ok so me and this girl have known each other for about 4 years and for the past 2 we have been really good friends. it isn't the kinda of relationship where we don't ever talk in person cuz we do all the time and we also text a lot but she has a boyfriend who used to be my best friend and she keeps telling me that she wants to break up with her. i mean i really like her a lot. whenever she walks in a room she just like stands out to me. like shes walks in and i just notice her. its kinda like if you found $100 on the ground. every time she walks into a room i get that feeling. now that tells you how much i like her lol. but her boyfriend is like the most protective person ever, he wont let her talk to any guys. but we text all the time and she tells me pretty much everything about her social life. and shes telling me that she has a junior stalker (junior as in junior in high school, we are freshman in high school) and she keeps telling me how cute he is. do you think that shes trying to get me jealous? is making someone jealous like saying u like them or anything like that? but yea i really like her shes really really cute. we have the same sense of humor and i think we would make a really cute couple. so yea what do you think? do you think she likes me and does making someone u like jealous with another person kinda like flirting? when we talk in person she usually looks away when shes talking to me and blinks slowly when she repeats things if i didn't hear if that helps. she also laughs at sexual things. like the that's what she said jokes. like she'll be like bend down to one of her friends and laugh lol. and sometimes when shes talking to her friend in school and i turn around sometimes shell look at me and smile and stop the conversation with her friend. SOMETIMES tho. not always. thanks. and also her friends are kinda friendly with me. so do u think that means she told them and their being nice or something for some reason lol im sooooooo confused with all this. but all i really care about is do u think she likes me haha thanks again!I need some girl advice...........?
id say she likes you. i have the same thing with a girl i like. same situation. really weird how similar it is.I need some girl advice...........?
Shes crazy about you.
You seem to examine this girl...alot! Well as for the entire trying to make you jealous thing, She might be able to, but she has a really immature way of doing it. I mean if she knows your jealous already because of her boyfriend, why try to make you even more?, well I think you should confess your infatuation to her and then see if you go places, from my experience I can tell she's one of the typical teenage crushes that don't last for more than two weeks...but...you never know.
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need some girl advice?
Ok so i have this amazing girl friend who i really love. there is only one problem. im being to clingy and she doesnt like it. what i want to be like is one of those guys who knows when to bee funny and when to be serious. she is my first gf and ive always imagined it as just a relationship where when we need to be serious we can be but i can also make her laugh and comfort her and just do everything that a boy friend should do. the clingyness though is driving her away which i dont want to happen. please just give me all of the advice you can because i really want to be with this girl forever. thanks!!!I need some girl advice?
First of all you seem like the kind of guy ever girl wants. It's hard when you're more emotional than your partner but when it's your first love that happens. You don't know how to find the right balance. My suggestion would be to hang out with your guy friends more. I think that would actually make her want you around more because she might realize your fine without her. People tend to get defensive when they feel you don't need them as much as they thought you did.I need some girl advice?
If you are 15 or younger, I'm sorry, but the truth is that you just won't be with this girl forever. You're both going to change so much.
Also, there are so many girls who are looking for a guy like you. So many guys are all about being funny all the time, and so many don't have a sense of humor at all. My advice is to let this girl go, because clearly you are much more devoted to her happiness than she is to yours, and there are a lot of better girls out there who will love your ';clingy-ness.';
Just stop it, also to fix with your clinginess it just means you haven't been with her in a while. It should go away after a few months of being together. Just tell her it's just temporary and it's normal. It just a strange emotion human have when they really have feelings for the person.
Also don't say you want to be with her forever...see how things turn out. I'm with my first girlfriend and we seem like the perfect couple. But I don't believe unless things work out real swell. So far so good, but I don't believe in fairy stories...
