I have a crush on this girl at my school. I've known her since elementary school (we're 16). She's a lesbian, and I'm bi. I think she is a gorgeous, funny, intelligent human being, and I would love to have a relationship with her. There are some problems though:
1. She has a girlfriend (it seems for real, but you never know...)
2. I'm not her type (I'm fat and ugly. Possibly too masculine.)
3. She might not think of me this way
4. Basically any other negative you can think of
Should I tell her how I feel, or would it be a waste of my time anyway? Since she has a gf, i dont want her to be upset with me. I really do have strong feelings for her, but I don't want to make things weird. I just can't stop thinking, ';What if she doesn't even like me?';. Should I just let her go? Am I an idiot? I need some help...I need some girl advice! Help?
Don't tell her now, she'll just feel weird...tell her when she's single, and until then ( even though you're probably not as fat and ugly as you think you are, cheer up), you can work on exercise, getting a new look. Make her realize there could be a connection BUT realize that you might not have a chance- if you really love her, you'll want her to be happy, no matter who she's with. Don't wait up for her- just focus on being a better person, get on with your life, and look for another girl. There are lots of funny, smart, great women out there, and you shouldn't blind yourself. Maybe one day it'll work, maybe not.I need some girl advice! Help?
You sound like the troubles I've went through in the past couple of years. Except that I'm the lesbian. To tell her how you feel, write a letter and do not sign it, unless you want her to know, then have someone deliver it or leave it in a place where you know she'll look. You are not an idiot for liking someone that is close to you. Good luck, and I hope it works out for you better than it did for me.
I think you shouldn't tell her with an attitude like that. If you have that low confidence then it'll just be weird. I'm sry but that's how i feel.
I feel sorry for you being in this position, but I would leave it until you find time to tell her. Not yet tough, if you tell her her gf will find out and she will get her claws out!
Yes you are a idiot!
Tuesday, November 22, 2011
I need some girl advice?
ok i really like this girl.Lets call her Girl1. she likes me too but her best friend really likes me also.We'll call her Girl2. Girl1 wont go out with me because she doesn't want to hurt her friendship with Girl2. I don't really like Girl2 other than a friend. and to make things worse girl 1 also likes my 2 best friends.Girl 1 knows i have feelings for her.And so does Girl2. But Girl1 always shows her affection towards my 2 best friends and its really awkward and i just want her know how i feel....Any advice anyoneI need some girl advice?
ask girl1 how she feels and if girl2 is not happy for girl1 then she anit a friend.
i suggest you tell her how you feel.I need some girl advice?
Be the assertive one, the girls aren't making any moves, so you have to.
i would just go out with her. girl2 is probably just jealous. you can't always make people happy in these situations. Good luck,
Samantha
ask girl1 how she feels and if girl2 is not happy for girl1 then she anit a friend.
i suggest you tell her how you feel.I need some girl advice?
Be the assertive one, the girls aren't making any moves, so you have to.
i would just go out with her. girl2 is probably just jealous. you can't always make people happy in these situations. Good luck,
Samantha
Need some genuine girl advice?
I'm 20 years old in college. I met this girl the other day in the library whom I think is very cute. I got her number. I called her a couple of hours later(which I know was my first mistake). Anyways, when I talked to her I asked her to hang out with me and she said she would call me the next day. She never did as I expected. She called me a couple of days later and said sorry and gave me her excuse. We talked for a while and had a few things in common and I'm interested in getting to know her more. I've asked her out and she gives me some excuse about how its not a good weekend because she is busy. I'm no idiot I know if she was interested she would make a little bit of time. I need some advice in how to make this girl more interested in me. I know, obviously, that she is somewhat interested due to her giving me her number. I have a feeling I'm being too forward and she sees that. Anyways I really want to take her out and her not think that I'm desperate. If there are any girls out there that would know what they would want the guy to do in this situation, I would really appreciate your advice.Need some genuine girl advice?
Maybe shes just not comfortable going out with a stranger. If she's ok just talking to you on the phone, you can call her a couple more times and see if she warms up the more she knows you.Need some genuine girl advice?
You need to wait a good 2 weeks before asking her out again. Then she'll wonder why you aren't asking her out. Making a girl think about you is the first way to get a date lol.. unless they are thinking ';man I wish this guy would stop bugging me'; Then when you do ask her out, be genuine and straight-forward. if she says no then she is just mean,
If you're worried about coming on too strong, don't take her on a date-date. Just see if she wants to go for some coffee, or on a ';friend date'; (like, invite her to the bars with your friends [have her invite some of hers too!] or to a party or something.)
But you don't want to ignore her, either!
Be upfront with her and ask ';Would you want to hang out sometime?'; if she says yes than say ';You seem pretty busy. When's a time that works for you?'; If she's just making excuses then that's the time she'll have to tell you if she's interested or not.
Good luck!
do ever know if she has a boyfriend? maybe the reason she gave you her number is because she only wants to make friends. um, in my opinion, she does kinds of sound that she wasn't interested. or maybe she is a very busy girl? i don't know. well if she acts this way, it is best that you just give her some time. i don't like guy been way to close and doesn't give me any freedom. maybe another couple of weeks you give her a call, asks her hows it going. just don't be too pressuring. when you sees her, just act normal, don't show that you're really into her, something like that. she maybe felt uncomfortable if you suddenly appear in her world and be that desperate guy
i'm sorry but good luck! xxalmay
Maybe shes just not comfortable going out with a stranger. If she's ok just talking to you on the phone, you can call her a couple more times and see if she warms up the more she knows you.Need some genuine girl advice?
You need to wait a good 2 weeks before asking her out again. Then she'll wonder why you aren't asking her out. Making a girl think about you is the first way to get a date lol.. unless they are thinking ';man I wish this guy would stop bugging me'; Then when you do ask her out, be genuine and straight-forward. if she says no then she is just mean,
If you're worried about coming on too strong, don't take her on a date-date. Just see if she wants to go for some coffee, or on a ';friend date'; (like, invite her to the bars with your friends [have her invite some of hers too!] or to a party or something.)
But you don't want to ignore her, either!
Be upfront with her and ask ';Would you want to hang out sometime?'; if she says yes than say ';You seem pretty busy. When's a time that works for you?'; If she's just making excuses then that's the time she'll have to tell you if she's interested or not.
Good luck!
do ever know if she has a boyfriend? maybe the reason she gave you her number is because she only wants to make friends. um, in my opinion, she does kinds of sound that she wasn't interested. or maybe she is a very busy girl? i don't know. well if she acts this way, it is best that you just give her some time. i don't like guy been way to close and doesn't give me any freedom. maybe another couple of weeks you give her a call, asks her hows it going. just don't be too pressuring. when you sees her, just act normal, don't show that you're really into her, something like that. she maybe felt uncomfortable if you suddenly appear in her world and be that desperate guy
i'm sorry but good luck! xx
I need some girl advice,(boys I GUESS,too,if you understand.)?
Okay I like diz guy and today was taks.After TAKS I was in my reading teachers class,and I told him I couldn't find a seat.He said there is one right there! He pointed to a chair with a book on top.EVERYONE laughed at me.Even my friend ( :( I saw the stupid desk,but there was a book on it so I thought sum1 sat there! Gosh I hate teachers.My crush said USE UR BRAIN! And now I am kinda mad.I cried of course,and I am mad at him for saying dat.But I still like him.What would you have dun? ( :)I need some girl advice,(boys I GUESS,too,if you understand.)?
Dont stress about it !! Boys are boys..nothing you can do about it ! Try living with 4 of em !!! Boys ALWAYS tease so thats normal !! Could be a sign that he likes you !
Dont stress about it !! Boys are boys..nothing you can do about it ! Try living with 4 of em !!! Boys ALWAYS tease so thats normal !! Could be a sign that he likes you !
Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
whats the best way to ask a girl out? be straightforward and be like ';would you like to go out with me?'; or more like ';maybe we can go out sometime';?
also when i ask her out is it ok to just ask and then say you will call her once you get her number to tell details and such or is it better to say where you wanna take her out right then cause i really dont know where i would ask her to go out? any ideas on places? things to do?Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
Straightforward might be better, and first ask her what things she like to do for fun. If she says that she likes playing tennis, then take her to lunch and play tennis afterwards, or vice versa. If she says she likes seeing movies, then ask her to go to a new movie.Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
Be straightforward! When you get her number call and ask her when shes not busy then ask her if she wants to go bowling, that way you can find out more about her and have fun playing a game.
Tip: Do NOT let her win, whats the fun of that? And also it's like your saying she cant win unless you let her.
Just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. The best relationship is between friends, so before you even think about ';going out';, just be a friend.
tell her if u could eat lunch with her
or
if she like being complimented tell her shes beautiful, or, sexy, or pretty, gorgeuos ect. everyday!
hope it helps answer bak plz
also when i ask her out is it ok to just ask and then say you will call her once you get her number to tell details and such or is it better to say where you wanna take her out right then cause i really dont know where i would ask her to go out? any ideas on places? things to do?Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
Straightforward might be better, and first ask her what things she like to do for fun. If she says that she likes playing tennis, then take her to lunch and play tennis afterwards, or vice versa. If she says she likes seeing movies, then ask her to go to a new movie.Guy In Need Of A Girls Advice....Ive Really Fallen For This Girl And Need Help Here..............?
Be straightforward! When you get her number call and ask her when shes not busy then ask her if she wants to go bowling, that way you can find out more about her and have fun playing a game.
Tip: Do NOT let her win, whats the fun of that? And also it's like your saying she cant win unless you let her.
Just ask her if she wants to hang out sometime. The best relationship is between friends, so before you even think about ';going out';, just be a friend.
tell her if u could eat lunch with her
or
if she like being complimented tell her shes beautiful, or, sexy, or pretty, gorgeuos ect. everyday!
hope it helps answer bak plz
I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
There's this guy i really, really like. the thing is, im way to shy to talk to him. i cant even say a simple ';hey';. what's wrong with me? my friends keep telling me that we'd be a perfect couple, and that we are eachother's type. But hes the type of guy that needs to really know you and be friends with you. How can i do that if i cant talk to him and he wont talk to me? seriously, the most contact we come to is when he looks at me when im looking the other way, and when i look at him when hes looking the other way. i really like him, but im too shy! HELP.I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
Ask one of your friends that know him to introduce you two. Don't be shy. If you really like him then don't let being shy get in your way.I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
If your in a situation where you are talking to the same group, etc. comment on something he says. Then, if you see him around, just smile or maybe say hi...if you dont try, you will always regret it.
sorry, first you find out way,to check what type of relation you are looking for,if it is for life ,then find out what the guy want and this can be done by some middle person and then try to figure out your way of approach .as you are shy by nature the yes and no from the guy can hurt you too much so ,don't hurry take your time ,just give your want ,and love for that guy more fuel ,your urge will do the rest ,because in relationship planning is important. dont be shy,be confident ,hey girl! that guy will be also pleased ,you are equally important for him ,so babes go for it ......good luck and let us inform how you have done it .see you
aww
ive experienced the same problem.
try talking online at first.
over aim or myspace/facebook
or get a friend to introduce you guys(:
goodluck!
First, try to get to know some of his other friends. Then they will probably end up introducing you to him. If that doesn't work, try writing him a note. That's what worked for me! Good luck to ya!
are you friends with ANY of his friends (even if its only an aquaintance?!) if so, suggest to the acquaintance/friend that you and a few people (includ the guy you like ) should go out and see a movie sometime or hang out at the park.
that way, you'll have a chance to talk to this guy and if things get awkwardyou can just talk to the other people that are there. :)
well, you really need to set up a plan. tell your friend what the deal is and she'll help, trust me.
explain that you can't talk to him because you're too chicken (shy isn't the right word, sorry to say. shy people aren't quite so antisocial towards guys).
then tell her this plan: you want her to push you into him next time you go by his locker or something. it would be a perfect way to get aquainted. =] haha. seriously, try it.
I really like the first girl's answer. Talking online is a great idea. My husband and I met when we were 12 years old and we both really liked each other, but we were both SO shy and too young to even have a real relationship, anyway. But over the next 6 years (I know, a long time, but I had moved away, so we were STILL too young to have a relationship until we were able to travel to see each other), we talked a lot online and we got to know each other so well. We wouldn't have been able to talk this much in person, because we were just too shy. But online, we were able to really open up and get to know each other. We've now been married for over 2 years and we are best friends! Good luck! =)
Who says that words are the only outlet for communication?
Body language is even more affective then any word one could utter. And the good thing about it is, you don't even have to be that close to him to express that you like him! A flirty look from across the room. A smile. Guys are very visual and respond to things like that even more then words. plus if you give him a flirty look he will know that you are into him, as opposed to talking to him all the time he could take it as you guys are ';just friends';. I say you should try that also pick up a cosmo for more advice. Good luck girl!
xoxo
-A
you just have to gain the courage to say something to him. that's the only way anything will happen between you guys. just start small like saying hi to each other. then work your way up to conversations.
Ask one of your friends that know him to introduce you two. Don't be shy. If you really like him then don't let being shy get in your way.I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
If your in a situation where you are talking to the same group, etc. comment on something he says. Then, if you see him around, just smile or maybe say hi...if you dont try, you will always regret it.
sorry, first you find out way,to check what type of relation you are looking for,if it is for life ,then find out what the guy want and this can be done by some middle person and then try to figure out your way of approach .as you are shy by nature the yes and no from the guy can hurt you too much so ,don't hurry take your time ,just give your want ,and love for that guy more fuel ,your urge will do the rest ,because in relationship planning is important. dont be shy,be confident ,hey girl! that guy will be also pleased ,you are equally important for him ,so babes go for it ......good luck and let us inform how you have done it .see you
aww
ive experienced the same problem.
try talking online at first.
over aim or myspace/facebook
or get a friend to introduce you guys(:
goodluck!
First, try to get to know some of his other friends. Then they will probably end up introducing you to him. If that doesn't work, try writing him a note. That's what worked for me! Good luck to ya!
are you friends with ANY of his friends (even if its only an aquaintance?!) if so, suggest to the acquaintance/friend that you and a few people (includ the guy you like ) should go out and see a movie sometime or hang out at the park.
that way, you'll have a chance to talk to this guy and if things get awkwardyou can just talk to the other people that are there. :)
well, you really need to set up a plan. tell your friend what the deal is and she'll help, trust me.
explain that you can't talk to him because you're too chicken (shy isn't the right word, sorry to say. shy people aren't quite so antisocial towards guys).
then tell her this plan: you want her to push you into him next time you go by his locker or something. it would be a perfect way to get aquainted. =] haha. seriously, try it.
I really like the first girl's answer. Talking online is a great idea. My husband and I met when we were 12 years old and we both really liked each other, but we were both SO shy and too young to even have a real relationship, anyway. But over the next 6 years (I know, a long time, but I had moved away, so we were STILL too young to have a relationship until we were able to travel to see each other), we talked a lot online and we got to know each other so well. We wouldn't have been able to talk this much in person, because we were just too shy. But online, we were able to really open up and get to know each other. We've now been married for over 2 years and we are best friends! Good luck! =)
Who says that words are the only outlet for communication?
Body language is even more affective then any word one could utter. And the good thing about it is, you don't even have to be that close to him to express that you like him! A flirty look from across the room. A smile. Guys are very visual and respond to things like that even more then words. plus if you give him a flirty look he will know that you are into him, as opposed to talking to him all the time he could take it as you guys are ';just friends';. I say you should try that also pick up a cosmo for more advice. Good luck girl!
xoxo
-A
you just have to gain the courage to say something to him. that's the only way anything will happen between you guys. just start small like saying hi to each other. then work your way up to conversations.
