There's this girl that goes to another local high school (we're both freshman. We've never really talked to each other in person) that I started talking to on myspace two days ago. we were talking for about 20 minutes and then she said that she had to go and gave me her phone number. then we texted all day. then we talked on myspace till about 1 am and then she messaged me and said that she was logging off and said '; text me if you want to, If not, sweet dreams'; it was kinda late so I took the second choice. I texted her at about 1 pm yesterday and we texted each other for a while and then I had to go do something. when i got back I texted her and she didn't reply, but then i went on myspace and she was on, so we talked for awhile. Is she interested in me or does she like me?I need some girl advice?
ahah, well that was deatiled :)
umm i think shes interested.
i'm not gonna Be like everyone else and say 'shes a 50 yr old rapist' cause she prolly isn't.
so, go for it :DI need some girl advice?
You know texting is great but a conversation with actual voices is so much better, Call her up and talk to her and you will probably be able to tell a whole lot more. Good luck
i recon she does like u and definiately seems interested in u if she's tellin u to txt her a like 1am.
i say go for gold.
1. Be Yourself. If you try to act all macho when you're not, you are telling the girl, ';I'm such a bad person that I have to pretend to be a better one.'; That is probably not true. Loosen up and let this girl see how you really are.
2. Smile. This can help a lot. It shows that you are enjoying the conversation and that you feel comfortable, which will make the girl continue talking with you.
3. Bring something up but don't seem too obvious about liking them. When you talk just be yourself, then you can see if the girl likes you for who you really are.
4. Look in her eyes and be serious and not desperate. But if she looks away don't try it again. When she looks away, it's sometimes her way of saying ';oh great, I don't like you, but how can I be nice about it';. Most likely, she's just nervous. Which is good! It means that she likes you back.
5. Be interested in her opinions and thoughts on different subjects. Listen intently when she speaks. Girls like guys that listen to them and like what they say. Don't constantly interrupt her, let her talk and share thoughts with you.
6. Comment on her sense of humor, good taste in music, or prowess on the dance floor. It's all right to compliment her clothes, hair, jewelry, etc., but you'll really win a girl's heart if she sees that you're into more than just her outside.
7. Don't tell girls %26amp;dash; for that matter, anyone at all %26amp;dash; they have a flaw unless you are obviously poking fun at them, even then only if you know they can take a joke, and know you well enough to know how to react to your teasing. Otherwise you risk putting them off.
8. Be funny. If you can make her laugh, you've as good as got her number then and there.
9. Don't try too hard. Girls will see you as needy and will not be attracted to you.
10. Be confident in yourself and don't be afraid of saying something stupid. If you're not afraid then you probably won't. If you have been friends with her for years, and are comfortable talking pretend you are just talking to her about another girl you like.
11. Make her laugh. Tell her you like her ear rings for example. Maybe if you are sitting next to her you could put an arm around the chair or something. If she clearly does not want you... give up. You will be made fun of by every single girl if she doesn't like you and dumps you in front of everyone. If you want to ask her out,do it in private, people spread rumors.
* Dont be afraid to talk to her.
* Always be yourself.
* Never insult a girl unless you know she will take it as a joke.
* Do not touch or talk about her stomach, most girls, no matter how thin, think they are fat. This is definitely a no-go area for most girls.
* Try to get along with her friends as without them on your side you've got no chance.
* No matter what don't leave telling her how you feel for too long. If you think she might like you then ask her out. After all, she can only say no.
* Don't approach her if you know she has a boyfriend, as it is a lost cause (for the time being) and you don't want to offend her boyfriend!
* If she doesn't seem happy with you, leave her be for two days without approaching her, that will give her time to cool down and think straight again. After a couple of days she will be ready to talk to you again.
* Never make a comment about her weight!
* Don't talk about other girls in front of her, and never compare her to other girls.
* DON'T talk about guy stuff. Most girls would rather you not talk about disturbing topics while they are present!!!!