My boyfriend is the same way. Just kinda chill out. Let her say ';I love you'; or ';I missed you first';. Let her start the conversations :) It'll help. Just ask her what's wrong %26amp; stuff like that. Don't get too sensible.
aw. ok so yes i could maybe help. just try to back off a little give your girlfriend some space. or just talk to her in the morning and then hang out just every weekend or every other weekend. but so i think u mean clingy as in seeing her every day?
idk what clingyness is but im 15 years old and i always make my girl laugh bye acting hype and just acting kinda goofy lol but like if its jsut u to at a movies or something show her ur romantic side n if u argue just make a joke about it .. never let her think ur seriouse
all i can say is give her space at times and don't be so clingy you can be clingy once in awhile but not all the time
good luck with your relationship
and hope i helped
well remember that girls need space just like guys so make sure to note when she just wants time ti her self or just the girls
just try not to talk to her every second that your able to.and make her think your interesting to her
my dad is clingy with his girl friend and she doesn't like it so try to love her but not suffocate her with love
talk it our with her girls are mature and will understand your feelings!
First of all you seem like the kind of guy ever girl wants. It's hard when you're more emotional than your partner but when it's your first love that happens. You don't know how to find the right balance. My suggestion would be to hang out with your guy friends more. I think that would actually make her want you around more because she might realize your fine without her. People tend to get defensive when they feel you don't need them as much as they thought you did.I need some girl advice?
If you are 15 or younger, I'm sorry, but the truth is that you just won't be with this girl forever. You're both going to change so much.
Also, there are so many girls who are looking for a guy like you. So many guys are all about being funny all the time, and so many don't have a sense of humor at all. My advice is to let this girl go, because clearly you are much more devoted to her happiness than she is to yours, and there are a lot of better girls out there who will love your ';clingy-ness.';
Just stop it, also to fix with your clinginess it just means you haven't been with her in a while. It should go away after a few months of being together. Just tell her it's just temporary and it's normal. It just a strange emotion human have when they really have feelings for the person.
Also don't say you want to be with her forever...see how things turn out. I'm with my first girlfriend and we seem like the perfect couple. But I don't believe unless things work out real swell. So far so good, but I don't believe in fairy stories...
My boyfriend is the same way. Just kinda chill out. Let her say ';I love you'; or ';I missed you first';. Let her start the conversations :) It'll help. Just ask her what's wrong %26amp; stuff like that. Don't get too sensible.
aw. ok so yes i could maybe help. just try to back off a little give your girlfriend some space. or just talk to her in the morning and then hang out just every weekend or every other weekend. but so i think u mean clingy as in seeing her every day?
idk what clingyness is but im 15 years old and i always make my girl laugh bye acting hype and just acting kinda goofy lol but like if its jsut u to at a movies or something show her ur romantic side n if u argue just make a joke about it .. never let her think ur seriouse
all i can say is give her space at times and don't be so clingy you can be clingy once in awhile but not all the time
good luck with your relationship
and hope i helped
well remember that girls need space just like guys so make sure to note when she just wants time ti her self or just the girls
just try not to talk to her every second that your able to.and make her think your interesting to her
my dad is clingy with his girl friend and she doesn't like it so try to love her but not suffocate her with love
talk it our with her girls are mature and will understand your feelings!
I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
okay, so i've been talking to this girl, and she is pretty freakin awesome.
i think i've been picking up some signs? but not totally sure..
anyways.. we were going to see a movie last night. just the two of us. but about an hour before the movie she called me and said her friend was having a bad day and asked if she could come. i though something was up until i got there and her friend looked pissed off. anyways does her friend going along mean anything?
she treated me really well and did not stop smiling when we were talking afterwards. she also gave me a dramatic ';byeee michaelll';
you know.. that kind of thing?
so what should i do today?
send her an email saying i had a good time?
text?
call her?
any and all advice is welcome :D
and i will choose a best answer : )I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
I think that this girl likes you but is probably too nervous to be around you alone...make her feel comfortable so that she doesn't have to resort to dragging friens along on dates!!!
Text her saying that it was fun and next time suggest something more public like mini golf so thre's lots of people around...anything that u both enjoy...!
Or you can try takin her out with friends for bowling or lunch so she feels comfortable and then approach her to take her out on a date!!!
Anyhow i hope this works out!!!
Njoi!!!
P.S. Pick me!!!I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
Two reasons for her actions.