I need female/girl advice.......urgent assistance required.thanks?
DOES SHE LIKE me or is there interest?????
I met this girl on friday.....she said she wants to be in contact with me (I presume as friends of course cos u cant have a realtionship after 30 mins)
we exchanged phone numbers and we added each other on facebook
after three days of no contact, i send her a text message asking her how she was doing and that we had a nice conversation the other day
she then replied with:
';Hey tim...what a suprise! How are you? Yeah, it was a really nice conversation and I enjoyed it a lot! I am on my way to bowling, what are you up to now?';
I then said I am cooking (lol), but seriously, I was! I also told her to make a strike for me while playing bowling!
She then replied
';Cooking? Well I like the fact that you are cooking! I will try my best to make a strike.....Have a great night and thanks for adding me on facebook';
I then sent her a message back saying thank you too and i wish her sweet dreams as she sleeps.
I heard nothing back from her since then.
I KNOW THIS IS THE WRONG SECTION BUT MOST GIRLS COME HERE SO IT MADE SENSE TO POST IT HERE IN THIS SECTIONI need female/girl advice.......urgent assistance required.thanks?
i hate it when a guy tells me sweet dreams. be unique when you say something sweet. she may think you are cute, but she may not like like you. you know what i mean. she probably wants to get to know you. so take your time. dont rush. that scares us girls away.I need female/girl advice.......urgent assistance required.thanks?
Uhh you asked this yesterday??? And alotta ppl answered...........
You were golden up to the 'sweet dreams' part.
That was an overstep -sometimes, we don't want to hear that from a guy we just met - gives up creepy vibes.
There is interest obviously otherwise she wouldn't have allowed you the add on face book... try not to read to much into things and enjoy it. It seems like a bit of friendly chat. If you want to know for sure make it clear that you like her...somebody has to make the first move, why not you ? And how do you expect her to reply to your last message? its a nice way to end the night but what would you say back if someone said that to you.
Seems like she's interested.
Just keep talking/texting her.
but not obsessively.
and don't say sweet dream stuff, just say good night.
'Sweet dreams' can be creepy. ahha
ha ha i see your problem. this girl (i think) is thinkign to herself ';should i text him or message him on facebook??'; same as you. the next time you talk to her, keep it casual...like ';hi katie havent heard from you in a while...whats up?'; or just DO IT. do it as in ASK HER OUT ON A DATE!! she obviously likes the way you are, your cooking self. (if u ask her) on the date, you should go bowling and then cook her dinner!! i think she'd like that alot.
hope i helped %26lt;333 xoxo Julia
Well it sounds like she likes you, that is no doubt. If I girl didn't like you I don't think she would of gave you her number. How she likes you is the question....She either likes you just as a friend or she is attracted to you and is interested in more. And how you treat her could greatly affect that. So far I think you have done great. A woman wants to know your thinking about her but doesn't want to know your waiting by the phone for her. Ya know?! If she is interested she is just as confused as you are, trust me! If she is interested in you she is wondering why she hasn't heard from you since then and debating whether or not she should contact you and how. So save yourself and her the stress and text her again. Be honest just let her know you are thinking about her and ask her how her day is going. Come on what is the worst thing that could happen? She doesn't respond, then oh well at least you know how she feels and best situation she is glad to hear from you and the conversation takes off from there!
Good luck!
:) Ashley
she is interested in you because SHE was the one asking to exchange contact information and she was being totally sweet to a guy she just met! haha and this was the right section cuz i know I'M always here lol
Probably interested.. Sounds like she may have even wanted you to come on the bowling outing. Don't trip on the last unanswered text message. She may have have a few drinks at the bowling alley and just gotten caught up with her friends.
You're overthinking this and it's probably projecting to her and creeping her out a bit. Keep it casual. Stay in touch. It sounds like she likes you and you'll get a better feel as to if there's interest but if there's not, wouldn't you like her as a friend? Give it time.
We don't know!!! LOL. Try asking her out casually...like to go bowling or to a movie with a group of friends. Read her body language. Or, you could just flat out ask her! That way you'll have an answer. It sounds like you like her...I hope it works out for you!
she most likely doesnt like you if she isnt replying to your message. its great that you had a good conversation, but thats all it was. it doesnt sounds like there is any interest.
Give it a few days then call her. Try not to show her too much attention because most girls dont go for it. Good luck!
nope
It sounds like shes interested in you. but she might just be interested in being friends with you rather then being in a relationship with you. but don't expect her to reply to every text you send her right away, or for her to text and call you often, because girls don't like to go nuts and be obsessed over guys like that. just give her time and space and everything will work out fine. good luck=)
Well here's the thing....most girls lay low and expect the guy to call them, not the girls to call guys after you met or had a date,that's just how it is. And she might be playing hard to get to get you to think about her, and to get you to chase after her. I would say just to text her and say hi casually, and after asking her hows it going and stuff maybey say like, so did you get a strike the other night? or make a joke (but not an insulting joke!) then ask her to on a date, and if she says like well im not free this week, but mabey another time? then shes not interested, but if she says yes id love to or some thing then she's definately interested! (and dont not talk to her for a while or she will think your not interested in her)
Did you not answer this question earlier today? Cuz I answered it.
I really need girl advice? Anybody can probably help?
I like this girl. I have for a couple weeks now. I've talked to her enough to where it doesn't feel weird anymore. So far, she hasn't showed any signs of not liking me. She's a senior and I'm a sophomore. We both run Cross Country which is where I usually talk to her. She is in two of my classes.. Algebra 2 and PE 2. Like I said, I could probably go up and talk to her whenever I wanted without feeling creepy. I really like her. Almost every love song I hear makes me think about her. I am constantly thinking about her. I get that feeling in my stomach whenever I talk to her. I was thinking about asking her to the Homecoming Dance (mid-October) Monday. Do you think it's too soon? Should I go for it? Is there anything I should do before I start to see if she likes me in that way?I really need girl advice? Anybody can probably help?
I would honestly say go for it. If you like her, don't be afraid to tell her or ask her to the dance. But, don't expect that she'll say yes. Not to be a down-spirit person, but there is always that chance that she's not interested in that way or anything like that. So don't instantly expect a yes. If anything, expecting a no, but having enough strength to ask, then getting a yes - well that's got to be the greatest feeling when it comes to asking someone out (:
Go for it! And good luck (:I really need girl advice? Anybody can probably help?
Go for it man its okay to ask the girl out just be YOURSELF and shel either like you for you or not even like you because shes not interested
BEST ADVICE: dont lie to a girl just dont tell her everything
I think you should go for it! it sounds like you really like her.. Good Luck!!
I would honestly say go for it. If you like her, don't be afraid to tell her or ask her to the dance. But, don't expect that she'll say yes. Not to be a down-spirit person, but there is always that chance that she's not interested in that way or anything like that. So don't instantly expect a yes. If anything, expecting a no, but having enough strength to ask, then getting a yes - well that's got to be the greatest feeling when it comes to asking someone out (:
Go for it! And good luck (:I really need girl advice? Anybody can probably help?
Go for it man its okay to ask the girl out just be YOURSELF and shel either like you for you or not even like you because shes not interested
BEST ADVICE: dont lie to a girl just dont tell her everything
I think you should go for it! it sounds like you really like her.. Good Luck!!
I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Ok now i am seeing this girl (Jenna). She is an extremely nice girl but she is very shy. I met her because my dad is her coach and we have been seeing each other for a little while but nothing serous. I like her and want to ask her to be my girlfriend but i am nervous. I was talking to some of her friends and they all said the same thing is that she finds is weird that she would be going out with the coach's son (my father by the way does not care). I want to figure what the right course of action would be:
A. Go and talk to her (i am not sure what to say yet)
B. Do nothing and see what happens
C. Your Idea's (I don't know that is why I am asking)I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mmmm,
i Say You talk to her about it.
tell her if she wants to give it a try.
tell her what you feel about her
that'd be the best thing to do:]]]
HONESTY!:]]]
Ahaha!I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mate i would just go and talk to her and let her know how you feel and let her know that your dad don't care if she feels the same for you she might be relieved that you made the first move as being a shy female is hard i should know i am one and being shy makes it hard to make the first step you never know what could happen also let her know you can still be friends if she don't feel the same way as it sounds like you both get along real well
Well, you said you've only been seeing each other for a little while..so why rush it? Go ahead, take yur time to get to know her %26amp; when you feel like the time is right, then you should talk to her %26amp; tell her how you feel. Hopefully, that'll change her mind about dating the coach's son.
Good Luck!
pick A and say: i heard that you think that it would be weird if we were together because my dad is your coach but i really like you and i think we would be good together. and also my dad doesn't care if we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
if she really did like yeu she wuldnt care if yeu were the coaches son, tell her that
Talk with her about it! Sometimes it's hard to get up the nerve to start that kind of conversation, but you should. Just tell her that you like her first, and see where the conversation goes from there. She may or may not have a problem with the fact your dad is the coach. You can't necessarily trust what her friends say; they may not really know how she feels. There is a possibility she's not interested in going out with you, but the worst thing that can come of this conversation is her telling you that. Give it a shot and she might be your girlfriend!almay
A. Go and talk to her (i am not sure what to say yet)
B. Do nothing and see what happens
C. Your Idea's (I don't know that is why I am asking)I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mmmm,
i Say You talk to her about it.
tell her if she wants to give it a try.
tell her what you feel about her
that'd be the best thing to do:]]]
HONESTY!:]]]
Ahaha!I Need Some Girl Advice HELP!!!!?
Mate i would just go and talk to her and let her know how you feel and let her know that your dad don't care if she feels the same for you she might be relieved that you made the first move as being a shy female is hard i should know i am one and being shy makes it hard to make the first step you never know what could happen also let her know you can still be friends if she don't feel the same way as it sounds like you both get along real well
Well, you said you've only been seeing each other for a little while..so why rush it? Go ahead, take yur time to get to know her %26amp; when you feel like the time is right, then you should talk to her %26amp; tell her how you feel. Hopefully, that'll change her mind about dating the coach's son.
Good Luck!
pick A and say: i heard that you think that it would be weird if we were together because my dad is your coach but i really like you and i think we would be good together. and also my dad doesn't care if we are boyfriend and girlfriend.
if she really did like yeu she wuldnt care if yeu were the coaches son, tell her that
Talk with her about it! Sometimes it's hard to get up the nerve to start that kind of conversation, but you should. Just tell her that you like her first, and see where the conversation goes from there. She may or may not have a problem with the fact your dad is the coach. You can't necessarily trust what her friends say; they may not really know how she feels. There is a possibility she's not interested in going out with you, but the worst thing that can come of this conversation is her telling you that. Give it a shot and she might be your girlfriend!
I need some girl advice!?
sorry i put this in polls. more people are in p%26amp;s, and I need help URGENTLY!
if you want you can leave your questions with your answers. I'll gladly try to help you out.
okay.
I've started liking this guy, and he has always been like a brother to me. It just came on kind of fast.
The first day we met, he developed this huge crush on me. I didn't feel like that towards him, so I basically shot him down and told him ';I could never feel that way about'; him.
Well, I lied, because now I do.
He's been calling me a lot over the summer, and we've been hanging out a lot, too. I've started seeing him in this entirely new light. I'll admit it, I'm crazy about him.
And he's crazy about girls.
He always has about four girls he has crushes on, and he loves going on little dates that never amount to much. He has always told me that I'm his favorite, and he would take me above anyone else, but that doesn't really make a difference to me. A guy shouldn't have a list of girls. I told him he should be faithful, and he told me that if he had a girlfriend, he would forget about all of the other girls. True? Probably not. But still.
Two nights ago, he went on a movie date with this girl. He seems very excited about her, and told me about what a great time he had. Not to rub it in my face. We are just very close, and talk about nearly everything. I was going to tell him how I felt that night he called me to talk about his date. I couldn't tell him after I heard about his new interest.
What do I do? Do I tell him how I feel? I'm dying to... but he's so happy about this new girl he met.
I'm afraid it would be weird, and he'd ditch that girl for me, only to find out things aren't going to work out.
Oh, what in the world am I supposed to do?! I should have said something sooner! Do I just keep quiet?I need some girl advice!?
you should just tell him to get it off of your chest.
if you want you can leave your questions with your answers. I'll gladly try to help you out.
okay.
I've started liking this guy, and he has always been like a brother to me. It just came on kind of fast.
The first day we met, he developed this huge crush on me. I didn't feel like that towards him, so I basically shot him down and told him ';I could never feel that way about'; him.
Well, I lied, because now I do.
He's been calling me a lot over the summer, and we've been hanging out a lot, too. I've started seeing him in this entirely new light. I'll admit it, I'm crazy about him.
And he's crazy about girls.
He always has about four girls he has crushes on, and he loves going on little dates that never amount to much. He has always told me that I'm his favorite, and he would take me above anyone else, but that doesn't really make a difference to me. A guy shouldn't have a list of girls. I told him he should be faithful, and he told me that if he had a girlfriend, he would forget about all of the other girls. True? Probably not. But still.
Two nights ago, he went on a movie date with this girl. He seems very excited about her, and told me about what a great time he had. Not to rub it in my face. We are just very close, and talk about nearly everything. I was going to tell him how I felt that night he called me to talk about his date. I couldn't tell him after I heard about his new interest.
What do I do? Do I tell him how I feel? I'm dying to... but he's so happy about this new girl he met.
I'm afraid it would be weird, and he'd ditch that girl for me, only to find out things aren't going to work out.
Oh, what in the world am I supposed to do?! I should have said something sooner! Do I just keep quiet?I need some girl advice!?
you should just tell him to get it off of your chest.
I need some girl advice......?
ok so heres the problem, i like this girl a lot (obviously), and she has told me she likes me also. the only real problem is that she just broke up with her ex about 2-3 weeks ago after about an 8 month relationship. (This guy is a total douche and texts her all the time and says she a ';worthless *****'; and that she ';never meant anything to him';. basically i want to hurt this kid but thats besides the point.) i told her i liked her about 2 months ago and she did the same. now that she has actually broken up with this guy she doesn't want to be in a relationship b/c she ';doesn't want to mess things up';.... we still hang out almost everyday but we've never kissed or anything like that. we both flirt w/ each other and i want to start going out with her but she still doesn't want a relationship. the thing im most afraid of is that we will become too close as friends and then it would just be awkward if we went out (has happened to me before and it sucks, entire friendship got ruined). i really like her a lot but i dont know what to do. i dont want to be too close as friends but it seems inevitable seeing as how we hang out so much already... PLEASE HELP!!!!
I need some girl advice?
I really like this girl at my school. I told her how I felt about a month ago and I thought she felt the same way too. I was going to ask her out but my friend said I shouldn't. He said that I should wait a little bit. Then he said that he liked her and that she said she didn't like me. Being the gullible idiot I am I believed him. I pretty sure she likes me but I still have that feeling that I'm wrong and If I ask her out she will reject me.The last two weeks every time I see her she is looking at me and smiling.The other day I was playing basketball with some friends and I look over to the bleachers and she is staring at me. I looked over a lot and she was still looking at me. I want to ask her out tomorrow because after tomorrow we go on thanksgiving break. I just need some advice that could help her say yes. I know that she likes me but I'm very shy and I don't want to be rejected.
I need some girl advice!?
Serious answers only, I'm sick of seeing immature people trying to be funny.