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need some girl advice. help please i'm desperate?
so i really really like this girl. shes super amazing. i just cant figure her out. we are seniors in highschool and ive liked her since i met her last year. she knew i liked her but didnt have any feelings for me, but i respected that. During the summer we hung out as friends but at the beginning of school she deff liked me. i know she did. she sat by me, invited me over all the time, called me, txted me constantly, flirted with me. but about 2 weeks ago she meant some other dude, which was a huge bummer, but again i respected her decisions. she didnt txt me at all or even sit with me in class. she was mean to me but yeah. anyways class was canceled last friday, and her and i and some other chick ended up hanging out for a while. i told her 'you look older then you actually are' and she said 'thats good cuz i like a guy whose 19'... but the next day she txted me for the first time and has been sitting with me again now. she asked me to go see a class movie together but ditched at the last minute. i'm so confused. help please. she i play hard to get? it seems like she only goes for 'badboys' and 'players' what should i do? i REALLY like herI need some girl advice. help please i'm desperate?
once you two are alone and talking.
pull her her closer to you by grabbing
her hands and pulling her gently to you.
if she does not pull away pull her closer.
now you lean in for a kiss. if she lets you
kiss her for more then 3seconds continue
until she starts kissing you back. then
pull away tell her playfully she talks to
much, then kiss her again for about 15
seconds.then after you two are done
making out, ask her if she likes you now.
this should work, good luck to you!
once you two are alone and talking.
pull her her closer to you by grabbing
her hands and pulling her gently to you.
if she does not pull away pull her closer.
now you lean in for a kiss. if she lets you
kiss her for more then 3seconds continue
until she starts kissing you back. then
pull away tell her playfully she talks to
much, then kiss her again for about 15
seconds.then after you two are done
making out, ask her if she likes you now.
this should work, good luck to you!
Need some shy girl advice?
When I told this shy girl I liked her the beginning of the summer, she said she liked me as a friend and hoped to continue to be friends. Whatever, told her I moved on.
Lately when I am around her now, she makes eye contact with me, looks away, and plays with or touches her hair and looks away. Same when I'm close to her. She was in a convo and she just smiled, looked at me, and looked down, and walked away.
Her friend was joking with me and something like ';don't worry, there are people who still love you'; and she looked at the shy girl.
I think I'm going to talk to her Monday and see what's up, but would you say she is now attracted to me or she is just shy and is nervous about the akwardness?Need some shy girl advice?
Hi from France 鈾?br>
Your story is cute !.. I think this girl is not only a little attracted by you, but too she is shy and probably nervous !..
Have a great week-end,
Cat.Need some shy girl advice?
Uhm, I think she has a little feelings for you, but she is probably
really nervous also! I'm a shy girl myself, %26amp; I play with my hair
or bite my lip when I'm nervous, or if its awkward!
But yes talk to her, see what's going on! she is she has any feelings
for you, %26amp; if she does go get her boy :)
Good Luck.
Lately when I am around her now, she makes eye contact with me, looks away, and plays with or touches her hair and looks away. Same when I'm close to her. She was in a convo and she just smiled, looked at me, and looked down, and walked away.
Her friend was joking with me and something like ';don't worry, there are people who still love you'; and she looked at the shy girl.
I think I'm going to talk to her Monday and see what's up, but would you say she is now attracted to me or she is just shy and is nervous about the akwardness?Need some shy girl advice?
Hi from France 鈾?br>
Your story is cute !.. I think this girl is not only a little attracted by you, but too she is shy and probably nervous !..
Have a great week-end,
Cat.Need some shy girl advice?
Uhm, I think she has a little feelings for you, but she is probably
really nervous also! I'm a shy girl myself, %26amp; I play with my hair
or bite my lip when I'm nervous, or if its awkward!
But yes talk to her, see what's going on! she is she has any feelings
for you, %26amp; if she does go get her boy :)
Good Luck.
Need a little girl advice/help?