1) Her friend was only pissed off for being drug along because your date doesnt want to be alone with you.
2) She was helping her friend out during a bad time.
If its the first, then make sure the signals you think you are getting are for real.
If it's the second, then call her and tell her that you had fun (even with the third wheel). Make sure you become friends with her friend. Her approval of you may seal it.
Awee so cute :)
Anways her bringing her friend doesn't mean shes not into you.. like she said her friend was having a bad day and you even said she looked pissed off. So she was just trying to be a good friend by getting her out of the house.
I think you should text something cute like ';Hey hows your day going maybe we can hang out later, just the two of us?';
Goodluck :)
umm...yeah it means that tha girl you like didnt want to be alone with you. it means she would have felt akward if she didnt have her friend. she still likes you but she just wanted her friend there for support. her friend was probaly fine she just said that so u would let her come. but yeah you should tottally email her if she replys on a good note call her.
Well she must have felt guilty for bringing her friend along. That is why she gave you a goodbye. When her friend is pissed off, she takes care of her. The girl is pretty awsome. So anyway, if you look like you only mind what happened a little, and ask her for a favor, then you might get something good*wink wink*
Like in dancing, the man has to lead. Do not get caught up in debating things with yourself on how to proceed. Sooner or later, you'll talk yourself out of the best response. So, ask yourself what do you want and then act out. If you push things too far, your instincts will let you know to pull back. As for girls, we're just as confused as you are. Leadership is important in getting a relationship to start.
i would send her a txt asking her if she had a good time she will appriciate that you care about what she thinks. then you could suggest that you 2 could do something else soon like bowling. do something whare the 2 of you can interact and not just sit silently in a movie theater. good luck
i think she really into u .like she said her friend was havin a bad day so if she wants to cheer her up then that must mean that she really kind and everythings so i think u should call or text her and say that u had a great time and ask if her friend is feelin any beter today.
i think she was just telling the truth, her friend was having a bad day and she needed to help her. i think you should call and maybe just talk to her. you don't even nessessarily need to talk about the movie. girls like phone calls.
yeah call her..
she probably just wanted to make her friend feel better..
i mean what are friends for?
she probably would have done the same for you
call her
tell her you had fun and you want to do it again..
and be considerate..-ask how her friend is doing
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I think she likes you :D
maybe call her
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awwwwwwwwwwwww! im pretty sure she likes u...expectually since she couldnt stop smiling! the next time u c her say u had a great time and mayb we could do it again sometime...someting along that line!
call and talk to her about last night. tell her how much fun you had and say maybe you guys should go for another movie.. she might like you back but maybe you should try asking and see if shes interested.
Girls love it when guys actually pay attention to them. You noticing those little things will mean a lot to her, trust me. Call her and talk, let her know you are thinking about her!
Good luck...
If she invited her friend to come long she was probably nervous about the fact of being alone with you. You should call her or something telling her you had a great time.
Shes definitely into you, If i were you i'd call or text her and tell her how much you enjoyed it. good luck man
make a move or you will regret it forever
text her. if you really want to call, but that could seem a bit extreme
you should call her and tell her u had a good time and talk to her as much as u can.. she probly likes u...
say u had a good time should do it again sort of thing. i like text messages
are u that dude from Tennessee
try hanging out with her again just the two of u and u should text or call her
call her : Hows ur friend doing? whatever u can to to reconnectt
i think i've been picking up some signs? but not totally sure..
anyways.. we were going to see a movie last night. just the two of us. but about an hour before the movie she called me and said her friend was having a bad day and asked if she could come. i though something was up until i got there and her friend looked pissed off. anyways does her friend going along mean anything?
she treated me really well and did not stop smiling when we were talking afterwards. she also gave me a dramatic ';byeee michaelll';
you know.. that kind of thing?
so what should i do today?
send her an email saying i had a good time?
text?
call her?
any and all advice is welcome :D
and i will choose a best answer : )I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
I think that this girl likes you but is probably too nervous to be around you alone...make her feel comfortable so that she doesn't have to resort to dragging friens along on dates!!!