So there's this girl, she a year younger than me. I really think she's great, I met her once when a group of my friends was hanging with her. I didn't really talk to her much, but that night I went home and she sent me a Facebook request immediately. This was back in November, and I have all the sudden seen her around but have not spoken to her and I have gotten a lot of interest in her. I want to be friends with her, maybe even more. I just want to know how I should approach this. Serious answers only please.I need some girl advice!?
when you see her just be like hey whats up and start a converstaion from thereI need some girl advice!?
Just talk to her on face book OR just have some small talk be nice to her say hi whenever you see her.
Just go up to her and say ';Hey!'; or talk to her on Facebook and say that we haven't talked in forever! What's up? or something like that. =]
Try to be around her as much as possible and then when ur comfortable u ask her out. This could take a few weeks to months or even years.
when u see her at school, just smile, then say hi. then maybe one day u guys will start talking. but if she seems like she dont wanna tlak to u. dont talk to her cuz shes gonna think that ur wierd
So there's this girl, she a year younger than me. I really think she's great, I met her once when a group of my friends was hanging with her. I didn't really talk to her much, but that night I went home and she sent me a Facebook request immediately. This was back in November, and I have all the sudden seen her around but have not spoken to her and I have gotten a lot of interest in her. I want to be friends with her, maybe even more. I just want to know how I should approach this. Serious answers only please.I need some girl advice!?
when you see her just be like hey whats up and start a converstaion from thereI need some girl advice!?
Just talk to her on face book OR just have some small talk be nice to her say hi whenever you see her.
Just go up to her and say ';Hey!'; or talk to her on Facebook and say that we haven't talked in forever! What's up? or something like that. =]
Try to be around her as much as possible and then when ur comfortable u ask her out. This could take a few weeks to months or even years.
when u see her at school, just smile, then say hi. then maybe one day u guys will start talking. but if she seems like she dont wanna tlak to u. dont talk to her cuz shes gonna think that ur wierd
Ladies, i need girl advice?
so i like this girl ALOT. and i thought she liked me at one time but now we are just friends. anyway, she asked if she could use my phone in class one day and i said 'sure'. so while she was txting someone on it, another girl, cassy, txted me. the girl i like was like 'oh whose this' and i told her and shes like 'i know her!'.. anyways she kept txting on my phone and cassy txted me and said something like i miss you to me. and the girl i like read it and was like 'awwww' and waved it in my face lol.
anyways, so the girl i liked has been going around and saying i have a thing with cassy to some of our mutual friends. 3 people came up and asked me.
what does this mean? is she jealous of cassy? idk why she would be telling so many people. i just want her to like me lolLadies, i need girl advice?
haha yeah i think she's a little jealous or she would have forgotten about it by now. but who knows?
anyone who sees this please answer
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anyways, so the girl i liked has been going around and saying i have a thing with cassy to some of our mutual friends. 3 people came up and asked me.
what does this mean? is she jealous of cassy? idk why she would be telling so many people. i just want her to like me lolLadies, i need girl advice?
haha yeah i think she's a little jealous or she would have forgotten about it by now. but who knows?
anyone who sees this please answer
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I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
Ok, i'm 16, and i'm feeling really upset:(
I'm male.
I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)
I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i wouldn't want any other services, (bj etc)...
I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)
But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!
I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...
Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????
Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...
I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...
I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??
I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.
Help me please.
I don't know where i could meet any girls? I don't go to party, im not a party person :p
If you feel like chattin to me, post ur msn:)
I dont know what to do:(I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
I'm sure every 16 yo boy (and girl) thinks they are going to be single forever. We all feel that way sometimes and for 99.9% of people it just isn't true. It will happen to you sooner or later.
Your frenulum is a problem that cannot afford to wait. The older you are when you have any operation, the longer it takes to heal. Your frenulum problem may need an operation to loosen it so it won't help you to wait. Bite the bullet and get it sorted. Your parents do not need to know if you see your doctor and unless you have daisies growing out the end, the doctor will have seen thousands of penises exactly like it.
As for finding girls, you have just given us a whole long list of places that you won't go to or try. You need to change your approach. Put it this way: you're not finding girls in the places you go to/things you do now. That suggests to me that you need to look somewhere different to find girls rather than waiting for them to show up where you are.
Everybody is a party person at the right kind of party. And trying a new hobby or activity doesn't mean you are stuck with it forever. Just give something new a go and if you don't like it try something else. What is there to lose?
Something else to bear in mind is that teenage girls tend to have sex to boost their self-esteem. Unfortunately, it often works completely the opposite way - the sense of rejection when he doesn't call and the reputation as a tramp undermines their self-esteem and a vicious cycle starts. Everyone wants a ';nice'; partner who will treat them right and love them, but some people just have very bad judgement. Don't discount someone just because they have a reputation or because they don't seem to be your ';type';. Get to know them before you judge them.
You will get there in the end, just don't give up on yourself and don't hide away waiting for love to find you because it won't. Get out there, try something new, broaden your horizons and meet someone new. Good luck.I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
UGH. Teen sex is horrible! It's like you're throwing it all away..
I say have it after 21.. or else it's so.. so, UGH.
But, I'm not in charge of you, so here: You can meet girls at the mall, at school {if you still go to school} anywhere actually. All you have to do is get the nerves to talk to her.
I go to a Catholic school and I don't to church when we have to go I would rather be siting on a big farm some where Just because they go to church doesn't mean they want to be there. I was more into guy stuff more than half the guys in my class last year. so the hobby thing wouldn't mater
too be honest....
if a girl just wants sex they are not worth wasting you time on....
girls feel the same about guys....a lot of girls want a relationship/to be friends first/etc...more than just sex...and you would be surprised how many want to wait before they have sex!
take your time to find a friend 1st...
build on a friendship
be confident, and more importantly BE YOURSELF!!!
feel free to email me if you want to chat.
Smile! -_^
don't worry i know you'll find a perfect girl and no not all girls want sex trust me and they don't have to be church girls in order not to have sex sum girls are raised right by their parents and know that they should wait
just keep lookin you could find girls anywhere there's more than enough in the world!
Your 16...you have plenty time to find a girlfriend...find some of the kind girls at school you can see yourself with and start chatting to them...and maybe it will go somewhere...
ok this the third time you posted this question. or the third time ive read it.
i think u seem very sweet and that but not all girls are like that eventually one will come along for u just stop thinking about it, it WILL happen! good luck hun
your only 16...your life is just begining...dont worry things will happen for you...just be happy with what and who you are and the rest will follow...
Oh hey i just answered ur other question lol email meeee catslover2222@yahoo.co.uk Xx
wait. in the beginning it says 'if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex' but then you ask if there are any nice girls that don't just want sex..?
anyways,
in high school your stuck with the same friends but in college you'll get to meet allll kinds of different people. so for now, just have fun and stop worrying about the sex situation. if you want a real relationship, focus more on the personality
firstly i dont know a frenulumn is but go to the doctors about it, they wont tell your parents! just tell your parents your meeting friends and go.
there are lots of girls, especially who will be 14/15/16 and not want sex so dont think of them all like that!
normally you can tell when you meet girls what they will be like.
are u going to college next year? u will meet lots of girls there
or ask your female friends if they know anyone
or take up a new hobbie where u might meet girls, you dont have to worry about being shy, as long as you have SOMETHING to say to them, shy is nice!
just smile at girls when u see nice ones, when yout out and about. stop looking for a girlfriend, just look to make friends.
goodluck
also there will be loads of girls out there your age thinking the same thing as you!
First thing you should know: don't be desperate. that's one thing nobody likes. Secondly you don't only have to go to parties to meet girls. having a drink or going to festivals, concerts, whatever is enough. get out of your house and go to places. If you do this enough you'll meet enough girls. and once you start meeting them it becomes a lot easier..
Well you seem like a nice guy and everything but dont give up ! Im sure that soon youll be able to find that girl that you just described. Yeah no only some girls just want to have sex all the time but not all of them! You could probably look for a girl like by going out for a walk or soemthing around your neighborhood or something. You can also ask like some of your cousins for friends that might be single . Hope this helped!
Dont worry im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend yet either ... and i certainly wouldnt be having sex like them little slags .. girls like that just get a bad name and used ..
me and all my mates are respectable and not into that at all ..
if you dont mind me asking where these girls are from ..
there all little sluts lately ...
u sounds like a nice lad .. and just wait theres plenty of time for girlfriends and just coz ur mates tink there mad and cool coz they have sex with sluts doesnt mean u have to do all that ..
wait til u meet a nice girl that u can trust and is very respectful .. someone ur parents would like to .. thats the best girl not a little tart that will cheat on u wioth ur best mate.
good luck i hope you find a nice girl soon but if you dont .. dont be worryign you have plenty of time for girlfriends just enjoy being young .. and then focus on girls for now dont worry let them chase you :).
hope that helps :D.
xxxx
um, no offense, but your friends are sluts. Not all girls have sex. not all pretty girls have sex. usually if they are insecure, and desperate and need a man to make them feel better about themseleves, then they will do it. i'm sure there are plenty of girls where you live who don't want that. i' don't want that. haha. i'm not a church girl. i want to find a guy like you actually! and i think i found him but i'm pretty sure he doesnt like me back. :( slowly killing me.
just look around and talk to people. good luck :)almay
I'm male.
I'm quite a shy person, but kind, and all that crap:)
I've never ever ever had a girl friend, and dont have many female friends(like 4), and if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex, till atleast 18, i am quite responsible, and i wouldn't want any other services, (bj etc)...
I would just want to be loving, and kind, and caring to my girl, and buy chocolates and stuff...:)
But, even the 4 friends(girls) i talk to, all have sex, and they are all younger than me, whats that all about!!??!!??!!
I actually have a tight frenulum on my knob, and need to go to the doctors about it, but i dont have the confidence, to go, with my parents knowing, so it could be next year, when they are on holiday, or when i go to uni, when i'm 18...
Are there any nice girls, that don't just want SEX SEX SEX SEX SEX...????
Don't suggest church girls, im not religuos, and dont go to church...
I don't have any hobbies, where i could meet girls even. I mean i do have hobbies, but they are ';unique';, and are more boy hobbies than girl hobbies...
I want a pretty girl, but not a slag, you know what i mean??
I dont know what to do, and can see myself just been single for ever.
Help me please.
I don't know where i could meet any girls? I don't go to party, im not a party person :p
If you feel like chattin to me, post ur msn:)
I dont know what to do:(I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
I'm sure every 16 yo boy (and girl) thinks they are going to be single forever. We all feel that way sometimes and for 99.9% of people it just isn't true. It will happen to you sooner or later.
Your frenulum is a problem that cannot afford to wait. The older you are when you have any operation, the longer it takes to heal. Your frenulum problem may need an operation to loosen it so it won't help you to wait. Bite the bullet and get it sorted. Your parents do not need to know if you see your doctor and unless you have daisies growing out the end, the doctor will have seen thousands of penises exactly like it.
As for finding girls, you have just given us a whole long list of places that you won't go to or try. You need to change your approach. Put it this way: you're not finding girls in the places you go to/things you do now. That suggests to me that you need to look somewhere different to find girls rather than waiting for them to show up where you are.
Everybody is a party person at the right kind of party. And trying a new hobby or activity doesn't mean you are stuck with it forever. Just give something new a go and if you don't like it try something else. What is there to lose?
Something else to bear in mind is that teenage girls tend to have sex to boost their self-esteem. Unfortunately, it often works completely the opposite way - the sense of rejection when he doesn't call and the reputation as a tramp undermines their self-esteem and a vicious cycle starts. Everyone wants a ';nice'; partner who will treat them right and love them, but some people just have very bad judgement. Don't discount someone just because they have a reputation or because they don't seem to be your ';type';. Get to know them before you judge them.
You will get there in the end, just don't give up on yourself and don't hide away waiting for love to find you because it won't. Get out there, try something new, broaden your horizons and meet someone new. Good luck.I need some girl advice, preferably from girlssssss. :):):):):):):):)?
UGH. Teen sex is horrible! It's like you're throwing it all away..
I say have it after 21.. or else it's so.. so, UGH.
But, I'm not in charge of you, so here: You can meet girls at the mall, at school {if you still go to school} anywhere actually. All you have to do is get the nerves to talk to her.
I go to a Catholic school and I don't to church when we have to go I would rather be siting on a big farm some where Just because they go to church doesn't mean they want to be there. I was more into guy stuff more than half the guys in my class last year. so the hobby thing wouldn't mater
too be honest....
if a girl just wants sex they are not worth wasting you time on....
girls feel the same about guys....a lot of girls want a relationship/to be friends first/etc...more than just sex...and you would be surprised how many want to wait before they have sex!
take your time to find a friend 1st...
build on a friendship
be confident, and more importantly BE YOURSELF!!!
feel free to email me if you want to chat.
Smile! -_^
don't worry i know you'll find a perfect girl and no not all girls want sex trust me and they don't have to be church girls in order not to have sex sum girls are raised right by their parents and know that they should wait
just keep lookin you could find girls anywhere there's more than enough in the world!
Your 16...you have plenty time to find a girlfriend...find some of the kind girls at school you can see yourself with and start chatting to them...and maybe it will go somewhere...
ok this the third time you posted this question. or the third time ive read it.
i think u seem very sweet and that but not all girls are like that eventually one will come along for u just stop thinking about it, it WILL happen! good luck hun
your only 16...your life is just begining...dont worry things will happen for you...just be happy with what and who you are and the rest will follow...
Oh hey i just answered ur other question lol email meeee catslover2222@yahoo.co.uk Xx
wait. in the beginning it says 'if i got a girlfriend, i would want sex' but then you ask if there are any nice girls that don't just want sex..?
anyways,
in high school your stuck with the same friends but in college you'll get to meet allll kinds of different people. so for now, just have fun and stop worrying about the sex situation. if you want a real relationship, focus more on the personality
firstly i dont know a frenulumn is but go to the doctors about it, they wont tell your parents! just tell your parents your meeting friends and go.
there are lots of girls, especially who will be 14/15/16 and not want sex so dont think of them all like that!
normally you can tell when you meet girls what they will be like.
are u going to college next year? u will meet lots of girls there
or ask your female friends if they know anyone
or take up a new hobbie where u might meet girls, you dont have to worry about being shy, as long as you have SOMETHING to say to them, shy is nice!
just smile at girls when u see nice ones, when yout out and about. stop looking for a girlfriend, just look to make friends.
goodluck
also there will be loads of girls out there your age thinking the same thing as you!
First thing you should know: don't be desperate. that's one thing nobody likes. Secondly you don't only have to go to parties to meet girls. having a drink or going to festivals, concerts, whatever is enough. get out of your house and go to places. If you do this enough you'll meet enough girls. and once you start meeting them it becomes a lot easier..
Well you seem like a nice guy and everything but dont give up ! Im sure that soon youll be able to find that girl that you just described. Yeah no only some girls just want to have sex all the time but not all of them! You could probably look for a girl like by going out for a walk or soemthing around your neighborhood or something. You can also ask like some of your cousins for friends that might be single . Hope this helped!