So I met this girl when I was 14 years old, and we had a crush on each other then, but we were both young. We continued on with our lives and now I ran into her recently and we have been talking everyday, all day, for the past 3 weeks. (we are both 18 now.) Hanging out, watching movies, etc. She was head over heels for me, but I wasn't into her as much as she was me. Recently she has been falling away from me, not wanting to hang out as much, not speaking as much, and it's really starting to bother me. I realized that I do like her more than I thought and I'm afraid that she isn't feeling the same anymore. She seems like she may be playing hard to get also... but It's really hard to tell. What should I do? Should I be straight up with her and ask what's up?Need a little girl advice/help?
She might have just gotten tired of waiting for you to come around so she's backing off.
I suggest you just tell her how you're feeling. It's the best thing to do in this situation since she thinks you're not into her (why she's backing off). Tell her how you feel and that you want to give being together a try. See what she says and go from there.Need a little girl advice/help?
Yeah be straight up and ask her what is up, maybe she was hoping you would ask her out and maybe the relationship would progress or maybe not. The only way to be sure is to ask her what she is feeling and let her know how you feel about her.
Just straight out ask her if she thinks that you two may become a couple. You need to know how to continue, and if she isn't feeling it and you do something to make her uncomfortable because you don't know any better, then you may lose a friend.
She seems like she tried to get you to ask her out on a date and stuff...but you didn't. So she's giving you some time. You need to just hurry hurry and make a move. Tell her how you feel.
Ask her out (: Tell her you miss her x] Sweet stuff enhance the goodness Lol
she s probably disappointed that you guys didn't go out and she given up kiss her by surprise or ask her out or you should be straight with her she still likes you she just got tired of waiting for you to like her to and stuff hope this helps.
Yes, yes and yes. Ten to one because you knew she once cared a lot you played it cool this time around.
She may not want to be the one who cares the most again.
Show her and tell her, that she won't be.
Being honest is Always the best answer.
Be blunt and ask.
Playing games will only lead to more confusion.
Take her to a place that is quiet where you can just focus. Turn off your phone.
And just ask.
Anita
Yea but just don't do it with the atatude just say hey whats up in a gental voice and ask her to the movies again or somethin
maybe shes laying back a little because she saw you werent as into her. I say talk to her about how you both feel or maybe act more into her (now that you realize you really do like her) and see how she responds.
you messed up a bit but yeah talk to her tell her how your feeling then ask her whats up sometimes windows don't stay open as long as we like
* Well maybe she is afraid that she is gna fall for you again and loose you again ? MAKE a move Already !!! *
you are to little to date
yeah if you want her go get her
yeah i would tel her how you feel about her and that you need to know weather she wants to take your friendship further. she might be playing hard to get but she also might not want to mess up what she feels for you if she does feel any thing for you. as when You spend A lot of time with someone it can start to get hard as your with the same person all the time. that's doesn't mean she doesn't want to be with you it just means she needs her space just like you do. so i would say go for it and good luck.
if you like her then ask her out.
If you don't care for her that way then just be her friend and let her distance herself from you so she can get over you and look for someone who wants her.
No game playing, no head tripping, no wanting to keep her around to stroke your ego when your ';something better'; isn't available.
Just be honest with yourself about what your motivations are and then be honest with her about where you stand.
and don't drag your feet. She's on her way out and if you want something with her you need to let her know now.
Good Luck.
I've seen this one so many times when I was younger. Unfortunately, it is all about the game. It sounds like she was truly interested in you when you guys met up again and started hanging out. The problem now is that you gave her too much attention. If you do that too early in a relationship the other party will loose interest. You need to distance yourself now. The only way you might pull this one back is if you play it cool. Don't act needy, wait a while and let her contact you. If she doesn't then it might be too late but you can try to give her a call after a couple weeks. If you do get the spark back then you have to still take it slow. Make her wonder if you really like her and make her work a little.
She might have just gotten tired of waiting for you to come around so she's backing off.
