I met a girl who lives two hours away. She is awesome! I like her. She likes me. The only thing is she lives in North Jersey and I live 100 miles away in South NJ. (100 miles, 2 hours, up the turnpike). Is it worth it, that kind of distance for a girl? I know love has no distance. But do you think it could really work?
Also, she has never had a boyfriend before, and I have had a few relationships. How do I go about bringing it down to her level so I don't become to aggressive (like huggging or holding hands)? She told me the whole dating thing is new and scary to her, but in a really good way.I need some girl advice from all of you :) :(?
Ok, first off, whether or not the long distance thing will work is up to the girl. I live in a small town so I usually date girls that live 1-2 hours away. From experience, every girl is different. My first girlfriend was always nagging on me for not talking to her enough and not coming to see her enough. My second girlfriend thought I talked to her to much and she needed her space. Your just gonna have to find a happy medium and keep in contact.
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Monday, August 23, 2010
Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
So I am head over heels in love with this girl. I would truly die for her. She is the best thing that's ever happened to me in the world.
You get it.
Her family and mine both used to be real religious and strict, but were not any more, but the relationship teen thing has lingered. There's a sort of unspoken disapproval of that.
She knows I like her. Her little sister asked her if she liked me and my little sister told me that the girl I love answered really vaguly. She acts like she likes me. Everyone knows I like her.
I want to communicate my feelings, I feel like I HAVE to, but I don't know how! If I tell her outright she'll think that's weird.
I'm 17 and she's a very mature 15.5 ( as in she already runs a sewing business by herself. Coordinates all the finances arranges all the shows.)
Advice? Anything is welcome! I'm not real experienced in this type of stuff.
Thanx 4 reading!Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
I wouldn't just come out with it, this may make her uncomfortable. Take it slow with small talk, maybe a walk. Every now and then, compliment her lightly, outfit, her smile, etc. not too heavy. Down the road tell her that you like her and you'd like to take her out to dinner. Remember, slow, it seems like she may be a little shy. Good luckNeed some general girl advice? Anyone?
try asking her to hang out (make sure u mention its NOT a date)
do smthng fun and interesting that guys will both love
also try to pick up something small %26amp; inexpensive beforehand
then if the time feels right, say something like ';ur a really special person, I'm glad I met you.....hey that reminds me I saw this the other day %26amp; it reminded me of u'; *presents gift*
who knows? she might end up saying it to u!!
hope i helped and good luck(:
awww!! i say do something really special to show that you like her. both of ur familes will surely understand if you show that you are really true.
tell her you like her a lot see were it goes
She probably does like you, just scared about the teen relationship thing too. Maybe she's bent on society that teen relationships hurt and don't last, and she doesn't want to risk being hurt.
I would just take it slow with her, and it will all unfold in time. Try to spend more time with her and wait for the perfect moment to express how you truly feel. She will express it too.
Don't be too persistent though, she will feel suffocated and feel like you're obsessed. She will be embarrassed.
All in all, be patient and good things will come!
Hope this helps!
take her out. not like a date, because if her parents are not to shabby about the idea then they might turn into exorcist or something, but invite her sister and your sister that way they wont get the wrong idea...that way you can get to know her and win points with her sister and her family because you included her younger sister...start off slow, she seems very focus on what she wants to do (even thought she 15.5; you gotta start somewhere)..dont be trying to do much because of course the younger sisters will be watching...give her hints and say stuff in codes...hell text her lol...but dont and i repeat DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER UNTIL YOU KNOW THE FEELING IS MUTUAL...this can put any girl in a very weird position...and be yourself...make her like you for you!!!cosmetics makeup
You get it.
Her family and mine both used to be real religious and strict, but were not any more, but the relationship teen thing has lingered. There's a sort of unspoken disapproval of that.
She knows I like her. Her little sister asked her if she liked me and my little sister told me that the girl I love answered really vaguly. She acts like she likes me. Everyone knows I like her.
I want to communicate my feelings, I feel like I HAVE to, but I don't know how! If I tell her outright she'll think that's weird.
I'm 17 and she's a very mature 15.5 ( as in she already runs a sewing business by herself. Coordinates all the finances arranges all the shows.)