Dont worry im 14 and ive never had a boyfriend yet either ... and i certainly wouldnt be having sex like them little slags .. girls like that just get a bad name and used ..
me and all my mates are respectable and not into that at all ..
if you dont mind me asking where these girls are from ..
there all little sluts lately ...
u sounds like a nice lad .. and just wait theres plenty of time for girlfriends and just coz ur mates tink there mad and cool coz they have sex with sluts doesnt mean u have to do all that ..
wait til u meet a nice girl that u can trust and is very respectful .. someone ur parents would like to .. thats the best girl not a little tart that will cheat on u wioth ur best mate.
good luck i hope you find a nice girl soon but if you dont .. dont be worryign you have plenty of time for girlfriends just enjoy being young .. and then focus on girls for now dont worry let them chase you :).
hope that helps :D.
xxxx
um, no offense, but your friends are sluts. Not all girls have sex. not all pretty girls have sex. usually if they are insecure, and desperate and need a man to make them feel better about themseleves, then they will do it. i'm sure there are plenty of girls where you live who don't want that. i' don't want that. haha. i'm not a church girl. i want to find a guy like you actually! and i think i found him but i'm pretty sure he doesnt like me back. :( slowly killing me.
just look around and talk to people. good luck :)
So theres this girl... advice please?
So there was this girl that I had my eye on back at school. Well we got into a fight, over her lateness to an an event, and then i got mad at her. I apologized and said that I was looking forward to hanging out with her, and got upset when i did not think she was coming, and overreacted at her being late. We left it at that, and i felt like i came on wayyyyyyy to strong when i said this. Now about a month later, with no communication in between, while were still on break from school, she IMs me to ask about how my break is going and starts talking to me and stuff, calling me smart, and asking for my advice on this stuff. I still like her, what am I to make of these actions?So theres this girl... advice please?
well if u like her go along with it. ask her similar questions to what she asks you but dont make it obvious. start a conversation with her and see where it goes.
well if u like her go along with it. ask her similar questions to what she asks you but dont make it obvious. start a conversation with her and see where it goes.
Getting over a girl.. Advice needed?
Hey,
I met this girl some time ago now... I was bumming around Thailand at the time .. we stayed in the same hostel.. She was really pretty, super nice and all the rest of it..
Anyway, I facebooked her like a love sick puppy and she didn't reply to any of my messages or my friend request..
But she's still stuck in my brain..
Obviously she doesn't fancy me (hey she might not even like me much as a person) but it still doesn't make the love sickness any easier to get over...
How do you get someone who's obviously not interested in you out of your brain?? Advice needed folks!!!Getting over a girl.. Advice needed?
Just try to keep busy with something else such as a sport or hobby. Spend time with your mates doing something unrelated to girls. You'll eventually learn to get over her and in the process get closer to your mates, win-win.
But one thing, don't worry if it takes a while, I had a major crush on a girl and it took me nearly a year to move on. But trust me you will.
Alternatively you could just focus your entire life on her and end up stalking her forever.. i mean it's your choice :PGetting over a girl.. Advice needed?
For me its...
Not talking to me
not wanting to be around me
etc, etc ..stuff like that =p
Just try not to think about it =p..andd...ummm dont use the internet? =p
try looking for another girl the same type nice, pretty, so u can get her off your head. this helped me get over a guy:)
Im having a similar problem, liked a girl for a while, had my chance, blew it, now she hates me but im madly in love!!
best solution is to try and fancy someone else
Oh the life of a teenager...
I know how hard this is.
OK here's the question you need to ask yourself. Why would I want to be with a girl that ignores me like this? Clearly someone like that doesn't deserve a nice guy like you.
Look around, I find that the one that that can take my mind off of a girl is... another girl!
lol =P
There has to be someone out there that wouldn't treat you like this.
find a neww hobby meet another girl...that fancies you...read the news paper
Really all you can do is try to move on. Time will make it better. Go out and have fun and slowly you will forget the feelings.
find a new girl
That's love at first site dude, actually it's not love it's just crush. you can easily get over her. Go find another girl and get off the things that make you remember her like, avoid seeing her account in facebook, friendster, Hi5 etc.
Live your life dude girls are everywhere. Soon you will find a beautiful girl who is better than her.
Being mature. Accepting a situation like this would be easier. Don't go for things you can't really have. Just keep yourself busy I'm pretty sure you are just too preoccupied thinking over her which will just make your situation harder.
Just be nice
I'm sorry buddy, you're just going to have to move on. If she doesn't even bother to reply to your messages or anything, she's apparently not interested. I would move on, find another girl that treats you good. Good luck :D
You have no control over the situation you should stop worrying about it. Go facebook someone who does respond. I know it may be difficult but this seems to be an infatuation with someone you can not have.
I would go read a book to help focus my brain on another character.
hang out with friends or something. get ur mind off of her!
If you really like her, you would put an effort to try to court her, romance her, into liking you, or seduce her. If you're not trying hard enough, than obviously you're not as into her as you say. If you did try ur hardest, then I'm sorry, because I know getting over someone if really hard. Perhaps if you wait a little longer, you'll meet someone new, someone who would like you back. Good luck man.
Don't keep trying to contact her ...that will help out. Try to talk to other girls and keep busy.
It's not like you were in a relationship with her...there is not much you can do but try to move on.
get over her its that simple
I met this girl some time ago now... I was bumming around Thailand at the time .. we stayed in the same hostel.. She was really pretty, super nice and all the rest of it..
Anyway, I facebooked her like a love sick puppy and she didn't reply to any of my messages or my friend request..
But she's still stuck in my brain..
Obviously she doesn't fancy me (hey she might not even like me much as a person) but it still doesn't make the love sickness any easier to get over...
How do you get someone who's obviously not interested in you out of your brain?? Advice needed folks!!!Getting over a girl.. Advice needed?
Just try to keep busy with something else such as a sport or hobby. Spend time with your mates doing something unrelated to girls. You'll eventually learn to get over her and in the process get closer to your mates, win-win.
But one thing, don't worry if it takes a while, I had a major crush on a girl and it took me nearly a year to move on. But trust me you will.
Alternatively you could just focus your entire life on her and end up stalking her forever.. i mean it's your choice :PGetting over a girl.. Advice needed?
For me its...
Not talking to me
not wanting to be around me
etc, etc ..stuff like that =p
Just try not to think about it =p..andd...ummm dont use the internet? =p
try looking for another girl the same type nice, pretty, so u can get her off your head. this helped me get over a guy:)
Im having a similar problem, liked a girl for a while, had my chance, blew it, now she hates me but im madly in love!!
best solution is to try and fancy someone else
Oh the life of a teenager...
I know how hard this is.
OK here's the question you need to ask yourself. Why would I want to be with a girl that ignores me like this? Clearly someone like that doesn't deserve a nice guy like you.
Look around, I find that the one that that can take my mind off of a girl is... another girl!
lol =P
There has to be someone out there that wouldn't treat you like this.
find a neww hobby meet another girl...that fancies you...read the news paper
Really all you can do is try to move on. Time will make it better. Go out and have fun and slowly you will forget the feelings.
find a new girl
That's love at first site dude, actually it's not love it's just crush. you can easily get over her. Go find another girl and get off the things that make you remember her like, avoid seeing her account in facebook, friendster, Hi5 etc.
Live your life dude girls are everywhere. Soon you will find a beautiful girl who is better than her.
Being mature. Accepting a situation like this would be easier. Don't go for things you can't really have. Just keep yourself busy I'm pretty sure you are just too preoccupied thinking over her which will just make your situation harder.
Just be nice
I'm sorry buddy, you're just going to have to move on. If she doesn't even bother to reply to your messages or anything, she's apparently not interested. I would move on, find another girl that treats you good. Good luck :D
You have no control over the situation you should stop worrying about it. Go facebook someone who does respond. I know it may be difficult but this seems to be an infatuation with someone you can not have.
I would go read a book to help focus my brain on another character.
hang out with friends or something. get ur mind off of her!
If you really like her, you would put an effort to try to court her, romance her, into liking you, or seduce her. If you're not trying hard enough, than obviously you're not as into her as you say. If you did try ur hardest, then I'm sorry, because I know getting over someone if really hard. Perhaps if you wait a little longer, you'll meet someone new, someone who would like you back. Good luck man.
Don't keep trying to contact her ...that will help out. Try to talk to other girls and keep busy.
It's not like you were in a relationship with her...there is not much you can do but try to move on.
get over her its that simple
Need some quick girl advice!?
First a little info on the school, Im a culinary student at the Art insitute of houson,
So there is this girl that's in my class. the first couple weeks of the class me and her would glance at each other and smile and share some eye contact, last week, she metioned we should try for the same cooking lab next semester, (which i thought that was really weird because i havnt talked to her for more then 5 minutes at a time when she ask me this) the next class we talked on break for a while, well this week the first day of the cooking class of the week, we went to break together and shortly after we started talking, then she ask me for my number so i gave it to her and she called me so i would have hers, day after that we had class and she ask me to take my breaks with hers, she seems a bit out of my league, we talked made good eye contact shared some laughs, long story short I think she looks good and I want to see where this could end up. only thing is what should i do? its saturday and she gave me her number thursday. should i call or txt her?..
P.S. I think she might be shy.. only talks to a hand full of people so far from what ive seen!!! plz help me!!!
I went to add her on facebook and myspace but her main picture is her and some guy?
says she's ina relationship as well
Could this be because she wants to be friend or could it be she is attracted to me and wants to get to know be better?Need some quick girl advice!?
might shez judging u through ur expression or how u interact wid others when she came 2 knw lil abt u she talked 2 u n asked u 4 same classes den she started talkin 2 u rite? might be possible dat while interactng wid u she find u polite n intersted in ur frndship dats the reason she gave her no everyone like to people make frnds u also like i think !just call her n spend some time wid her if u think dat u r comfortable talkin to her den be her frnd
So there is this girl that's in my class. the first couple weeks of the class me and her would glance at each other and smile and share some eye contact, last week, she metioned we should try for the same cooking lab next semester, (which i thought that was really weird because i havnt talked to her for more then 5 minutes at a time when she ask me this) the next class we talked on break for a while, well this week the first day of the cooking class of the week, we went to break together and shortly after we started talking, then she ask me for my number so i gave it to her and she called me so i would have hers, day after that we had class and she ask me to take my breaks with hers, she seems a bit out of my league, we talked made good eye contact shared some laughs, long story short I think she looks good and I want to see where this could end up. only thing is what should i do? its saturday and she gave me her number thursday. should i call or txt her?..
P.S. I think she might be shy.. only talks to a hand full of people so far from what ive seen!!! plz help me!!!
I went to add her on facebook and myspace but her main picture is her and some guy?
says she's ina relationship as well
Could this be because she wants to be friend or could it be she is attracted to me and wants to get to know be better?Need some quick girl advice!?
might shez judging u through ur expression or how u interact wid others when she came 2 knw lil abt u she talked 2 u n asked u 4 same classes den she started talkin 2 u rite? might be possible dat while interactng wid u she find u polite n intersted in ur frndship dats the reason she gave her no everyone like to people make frnds u also like i think !just call her n spend some time wid her if u think dat u r comfortable talkin to her den be her frnd
I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
Ok so theres this girls see and ive gone up to her and talked to her yesterday. Im not sure if she knows i like her and im kinda scared about making girls know i like them but thats another issue and another story.
any ways i saw her again in class today, should i have gone up to her and spoken to her. would that look like im desperate. even though that might seem unreasonable to say.
Yesterday we were talking for a decent time and she was doing as much talking as i was even though i think i messed that up too.
I think im gonna see her tomorrow and i think we might talk for a bit more time than last time. what should i do or talk about. where should my head be. i know im not suppose to make sure a big deal out of it like there will be no other. for me its hard to find a girl i have real interest in.
Im not scared of talking to her i just dont want to mess up. put your self in my shoes what would you do.I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
I think you should relax and be yourself she wont know you like her unless you tell her. Maybe if your not so confident talking to her smile as you walk past or something and see if she comes and talks to you. :)I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
Tell her you're going to run to the cafeteria for a cup of coffee and see if she wants to come along.. You don't ask, you don't get. Be cool if she says no.
any ways i saw her again in class today, should i have gone up to her and spoken to her. would that look like im desperate. even though that might seem unreasonable to say.
Yesterday we were talking for a decent time and she was doing as much talking as i was even though i think i messed that up too.
I think im gonna see her tomorrow and i think we might talk for a bit more time than last time. what should i do or talk about. where should my head be. i know im not suppose to make sure a big deal out of it like there will be no other. for me its hard to find a girl i have real interest in.
Im not scared of talking to her i just dont want to mess up. put your self in my shoes what would you do.I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
I think you should relax and be yourself she wont know you like her unless you tell her. Maybe if your not so confident talking to her smile as you walk past or something and see if she comes and talks to you. :)I need some girl advice. I dont know what to do. What would you do?
Tell her you're going to run to the cafeteria for a cup of coffee and see if she wants to come along.. You don't ask, you don't get. Be cool if she says no.
I need some girl advice.?
Alright this is a little gay, but i need some help. I met this girl at the beginning of the school year and we became really good friends. I really wasn't attracted to her, and we hung out sometimes. When the school year was ending i began to have to some feelings for her.
She is a really flirty girl. Basically any guy who gives her attention, but besides that she is really cool. Now as soon as i begin to like her, my best friend begins to like her. Our friendship has always been a like a competition, one has to be better than the other.
My friend is really trying to get her to like him now so they hang out a lot more than we use too. Now, i am extremely pissed, and considered i do not have a car yet, i cant do anything. It seems more and more the girl i like is leaning towards my friend. I am confused because i have always been there for the girl and now i am being pushed aside. I could really just use some advice.I need some girl advice.?
By your own words you said that this girl is a flirt and likes guys who give her attention. Your friend is giving her buckets of attention. Also, this girl and you were friends before she and your friend became close. In all this time you never asked her out or gave her the idea that you were interested in her. So, by her reckoning you are just a really good guy friend. If you like this girl, and are not just entering into a competition with your other friend, then you have to let her know it. So, you can either flirt with her a lot more then you have been, or jump the gun completely and ask her out. If you ask her out then you risk that she鈥檒l say no but you鈥檒l known exactly where you stand. Also, if this girl like attention then having two guys follow her and flirt with her maybe so good for ego that she kind of gets of on it. You don鈥檛 want to give anyone power over you like this. If this girls likes you then she likes, however if all she likes is attention then your friend should get her because girls like this will still flirt with other guys and crave attention. So, man up and ask her out and take your chances. Also, just note if a girl really likes you it doesn鈥檛 matter if you have a car or not. She鈥檒l ride the bus with you to get to where you are going.
also, how is this in anyway gay?I need some girl advice.?
if you really like her, stay with her and support her with whatever decision she chooses, even if it may be hard. If she does choose your friend, and you are still supportive of both of them, they will both see what a good friend you are. and if she ever needed anything, you might be the one she'd go to for help. =)
from a girls point of view just back off let him have her. if shes as flirty as you say he'll be the unlucky one. your best bet is to just wait it out for a bit find a better girl, one that shares common interests and and you really just genuinely enjoy being around you'll be much happier for it in the end
This sort of happened to me, my slutty best friend of 7 years dated the guy I was dating at the same time behind my back. Yeah, they cheated on me.
Listen....
if the girl likes your friend better than you, she isn't worth it.
if your friend is trying to take the girl you like away from you, he isn't worth it.
Moral of the story: If they both get together, dump them BOTH.
maybe since yall have been friends for so long maybe she doesnt think that u like her like that and yall are at that friends stage now and since ur ';best friend'; is in competition for it then just be friends with her...now if u really want to be with her u should tell her how u feel and go from there
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
Just let fate do it's work.