I suggest you just tell her how you're feeling. It's the best thing to do in this situation since she thinks you're not into her (why she's backing off). Tell her how you feel and that you want to give being together a try. See what she says and go from there.Need a little girl advice/help?
Yeah be straight up and ask her what is up, maybe she was hoping you would ask her out and maybe the relationship would progress or maybe not. The only way to be sure is to ask her what she is feeling and let her know how you feel about her.
Just straight out ask her if she thinks that you two may become a couple. You need to know how to continue, and if she isn't feeling it and you do something to make her uncomfortable because you don't know any better, then you may lose a friend.
She seems like she tried to get you to ask her out on a date and stuff...but you didn't. So she's giving you some time. You need to just hurry hurry and make a move. Tell her how you feel.
Ask her out (: Tell her you miss her x] Sweet stuff enhance the goodness Lol
she s probably disappointed that you guys didn't go out and she given up kiss her by surprise or ask her out or you should be straight with her she still likes you she just got tired of waiting for you to like her to and stuff hope this helps.
Yes, yes and yes. Ten to one because you knew she once cared a lot you played it cool this time around.
She may not want to be the one who cares the most again.
Show her and tell her, that she won't be.
Being honest is Always the best answer.
Be blunt and ask.
Playing games will only lead to more confusion.
Take her to a place that is quiet where you can just focus. Turn off your phone.
And just ask.
Anita
Yea but just don't do it with the atatude just say hey whats up in a gental voice and ask her to the movies again or somethin
maybe shes laying back a little because she saw you werent as into her. I say talk to her about how you both feel or maybe act more into her (now that you realize you really do like her) and see how she responds.
you messed up a bit but yeah talk to her tell her how your feeling then ask her whats up sometimes windows don't stay open as long as we like
* Well maybe she is afraid that she is gna fall for you again and loose you again ? MAKE a move Already !!! *
you are to little to date
yeah if you want her go get her
yeah i would tel her how you feel about her and that you need to know weather she wants to take your friendship further. she might be playing hard to get but she also might not want to mess up what she feels for you if she does feel any thing for you. as when You spend A lot of time with someone it can start to get hard as your with the same person all the time. that's doesn't mean she doesn't want to be with you it just means she needs her space just like you do. so i would say go for it and good luck.
if you like her then ask her out.
If you don't care for her that way then just be her friend and let her distance herself from you so she can get over you and look for someone who wants her.
No game playing, no head tripping, no wanting to keep her around to stroke your ego when your ';something better'; isn't available.
Just be honest with yourself about what your motivations are and then be honest with her about where you stand.
and don't drag your feet. She's on her way out and if you want something with her you need to let her know now.
Good Luck.
I've seen this one so many times when I was younger. Unfortunately, it is all about the game. It sounds like she was truly interested in you when you guys met up again and started hanging out. The problem now is that you gave her too much attention. If you do that too early in a relationship the other party will loose interest. You need to distance yourself now. The only way you might pull this one back is if you play it cool. Don't act needy, wait a while and let her contact you. If she doesn't then it might be too late but you can try to give her a call after a couple weeks. If you do get the spark back then you have to still take it slow. Make her wonder if you really like her and make her work a little.
This girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
So this one girl at my school likes me. She's nice and pretty cool. We went to the movies once and it was okay. I cant really be myself around her though i dunno why. The girl I like is in my art class and we talk a lot, and hang out a lot and I feel so comfortable around her.