Advice? Anything is welcome! I'm not real experienced in this type of stuff.
Thanx 4 reading!Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
I wouldn't just come out with it, this may make her uncomfortable. Take it slow with small talk, maybe a walk. Every now and then, compliment her lightly, outfit, her smile, etc. not too heavy. Down the road tell her that you like her and you'd like to take her out to dinner. Remember, slow, it seems like she may be a little shy. Good luckNeed some general girl advice? Anyone?
try asking her to hang out (make sure u mention its NOT a date)
do smthng fun and interesting that guys will both love
also try to pick up something small %26amp; inexpensive beforehand
then if the time feels right, say something like ';ur a really special person, I'm glad I met you.....hey that reminds me I saw this the other day %26amp; it reminded me of u'; *presents gift*
who knows? she might end up saying it to u!!
hope i helped and good luck(:
awww!! i say do something really special to show that you like her. both of ur familes will surely understand if you show that you are really true.
tell her you like her a lot see were it goes
She probably does like you, just scared about the teen relationship thing too. Maybe she's bent on society that teen relationships hurt and don't last, and she doesn't want to risk being hurt.
I would just take it slow with her, and it will all unfold in time. Try to spend more time with her and wait for the perfect moment to express how you truly feel. She will express it too.
Don't be too persistent though, she will feel suffocated and feel like you're obsessed. She will be embarrassed.
All in all, be patient and good things will come!
Hope this helps!
take her out. not like a date, because if her parents are not to shabby about the idea then they might turn into exorcist or something, but invite her sister and your sister that way they wont get the wrong idea...that way you can get to know her and win points with her sister and her family because you included her younger sister...start off slow, she seems very focus on what she wants to do (even thought she 15.5; you gotta start somewhere)..dont be trying to do much because of course the younger sisters will be watching...give her hints and say stuff in codes...hell text her lol...but dont and i repeat DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER UNTIL YOU KNOW THE FEELING IS MUTUAL...this can put any girl in a very weird position...and be yourself...make her like you for you!!!
I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
okay i met this girl through myspace..talked a bit on there and moved to texting...this is the first girl i have really ever pursued (i'm shy) so i am extremely inexperienced in this situation. anyways, we haven't really spoken about dating stuff like what type of people we look for or anything like that (i want to though); just basically interests we both have and share...okay here's my question: should i mention to her that she's the only girl i have really pursued or really ever tried to get to know? and that i really like talking to her?..the reason i am asking this is because i don't want to come off too strong and or as a desperate/lonely dude. would you be weirded out about a guy that has never really had a girl friend at the age of 22 O.o (she's 20 btw)? should i say anything or just forget about it? this girl is super cool and i don't want to blow it..thanks.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.
Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
So I am head over heels in love with this girl. I would truly die for her. She is the best thing that's ever happened to me in the world.
You get it.
Her family and mine both used to be real religious and strict, but were not any more, but the relationship teen thing has lingered. There's a sort of unspoken disapproval of that.
She knows I like her. Her little sister asked her if she liked me and my little sister told me that the girl I love answered really vaguly. She acts like she likes me. Everyone knows I like her.
I want to communicate my feelings, I feel like I HAVE to, but I don't know how! If I tell her outright she'll think that's weird.
I'm 17 and she's a very mature 15.5 ( as in she already runs a sewing business by herself. Coordinates all the finances arranges all the shows.)
Advice? Anything is welcome! I'm not real experienced in this type of stuff.
Thanx 4 reading!Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
I wouldn't just come out with it, this may make her uncomfortable. Take it slow with small talk, maybe a walk. Every now and then, compliment her lightly, outfit, her smile, etc. not too heavy. Down the road tell her that you like her and you'd like to take her out to dinner. Remember, slow, it seems like she may be a little shy. Good luckNeed some general girl advice? Anyone?
try asking her to hang out (make sure u mention its NOT a date)
do smthng fun and interesting that guys will both love
also try to pick up something small %26amp; inexpensive beforehand
then if the time feels right, say something like ';ur a really special person, I'm glad I met you.....hey that reminds me I saw this the other day %26amp; it reminded me of u'; *presents gift*
who knows? she might end up saying it to u!!
hope i helped and good luck(:
awww!! i say do something really special to show that you like her. both of ur familes will surely understand if you show that you are really true.
tell her you like her a lot see were it goes
She probably does like you, just scared about the teen relationship thing too. Maybe she's bent on society that teen relationships hurt and don't last, and she doesn't want to risk being hurt.