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
i know a girl just like her. they just want every guy to like them, even if they dont like the guy. try and get over her even if its hard. just try, she wont be worth it , if she just wants every guy.
slow down,go to her %26amp; tell her how you feel!ok!good.when you r done don't wait 4 d response give her space %26amp; time %26amp; just keep checkin' up on her if she wants you too.us girlz if don't say anything we assume dat you just don't like us,simple.
Find a way to show her you like her in a special way. Otherewise how is she going to know that? 'cause this is what he's doing, he's showing her he likes her!
:)
Thats how my boyfriend felt for at least a year. And when the guy got expelled I noticed him and now we've been going out for nearly a year.
Seriously, if she means a lot to you, don't give up on her.
try flirting back and if that doesn't work then ask her out to a place you can walk to
How about you tell the girl that you like her? Then you would've definitely gotten to her first!
sorry bro....girls like that break hearts .....
your mate is a dick tell him to **** off!!
She is a really flirty girl. Basically any guy who gives her attention, but besides that she is really cool. Now as soon as i begin to like her, my best friend begins to like her. Our friendship has always been a like a competition, one has to be better than the other.
My friend is really trying to get her to like him now so they hang out a lot more than we use too. Now, i am extremely pissed, and considered i do not have a car yet, i cant do anything. It seems more and more the girl i like is leaning towards my friend. I am confused because i have always been there for the girl and now i am being pushed aside. I could really just use some advice.I need some girl advice.?
By your own words you said that this girl is a flirt and likes guys who give her attention. Your friend is giving her buckets of attention. Also, this girl and you were friends before she and your friend became close. In all this time you never asked her out or gave her the idea that you were interested in her. So, by her reckoning you are just a really good guy friend. If you like this girl, and are not just entering into a competition with your other friend, then you have to let her know it. So, you can either flirt with her a lot more then you have been, or jump the gun completely and ask her out. If you ask her out then you risk that she鈥檒l say no but you鈥檒l known exactly where you stand. Also, if this girl like attention then having two guys follow her and flirt with her maybe so good for ego that she kind of gets of on it. You don鈥檛 want to give anyone power over you like this. If this girls likes you then she likes, however if all she likes is attention then your friend should get her because girls like this will still flirt with other guys and crave attention. So, man up and ask her out and take your chances. Also, just note if a girl really likes you it doesn鈥檛 matter if you have a car or not. She鈥檒l ride the bus with you to get to where you are going.
also, how is this in anyway gay?I need some girl advice.?
if you really like her, stay with her and support her with whatever decision she chooses, even if it may be hard. If she does choose your friend, and you are still supportive of both of them, they will both see what a good friend you are. and if she ever needed anything, you might be the one she'd go to for help. =)
from a girls point of view just back off let him have her. if shes as flirty as you say he'll be the unlucky one. your best bet is to just wait it out for a bit find a better girl, one that shares common interests and and you really just genuinely enjoy being around you'll be much happier for it in the end
This sort of happened to me, my slutty best friend of 7 years dated the guy I was dating at the same time behind my back. Yeah, they cheated on me.
Listen....
if the girl likes your friend better than you, she isn't worth it.
if your friend is trying to take the girl you like away from you, he isn't worth it.
Moral of the story: If they both get together, dump them BOTH.
maybe since yall have been friends for so long maybe she doesnt think that u like her like that and yall are at that friends stage now and since ur ';best friend'; is in competition for it then just be friends with her...now if u really want to be with her u should tell her how u feel and go from there
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
Just let fate do it's work.
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
i know a girl just like her. they just want every guy to like them, even if they dont like the guy. try and get over her even if its hard. just try, she wont be worth it , if she just wants every guy.
slow down,go to her %26amp; tell her how you feel!ok!good.when you r done don't wait 4 d response give her space %26amp; time %26amp; just keep checkin' up on her if she wants you too.us girlz if don't say anything we assume dat you just don't like us,simple.
Find a way to show her you like her in a special way. Otherewise how is she going to know that? 'cause this is what he's doing, he's showing her he likes her!
:)
Thats how my boyfriend felt for at least a year. And when the guy got expelled I noticed him and now we've been going out for nearly a year.
Seriously, if she means a lot to you, don't give up on her.
try flirting back and if that doesn't work then ask her out to a place you can walk to
How about you tell the girl that you like her? Then you would've definitely gotten to her first!
sorry bro....girls like that break hearts .....
your mate is a dick tell him to **** off!!
I need some girl advice!?
Serious answers only, I'm sick of seeing immature people trying to be funny.
So there's this girl, she a year younger than me. I really think she's great, I met her once when a group of my friends was hanging with her. I didn't really talk to her much, but that night I went home and she sent me a Facebook request immediately. This was back in November, and I have all the sudden seen her around but have not spoken to her and I have gotten a lot of interest in her. I want to be friends with her, maybe even more. I just want to know how I should approach this. Serious answers only please.I need some girl advice!?
when you see her just be like hey whats up and start a converstaion from thereI need some girl advice!?
Just talk to her on face book OR just have some small talk be nice to her say hi whenever you see her.
when u see her at school, just smile, then say hi. then maybe one day u guys will start talking. but if she seems like she dont wanna tlak to u. dont talk to her cuz shes gonna think that ur wierd
Try to be around her as much as possible and then when ur comfortable u ask her out. This could take a few weeks to months or even years.
Just go up to her and say ';Hey!'; or talk to her on Facebook and say that we haven't talked in forever! What's up? or something like that. =]cosmetics makeup
So there's this girl, she a year younger than me. I really think she's great, I met her once when a group of my friends was hanging with her. I didn't really talk to her much, but that night I went home and she sent me a Facebook request immediately. This was back in November, and I have all the sudden seen her around but have not spoken to her and I have gotten a lot of interest in her. I want to be friends with her, maybe even more. I just want to know how I should approach this. Serious answers only please.I need some girl advice!?
when you see her just be like hey whats up and start a converstaion from thereI need some girl advice!?
Just talk to her on face book OR just have some small talk be nice to her say hi whenever you see her.
when u see her at school, just smile, then say hi. then maybe one day u guys will start talking. but if she seems like she dont wanna tlak to u. dont talk to her cuz shes gonna think that ur wierd
Try to be around her as much as possible and then when ur comfortable u ask her out. This could take a few weeks to months or even years.
Just go up to her and say ';Hey!'; or talk to her on Facebook and say that we haven't talked in forever! What's up? or something like that. =]
I need some girl advice.?
Alright this is a little gay, but i need some help. I met this girl at the beginning of the school year and we became really good friends. I really wasn't attracted to her, and we hung out sometimes. When the school year was ending i began to have to some feelings for her.
She is a really flirty girl. Basically any guy who gives her attention, but besides that she is really cool. Now as soon as i begin to like her, my best friend begins to like her. Our friendship has always been a like a competition, one has to be better than the other.
My friend is really trying to get her to like him now so they hang out a lot more than we use too. Now, i am extremely pissed, and considered i do not have a car yet, i cant do anything. It seems more and more the girl i like is leaning towards my friend. I am confused because i have always been there for the girl and now i am being pushed aside. I could really just use some advice.I need some girl advice.?
By your own words you said that this girl is a flirt and likes guys who give her attention. Your friend is giving her buckets of attention. Also, this girl and you were friends before she and your friend became close. In all this time you never asked her out or gave her the idea that you were interested in her. So, by her reckoning you are just a really good guy friend. If you like this girl, and are not just entering into a competition with your other friend, then you have to let her know it. So, you can either flirt with her a lot more then you have been, or jump the gun completely and ask her out. If you ask her out then you risk that she鈥檒l say no but you鈥檒l known exactly where you stand. Also, if this girl like attention then having two guys follow her and flirt with her maybe so good for ego that she kind of gets of on it. You don鈥檛 want to give anyone power over you like this. If this girls likes you then she likes, however if all she likes is attention then your friend should get her because girls like this will still flirt with other guys and crave attention. So, man up and ask her out and take your chances. Also, just note if a girl really likes you it doesn鈥檛 matter if you have a car or not. She鈥檒l ride the bus with you to get to where you are going.
also, how is this in anyway gay?I need some girl advice.?
if you really like her, stay with her and support her with whatever decision she chooses, even if it may be hard. If she does choose your friend, and you are still supportive of both of them, they will both see what a good friend you are. and if she ever needed anything, you might be the one she'd go to for help. =)
from a girls point of view just back off let him have her. if shes as flirty as you say he'll be the unlucky one. your best bet is to just wait it out for a bit find a better girl, one that shares common interests and and you really just genuinely enjoy being around you'll be much happier for it in the end
This sort of happened to me, my slutty best friend of 7 years dated the guy I was dating at the same time behind my back. Yeah, they cheated on me.
Listen....
if the girl likes your friend better than you, she isn't worth it.
if your friend is trying to take the girl you like away from you, he isn't worth it.
Moral of the story: If they both get together, dump them BOTH.
maybe since yall have been friends for so long maybe she doesnt think that u like her like that and yall are at that friends stage now and since ur ';best friend'; is in competition for it then just be friends with her...now if u really want to be with her u should tell her how u feel and go from there
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
Just let fate do it's work.
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
i know a girl just like her. they just want every guy to like them, even if they dont like the guy. try and get over her even if its hard. just try, she wont be worth it , if she just wants every guy.
slow down,go to her %26amp; tell her how you feel!ok!good.when you r done don't wait 4 d response give her space %26amp; time %26amp; just keep checkin' up on her if she wants you too.us girlz if don't say anything we assume dat you just don't like us,simple.
Find a way to show her you like her in a special way. Otherewise how is she going to know that? 'cause this is what he's doing, he's showing her he likes her!
:)
Thats how my boyfriend felt for at least a year. And when the guy got expelled I noticed him and now we've been going out for nearly a year.
Seriously, if she means a lot to you, don't give up on her.
try flirting back and if that doesn't work then ask her out to a place you can walk to
How about you tell the girl that you like her? Then you would've definitely gotten to her first!
sorry bro....girls like that break hearts .....
your mate is a dick tell him to **** off!!
She is a really flirty girl. Basically any guy who gives her attention, but besides that she is really cool. Now as soon as i begin to like her, my best friend begins to like her. Our friendship has always been a like a competition, one has to be better than the other.
My friend is really trying to get her to like him now so they hang out a lot more than we use too. Now, i am extremely pissed, and considered i do not have a car yet, i cant do anything. It seems more and more the girl i like is leaning towards my friend. I am confused because i have always been there for the girl and now i am being pushed aside. I could really just use some advice.I need some girl advice.?
By your own words you said that this girl is a flirt and likes guys who give her attention. Your friend is giving her buckets of attention. Also, this girl and you were friends before she and your friend became close. In all this time you never asked her out or gave her the idea that you were interested in her. So, by her reckoning you are just a really good guy friend. If you like this girl, and are not just entering into a competition with your other friend, then you have to let her know it. So, you can either flirt with her a lot more then you have been, or jump the gun completely and ask her out. If you ask her out then you risk that she鈥檒l say no but you鈥檒l known exactly where you stand. Also, if this girl like attention then having two guys follow her and flirt with her maybe so good for ego that she kind of gets of on it. You don鈥檛 want to give anyone power over you like this. If this girls likes you then she likes, however if all she likes is attention then your friend should get her because girls like this will still flirt with other guys and crave attention. So, man up and ask her out and take your chances. Also, just note if a girl really likes you it doesn鈥檛 matter if you have a car or not. She鈥檒l ride the bus with you to get to where you are going.
also, how is this in anyway gay?I need some girl advice.?
if you really like her, stay with her and support her with whatever decision she chooses, even if it may be hard. If she does choose your friend, and you are still supportive of both of them, they will both see what a good friend you are. and if she ever needed anything, you might be the one she'd go to for help. =)
from a girls point of view just back off let him have her. if shes as flirty as you say he'll be the unlucky one. your best bet is to just wait it out for a bit find a better girl, one that shares common interests and and you really just genuinely enjoy being around you'll be much happier for it in the end
This sort of happened to me, my slutty best friend of 7 years dated the guy I was dating at the same time behind my back. Yeah, they cheated on me.
Listen....
if the girl likes your friend better than you, she isn't worth it.
if your friend is trying to take the girl you like away from you, he isn't worth it.
Moral of the story: If they both get together, dump them BOTH.
maybe since yall have been friends for so long maybe she doesnt think that u like her like that and yall are at that friends stage now and since ur ';best friend'; is in competition for it then just be friends with her...now if u really want to be with her u should tell her how u feel and go from there
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
Just let fate do it's work.
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
i know a girl just like her. they just want every guy to like them, even if they dont like the guy. try and get over her even if its hard. just try, she wont be worth it , if she just wants every guy.
slow down,go to her %26amp; tell her how you feel!ok!good.when you r done don't wait 4 d response give her space %26amp; time %26amp; just keep checkin' up on her if she wants you too.us girlz if don't say anything we assume dat you just don't like us,simple.
Find a way to show her you like her in a special way. Otherewise how is she going to know that? 'cause this is what he's doing, he's showing her he likes her!
:)
Thats how my boyfriend felt for at least a year. And when the guy got expelled I noticed him and now we've been going out for nearly a year.
Seriously, if she means a lot to you, don't give up on her.
try flirting back and if that doesn't work then ask her out to a place you can walk to
How about you tell the girl that you like her? Then you would've definitely gotten to her first!
sorry bro....girls like that break hearts .....
your mate is a dick tell him to **** off!!
I need some girl advice...........?
ok so me and this girl have known each other for about 4 years and for the past 2 we have been really good friends. it isn't the kinda of relationship where we don't ever talk in person cuz we do all the time and we also text a lot but she has a boyfriend who used to be my best friend and she keeps telling me that she wants to break up with her. i mean i really like her a lot. whenever she walks in a room she just like stands out to me. like shes walks in and i just notice her. its kinda like if you found $100 on the ground. every time she walks into a room i get that feeling. now that tells you how much i like her lol. but her boyfriend is like the most protective person ever, he wont let her talk to any guys. but we text all the time and she tells me pretty much everything about her social life. and shes telling me that she has a junior stalker (junior as in junior in high school, we are freshman in high school) and she keeps telling me how cute he is. do you think that shes trying to get me jealous? is making someone jealous like saying u like them or anything like that? but yea i really like her shes really really cute. we have the same sense of humor and i think we would make a really cute couple. so yea what do you think? do you think she likes me and does making someone u like jealous with another person kinda like flirting? when we talk in person she usually looks away when shes talking to me and blinks slowly when she repeats things if i didn't hear if that helps. she also laughs at sexual things. like the that's what she said jokes. like she'll be like bend down to one of her friends and laugh lol. and sometimes when shes talking to her friend in school and i turn around sometimes shell look at me and smile and stop the conversation with her friend. SOMETIMES tho. not always. thanks. and also her friends are kinda friendly with me. so do u think that means she told them and their being nice or something for some reason lol im sooooooo confused with all this. but all i really care about is do u think she likes me haha thanks again!I need some girl advice...........?
id say she likes you. i have the same thing with a girl i like. same situation. really weird how similar it is.I need some girl advice...........?
Shes crazy about you.
You seem to examine this girl...alot! Well as for the entire trying to make you jealous thing, She might be able to, but she has a really immature way of doing it. I mean if she knows your jealous already because of her boyfriend, why try to make you even more?, well I think you should confess your infatuation to her and then see if you go places, from my experience I can tell she's one of the typical teenage crushes that don't last for more than two weeks...but...you never know.
id say she likes you. i have the same thing with a girl i like. same situation. really weird how similar it is.I need some girl advice...........?
