i thought she was whatever but then, FIREWORKS the first time she talked to me. i went a whole year just staring at her everyday at recess(yea wierd huh? my school still gives recess :D). she has curly brown hair and the biggest smile i had ever seen
the first time i had ever talked to her was at the near the end of the school year around some couple months ago
my school was teachin us how to dance and we were paired up with ppl from the 8th grade class (i was in 7th)
wow was i lucky! i got paired up with breaunna.
i felt like i had just died and went to heaven
well that dance session had just lasted for about 40 minutes.
i experienced a feeling i had never felt in my entire life as i held her hand and felt the warmth. i looked at her in the eyes as she mouthed the lyrics from the music that was playing. it was silent between us as we danced which was soon broken when she laughed. the rest of the day i thought about wut had just happened to me and i soon found myself to like her even more than i did before.
at the 7th and 8th grade graduation dance i never even got a chance to talk to her. let alone dance with her again. i did come really close tho. i was dancin with her friend maggie when she dragged me off near her. there was an awkward silence and i walked away about 4 seconds later. WOW IM SO STUPID i thought to myself. i had lost my chance with her. i would forever wonder from that point on ';what if?';.the next day she graduated and so i went a week of school without seeing her again. i felt depressed. i might not ever get to see her again for the rest of my life.
now here comes the stupid part. after that maybe 2 weeks into summer vacation i ran into her amazingly on youtube(lol)
maybe God had helped me find her. maybe i have an angel out there.
i messaged her that i liked her and i told her how beautiful i thought she was and then i asked her if she liked me back and she replies....
';lol how could i not? ur a very sweet friend.';
friend.....
I sent her a message back saying ';wut do u think of me passed being friends?';
She hasn't answered in 3 weeks but i know for sure its because of school.
Is there any possible way to get my message back before she reads it and i get rejected for being way too fast?
Help??
Update: I've started school now and today she came to my school as a visitor and now i know i really do LIKE her. my heart jump started when i saw her and she looked amazing the 3 seconds i saw her.
I LOVE HER
too bad i got called in
i wanna try to get her cell phone number but idk how and when she'll start answering again
if i ask her friend for her phone number would that be kinda creepy?Need lots of girl advice!!! (10 points)?
Yeah, it would be creepy. I would just talk to her, and get to know her. You're being a bit too forward.
alright so im 13 (boy) about 5'9 and i like this 14 year old girl named breaunna whose about 5'2. i go to a private school and thats where i first saw her. at the beginning i thought she was whatever but then, FIREWORKS the first time she talked to me. i went a whole year just staring at her everyday at recess(yea wierd huh? my school still gives recess :D). she has curly brown hair and the biggest smile i had ever seen
the first time i had ever talked to her was at the near the end of the school year around some couple months ago
my school was teachin us how to dance and we were paired up with ppl from the 8th grade class (i was in 7th)
wow was i lucky! i got paired up with breaunna.
i felt like i had just died and went to heaven
well that dance session had just lasted for about 40 minutes.
i experienced a feeling i had never felt in my entire life as i held her hand and felt the warmth. i looked at her in the eyes as she mouthed the lyrics from the music that was playing. it was silent between us as we danced which was soon broken when she laughed. the rest of the day i thought about wut had just happened to me and i soon found myself to like her even more than i did before.
at the 7th and 8th grade graduation dance i never even got a chance to talk to her. let alone dance with her again. i did come really close tho. i was dancin with her friend maggie when she dragged me off near her. there was an awkward silence and i walked away about 4 seconds later. WOW IM SO STUPID i thought to myself. i had lost my chance with her. i would forever wonder from that point on ';what if?';.the next day she graduated and so i went a week of school without seeing her again. i felt depressed. i might not ever get to see her again for the rest of my life.
now here comes the stupid part. after that maybe 2 weeks into summer vacation i ran into her amazingly on youtube(lol)
maybe God had helped me find her. maybe i have an angel out there.
i messaged her that i liked her and i told her how beautiful i thought she was and then i asked her if she liked me back and she replies....
';lol how could i not? ur a very sweet friend.';
friend.....
I sent her a message back saying ';wut do u think of me passed being friends?';
She hasn't answered in 3 weeks but i know for sure its because of school.
Is there any possible way to get my message back before she reads it and i get rejected for being way too fast?
Help??
Update: I've started school now and today she came to my school as a visitor and now i know i really do LIKE her. my heart jump started when i saw her and she looked amazing the 3 seconds i saw her.
I LOVE HER
too bad i got called in
i wanna try to get her cell phone number but idk how and when she'll start answering again
if i ask her friend for her phone number would that be kinda creepy?Need lots of girl advice!!! (10 points)?
Yeah, it would be creepy. I would just talk to her, and get to know her. You're being a bit too forward.
I need some girl advice about sexual abuse. HELP!!!?