I would just take it slow with her, and it will all unfold in time. Try to spend more time with her and wait for the perfect moment to express how you truly feel. She will express it too.
Don't be too persistent though, she will feel suffocated and feel like you're obsessed. She will be embarrassed.
All in all, be patient and good things will come!
Hope this helps!
take her out. not like a date, because if her parents are not to shabby about the idea then they might turn into exorcist or something, but invite her sister and your sister that way they wont get the wrong idea...that way you can get to know her and win points with her sister and her family because you included her younger sister...start off slow, she seems very focus on what she wants to do (even thought she 15.5; you gotta start somewhere)..dont be trying to do much because of course the younger sisters will be watching...give her hints and say stuff in codes...hell text her lol...but dont and i repeat DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER UNTIL YOU KNOW THE FEELING IS MUTUAL...this can put any girl in a very weird position...and be yourself...make her like you for you!!!
You get it.
Her family and mine both used to be real religious and strict, but were not any more, but the relationship teen thing has lingered. There's a sort of unspoken disapproval of that.
She knows I like her. Her little sister asked her if she liked me and my little sister told me that the girl I love answered really vaguly. She acts like she likes me. Everyone knows I like her.
I want to communicate my feelings, I feel like I HAVE to, but I don't know how! If I tell her outright she'll think that's weird.
I'm 17 and she's a very mature 15.5 ( as in she already runs a sewing business by herself. Coordinates all the finances arranges all the shows.)
Advice? Anything is welcome! I'm not real experienced in this type of stuff.
Thanx 4 reading!Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
I wouldn't just come out with it, this may make her uncomfortable. Take it slow with small talk, maybe a walk. Every now and then, compliment her lightly, outfit, her smile, etc. not too heavy. Down the road tell her that you like her and you'd like to take her out to dinner. Remember, slow, it seems like she may be a little shy. Good luckNeed some general girl advice? Anyone?
try asking her to hang out (make sure u mention its NOT a date)
do smthng fun and interesting that guys will both love
also try to pick up something small %26amp; inexpensive beforehand
then if the time feels right, say something like ';ur a really special person, I'm glad I met you.....hey that reminds me I saw this the other day %26amp; it reminded me of u'; *presents gift*
who knows? she might end up saying it to u!!
hope i helped and good luck(:
awww!! i say do something really special to show that you like her. both of ur familes will surely understand if you show that you are really true.
tell her you like her a lot see were it goes
She probably does like you, just scared about the teen relationship thing too. Maybe she's bent on society that teen relationships hurt and don't last, and she doesn't want to risk being hurt.
I would just take it slow with her, and it will all unfold in time. Try to spend more time with her and wait for the perfect moment to express how you truly feel. She will express it too.
Don't be too persistent though, she will feel suffocated and feel like you're obsessed. She will be embarrassed.
All in all, be patient and good things will come!
Hope this helps!
take her out. not like a date, because if her parents are not to shabby about the idea then they might turn into exorcist or something, but invite her sister and your sister that way they wont get the wrong idea...that way you can get to know her and win points with her sister and her family because you included her younger sister...start off slow, she seems very focus on what she wants to do (even thought she 15.5; you gotta start somewhere)..dont be trying to do much because of course the younger sisters will be watching...give her hints and say stuff in codes...hell text her lol...but dont and i repeat DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER UNTIL YOU KNOW THE FEELING IS MUTUAL...this can put any girl in a very weird position...and be yourself...make her like you for you!!!
