There's this guy i really, really like. the thing is, im way to shy to talk to him. i cant even say a simple ';hey';. what's wrong with me? my friends keep telling me that we'd be a perfect couple, and that we are eachother's type. But hes the type of guy that needs to really know you and be friends with you. How can i do that if i cant talk to him and he wont talk to me? seriously, the most contact we come to is when he looks at me when im looking the other way, and when i look at him when hes looking the other way. i really like him, but im too shy! HELP.I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
Ask one of your friends that know him to introduce you two. Don't be shy. If you really like him then don't let being shy get in your way.I NEED SOME GIRL ADVICE!!! PLEASE HELP, PLEASE.?
If your in a situation where you are talking to the same group, etc. comment on something he says. Then, if you see him around, just smile or maybe say hi...if you dont try, you will always regret it.
sorry, first you find out way,to check what type of relation you are looking for,if it is for life ,then find out what the guy want and this can be done by some middle person and then try to figure out your way of approach .as you are shy by nature the yes and no from the guy can hurt you too much so ,don't hurry take your time ,just give your want ,and love for that guy more fuel ,your urge will do the rest ,because in relationship planning is important. dont be shy,be confident ,hey girl! that guy will be also pleased ,you are equally important for him ,so babes go for it ......good luck and let us inform how you have done it .see you
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ive experienced the same problem.
try talking online at first.
over aim or myspace/facebook
or get a friend to introduce you guys(:
goodluck!
First, try to get to know some of his other friends. Then they will probably end up introducing you to him. If that doesn't work, try writing him a note. That's what worked for me! Good luck to ya!
are you friends with ANY of his friends (even if its only an aquaintance?!) if so, suggest to the acquaintance/friend that you and a few people (includ the guy you like ) should go out and see a movie sometime or hang out at the park.
that way, you'll have a chance to talk to this guy and if things get awkwardyou can just talk to the other people that are there. :)
well, you really need to set up a plan. tell your friend what the deal is and she'll help, trust me.
explain that you can't talk to him because you're too chicken (shy isn't the right word, sorry to say. shy people aren't quite so antisocial towards guys).
then tell her this plan: you want her to push you into him next time you go by his locker or something. it would be a perfect way to get aquainted. =] haha. seriously, try it.
I really like the first girl's answer. Talking online is a great idea. My husband and I met when we were 12 years old and we both really liked each other, but we were both SO shy and too young to even have a real relationship, anyway. But over the next 6 years (I know, a long time, but I had moved away, so we were STILL too young to have a relationship until we were able to travel to see each other), we talked a lot online and we got to know each other so well. We wouldn't have been able to talk this much in person, because we were just too shy. But online, we were able to really open up and get to know each other. We've now been married for over 2 years and we are best friends! Good luck! =)
Who says that words are the only outlet for communication?
Body language is even more affective then any word one could utter. And the good thing about it is, you don't even have to be that close to him to express that you like him! A flirty look from across the room. A smile. Guys are very visual and respond to things like that even more then words. plus if you give him a flirty look he will know that you are into him, as opposed to talking to him all the time he could take it as you guys are ';just friends';. I say you should try that also pick up a cosmo for more advice. Good luck girl!
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-A
you just have to gain the courage to say something to him. that's the only way anything will happen between you guys. just start small like saying hi to each other. then work your way up to conversations.
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