Girl advice!!!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?

Hi there I am 16 and I'm a guy. Please read everything so you know what I'm talking about! I know this is kinda early thinking about marriage but I can't help it. In my society it is acceptable to marry cousins and I really like one of my cousins who is 3 yrs younger than me, I have a feeling that she likes me but we are too shy to talk to each other. The problem is that we can't date because dating is not allowed in our religion and culture, PERIOD we will never date each other or anything else. I also feel that my parents want to have an arranged marriage when I get older , when I hopefully become a doctor. I know that in America you can marry Whoever you want, but I don't want to go out of my way and do something that my family and relatives don't like. I really like my cousin but there are times when I think that she ignores me but times when she stares at me often and smiles in my direction. I don't know if she really likes me and we don't have much communication because she is rlly shy. Probably next summer me and her and some other cousins are going to go on vacation to some fun place. This would probably b a good time to develop a relationship with her.... I just don't feel too comfortable sticking with my family too much but I have really strong feelings for me cousin. What do you think about all this??Girl advice!!!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
I think that even in todays society it is wrong to look at your cousin in such a way, there are plenty of other girls out there. Girl advice!!!?!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!?
well ya in some places people cant marry their relatives but if you really like her then tell someone tell them how you feel and ask then what you should.i think it is not very far that you have to marry someone you don't know or like but there might be a time when you get to talk and ten tell them what you think
i think that .. you should be able to marry whom ever yu want : )


if your parents loved you , they would want what you want!!


and ab outy our cousin... if you really want her !! just try and spark up a conversation . dont make a move right aw ay.. considering you dont even talk to her !! get to knwo her :) then on wheny ou go on vacation;) make it more serious !!
its ok to like your cousin but you should wait till your a little older to get married i think she likes you but you should ask her first but i agree you should marry who you love and not let your parents make you have a arrenged marriage!!
Ewwwww. Haha I think it's best it doesn't work out between you two. Stay away from her and let your feelings go, that way you can then find someone else. Plenty of other fish in the sea.
well just try to talk to her alone and see if she has the same feeling then tell your parents the truth and hopefully they will be ok with that because its your life you can choose!!





good luck
SHUT UP! You are sick. No matter where you live. Stay away from the 13 year old...
where the hell do you live??
where the hell do you live thats just wrong!!!
Do NOT try and get involved with your cousin! You might think it's ok in America but it is not ok anywhere. I'm not sure whether or not it's legal here, but even if it was your life would be miserable because it is not approved of here. Not to mention the fact that if you had children they would have serious mental and physical problems from being inbred. I think there are just no girls to choose from where you live and so you obviously develop a crush on the 1 girl who shows you affection which is your cousin(especially if she's pretty). If you were to move to US there are more than plenty of girls to choose from and you wouldn't even think about your cousin.
If she's 3 years younger than you, that puts her at 13. She is not mature enough to date yet. You, being 16, probably just have raging harmons and are reading into it to much.





Starring at you? Do you have something in your teeth?





Also, if you really do want to act upon it, be prepared for the consiquinces of dealing with your family. EVen here in amercia we have to deal with our parents when we marry. ESPECIALLY if our parents don't like them. Makes it hard.





Good lucK!