There are these guys at my school and they are anoyying me so bad. they grab my legs, grab my a**. when i sit down they force me to give them me a ';piggy back ride';. And they make nasty faces at me and make really inappropiete noises. I think they are doing this to me because i am a target. i am only 13 going on 14! Plz help me, i have to go through this every day!!!
P,S, i am adopted so i dont have a mom at home i need GIRL adviceI need some girl advice about sexual abuse. HELP!!!?
That is sexual harassment, you need to tell you're teacher or principle, those freaking idiots can get in a crap load of trouble for what they are doing to you. You have to tell the authorities, and they have to put a stop to it by law. Those morons don't know how much trouble they can get into for what they're doing. Why haven't you told someone already?! This isn't the middle ages you know. . . we live in an age where telling someone will help. I know I'm an educator, and if I ever saw or heard of that happening then I would do something about it right away, you don't have to put up with any of that! I have in the past, and believe me the girl was very happy I helped her out. So tell someone right away, please!I need some girl advice about sexual abuse. HELP!!!?
Exactly. You need to walk right into the principal's office and say what's going on and that if it doesn't stop, you are going to call the police. The school is required to protect you from things like that while you are under their roof and on their buses.
Do not respond or speak to the boys. Just report them and let adults remove them from your classes.
And sorry for your lack of mom. Make sure your dad knows about this. It's not your fault and you have nothing to be embarrassed about.
P,S, i am adopted so i dont have a mom at home i need GIRL adviceI need some girl advice about sexual abuse. HELP!!!?
That is sexual harassment, you need to tell you're teacher or principle, those freaking idiots can get in a crap load of trouble for what they are doing to you. You have to tell the authorities, and they have to put a stop to it by law. Those morons don't know how much trouble they can get into for what they're doing. Why haven't you told someone already?! This isn't the middle ages you know. . . we live in an age where telling someone will help. I know I'm an educator, and if I ever saw or heard of that happening then I would do something about it right away, you don't have to put up with any of that! I have in the past, and believe me the girl was very happy I helped her out. So tell someone right away, please!I need some girl advice about sexual abuse. HELP!!!?
Exactly. You need to walk right into the principal's office and say what's going on and that if it doesn't stop, you are going to call the police. The school is required to protect you from things like that while you are under their roof and on their buses.
Do not respond or speak to the boys. Just report them and let adults remove them from your classes.
And sorry for your lack of mom. Make sure your dad knows about this. It's not your fault and you have nothing to be embarrassed about.
I need some girl advice from all of you :) :(?
I met a girl who lives two hours away. She is awesome! I like her. She likes me. The only thing is she lives in North Jersey and I live 100 miles away in South NJ. (100 miles, 2 hours, up the turnpike). Is it worth it, that kind of distance for a girl? I know love has no distance. But do you think it could really work?
Also, she has never had a boyfriend before, and I have had a few relationships. How do I go about bringing it down to her level so I don't become to aggressive (like huggging or holding hands)? She told me the whole dating thing is new and scary to her, but in a really good way.I need some girl advice from all of you :) :(?
Ok, first off, whether or not the long distance thing will work is up to the girl. I live in a small town so I usually date girls that live 1-2 hours away. From experience, every girl is different. My first girlfriend was always nagging on me for not talking to her enough and not coming to see her enough. My second girlfriend thought I talked to her to much and she needed her space. Your just gonna have to find a happy medium and keep in contact.
Also, she has never had a boyfriend before, and I have had a few relationships. How do I go about bringing it down to her level so I don't become to aggressive (like huggging or holding hands)? She told me the whole dating thing is new and scary to her, but in a really good way.I need some girl advice from all of you :) :(?
Ok, first off, whether or not the long distance thing will work is up to the girl. I live in a small town so I usually date girls that live 1-2 hours away. From experience, every girl is different. My first girlfriend was always nagging on me for not talking to her enough and not coming to see her enough. My second girlfriend thought I talked to her to much and she needed her space. Your just gonna have to find a happy medium and keep in contact.
Monday, August 23, 2010
Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
So I am head over heels in love with this girl. I would truly die for her. She is the best thing that's ever happened to me in the world.
You get it.
Her family and mine both used to be real religious and strict, but were not any more, but the relationship teen thing has lingered. There's a sort of unspoken disapproval of that.
She knows I like her. Her little sister asked her if she liked me and my little sister told me that the girl I love answered really vaguly. She acts like she likes me. Everyone knows I like her.
I want to communicate my feelings, I feel like I HAVE to, but I don't know how! If I tell her outright she'll think that's weird.
I'm 17 and she's a very mature 15.5 ( as in she already runs a sewing business by herself. Coordinates all the finances arranges all the shows.)
Advice? Anything is welcome! I'm not real experienced in this type of stuff.