Text her saying that it was fun and next time suggest something more public like mini golf so thre's lots of people around...anything that u both enjoy...!
Or you can try takin her out with friends for bowling or lunch so she feels comfortable and then approach her to take her out on a date!!!
Anyhow i hope this works out!!!
Njoi!!!
P.S. Pick me!!!I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
Two reasons for her actions.
1) Her friend was only pissed off for being drug along because your date doesnt want to be alone with you.
2) She was helping her friend out during a bad time.
If its the first, then make sure the signals you think you are getting are for real.
If it's the second, then call her and tell her that you had fun (even with the third wheel). Make sure you become friends with her friend. Her approval of you may seal it.
Awee so cute :)
Anways her bringing her friend doesn't mean shes not into you.. like she said her friend was having a bad day and you even said she looked pissed off. So she was just trying to be a good friend by getting her out of the house.
I think you should text something cute like ';Hey hows your day going maybe we can hang out later, just the two of us?';
Goodluck :)
umm...yeah it means that tha girl you like didnt want to be alone with you. it means she would have felt akward if she didnt have her friend. she still likes you but she just wanted her friend there for support. her friend was probaly fine she just said that so u would let her come. but yeah you should tottally email her if she replys on a good note call her.
Well she must have felt guilty for bringing her friend along. That is why she gave you a goodbye. When her friend is pissed off, she takes care of her. The girl is pretty awsome. So anyway, if you look like you only mind what happened a little, and ask her for a favor, then you might get something good*wink wink*
Like in dancing, the man has to lead. Do not get caught up in debating things with yourself on how to proceed. Sooner or later, you'll talk yourself out of the best response. So, ask yourself what do you want and then act out. If you push things too far, your instincts will let you know to pull back. As for girls, we're just as confused as you are. Leadership is important in getting a relationship to start.
i would send her a txt asking her if she had a good time she will appriciate that you care about what she thinks. then you could suggest that you 2 could do something else soon like bowling. do something whare the 2 of you can interact and not just sit silently in a movie theater. good luck
i think she really into u .like she said her friend was havin a bad day so if she wants to cheer her up then that must mean that she really kind and everythings so i think u should call or text her and say that u had a great time and ask if her friend is feelin any beter today.
i think she was just telling the truth, her friend was having a bad day and she needed to help her. i think you should call and maybe just talk to her. you don't even nessessarily need to talk about the movie. girls like phone calls.
yeah call her..
she probably just wanted to make her friend feel better..
i mean what are friends for?
she probably would have done the same for you
call her
tell her you had fun and you want to do it again..
and be considerate..-ask how her friend is doing
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I think she likes you :D
maybe call her
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awwwwwwwwwwwww! im pretty sure she likes u...expectually since she couldnt stop smiling! the next time u c her say u had a great time and mayb we could do it again sometime...someting along that line!
call and talk to her about last night. tell her how much fun you had and say maybe you guys should go for another movie.. she might like you back but maybe you should try asking and see if shes interested.
Girls love it when guys actually pay attention to them. You noticing those little things will mean a lot to her, trust me. Call her and talk, let her know you are thinking about her!
Good luck...
If she invited her friend to come long she was probably nervous about the fact of being alone with you. You should call her or something telling her you had a great time.
Shes definitely into you, If i were you i'd call or text her and tell her how much you enjoyed it. good luck man
make a move or you will regret it forever
text her. if you really want to call, but that could seem a bit extreme
you should call her and tell her u had a good time and talk to her as much as u can.. she probly likes u...
say u had a good time should do it again sort of thing. i like text messages
are u that dude from Tennessee
try hanging out with her again just the two of u and u should text or call her
call her : Hows ur friend doing? whatever u can to to reconnectt
I need help (girl advice).?
yeah there is this girl in my geometry class that sits right behind me. i've became friends with her 1-3 weeks ago. we fool around during class and somtimes out of class. i recently got her cell phone number. all seems to be going well but she does play hard to get. i have no idea how she really feels about me or if she has feelings for somone else. im a junior and shes a freshman (high school)and we all know how freshman can be very confusing. when i log on to Facebook i see she writes about somone she may have a crush on. and i doubt it is me. i do flirt with her and fool around with her but i feel like she isnt taking me seriously. should i stop joking around with her? should i find out if she likes anyone else? should i be more serious with her? please help me. thank youI need help (girl advice).?