Shes crazy about you.
You seem to examine this girl...alot! Well as for the entire trying to make you jealous thing, She might be able to, but she has a really immature way of doing it. I mean if she knows your jealous already because of her boyfriend, why try to make you even more?, well I think you should confess your infatuation to her and then see if you go places, from my experience I can tell she's one of the typical teenage crushes that don't last for more than two weeks...but...you never know.
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Ok so i have this amazing girl friend who i really love. there is only one problem. im being to clingy and she doesnt like it. what i want to be like is one of those guys who knows when to bee funny and when to be serious. she is my first gf and ive always imagined it as just a relationship where when we need to be serious we can be but i can also make her laugh and comfort her and just do everything that a boy friend should do. the clingyness though is driving her away which i dont want to happen. please just give me all of the advice you can because i really want to be with this girl forever. thanks!!!I need some girl advice?
First of all you seem like the kind of guy ever girl wants. It's hard when you're more emotional than your partner but when it's your first love that happens. You don't know how to find the right balance. My suggestion would be to hang out with your guy friends more. I think that would actually make her want you around more because she might realize your fine without her. People tend to get defensive when they feel you don't need them as much as they thought you did.I need some girl advice?
If you are 15 or younger, I'm sorry, but the truth is that you just won't be with this girl forever. You're both going to change so much.
Also, there are so many girls who are looking for a guy like you. So many guys are all about being funny all the time, and so many don't have a sense of humor at all. My advice is to let this girl go, because clearly you are much more devoted to her happiness than she is to yours, and there are a lot of better girls out there who will love your ';clingy-ness.';
Just stop it, also to fix with your clinginess it just means you haven't been with her in a while. It should go away after a few months of being together. Just tell her it's just temporary and it's normal. It just a strange emotion human have when they really have feelings for the person.
Also don't say you want to be with her forever...see how things turn out. I'm with my first girlfriend and we seem like the perfect couple. But I don't believe unless things work out real swell. So far so good, but I don't believe in fairy stories...
My boyfriend is the same way. Just kinda chill out. Let her say ';I love you'; or ';I missed you first';. Let her start the conversations :) It'll help. Just ask her what's wrong %26amp; stuff like that. Don't get too sensible.
aw. ok so yes i could maybe help. just try to back off a little give your girlfriend some space. or just talk to her in the morning and then hang out just every weekend or every other weekend. but so i think u mean clingy as in seeing her every day?
idk what clingyness is but im 15 years old and i always make my girl laugh bye acting hype and just acting kinda goofy lol but like if its jsut u to at a movies or something show her ur romantic side n if u argue just make a joke about it .. never let her think ur seriouse
all i can say is give her space at times and don't be so clingy you can be clingy once in awhile but not all the time
good luck with your relationship
and hope i helped
well remember that girls need space just like guys so make sure to note when she just wants time ti her self or just the girls
just try not to talk to her every second that your able to.and make her think your interesting to her
my dad is clingy with his girl friend and she doesn't like it so try to love her but not suffocate her with love
talk it our with her girls are mature and will understand your feelings!
First of all you seem like the kind of guy ever girl wants. It's hard when you're more emotional than your partner but when it's your first love that happens. You don't know how to find the right balance. My suggestion would be to hang out with your guy friends more. I think that would actually make her want you around more because she might realize your fine without her. People tend to get defensive when they feel you don't need them as much as they thought you did.I need some girl advice?
If you are 15 or younger, I'm sorry, but the truth is that you just won't be with this girl forever. You're both going to change so much.
Also, there are so many girls who are looking for a guy like you. So many guys are all about being funny all the time, and so many don't have a sense of humor at all. My advice is to let this girl go, because clearly you are much more devoted to her happiness than she is to yours, and there are a lot of better girls out there who will love your ';clingy-ness.';
Just stop it, also to fix with your clinginess it just means you haven't been with her in a while. It should go away after a few months of being together. Just tell her it's just temporary and it's normal. It just a strange emotion human have when they really have feelings for the person.
Also don't say you want to be with her forever...see how things turn out. I'm with my first girlfriend and we seem like the perfect couple. But I don't believe unless things work out real swell. So far so good, but I don't believe in fairy stories...
My boyfriend is the same way. Just kinda chill out. Let her say ';I love you'; or ';I missed you first';. Let her start the conversations :) It'll help. Just ask her what's wrong %26amp; stuff like that. Don't get too sensible.
aw. ok so yes i could maybe help. just try to back off a little give your girlfriend some space. or just talk to her in the morning and then hang out just every weekend or every other weekend. but so i think u mean clingy as in seeing her every day?
idk what clingyness is but im 15 years old and i always make my girl laugh bye acting hype and just acting kinda goofy lol but like if its jsut u to at a movies or something show her ur romantic side n if u argue just make a joke about it .. never let her think ur seriouse
all i can say is give her space at times and don't be so clingy you can be clingy once in awhile but not all the time
good luck with your relationship
and hope i helped
well remember that girls need space just like guys so make sure to note when she just wants time ti her self or just the girls
just try not to talk to her every second that your able to.and make her think your interesting to her
my dad is clingy with his girl friend and she doesn't like it so try to love her but not suffocate her with love
talk it our with her girls are mature and will understand your feelings!
I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
okay, so i've been talking to this girl, and she is pretty freakin awesome.
i think i've been picking up some signs? but not totally sure..
anyways.. we were going to see a movie last night. just the two of us. but about an hour before the movie she called me and said her friend was having a bad day and asked if she could come. i though something was up until i got there and her friend looked pissed off. anyways does her friend going along mean anything?
she treated me really well and did not stop smiling when we were talking afterwards. she also gave me a dramatic ';byeee michaelll';
you know.. that kind of thing?
so what should i do today?
send her an email saying i had a good time?
text?
call her?
any and all advice is welcome :D
and i will choose a best answer : )I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
I think that this girl likes you but is probably too nervous to be around you alone...make her feel comfortable so that she doesn't have to resort to dragging friens along on dates!!!
Text her saying that it was fun and next time suggest something more public like mini golf so thre's lots of people around...anything that u both enjoy...!
Or you can try takin her out with friends for bowling or lunch so she feels comfortable and then approach her to take her out on a date!!!
Anyhow i hope this works out!!!
Njoi!!!
P.S. Pick me!!!I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
Two reasons for her actions.
1) Her friend was only pissed off for being drug along because your date doesnt want to be alone with you.
2) She was helping her friend out during a bad time.
If its the first, then make sure the signals you think you are getting are for real.
If it's the second, then call her and tell her that you had fun (even with the third wheel). Make sure you become friends with her friend. Her approval of you may seal it.
Awee so cute :)
Anways her bringing her friend doesn't mean shes not into you.. like she said her friend was having a bad day and you even said she looked pissed off. So she was just trying to be a good friend by getting her out of the house.
I think you should text something cute like ';Hey hows your day going maybe we can hang out later, just the two of us?';
Goodluck :)
umm...yeah it means that tha girl you like didnt want to be alone with you. it means she would have felt akward if she didnt have her friend. she still likes you but she just wanted her friend there for support. her friend was probaly fine she just said that so u would let her come. but yeah you should tottally email her if she replys on a good note call her.
Well she must have felt guilty for bringing her friend along. That is why she gave you a goodbye. When her friend is pissed off, she takes care of her. The girl is pretty awsome. So anyway, if you look like you only mind what happened a little, and ask her for a favor, then you might get something good*wink wink*
Like in dancing, the man has to lead. Do not get caught up in debating things with yourself on how to proceed. Sooner or later, you'll talk yourself out of the best response. So, ask yourself what do you want and then act out. If you push things too far, your instincts will let you know to pull back. As for girls, we're just as confused as you are. Leadership is important in getting a relationship to start.
i would send her a txt asking her if she had a good time she will appriciate that you care about what she thinks. then you could suggest that you 2 could do something else soon like bowling. do something whare the 2 of you can interact and not just sit silently in a movie theater. good luck
i think she really into u .like she said her friend was havin a bad day so if she wants to cheer her up then that must mean that she really kind and everythings so i think u should call or text her and say that u had a great time and ask if her friend is feelin any beter today.
i think she was just telling the truth, her friend was having a bad day and she needed to help her. i think you should call and maybe just talk to her. you don't even nessessarily need to talk about the movie. girls like phone calls.
yeah call her..
she probably just wanted to make her friend feel better..
i mean what are friends for?
she probably would have done the same for you
call her
tell her you had fun and you want to do it again..
and be considerate..-ask how her friend is doing
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I think she likes you :D
maybe call her
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awwwwwwwwwwwww! im pretty sure she likes u...expectually since she couldnt stop smiling! the next time u c her say u had a great time and mayb we could do it again sometime...someting along that line!
call and talk to her about last night. tell her how much fun you had and say maybe you guys should go for another movie.. she might like you back but maybe you should try asking and see if shes interested.
Girls love it when guys actually pay attention to them. You noticing those little things will mean a lot to her, trust me. Call her and talk, let her know you are thinking about her!
Good luck...
If she invited her friend to come long she was probably nervous about the fact of being alone with you. You should call her or something telling her you had a great time.
Shes definitely into you, If i were you i'd call or text her and tell her how much you enjoyed it. good luck man
make a move or you will regret it forever
text her. if you really want to call, but that could seem a bit extreme
you should call her and tell her u had a good time and talk to her as much as u can.. she probly likes u...
say u had a good time should do it again sort of thing. i like text messages
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try hanging out with her again just the two of u and u should text or call her
call her : Hows ur friend doing? whatever u can to to reconnectt
i think i've been picking up some signs? but not totally sure..
anyways.. we were going to see a movie last night. just the two of us. but about an hour before the movie she called me and said her friend was having a bad day and asked if she could come. i though something was up until i got there and her friend looked pissed off. anyways does her friend going along mean anything?
she treated me really well and did not stop smiling when we were talking afterwards. she also gave me a dramatic ';byeee michaelll';
you know.. that kind of thing?
so what should i do today?
send her an email saying i had a good time?
text?
call her?
any and all advice is welcome :D
and i will choose a best answer : )I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
I think that this girl likes you but is probably too nervous to be around you alone...make her feel comfortable so that she doesn't have to resort to dragging friens along on dates!!!
Text her saying that it was fun and next time suggest something more public like mini golf so thre's lots of people around...anything that u both enjoy...!
Or you can try takin her out with friends for bowling or lunch so she feels comfortable and then approach her to take her out on a date!!!
Anyhow i hope this works out!!!
Njoi!!!
P.S. Pick me!!!I need some girl advice? pleasseee?
Two reasons for her actions.
1) Her friend was only pissed off for being drug along because your date doesnt want to be alone with you.
2) She was helping her friend out during a bad time.
If its the first, then make sure the signals you think you are getting are for real.
If it's the second, then call her and tell her that you had fun (even with the third wheel). Make sure you become friends with her friend. Her approval of you may seal it.
Awee so cute :)
Anways her bringing her friend doesn't mean shes not into you.. like she said her friend was having a bad day and you even said she looked pissed off. So she was just trying to be a good friend by getting her out of the house.
I think you should text something cute like ';Hey hows your day going maybe we can hang out later, just the two of us?';
Goodluck :)
umm...yeah it means that tha girl you like didnt want to be alone with you. it means she would have felt akward if she didnt have her friend. she still likes you but she just wanted her friend there for support. her friend was probaly fine she just said that so u would let her come. but yeah you should tottally email her if she replys on a good note call her.
Well she must have felt guilty for bringing her friend along. That is why she gave you a goodbye. When her friend is pissed off, she takes care of her. The girl is pretty awsome. So anyway, if you look like you only mind what happened a little, and ask her for a favor, then you might get something good*wink wink*
Like in dancing, the man has to lead. Do not get caught up in debating things with yourself on how to proceed. Sooner or later, you'll talk yourself out of the best response. So, ask yourself what do you want and then act out. If you push things too far, your instincts will let you know to pull back. As for girls, we're just as confused as you are. Leadership is important in getting a relationship to start.
i would send her a txt asking her if she had a good time she will appriciate that you care about what she thinks. then you could suggest that you 2 could do something else soon like bowling. do something whare the 2 of you can interact and not just sit silently in a movie theater. good luck
i think she really into u .like she said her friend was havin a bad day so if she wants to cheer her up then that must mean that she really kind and everythings so i think u should call or text her and say that u had a great time and ask if her friend is feelin any beter today.
i think she was just telling the truth, her friend was having a bad day and she needed to help her. i think you should call and maybe just talk to her. you don't even nessessarily need to talk about the movie. girls like phone calls.
yeah call her..
she probably just wanted to make her friend feel better..
i mean what are friends for?
she probably would have done the same for you
call her
tell her you had fun and you want to do it again..
and be considerate..-ask how her friend is doing
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I think she likes you :D
maybe call her
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awwwwwwwwwwwww! im pretty sure she likes u...expectually since she couldnt stop smiling! the next time u c her say u had a great time and mayb we could do it again sometime...someting along that line!
call and talk to her about last night. tell her how much fun you had and say maybe you guys should go for another movie.. she might like you back but maybe you should try asking and see if shes interested.
Girls love it when guys actually pay attention to them. You noticing those little things will mean a lot to her, trust me. Call her and talk, let her know you are thinking about her!
Good luck...
If she invited her friend to come long she was probably nervous about the fact of being alone with you. You should call her or something telling her you had a great time.
Shes definitely into you, If i were you i'd call or text her and tell her how much you enjoyed it. good luck man
make a move or you will regret it forever
text her. if you really want to call, but that could seem a bit extreme
you should call her and tell her u had a good time and talk to her as much as u can.. she probly likes u...
say u had a good time should do it again sort of thing. i like text messages
are u that dude from Tennessee
try hanging out with her again just the two of u and u should text or call her
call her : Hows ur friend doing? whatever u can to to reconnectt
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yeah there is this girl in my geometry class that sits right behind me. i've became friends with her 1-3 weeks ago. we fool around during class and somtimes out of class. i recently got her cell phone number. all seems to be going well but she does play hard to get. i have no idea how she really feels about me or if she has feelings for somone else. im a junior and shes a freshman (high school)and we all know how freshman can be very confusing. when i log on to Facebook i see she writes about somone she may have a crush on. and i doubt it is me. i do flirt with her and fool around with her but i feel like she isnt taking me seriously. should i stop joking around with her? should i find out if she likes anyone else? should i be more serious with her? please help me. thank youI need help (girl advice).?
I don't think you should totally give up on her, but if she seems like she flirts with a lot of other boys than you should be a little more cautious. Keep joking around with her, just be aware that she make like someone else. But, you also need to play hard to get. Say something witty to her in class, then go talk to someone else. Don't put all of your attention on her and make sure she's aware that your not wrapped around her finger.
Talk to your friends, they probably know the situation a lot better and they'll be able to help you out.I need help (girl advice).?
ooooh i like that game: playing hard to get. dude i think she definately likes you. if i were you i would continue to tease and joke around with her. even if she doesn't like you, at least you tried. and you should only do this if you like her back.
hey, i think u keep on being friends with her. if u get a little closer, than i would maybe just ask her who she likes. but keep on flirtinggg!
unless you want to keep wallowing in this confused state, just be blunt. ppull her aside or talk to her on facebook and ask her if she wants you or not cause if not you want to move on and stop wasting your time. most likely, she just wants to know your into her too.
dats a tuffy. i say jus ask her over da fone or text. dont mak it sound so serious therefore she b more comfortable telln da truth. but in the meanwhile u need to withdraw a bit until your are for sure what your getting into. she may like you enough for u to havea chance with her if anything.
