I need some girl advice.?

Alright this is a little gay, but i need some help. I met this girl at the beginning of the school year and we became really good friends. I really wasn't attracted to her, and we hung out sometimes. When the school year was ending i began to have to some feelings for her.





She is a really flirty girl. Basically any guy who gives her attention, but besides that she is really cool. Now as soon as i begin to like her, my best friend begins to like her. Our friendship has always been a like a competition, one has to be better than the other.





My friend is really trying to get her to like him now so they hang out a lot more than we use too. Now, i am extremely pissed, and considered i do not have a car yet, i cant do anything. It seems more and more the girl i like is leaning towards my friend. I am confused because i have always been there for the girl and now i am being pushed aside. I could really just use some advice.I need some girl advice.?
By your own words you said that this girl is a flirt and likes guys who give her attention. Your friend is giving her buckets of attention. Also, this girl and you were friends before she and your friend became close. In all this time you never asked her out or gave her the idea that you were interested in her. So, by her reckoning you are just a really good guy friend. If you like this girl, and are not just entering into a competition with your other friend, then you have to let her know it. So, you can either flirt with her a lot more then you have been, or jump the gun completely and ask her out. If you ask her out then you risk that she鈥檒l say no but you鈥檒l known exactly where you stand. Also, if this girl like attention then having two guys follow her and flirt with her maybe so good for ego that she kind of gets of on it. You don鈥檛 want to give anyone power over you like this. If this girls likes you then she likes, however if all she likes is attention then your friend should get her because girls like this will still flirt with other guys and crave attention. So, man up and ask her out and take your chances. Also, just note if a girl really likes you it doesn鈥檛 matter if you have a car or not. She鈥檒l ride the bus with you to get to where you are going.





also, how is this in anyway gay?I need some girl advice.?
if you really like her, stay with her and support her with whatever decision she chooses, even if it may be hard. If she does choose your friend, and you are still supportive of both of them, they will both see what a good friend you are. and if she ever needed anything, you might be the one she'd go to for help. =)
from a girls point of view just back off let him have her. if shes as flirty as you say he'll be the unlucky one. your best bet is to just wait it out for a bit find a better girl, one that shares common interests and and you really just genuinely enjoy being around you'll be much happier for it in the end
This sort of happened to me, my slutty best friend of 7 years dated the guy I was dating at the same time behind my back. Yeah, they cheated on me.


Listen....


if the girl likes your friend better than you, she isn't worth it.


if your friend is trying to take the girl you like away from you, he isn't worth it.





Moral of the story: If they both get together, dump them BOTH.
maybe since yall have been friends for so long maybe she doesnt think that u like her like that and yall are at that friends stage now and since ur ';best friend'; is in competition for it then just be friends with her...now if u really want to be with her u should tell her how u feel and go from there
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.





Just let fate do it's work.
Stay strong and if she really likes you, then she'll fall for you, but if she comes to you by a competition between you and your friend then she probably won't like you that much.
i know a girl just like her. they just want every guy to like them, even if they dont like the guy. try and get over her even if its hard. just try, she wont be worth it , if she just wants every guy.
slow down,go to her %26amp; tell her how you feel!ok!good.when you r done don't wait 4 d response give her space %26amp; time %26amp; just keep checkin' up on her if she wants you too.us girlz if don't say anything we assume dat you just don't like us,simple.
Find a way to show her you like her in a special way. Otherewise how is she going to know that? 'cause this is what he's doing, he's showing her he likes her!





:)
Thats how my boyfriend felt for at least a year. And when the guy got expelled I noticed him and now we've been going out for nearly a year.


Seriously, if she means a lot to you, don't give up on her.
try flirting back and if that doesn't work then ask her out to a place you can walk to
How about you tell the girl that you like her? Then you would've definitely gotten to her first!
sorry bro....girls like that break hearts .....


your mate is a dick tell him to **** off!!