Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I need some girl advice?

There's this girl that goes to another local high school (we're both freshman. We've never really talked to each other in person) that I started talking to on myspace two days ago. we were talking for about 20 minutes and then she said that she had to go and gave me her phone number. then we texted all day. then we talked on myspace till about 1 am and then she messaged me and said that she was logging off and said '; text me if you want to, If not, sweet dreams'; it was kinda late so I took the second choice. I texted her at about 1 pm yesterday and we texted each other for a while and then I had to go do something. when i got back I texted her and she didn't reply, but then i went on myspace and she was on, so we talked for awhile. Is she interested in me or does she like me?I need some girl advice?
ahah, well that was deatiled :)


umm i think shes interested.


i'm not gonna Be like everyone else and say 'shes a 50 yr old rapist' cause she prolly isn't.


so, go for it :DI need some girl advice?
You know texting is great but a conversation with actual voices is so much better, Call her up and talk to her and you will probably be able to tell a whole lot more. Good luck
i recon she does like u and definiately seems interested in u if she's tellin u to txt her a like 1am.


i say go for gold.
1. Be Yourself. If you try to act all macho when you're not, you are telling the girl, ';I'm such a bad person that I have to pretend to be a better one.'; That is probably not true. Loosen up and let this girl see how you really are.


2. Smile. This can help a lot. It shows that you are enjoying the conversation and that you feel comfortable, which will make the girl continue talking with you.


3. Bring something up but don't seem too obvious about liking them. When you talk just be yourself, then you can see if the girl likes you for who you really are.


4. Look in her eyes and be serious and not desperate. But if she looks away don't try it again. When she looks away, it's sometimes her way of saying ';oh great, I don't like you, but how can I be nice about it';. Most likely, she's just nervous. Which is good! It means that she likes you back.


5. Be interested in her opinions and thoughts on different subjects. Listen intently when she speaks. Girls like guys that listen to them and like what they say. Don't constantly interrupt her, let her talk and share thoughts with you.


6. Comment on her sense of humor, good taste in music, or prowess on the dance floor. It's all right to compliment her clothes, hair, jewelry, etc., but you'll really win a girl's heart if she sees that you're into more than just her outside.


7. Don't tell girls %26amp;dash; for that matter, anyone at all %26amp;dash; they have a flaw unless you are obviously poking fun at them, even then only if you know they can take a joke, and know you well enough to know how to react to your teasing. Otherwise you risk putting them off.


8. Be funny. If you can make her laugh, you've as good as got her number then and there.


9. Don't try too hard. Girls will see you as needy and will not be attracted to you.


10. Be confident in yourself and don't be afraid of saying something stupid. If you're not afraid then you probably won't. If you have been friends with her for years, and are comfortable talking pretend you are just talking to her about another girl you like.


11. Make her laugh. Tell her you like her ear rings for example. Maybe if you are sitting next to her you could put an arm around the chair or something. If she clearly does not want you... give up. You will be made fun of by every single girl if she doesn't like you and dumps you in front of everyone. If you want to ask her out,do it in private, people spread rumors.


* Dont be afraid to talk to her.


* Always be yourself.


* Never insult a girl unless you know she will take it as a joke.


* Do not touch or talk about her stomach, most girls, no matter how thin, think they are fat. This is definitely a no-go area for most girls.


* Try to get along with her friends as without them on your side you've got no chance.


* No matter what don't leave telling her how you feel for too long. If you think she might like you then ask her out. After all, she can only say no.


* Don't approach her if you know she has a boyfriend, as it is a lost cause (for the time being) and you don't want to offend her boyfriend!


* If she doesn't seem happy with you, leave her be for two days without approaching her, that will give her time to cool down and think straight again. After a couple of days she will be ready to talk to you again.


* Never make a comment about her weight!


* Don't talk about other girls in front of her, and never compare her to other girls.


* DON'T talk about guy stuff. Most girls would rather you not talk about disturbing topics while they are present!!!!

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