I don't think you should totally give up on her, but if she seems like she flirts with a lot of other boys than you should be a little more cautious. Keep joking around with her, just be aware that she make like someone else. But, you also need to play hard to get. Say something witty to her in class, then go talk to someone else. Don't put all of your attention on her and make sure she's aware that your not wrapped around her finger.
Talk to your friends, they probably know the situation a lot better and they'll be able to help you out.I need help (girl advice).?
ooooh i like that game: playing hard to get. dude i think she definately likes you. if i were you i would continue to tease and joke around with her. even if she doesn't like you, at least you tried. and you should only do this if you like her back.
hey, i think u keep on being friends with her. if u get a little closer, than i would maybe just ask her who she likes. but keep on flirtinggg!
unless you want to keep wallowing in this confused state, just be blunt. ppull her aside or talk to her on facebook and ask her if she wants you or not cause if not you want to move on and stop wasting your time. most likely, she just wants to know your into her too.
dats a tuffy. i say jus ask her over da fone or text. dont mak it sound so serious therefore she b more comfortable telln da truth. but in the meanwhile u need to withdraw a bit until your are for sure what your getting into. she may like you enough for u to havea chance with her if anything.
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So I like this girl at school. And I notice her looking at me alot either in the hallway or in class. In the hallway she glances back really quick.. In the classroom she has her knees my direction and is looking at me or in my direction.. Now she started going out with this other guy at my school like 5 days ago.... There is a dance at my school soon and I don't know if I should ask her out or not. Before she started going out with the guy she said that she didn't want to go out with the guy because school is about to end and she doesn't think he will get anywhere in life. No one knows that I like her though.. Should I ask her to the dance, wait until they break up and ask her during summer, or ask her out next school year?Help Relationship Need Girl Advice?
just walk up to her and say - ';i know you're going out with this guy but i think we should get together. i really like you and i think we would be better together.';cosmetics makeup
just walk up to her and say - ';i know you're going out with this guy but i think we should get together. i really like you and i think we would be better together.';
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I been hanging out with this girl for about a week and we really hit it off, about a day ago things got awkward when we were walking home, she started getting really quiet and I told her I knew she wanted to ask me out. She later asked me to phone her ( Usually she calls me ) anyways, she just called me, and she was with another guy, I know because she was texting him plans to meet up while we were hanging out ( I understand the keeping her options opened part ) but I thought it was just me and her. I told her that I wanted to take things slow and didn't want to date right now, so she might not be intrested in me anymore because I'm too slow for her ( she is usto living life in the fast lane ) this guy she is hanging out with now is a drug dealer. she is not a bad girl but she hangs around with the wrong people. I'm not a bad guy. what do I do? I don't want her to fall for another guy. I'm taking her to the fair this weekend, do you think she is just using me for money?PLEASE ANSWER THIS. Girl Advice Please!?
she sounds like a good girl and you should call her or text her and tell her how you really feel. say something like ';i know i might be a little slow pace for you but I think you should take your time with me rather than be with him whos probably got another girlfreind and will end up in prision.'; tell her shes to good for him and you think you could be better for her.
she sounds like a good girl and you should call her or text her and tell her how you really feel. say something like ';i know i might be a little slow pace for you but I think you should take your time with me rather than be with him whos probably got another girlfreind and will end up in prision.'; tell her shes to good for him and you think you could be better for her.
I need some girl advice?
There's this girl that goes to another local high school (we're both freshman. We've never really talked to each other in person) that I started talking to on myspace two days ago. we were talking for about 20 minutes and then she said that she had to go and gave me her phone number. then we texted all day. then we talked on myspace till about 1 am and then she messaged me and said that she was logging off and said '; text me if you want to, If not, sweet dreams'; it was kinda late so I took the second choice. I texted her at about 1 pm yesterday and we texted each other for a while and then I had to go do something. when i got back I texted her and she didn't reply, but then i went on myspace and she was on, so we talked for awhile. Is she interested in me or does she like me?I need some girl advice?
ahah, well that was deatiled :)
umm i think shes interested.
i'm not gonna Be like everyone else and say 'shes a 50 yr old rapist' cause she prolly isn't.
so, go for it :DI need some girl advice?
You know texting is great but a conversation with actual voices is so much better, Call her up and talk to her and you will probably be able to tell a whole lot more. Good luck
i recon she does like u and definiately seems interested in u if she's tellin u to txt her a like 1am.
i say go for gold.
1. Be Yourself. If you try to act all macho when you're not, you are telling the girl, ';I'm such a bad person that I have to pretend to be a better one.'; That is probably not true. Loosen up and let this girl see how you really are.
2. Smile. This can help a lot. It shows that you are enjoying the conversation and that you feel comfortable, which will make the girl continue talking with you.
3. Bring something up but don't seem too obvious about liking them. When you talk just be yourself, then you can see if the girl likes you for who you really are.
4. Look in her eyes and be serious and not desperate. But if she looks away don't try it again. When she looks away, it's sometimes her way of saying ';oh great, I don't like you, but how can I be nice about it';. Most likely, she's just nervous. Which is good! It means that she likes you back.
5. Be interested in her opinions and thoughts on different subjects. Listen intently when she speaks. Girls like guys that listen to them and like what they say. Don't constantly interrupt her, let her talk and share thoughts with you.
6. Comment on her sense of humor, good taste in music, or prowess on the dance floor. It's all right to compliment her clothes, hair, jewelry, etc., but you'll really win a girl's heart if she sees that you're into more than just her outside.
7. Don't tell girls %26amp;dash; for that matter, anyone at all %26amp;dash; they have a flaw unless you are obviously poking fun at them, even then only if you know they can take a joke, and know you well enough to know how to react to your teasing. Otherwise you risk putting them off.
8. Be funny. If you can make her laugh, you've as good as got her number then and there.
9. Don't try too hard. Girls will see you as needy and will not be attracted to you.
10. Be confident in yourself and don't be afraid of saying something stupid. If you're not afraid then you probably won't. If you have been friends with her for years, and are comfortable talking pretend you are just talking to her about another girl you like.
11. Make her laugh. Tell her you like her ear rings for example. Maybe if you are sitting next to her you could put an arm around the chair or something. If she clearly does not want you... give up. You will be made fun of by every single girl if she doesn't like you and dumps you in front of everyone. If you want to ask her out,do it in private, people spread rumors.
* Dont be afraid to talk to her.
* Always be yourself.
* Never insult a girl unless you know she will take it as a joke.
* Do not touch or talk about her stomach, most girls, no matter how thin, think they are fat. This is definitely a no-go area for most girls.
* Try to get along with her friends as without them on your side you've got no chance.
* No matter what don't leave telling her how you feel for too long. If you think she might like you then ask her out. After all, she can only say no.
* Don't approach her if you know she has a boyfriend, as it is a lost cause (for the time being) and you don't want to offend her boyfriend!
* If she doesn't seem happy with you, leave her be for two days without approaching her, that will give her time to cool down and think straight again. After a couple of days she will be ready to talk to you again.
* Never make a comment about her weight!
* Don't talk about other girls in front of her, and never compare her to other girls.
* DON'T talk about guy stuff. Most girls would rather you not talk about disturbing topics while they are present!!!!
ahah, well that was deatiled :)
umm i think shes interested.
i'm not gonna Be like everyone else and say 'shes a 50 yr old rapist' cause she prolly isn't.
so, go for it :DI need some girl advice?
You know texting is great but a conversation with actual voices is so much better, Call her up and talk to her and you will probably be able to tell a whole lot more. Good luck
i recon she does like u and definiately seems interested in u if she's tellin u to txt her a like 1am.
i say go for gold.
1. Be Yourself. If you try to act all macho when you're not, you are telling the girl, ';I'm such a bad person that I have to pretend to be a better one.'; That is probably not true. Loosen up and let this girl see how you really are.
2. Smile. This can help a lot. It shows that you are enjoying the conversation and that you feel comfortable, which will make the girl continue talking with you.
3. Bring something up but don't seem too obvious about liking them. When you talk just be yourself, then you can see if the girl likes you for who you really are.
4. Look in her eyes and be serious and not desperate. But if she looks away don't try it again. When she looks away, it's sometimes her way of saying ';oh great, I don't like you, but how can I be nice about it';. Most likely, she's just nervous. Which is good! It means that she likes you back.
5. Be interested in her opinions and thoughts on different subjects. Listen intently when she speaks. Girls like guys that listen to them and like what they say. Don't constantly interrupt her, let her talk and share thoughts with you.
6. Comment on her sense of humor, good taste in music, or prowess on the dance floor. It's all right to compliment her clothes, hair, jewelry, etc., but you'll really win a girl's heart if she sees that you're into more than just her outside.
7. Don't tell girls %26amp;dash; for that matter, anyone at all %26amp;dash; they have a flaw unless you are obviously poking fun at them, even then only if you know they can take a joke, and know you well enough to know how to react to your teasing. Otherwise you risk putting them off.
8. Be funny. If you can make her laugh, you've as good as got her number then and there.
9. Don't try too hard. Girls will see you as needy and will not be attracted to you.
10. Be confident in yourself and don't be afraid of saying something stupid. If you're not afraid then you probably won't. If you have been friends with her for years, and are comfortable talking pretend you are just talking to her about another girl you like.
11. Make her laugh. Tell her you like her ear rings for example. Maybe if you are sitting next to her you could put an arm around the chair or something. If she clearly does not want you... give up. You will be made fun of by every single girl if she doesn't like you and dumps you in front of everyone. If you want to ask her out,do it in private, people spread rumors.
* Dont be afraid to talk to her.
* Always be yourself.
* Never insult a girl unless you know she will take it as a joke.
* Do not touch or talk about her stomach, most girls, no matter how thin, think they are fat. This is definitely a no-go area for most girls.
* Try to get along with her friends as without them on your side you've got no chance.
* No matter what don't leave telling her how you feel for too long. If you think she might like you then ask her out. After all, she can only say no.
* Don't approach her if you know she has a boyfriend, as it is a lost cause (for the time being) and you don't want to offend her boyfriend!
* If she doesn't seem happy with you, leave her be for two days without approaching her, that will give her time to cool down and think straight again. After a couple of days she will be ready to talk to you again.
* Never make a comment about her weight!
* Don't talk about other girls in front of her, and never compare her to other girls.
* DON'T talk about guy stuff. Most girls would rather you not talk about disturbing topics while they are present!!!!
I need some girl advice. help please i'm desperate?
so i really really like this girl. shes super amazing. i just cant figure her out. we are seniors in highschool and ive liked her since i met her last year. she knew i liked her but didnt have any feelings for me, but i respected that. During the summer we hung out as friends but at the beginning of school she deff liked me. i know she did. she sat by me, invited me over all the time, called me, txted me constantly, flirted with me. but about 2 weeks ago she meant some other dude, which was a huge bummer, but again i respected her decisions. she didnt txt me at all or even sit with me in class. she was mean to me but yeah. anyways class was canceled last friday, and her and i and some other chick ended up hanging out for a while. i told her 'you look older then you actually are' and she said 'thats good cuz i like a guy whose 19'... but the next day she txted me for the first time and has been sitting with me again now. she asked me to go see a class movie together but ditched at the last minute. i'm so confused. help please. she i play hard to get? it seems like she only goes for 'badboys' and 'players' what should i do? i REALLY like herI need some girl advice. help please i'm desperate?
once you two are alone and talking.
pull her her closer to you by grabbing
her hands and pulling her gently to you.
if she does not pull away pull her closer.
now you lean in for a kiss. if she lets you
kiss her for more then 3seconds continue
until she starts kissing you back. then
pull away tell her playfully she talks to
much, then kiss her again for about 15
seconds.then after you two are done
making out, ask her if she likes you now.
this should work, good luck to you!
once you two are alone and talking.
pull her her closer to you by grabbing
her hands and pulling her gently to you.
if she does not pull away pull her closer.
now you lean in for a kiss. if she lets you
kiss her for more then 3seconds continue
until she starts kissing you back. then
pull away tell her playfully she talks to
much, then kiss her again for about 15
seconds.then after you two are done
making out, ask her if she likes you now.
this should work, good luck to you!
Need some shy girl advice?
When I told this shy girl I liked her the beginning of the summer, she said she liked me as a friend and hoped to continue to be friends. Whatever, told her I moved on.
Lately when I am around her now, she makes eye contact with me, looks away, and plays with or touches her hair and looks away. Same when I'm close to her. She was in a convo and she just smiled, looked at me, and looked down, and walked away.
Her friend was joking with me and something like ';don't worry, there are people who still love you'; and she looked at the shy girl.
I think I'm going to talk to her Monday and see what's up, but would you say she is now attracted to me or she is just shy and is nervous about the akwardness?Need some shy girl advice?
Hi from France 鈾?br>
Your story is cute !.. I think this girl is not only a little attracted by you, but too she is shy and probably nervous !..
Have a great week-end,
Cat.Need some shy girl advice?
Uhm, I think she has a little feelings for you, but she is probably
really nervous also! I'm a shy girl myself, %26amp; I play with my hair
or bite my lip when I'm nervous, or if its awkward!
But yes talk to her, see what's going on! she is she has any feelings
for you, %26amp; if she does go get her boy :)
Good Luck.
Lately when I am around her now, she makes eye contact with me, looks away, and plays with or touches her hair and looks away. Same when I'm close to her. She was in a convo and she just smiled, looked at me, and looked down, and walked away.
Her friend was joking with me and something like ';don't worry, there are people who still love you'; and she looked at the shy girl.
I think I'm going to talk to her Monday and see what's up, but would you say she is now attracted to me or she is just shy and is nervous about the akwardness?Need some shy girl advice?
Hi from France 鈾?br>
Your story is cute !.. I think this girl is not only a little attracted by you, but too she is shy and probably nervous !..
Have a great week-end,
Cat.Need some shy girl advice?
Uhm, I think she has a little feelings for you, but she is probably
really nervous also! I'm a shy girl myself, %26amp; I play with my hair
or bite my lip when I'm nervous, or if its awkward!
But yes talk to her, see what's going on! she is she has any feelings
for you, %26amp; if she does go get her boy :)
Good Luck.
Need a little girl advice/help?
So I met this girl when I was 14 years old, and we had a crush on each other then, but we were both young. We continued on with our lives and now I ran into her recently and we have been talking everyday, all day, for the past 3 weeks. (we are both 18 now.) Hanging out, watching movies, etc. She was head over heels for me, but I wasn't into her as much as she was me. Recently she has been falling away from me, not wanting to hang out as much, not speaking as much, and it's really starting to bother me. I realized that I do like her more than I thought and I'm afraid that she isn't feeling the same anymore. She seems like she may be playing hard to get also... but It's really hard to tell. What should I do? Should I be straight up with her and ask what's up?Need a little girl advice/help?
She might have just gotten tired of waiting for you to come around so she's backing off.
I suggest you just tell her how you're feeling. It's the best thing to do in this situation since she thinks you're not into her (why she's backing off). Tell her how you feel and that you want to give being together a try. See what she says and go from there.Need a little girl advice/help?
Yeah be straight up and ask her what is up, maybe she was hoping you would ask her out and maybe the relationship would progress or maybe not. The only way to be sure is to ask her what she is feeling and let her know how you feel about her.
Just straight out ask her if she thinks that you two may become a couple. You need to know how to continue, and if she isn't feeling it and you do something to make her uncomfortable because you don't know any better, then you may lose a friend.