Thanx 4 reading!Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
I wouldn't just come out with it, this may make her uncomfortable. Take it slow with small talk, maybe a walk. Every now and then, compliment her lightly, outfit, her smile, etc. not too heavy. Down the road tell her that you like her and you'd like to take her out to dinner. Remember, slow, it seems like she may be a little shy. Good luckNeed some general girl advice? Anyone?
try asking her to hang out (make sure u mention its NOT a date)
do smthng fun and interesting that guys will both love
also try to pick up something small %26amp; inexpensive beforehand
then if the time feels right, say something like ';ur a really special person, I'm glad I met you.....hey that reminds me I saw this the other day %26amp; it reminded me of u'; *presents gift*
who knows? she might end up saying it to u!!
hope i helped and good luck(:
awww!! i say do something really special to show that you like her. both of ur familes will surely understand if you show that you are really true.
tell her you like her a lot see were it goes
She probably does like you, just scared about the teen relationship thing too. Maybe she's bent on society that teen relationships hurt and don't last, and she doesn't want to risk being hurt.
I would just take it slow with her, and it will all unfold in time. Try to spend more time with her and wait for the perfect moment to express how you truly feel. She will express it too.
Don't be too persistent though, she will feel suffocated and feel like you're obsessed. She will be embarrassed.
All in all, be patient and good things will come!
Hope this helps!
take her out. not like a date, because if her parents are not to shabby about the idea then they might turn into exorcist or something, but invite her sister and your sister that way they wont get the wrong idea...that way you can get to know her and win points with her sister and her family because you included her younger sister...start off slow, she seems very focus on what she wants to do (even thought she 15.5; you gotta start somewhere)..dont be trying to do much because of course the younger sisters will be watching...give her hints and say stuff in codes...hell text her lol...but dont and i repeat DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER UNTIL YOU KNOW THE FEELING IS MUTUAL...this can put any girl in a very weird position...and be yourself...make her like you for you!!!cosmetics makeup
You get it.
Her family and mine both used to be real religious and strict, but were not any more, but the relationship teen thing has lingered. There's a sort of unspoken disapproval of that.
She knows I like her. Her little sister asked her if she liked me and my little sister told me that the girl I love answered really vaguly. She acts like she likes me. Everyone knows I like her.
I want to communicate my feelings, I feel like I HAVE to, but I don't know how! If I tell her outright she'll think that's weird.
I'm 17 and she's a very mature 15.5 ( as in she already runs a sewing business by herself. Coordinates all the finances arranges all the shows.)
Advice? Anything is welcome! I'm not real experienced in this type of stuff.
Thanx 4 reading!Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
I wouldn't just come out with it, this may make her uncomfortable. Take it slow with small talk, maybe a walk. Every now and then, compliment her lightly, outfit, her smile, etc. not too heavy. Down the road tell her that you like her and you'd like to take her out to dinner. Remember, slow, it seems like she may be a little shy. Good luckNeed some general girl advice? Anyone?
try asking her to hang out (make sure u mention its NOT a date)
do smthng fun and interesting that guys will both love
also try to pick up something small %26amp; inexpensive beforehand
then if the time feels right, say something like ';ur a really special person, I'm glad I met you.....hey that reminds me I saw this the other day %26amp; it reminded me of u'; *presents gift*
who knows? she might end up saying it to u!!
hope i helped and good luck(:
awww!! i say do something really special to show that you like her. both of ur familes will surely understand if you show that you are really true.
tell her you like her a lot see were it goes
She probably does like you, just scared about the teen relationship thing too. Maybe she's bent on society that teen relationships hurt and don't last, and she doesn't want to risk being hurt.
I would just take it slow with her, and it will all unfold in time. Try to spend more time with her and wait for the perfect moment to express how you truly feel. She will express it too.
Don't be too persistent though, she will feel suffocated and feel like you're obsessed. She will be embarrassed.
All in all, be patient and good things will come!
Hope this helps!
take her out. not like a date, because if her parents are not to shabby about the idea then they might turn into exorcist or something, but invite her sister and your sister that way they wont get the wrong idea...that way you can get to know her and win points with her sister and her family because you included her younger sister...start off slow, she seems very focus on what she wants to do (even thought she 15.5; you gotta start somewhere)..dont be trying to do much because of course the younger sisters will be watching...give her hints and say stuff in codes...hell text her lol...but dont and i repeat DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER UNTIL YOU KNOW THE FEELING IS MUTUAL...this can put any girl in a very weird position...and be yourself...make her like you for you!!!
I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
okay i met this girl through myspace..talked a bit on there and moved to texting...this is the first girl i have really ever pursued (i'm shy) so i am extremely inexperienced in this situation. anyways, we haven't really spoken about dating stuff like what type of people we look for or anything like that (i want to though); just basically interests we both have and share...okay here's my question: should i mention to her that she's the only girl i have really pursued or really ever tried to get to know? and that i really like talking to her?..the reason i am asking this is because i don't want to come off too strong and or as a desperate/lonely dude. would you be weirded out about a guy that has never really had a girl friend at the age of 22 O.o (she's 20 btw)? should i say anything or just forget about it? this girl is super cool and i don't want to blow it..thanks.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.
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