I don't think you should totally give up on her, but if she seems like she flirts with a lot of other boys than you should be a little more cautious. Keep joking around with her, just be aware that she make like someone else. But, you also need to play hard to get. Say something witty to her in class, then go talk to someone else. Don't put all of your attention on her and make sure she's aware that your not wrapped around her finger.
Talk to your friends, they probably know the situation a lot better and they'll be able to help you out.I need help (girl advice).?
ooooh i like that game: playing hard to get. dude i think she definately likes you. if i were you i would continue to tease and joke around with her. even if she doesn't like you, at least you tried. and you should only do this if you like her back.
hey, i think u keep on being friends with her. if u get a little closer, than i would maybe just ask her who she likes. but keep on flirtinggg!
unless you want to keep wallowing in this confused state, just be blunt. ppull her aside or talk to her on facebook and ask her if she wants you or not cause if not you want to move on and stop wasting your time. most likely, she just wants to know your into her too.
dats a tuffy. i say jus ask her over da fone or text. dont mak it sound so serious therefore she b more comfortable telln da truth. but in the meanwhile u need to withdraw a bit until your are for sure what your getting into. she may like you enough for u to havea chance with her if anything.
I don't think you should totally give up on her, but if she seems like she flirts with a lot of other boys than you should be a little more cautious. Keep joking around with her, just be aware that she make like someone else. But, you also need to play hard to get. Say something witty to her in class, then go talk to someone else. Don't put all of your attention on her and make sure she's aware that your not wrapped around her finger.
Talk to your friends, they probably know the situation a lot better and they'll be able to help you out.I need help (girl advice).?
ooooh i like that game: playing hard to get. dude i think she definately likes you. if i were you i would continue to tease and joke around with her. even if she doesn't like you, at least you tried. and you should only do this if you like her back.
hey, i think u keep on being friends with her. if u get a little closer, than i would maybe just ask her who she likes. but keep on flirtinggg!
unless you want to keep wallowing in this confused state, just be blunt. ppull her aside or talk to her on facebook and ask her if she wants you or not cause if not you want to move on and stop wasting your time. most likely, she just wants to know your into her too.
dats a tuffy. i say jus ask her over da fone or text. dont mak it sound so serious therefore she b more comfortable telln da truth. but in the meanwhile u need to withdraw a bit until your are for sure what your getting into. she may like you enough for u to havea chance with her if anything.
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So I like this girl at school. And I notice her looking at me alot either in the hallway or in class. In the hallway she glances back really quick.. In the classroom she has her knees my direction and is looking at me or in my direction.. Now she started going out with this other guy at my school like 5 days ago.... There is a dance at my school soon and I don't know if I should ask her out or not. Before she started going out with the guy she said that she didn't want to go out with the guy because school is about to end and she doesn't think he will get anywhere in life. No one knows that I like her though.. Should I ask her to the dance, wait until they break up and ask her during summer, or ask her out next school year?Help Relationship Need Girl Advice?
just walk up to her and say - ';i know you're going out with this guy but i think we should get together. i really like you and i think we would be better together.';cosmetics makeup
just walk up to her and say - ';i know you're going out with this guy but i think we should get together. i really like you and i think we would be better together.';
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I been hanging out with this girl for about a week and we really hit it off, about a day ago things got awkward when we were walking home, she started getting really quiet and I told her I knew she wanted to ask me out. She later asked me to phone her ( Usually she calls me ) anyways, she just called me, and she was with another guy, I know because she was texting him plans to meet up while we were hanging out ( I understand the keeping her options opened part ) but I thought it was just me and her. I told her that I wanted to take things slow and didn't want to date right now, so she might not be intrested in me anymore because I'm too slow for her ( she is usto living life in the fast lane ) this guy she is hanging out with now is a drug dealer. she is not a bad girl but she hangs around with the wrong people. I'm not a bad guy. what do I do? I don't want her to fall for another guy. I'm taking her to the fair this weekend, do you think she is just using me for money?PLEASE ANSWER THIS. Girl Advice Please!?
