Tuesday, November 22, 2011

I need some girl advice?

Ok so i have this amazing girl friend who i really love. there is only one problem. im being to clingy and she doesnt like it. what i want to be like is one of those guys who knows when to bee funny and when to be serious. she is my first gf and ive always imagined it as just a relationship where when we need to be serious we can be but i can also make her laugh and comfort her and just do everything that a boy friend should do. the clingyness though is driving her away which i dont want to happen. please just give me all of the advice you can because i really want to be with this girl forever. thanks!!!I need some girl advice?
First of all you seem like the kind of guy ever girl wants. It's hard when you're more emotional than your partner but when it's your first love that happens. You don't know how to find the right balance. My suggestion would be to hang out with your guy friends more. I think that would actually make her want you around more because she might realize your fine without her. People tend to get defensive when they feel you don't need them as much as they thought you did.I need some girl advice?
If you are 15 or younger, I'm sorry, but the truth is that you just won't be with this girl forever. You're both going to change so much.


Also, there are so many girls who are looking for a guy like you. So many guys are all about being funny all the time, and so many don't have a sense of humor at all. My advice is to let this girl go, because clearly you are much more devoted to her happiness than she is to yours, and there are a lot of better girls out there who will love your ';clingy-ness.';
Just stop it, also to fix with your clinginess it just means you haven't been with her in a while. It should go away after a few months of being together. Just tell her it's just temporary and it's normal. It just a strange emotion human have when they really have feelings for the person.





Also don't say you want to be with her forever...see how things turn out. I'm with my first girlfriend and we seem like the perfect couple. But I don't believe unless things work out real swell. So far so good, but I don't believe in fairy stories...
My boyfriend is the same way. Just kinda chill out. Let her say ';I love you'; or ';I missed you first';. Let her start the conversations :) It'll help. Just ask her what's wrong %26amp; stuff like that. Don't get too sensible.
aw. ok so yes i could maybe help. just try to back off a little give your girlfriend some space. or just talk to her in the morning and then hang out just every weekend or every other weekend. but so i think u mean clingy as in seeing her every day?
idk what clingyness is but im 15 years old and i always make my girl laugh bye acting hype and just acting kinda goofy lol but like if its jsut u to at a movies or something show her ur romantic side n if u argue just make a joke about it .. never let her think ur seriouse
all i can say is give her space at times and don't be so clingy you can be clingy once in awhile but not all the time





good luck with your relationship


and hope i helped
well remember that girls need space just like guys so make sure to note when she just wants time ti her self or just the girls
just try not to talk to her every second that your able to.and make her think your interesting to her
my dad is clingy with his girl friend and she doesn't like it so try to love her but not suffocate her with love
talk it our with her girls are mature and will understand your feelings!

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