She seems like she tried to get you to ask her out on a date and stuff...but you didn't. So she's giving you some time. You need to just hurry hurry and make a move. Tell her how you feel.
Ask her out (: Tell her you miss her x] Sweet stuff enhance the goodness Lol
she s probably disappointed that you guys didn't go out and she given up kiss her by surprise or ask her out or you should be straight with her she still likes you she just got tired of waiting for you to like her to and stuff hope this helps.
Yes, yes and yes. Ten to one because you knew she once cared a lot you played it cool this time around.
She may not want to be the one who cares the most again.
Show her and tell her, that she won't be.
Being honest is Always the best answer.
Be blunt and ask.
Playing games will only lead to more confusion.
Take her to a place that is quiet where you can just focus. Turn off your phone.
And just ask.
Anita
Yea but just don't do it with the atatude just say hey whats up in a gental voice and ask her to the movies again or somethin
maybe shes laying back a little because she saw you werent as into her. I say talk to her about how you both feel or maybe act more into her (now that you realize you really do like her) and see how she responds.
you messed up a bit but yeah talk to her tell her how your feeling then ask her whats up sometimes windows don't stay open as long as we like
* Well maybe she is afraid that she is gna fall for you again and loose you again ? MAKE a move Already !!! *
you are to little to date
yeah if you want her go get her
yeah i would tel her how you feel about her and that you need to know weather she wants to take your friendship further. she might be playing hard to get but she also might not want to mess up what she feels for you if she does feel any thing for you. as when You spend A lot of time with someone it can start to get hard as your with the same person all the time. that's doesn't mean she doesn't want to be with you it just means she needs her space just like you do. so i would say go for it and good luck.
if you like her then ask her out.
If you don't care for her that way then just be her friend and let her distance herself from you so she can get over you and look for someone who wants her.
No game playing, no head tripping, no wanting to keep her around to stroke your ego when your ';something better'; isn't available.
Just be honest with yourself about what your motivations are and then be honest with her about where you stand.
and don't drag your feet. She's on her way out and if you want something with her you need to let her know now.
Good Luck.
I've seen this one so many times when I was younger. Unfortunately, it is all about the game. It sounds like she was truly interested in you when you guys met up again and started hanging out. The problem now is that you gave her too much attention. If you do that too early in a relationship the other party will loose interest. You need to distance yourself now. The only way you might pull this one back is if you play it cool. Don't act needy, wait a while and let her contact you. If she doesn't then it might be too late but you can try to give her a call after a couple weeks. If you do get the spark back then you have to still take it slow. Make her wonder if you really like her and make her work a little.
She might have just gotten tired of waiting for you to come around so she's backing off.
I suggest you just tell her how you're feeling. It's the best thing to do in this situation since she thinks you're not into her (why she's backing off). Tell her how you feel and that you want to give being together a try. See what she says and go from there.Need a little girl advice/help?
Yeah be straight up and ask her what is up, maybe she was hoping you would ask her out and maybe the relationship would progress or maybe not. The only way to be sure is to ask her what she is feeling and let her know how you feel about her.
Just straight out ask her if she thinks that you two may become a couple. You need to know how to continue, and if she isn't feeling it and you do something to make her uncomfortable because you don't know any better, then you may lose a friend.
She seems like she tried to get you to ask her out on a date and stuff...but you didn't. So she's giving you some time. You need to just hurry hurry and make a move. Tell her how you feel.
Ask her out (: Tell her you miss her x] Sweet stuff enhance the goodness Lol
she s probably disappointed that you guys didn't go out and she given up kiss her by surprise or ask her out or you should be straight with her she still likes you she just got tired of waiting for you to like her to and stuff hope this helps.
Yes, yes and yes. Ten to one because you knew she once cared a lot you played it cool this time around.
She may not want to be the one who cares the most again.
Show her and tell her, that she won't be.
Being honest is Always the best answer.
Be blunt and ask.
Playing games will only lead to more confusion.
Take her to a place that is quiet where you can just focus. Turn off your phone.
And just ask.
Anita
Yea but just don't do it with the atatude just say hey whats up in a gental voice and ask her to the movies again or somethin
maybe shes laying back a little because she saw you werent as into her. I say talk to her about how you both feel or maybe act more into her (now that you realize you really do like her) and see how she responds.
you messed up a bit but yeah talk to her tell her how your feeling then ask her whats up sometimes windows don't stay open as long as we like
* Well maybe she is afraid that she is gna fall for you again and loose you again ? MAKE a move Already !!! *
you are to little to date
yeah if you want her go get her
yeah i would tel her how you feel about her and that you need to know weather she wants to take your friendship further. she might be playing hard to get but she also might not want to mess up what she feels for you if she does feel any thing for you. as when You spend A lot of time with someone it can start to get hard as your with the same person all the time. that's doesn't mean she doesn't want to be with you it just means she needs her space just like you do. so i would say go for it and good luck.
if you like her then ask her out.
If you don't care for her that way then just be her friend and let her distance herself from you so she can get over you and look for someone who wants her.
No game playing, no head tripping, no wanting to keep her around to stroke your ego when your ';something better'; isn't available.
Just be honest with yourself about what your motivations are and then be honest with her about where you stand.
and don't drag your feet. She's on her way out and if you want something with her you need to let her know now.
Good Luck.
I've seen this one so many times when I was younger. Unfortunately, it is all about the game. It sounds like she was truly interested in you when you guys met up again and started hanging out. The problem now is that you gave her too much attention. If you do that too early in a relationship the other party will loose interest. You need to distance yourself now. The only way you might pull this one back is if you play it cool. Don't act needy, wait a while and let her contact you. If she doesn't then it might be too late but you can try to give her a call after a couple weeks. If you do get the spark back then you have to still take it slow. Make her wonder if you really like her and make her work a little.
This girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
So this one girl at my school likes me. She's nice and pretty cool. We went to the movies once and it was okay. I cant really be myself around her though i dunno why. The girl I like is in my art class and we talk a lot, and hang out a lot and I feel so comfortable around her.
So here's my Dilemma:
I want to ask the girl in my art class out, but i don't want to hurt the other girl's feelings cause we've been friends since middle school. So i don't really know how to tell the one girl we can just be friends.
side note:
I had to tell this one girl(not one of the two mentioned above) it wasn't going to work out between us earlier this year, and she got really mad and i don't know whyThis girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
if the girl that you just want to be friends with if she a cool girl then she understand just make sure you tell her in a nice way. and ask the girl out that you like ,thats in your art class. This girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
just be honest with boffadem. Tell the one that you want to be friends, tell the other you want to go out.cosmetics makeup
So here's my Dilemma:
I want to ask the girl in my art class out, but i don't want to hurt the other girl's feelings cause we've been friends since middle school. So i don't really know how to tell the one girl we can just be friends.
side note:
I had to tell this one girl(not one of the two mentioned above) it wasn't going to work out between us earlier this year, and she got really mad and i don't know whyThis girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
if the girl that you just want to be friends with if she a cool girl then she understand just make sure you tell her in a nice way. and ask the girl out that you like ,thats in your art class. This girl likes me, but I like a different girl. ADVICE?
just be honest with boffadem. Tell the one that you want to be friends, tell the other you want to go out.
I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
theres this girl in my class (in college) for about 7 weeks now and there are about 3 more weeks to go.
i only see her for 1 hour 2 times a week, shes in lecture but she sits on the other side of this huge room 2 other times a week but i dont go up to her after because i dont want to seem all eager only to get disappointed. The other classes are smaller so i get a better excuse to talk to her after this class. i talk to her for about 5 minutes on the way to her next class even though my next class is completely the opposite direction (she doesnt know that). i might have over heard her saying ';love you'; when she was talking on her phone once. im hoping she was talking to her parents.
this is my concern. she hasnt been dismissive to me when i talk to her. im sure she has a clue i like her. its been 2 weeks since i started talking to her. i kinda want her to start coming up to me to talk. what should i do and what im a missing or not doing or should be doing. how would you go about it.I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Don't assume that she knows you're interested. It might seem obvious to you, but you don't know what's in her head. If you want to go out with her, then ask her. You've got nothing to loose, and if she's not interested, then you can stop waisting time thinking about her, and move on to somebody who is right for you. Good luck!I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Hi John,
Just ask her out for coffee or a real date and you will get a much better sense of where she is coming from. Good luck Pal.
i only see her for 1 hour 2 times a week, shes in lecture but she sits on the other side of this huge room 2 other times a week but i dont go up to her after because i dont want to seem all eager only to get disappointed. The other classes are smaller so i get a better excuse to talk to her after this class. i talk to her for about 5 minutes on the way to her next class even though my next class is completely the opposite direction (she doesnt know that). i might have over heard her saying ';love you'; when she was talking on her phone once. im hoping she was talking to her parents.
this is my concern. she hasnt been dismissive to me when i talk to her. im sure she has a clue i like her. its been 2 weeks since i started talking to her. i kinda want her to start coming up to me to talk. what should i do and what im a missing or not doing or should be doing. how would you go about it.I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Don't assume that she knows you're interested. It might seem obvious to you, but you don't know what's in her head. If you want to go out with her, then ask her. You've got nothing to loose, and if she's not interested, then you can stop waisting time thinking about her, and move on to somebody who is right for you. Good luck!I need some girl advice (just read it, its interesting, i promise)?
Hi John,
Just ask her out for coffee or a real date and you will get a much better sense of where she is coming from. Good luck Pal.
2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
im 16 years old. female. i dated this boy, brandon, for a few months about a year ago. ever since we broke up, i've always really wanted him back but we only talked a little in the past year. he recently called me and we went on a date a few nights ago. it seems like he only wants me back though because he wants a girlfriend. im not sure if he just knew i would get back with him so he came running back to me when no other girl wanted him. but then again, he could just miss me and want me back. but when we were broken up, i became friends with a boy named blake. we got pretty close and a few nights before brandon called me, i told brandon that i liked him and he said he liked me too. but i dont know if he likes me enough to go out with me. he could have just said that for all i know. but there is a chance that he could really like me and me and blake could have something..i really like him..but i really like my ex and i want him back too. i cant have both though. so if you were me, what would you do? advice, please?2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
2 boys, 1 girl 1 cup lol2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
2 girls 1 finger was worse than 2 girls 1 cup. It had nothing to do with fingers, just a sequel to 2 girls 1 cup.
2 boys, 1 girl 1 cup lol2 boys, 1 girl. advice?
2 girls 1 finger was worse than 2 girls 1 cup. It had nothing to do with fingers, just a sequel to 2 girls 1 cup.
Need lots of girl advice!!! (10 points)?
btw srry for the really bad grammar and if it gets confusing
alright so im 13 (boy) about 5'9 and i like this 14 year old girl named breaunna whose about 5'2. i go to a private school and thats where i first saw her. at the beginning i thought she was whatever but then, FIREWORKS the first time she talked to me. i went a whole year just staring at her everyday at recess(yea wierd huh? my school still gives recess :D). she has curly brown hair and the biggest smile i had ever seen
the first time i had ever talked to her was at the near the end of the school year around some couple months ago
my school was teachin us how to dance and we were paired up with ppl from the 8th grade class (i was in 7th)
wow was i lucky! i got paired up with breaunna.
i felt like i had just died and went to heaven
well that dance session had just lasted for about 40 minutes.
i experienced a feeling i had never felt in my entire life as i held her hand and felt the warmth. i looked at her in the eyes as she mouthed the lyrics from the music that was playing. it was silent between us as we danced which was soon broken when she laughed. the rest of the day i thought about wut had just happened to me and i soon found myself to like her even more than i did before.
at the 7th and 8th grade graduation dance i never even got a chance to talk to her. let alone dance with her again. i did come really close tho. i was dancin with her friend maggie when she dragged me off near her. there was an awkward silence and i walked away about 4 seconds later. WOW IM SO STUPID i thought to myself. i had lost my chance with her. i would forever wonder from that point on ';what if?';.the next day she graduated and so i went a week of school without seeing her again. i felt depressed. i might not ever get to see her again for the rest of my life.
now here comes the stupid part. after that maybe 2 weeks into summer vacation i ran into her amazingly on youtube(lol)
maybe God had helped me find her. maybe i have an angel out there.
i messaged her that i liked her and i told her how beautiful i thought she was and then i asked her if she liked me back and she replies....
';lol how could i not? ur a very sweet friend.';
friend.....
I sent her a message back saying ';wut do u think of me passed being friends?';
She hasn't answered in 3 weeks but i know for sure its because of school.
Is there any possible way to get my message back before she reads it and i get rejected for being way too fast?
Help??
Update: I've started school now and today she came to my school as a visitor and now i know i really do LIKE her. my heart jump started when i saw her and she looked amazing the 3 seconds i saw her.
I LOVE HER
too bad i got called in
i wanna try to get her cell phone number but idk how and when she'll start answering again
if i ask her friend for her phone number would that be kinda creepy?Need lots of girl advice!!! (10 points)?
Yeah, it would be creepy. I would just talk to her, and get to know her. You're being a bit too forward.
alright so im 13 (boy) about 5'9 and i like this 14 year old girl named breaunna whose about 5'2. i go to a private school and thats where i first saw her. at the beginning i thought she was whatever but then, FIREWORKS the first time she talked to me. i went a whole year just staring at her everyday at recess(yea wierd huh? my school still gives recess :D). she has curly brown hair and the biggest smile i had ever seen
the first time i had ever talked to her was at the near the end of the school year around some couple months ago
my school was teachin us how to dance and we were paired up with ppl from the 8th grade class (i was in 7th)
wow was i lucky! i got paired up with breaunna.
i felt like i had just died and went to heaven
well that dance session had just lasted for about 40 minutes.
i experienced a feeling i had never felt in my entire life as i held her hand and felt the warmth. i looked at her in the eyes as she mouthed the lyrics from the music that was playing. it was silent between us as we danced which was soon broken when she laughed. the rest of the day i thought about wut had just happened to me and i soon found myself to like her even more than i did before.
at the 7th and 8th grade graduation dance i never even got a chance to talk to her. let alone dance with her again. i did come really close tho. i was dancin with her friend maggie when she dragged me off near her. there was an awkward silence and i walked away about 4 seconds later. WOW IM SO STUPID i thought to myself. i had lost my chance with her. i would forever wonder from that point on ';what if?';.the next day she graduated and so i went a week of school without seeing her again. i felt depressed. i might not ever get to see her again for the rest of my life.
now here comes the stupid part. after that maybe 2 weeks into summer vacation i ran into her amazingly on youtube(lol)
maybe God had helped me find her. maybe i have an angel out there.
i messaged her that i liked her and i told her how beautiful i thought she was and then i asked her if she liked me back and she replies....
';lol how could i not? ur a very sweet friend.';
friend.....
I sent her a message back saying ';wut do u think of me passed being friends?';
She hasn't answered in 3 weeks but i know for sure its because of school.
Is there any possible way to get my message back before she reads it and i get rejected for being way too fast?
Help??
Update: I've started school now and today she came to my school as a visitor and now i know i really do LIKE her. my heart jump started when i saw her and she looked amazing the 3 seconds i saw her.
I LOVE HER
too bad i got called in
i wanna try to get her cell phone number but idk how and when she'll start answering again
if i ask her friend for her phone number would that be kinda creepy?Need lots of girl advice!!! (10 points)?
Yeah, it would be creepy. I would just talk to her, and get to know her. You're being a bit too forward.
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