she sounds like a good girl and you should call her or text her and tell her how you really feel. say something like ';i know i might be a little slow pace for you but I think you should take your time with me rather than be with him whos probably got another girlfreind and will end up in prision.'; tell her shes to good for him and you think you could be better for her.
she sounds like a good girl and you should call her or text her and tell her how you really feel. say something like ';i know i might be a little slow pace for you but I think you should take your time with me rather than be with him whos probably got another girlfreind and will end up in prision.'; tell her shes to good for him and you think you could be better for her.
I need some girl advice?
There's this girl that goes to another local high school (we're both freshman. We've never really talked to each other in person) that I started talking to on myspace two days ago. we were talking for about 20 minutes and then she said that she had to go and gave me her phone number. then we texted all day. then we talked on myspace till about 1 am and then she messaged me and said that she was logging off and said '; text me if you want to, If not, sweet dreams'; it was kinda late so I took the second choice. I texted her at about 1 pm yesterday and we texted each other for a while and then I had to go do something. when i got back I texted her and she didn't reply, but then i went on myspace and she was on, so we talked for awhile. Is she interested in me or does she like me?I need some girl advice?
ahah, well that was deatiled :)
umm i think shes interested.
i'm not gonna Be like everyone else and say 'shes a 50 yr old rapist' cause she prolly isn't.
so, go for it :DI need some girl advice?
You know texting is great but a conversation with actual voices is so much better, Call her up and talk to her and you will probably be able to tell a whole lot more. Good luck
i recon she does like u and definiately seems interested in u if she's tellin u to txt her a like 1am.
i say go for gold.
1. Be Yourself. If you try to act all macho when you're not, you are telling the girl, ';I'm such a bad person that I have to pretend to be a better one.'; That is probably not true. Loosen up and let this girl see how you really are.
2. Smile. This can help a lot. It shows that you are enjoying the conversation and that you feel comfortable, which will make the girl continue talking with you.
3. Bring something up but don't seem too obvious about liking them. When you talk just be yourself, then you can see if the girl likes you for who you really are.
4. Look in her eyes and be serious and not desperate. But if she looks away don't try it again. When she looks away, it's sometimes her way of saying ';oh great, I don't like you, but how can I be nice about it';. Most likely, she's just nervous. Which is good! It means that she likes you back.
5. Be interested in her opinions and thoughts on different subjects. Listen intently when she speaks. Girls like guys that listen to them and like what they say. Don't constantly interrupt her, let her talk and share thoughts with you.
6. Comment on her sense of humor, good taste in music, or prowess on the dance floor. It's all right to compliment her clothes, hair, jewelry, etc., but you'll really win a girl's heart if she sees that you're into more than just her outside.
7. Don't tell girls %26amp;dash; for that matter, anyone at all %26amp;dash; they have a flaw unless you are obviously poking fun at them, even then only if you know they can take a joke, and know you well enough to know how to react to your teasing. Otherwise you risk putting them off.
8. Be funny. If you can make her laugh, you've as good as got her number then and there.
9. Don't try too hard. Girls will see you as needy and will not be attracted to you.
10. Be confident in yourself and don't be afraid of saying something stupid. If you're not afraid then you probably won't. If you have been friends with her for years, and are comfortable talking pretend you are just talking to her about another girl you like.
11. Make her laugh. Tell her you like her ear rings for example. Maybe if you are sitting next to her you could put an arm around the chair or something. If she clearly does not want you... give up. You will be made fun of by every single girl if she doesn't like you and dumps you in front of everyone. If you want to ask her out,do it in private, people spread rumors.
* Dont be afraid to talk to her.
* Always be yourself.
* Never insult a girl unless you know she will take it as a joke.