So here's my Dilemma:
I want to ask the girl in my art class out, but i don't want to hurt the other girl's feelings cause we've been friends since middle school. So i don't really know how to tell the one girl we can just be friends.
side note:
I had to tell this one girl(not one of the two mentioned above) it wasn't going to work out between us earlier this year, and she got really mad and i don't know whyThis girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
if the girl that you just want to be friends with if she a cool girl then she understand just make sure you tell her in a nice way. and ask the girl out that you like ,thats in your art class. This girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
just be honest with boffadem. Tell the one that you want to be friends, tell the other you want to go out.cosmetics makeup
So here's my Dilemma:
I want to ask the girl in my art class out, but i don't want to hurt the other girl's feelings cause we've been friends since middle school. So i don't really know how to tell the one girl we can just be friends.
side note:
I had to tell this one girl(not one of the two mentioned above) it wasn't going to work out between us earlier this year, and she got really mad and i don't know whyThis girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
if the girl that you just want to be friends with if she a cool girl then she understand just make sure you tell her in a nice way. and ask the girl out that you like ,thats in your art class. This girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
just be honest with boffadem. Tell the one that you want to be friends, tell the other you want to go out.
I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
theres this girl in my class (in college) for about 7 weeks now and there are about 3 more weeks to go.
i only see her for 1 hour 2 times a week, shes in lecture but she sits on the other side of this huge room 2 other times a week but i dont go up to her after because i dont want to seem all eager only to get disappointed. The other classes are smaller so i get a better excuse to talk to her after this class. i talk to her for about 5 minutes on the way to her next class even though my next class is completely the opposite direction (she doesnt know that). i might have over heard her saying ';love you'; when she was talking on her phone once. im hoping she was talking to her parents.
this is my concern. she hasnt been dismissive to me when i talk to her. im sure she has a clue i like her. its been 2 weeks since i started talking to her. i kinda want her to start coming up to me to talk. what should i do and what im a missing or not doing or should be doing. how would you go about it.I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Don't assume that she knows you're interested. It might seem obvious to you, but you don't know what's in her head. If you want to go out with her, then ask her. You've got nothing to loose, and if she's not interested, then you can stop waisting time thinking about her, and move on to somebody who is right for you. Good luck!I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Hi John,
Just ask her out for coffee or a real date and you will get a much better sense of where she is coming from. Good luck Pal.
i only see her for 1 hour 2 times a week, shes in lecture but she sits on the other side of this huge room 2 other times a week but i dont go up to her after because i dont want to seem all eager only to get disappointed. The other classes are smaller so i get a better excuse to talk to her after this class. i talk to her for about 5 minutes on the way to her next class even though my next class is completely the opposite direction (she doesnt know that). i might have over heard her saying ';love you'; when she was talking on her phone once. im hoping she was talking to her parents.
this is my concern. she hasnt been dismissive to me when i talk to her. im sure she has a clue i like her. its been 2 weeks since i started talking to her. i kinda want her to start coming up to me to talk. what should i do and what im a missing or not doing or should be doing. how would you go about it.I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Don't assume that she knows you're interested. It might seem obvious to you, but you don't know what's in her head. If you want to go out with her, then ask her. You've got nothing to loose, and if she's not interested, then you can stop waisting time thinking about her, and move on to somebody who is right for you. Good luck!I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Hi John,
Just ask her out for coffee or a real date and you will get a much better sense of where she is coming from. Good luck Pal.
2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
im 16 years old. female. i dated this boy, brandon, for a few months about a year ago. ever since we broke up, i've always really wanted him back but we only talked a little in the past year. he recently called me and we went on a date a few nights ago. it seems like he only wants me back though because he wants a girlfriend. im not sure if he just knew i would get back with him so he came running back to me when no other girl wanted him. but then again, he could just miss me and want me back. but when we were broken up, i became friends with a boy named blake. we got pretty close and a few nights before brandon called me, i told brandon that i liked him and he said he liked me too. but i dont know if he likes me enough to go out with me. he could have just said that for all i know. but there is a chance that he could really like me and me and blake could have something..i really like him..but i really like my ex and i want him back too. i cant have both though. so if you were me, what would you do? advice, please?2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
2 boys, 1 girl 1 cup lol2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
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2 boys, 1 girl 1 cup lol2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
2 girls 1 finger was worse than 2 girls 1 cup. It had nothing to do with fingers, just a sequel to 2 girls 1 cup.
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