I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
okay i met this girl through myspace..talked a bit on there and moved to texting...this is the first girl i have really ever pursued (i'm shy) so i am extremely inexperienced in this situation. anyways, we haven't really spoken about dating stuff like what type of people we look for or anything like that (i want to though); just basically interests we both have and share...okay here's my question: should i mention to her that she's the only girl i have really pursued or really ever tried to get to know? and that i really like talking to her?..the reason i am asking this is because i don't want to come off too strong and or as a desperate/lonely dude. would you be weirded out about a guy that has never really had a girl friend at the age of 22 O.o (she's 20 btw)? should i say anything or just forget about it? this girl is super cool and i don't want to blow it..thanks.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.
Dating a ';unsure'; girl.... Advice please?
Well i've been dating this girl for about 3-4 weeks. The first week was mostly phone calls/ text / internet chatting 24/7 like literally. Then the 2nd week we met up, hooked up and act like gf/bf. But things are slowing down. (none the less good tho...) She tells me things are moving to fast... i agree but i think we have a special thing going and we should just ride the wave.
These past weeks, i've noticed we talk/ chat a lot less like its more level now? But its because she makes it that way.. and i really don't understand. We profess how much we like each other but she always comes voices her insecurities. (she was scared from a prior relationship) What am i suppose to do? I really like her, and dont want to lose her. So i try not to pry and initiate convo's. I've tried but i dont want to end up causing irreversible travesties.
Im ready and willing but she tells me things like... ';some days i feel like committing and some days i dont'; What am i suppose to do? Im also worried that since i need alot of attention and affection i might lose her during this hiatus. The 24/7 chatting was supplementing that need but since thats gone what else do i have left to stay?Dating a ';unsure'; girl.... Advice please?
i don麓t even care what you have to say about this girl... get away from unsure girls, been there done that, never going back.
insecurity leads to A LOT of problemsDating a ';unsure'; girl.... Advice please?
I think that best thing you can do is try to be her friend, then you can move forward from there. If shes worth your time then you shouldn't mind spending some time building up trust
IT's true what people said above me- unsure girls are bad bad news.
give her time
too much effort mate, you gotta decide if she's worth it
First give her some space and let her think real hard about this.
Like the other answer has said ';Unsure women leads to lots of confusing and heartache';.
It's true, i've been through the same **** too and all it did was hurt me. So best advice i can give you is let her be for a bit, give her a few weeks. Chill with her like you normally would. If she still feels strange about it, just tell her how you feel, make it seem like you mean the world to her and that you would do most anything for her and be by her side when she needs it most. Say it from the heart like you really mean it.
If she still feels unsure about you and acts in a strange way that makes you feel extremely uncomfortable....best thing you can do is just move on, it would be her lose if she lost the man that would give the world to her, not yours.
These past weeks, i've noticed we talk/ chat a lot less like its more level now? But its because she makes it that way.. and i really don't understand. We profess how much we like each other but she always comes voices her insecurities. (she was scared from a prior relationship) What am i suppose to do? I really like her, and dont want to lose her. So i try not to pry and initiate convo's. I've tried but i dont want to end up causing irreversible travesties.
Im ready and willing but she tells me things like... ';some days i feel like committing and some days i dont'; What am i suppose to do? Im also worried that since i need alot of attention and affection i might lose her during this hiatus. The 24/7 chatting was supplementing that need but since thats gone what else do i have left to stay?Dating a ';unsure'; girl.... Advice please?
i don麓t even care what you have to say about this girl... get away from unsure girls, been there done that, never going back.
insecurity leads to A LOT of problemsDating a ';unsure'; girl.... Advice please?
I think that best thing you can do is try to be her friend, then you can move forward from there. If shes worth your time then you shouldn't mind spending some time building up trust
IT's true what people said above me- unsure girls are bad bad news.
give her time
too much effort mate, you gotta decide if she's worth it
First give her some space and let her think real hard about this.
Like the other answer has said ';Unsure women leads to lots of confusing and heartache';.
It's true, i've been through the same **** too and all it did was hurt me. So best advice i can give you is let her be for a bit, give her a few weeks. Chill with her like you normally would. If she still feels strange about it, just tell her how you feel, make it seem like you mean the world to her and that you would do most anything for her and be by her side when she needs it most. Say it from the heart like you really mean it.
If she still feels unsure about you and acts in a strange way that makes you feel extremely uncomfortable....best thing you can do is just move on, it would be her lose if she lost the man that would give the world to her, not yours.