* Do not touch or talk about her stomach, most girls, no matter how thin, think they are fat. This is definitely a no-go area for most girls.
* Try to get along with her friends as without them on your side you've got no chance.
* No matter what don't leave telling her how you feel for too long. If you think she might like you then ask her out. After all, she can only say no.
* Don't approach her if you know she has a boyfriend, as it is a lost cause (for the time being) and you don't want to offend her boyfriend!
* If she doesn't seem happy with you, leave her be for two days without approaching her, that will give her time to cool down and think straight again. After a couple of days she will be ready to talk to you again.
* Never make a comment about her weight!
* Don't talk about other girls in front of her, and never compare her to other girls.
* DON'T talk about guy stuff. Most girls would rather you not talk about disturbing topics while they are present!!!!
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umm i think shes interested.
i'm not gonna Be like everyone else and say 'shes a 50 yr old rapist' cause she prolly isn't.
so, go for it :DI need some girl advice?
You know texting is great but a conversation with actual voices is so much better, Call her up and talk to her and you will probably be able to tell a whole lot more. Good luck
i recon she does like u and definiately seems interested in u if she's tellin u to txt her a like 1am.
i say go for gold.
1. Be Yourself. If you try to act all macho when you're not, you are telling the girl, ';I'm such a bad person that I have to pretend to be a better one.'; That is probably not true. Loosen up and let this girl see how you really are.
2. Smile. This can help a lot. It shows that you are enjoying the conversation and that you feel comfortable, which will make the girl continue talking with you.
3. Bring something up but don't seem too obvious about liking them. When you talk just be yourself, then you can see if the girl likes you for who you really are.
4. Look in her eyes and be serious and not desperate. But if she looks away don't try it again. When she looks away, it's sometimes her way of saying ';oh great, I don't like you, but how can I be nice about it';. Most likely, she's just nervous. Which is good! It means that she likes you back.
5. Be interested in her opinions and thoughts on different subjects. Listen intently when she speaks. Girls like guys that listen to them and like what they say. Don't constantly interrupt her, let her talk and share thoughts with you.
6. Comment on her sense of humor, good taste in music, or prowess on the dance floor. It's all right to compliment her clothes, hair, jewelry, etc., but you'll really win a girl's heart if she sees that you're into more than just her outside.
7. Don't tell girls %26amp;dash; for that matter, anyone at all %26amp;dash; they have a flaw unless you are obviously poking fun at them, even then only if you know they can take a joke, and know you well enough to know how to react to your teasing. Otherwise you risk putting them off.
8. Be funny. If you can make her laugh, you've as good as got her number then and there.
9. Don't try too hard. Girls will see you as needy and will not be attracted to you.
10. Be confident in yourself and don't be afraid of saying something stupid. If you're not afraid then you probably won't. If you have been friends with her for years, and are comfortable talking pretend you are just talking to her about another girl you like.
11. Make her laugh. Tell her you like her ear rings for example. Maybe if you are sitting next to her you could put an arm around the chair or something. If she clearly does not want you... give up. You will be made fun of by every single girl if she doesn't like you and dumps you in front of everyone. If you want to ask her out,do it in private, people spread rumors.
* Dont be afraid to talk to her.
* Always be yourself.
* Never insult a girl unless you know she will take it as a joke.
* Do not touch or talk about her stomach, most girls, no matter how thin, think they are fat. This is definitely a no-go area for most girls.
* Try to get along with her friends as without them on your side you've got no chance.
* No matter what don't leave telling her how you feel for too long. If you think she might like you then ask her out. After all, she can only say no.
* Don't approach her if you know she has a boyfriend, as it is a lost cause (for the time being) and you don't want to offend her boyfriend!
* If she doesn't seem happy with you, leave her be for two days without approaching her, that will give her time to cool down and think straight again. After a couple of days she will be ready to talk to you again.
* Never make a comment about her weight!
* Don't talk about other girls in front of her, and never compare her to other girls.
* DON'T talk about guy stuff. Most girls would rather you not talk about disturbing topics while they are present!!!!
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