Help girl advice? ----------- I SAID TO HER ';I LIKE YOU';?
okay i told this girl i really like ';i like you'; - she replied to me i also like like you.......... :)
Now here is where im confused? - everyone says were always flirting - laughing touching each other etc ....... always together basically ........! (thats what others think and say to me)
She said to me although I like you ';I dont think anything should happen';? ........... :|
Bear in mind im pakistani shes indian ---------%26gt; Different religion/culture I dont know if that affects anything? - were both 17 studying at college.
But if she liked me why would she say ';i dont think anything should happen though';
Problem is i want to be with her but when she said that I was like ';whaat'; ?
Can someone please explain to me in detail - if she likes me why would she say that?
Thanks folks i really appreciate your answers
And please be serious!Help girl advice? ----------- I SAID TO HER ';I LIKE YOU';?
She likes you as a friend. Don't make her feel suffocated, lay off a bit.Help girl advice? ----------- I SAID TO HER ';I LIKE YOU';?
culture should never make a difference, you probably just have a bad habit or something that puts her off, but tbh don't bother asking her if you do because she won't notice it or won't be able to explain it and it will just make things awkward, try to erase your personality a bit, it will be boring at first but once you make your new personality it will make all the difference, obviously this sounds very silly and you don't have to do it but i did it and it worked so i dunno, do what you think is best.
or you could just ask her why she doesn't want to go out with you
hmmmm....i would only say that to a guy if i meant physical love...maybe she likes you and is a bit unsure about the relationship as it is early stages...i think you ask her clearly to go out with you, and ask/tell her whatever is on your mind. i think she definatley likes you though, but maybe she is a bit nervous about the new relationship that is going to grow between you??? best thing to do id to tell/ask her...good luck! =) hope i helped
i think that she likes you as a friend but thats all you are to her,just enjoy being her friend its tough but if you was to push it further you may end up loosing her as a friend too,
she probably really like you, but thinks it might be too hard to have a relationship because of all of the religious/cultural differences you mentioned.
maybe she's talkign about doing the nasty.. you know what i mean ;) and she might just want to be a virgin or something... or i could be completely wrong... ask her about it.... :0)
Now here is where im confused? - everyone says were always flirting - laughing touching each other etc ....... always together basically ........! (thats what others think and say to me)
She said to me although I like you ';I dont think anything should happen';? ........... :|
Bear in mind im pakistani shes indian ---------%26gt; Different religion/culture I dont know if that affects anything? - were both 17 studying at college.
But if she liked me why would she say ';i dont think anything should happen though';
Problem is i want to be with her but when she said that I was like ';whaat'; ?
Can someone please explain to me in detail - if she likes me why would she say that?
Thanks folks i really appreciate your answers
And please be serious!Help girl advice? ----------- I SAID TO HER ';I LIKE YOU';?
She likes you as a friend. Don't make her feel suffocated, lay off a bit.Help girl advice? ----------- I SAID TO HER ';I LIKE YOU';?
culture should never make a difference, you probably just have a bad habit or something that puts her off, but tbh don't bother asking her if you do because she won't notice it or won't be able to explain it and it will just make things awkward, try to erase your personality a bit, it will be boring at first but once you make your new personality it will make all the difference, obviously this sounds very silly and you don't have to do it but i did it and it worked so i dunno, do what you think is best.
or you could just ask her why she doesn't want to go out with you
hmmmm....i would only say that to a guy if i meant physical love...maybe she likes you and is a bit unsure about the relationship as it is early stages...i think you ask her clearly to go out with you, and ask/tell her whatever is on your mind. i think she definatley likes you though, but maybe she is a bit nervous about the new relationship that is going to grow between you??? best thing to do id to tell/ask her...good luck! =) hope i helped
i think that she likes you as a friend but thats all you are to her,just enjoy being her friend its tough but if you was to push it further you may end up loosing her as a friend too,
she probably really like you, but thinks it might be too hard to have a relationship because of all of the religious/cultural differences you mentioned.
maybe she's talkign about doing the nasty.. you know what i mean ;) and she might just want to be a virgin or something... or i could be completely wrong... ask her about it.... :0)
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