I need girl advice! will my ex girlfriend ever com: 2010

Monday, August 23, 2010

Need some general girl advice? Anyone?

So I am head over heels in love with this girl. I would truly die for her. She is the best thing that's ever happened to me in the world.

You get it.

Her family and mine both used to be real religious and strict, but were not any more, but the relationship teen thing has lingered. There's a sort of unspoken disapproval of that.

She knows I like her. Her little sister asked her if she liked me and my little sister told me that the girl I love answered really vaguly. She acts like she likes me. Everyone knows I like her.

I want to communicate my feelings, I feel like I HAVE to, but I don't know how! If I tell her outright she'll think that's weird.

I'm 17 and she's a very mature 15.5 ( as in she already runs a sewing business by herself. Coordinates all the finances arranges all the shows.)

Advice? Anything is welcome! I'm not real experienced in this type of stuff.

Thanx 4 reading!Need some general girl advice? Anyone?
I wouldn't just come out with it, this may make her uncomfortable. Take it slow with small talk, maybe a walk. Every now and then, compliment her lightly, outfit, her smile, etc. not too heavy. Down the road tell her that you like her and you'd like to take her out to dinner. Remember, slow, it seems like she may be a little shy. Good luckNeed some general girl advice? Anyone?
try asking her to hang out (make sure u mention its NOT a date)

do smthng fun and interesting that guys will both love

also try to pick up something small %26amp; inexpensive beforehand

then if the time feels right, say something like ';ur a really special person, I'm glad I met you.....hey that reminds me I saw this the other day %26amp; it reminded me of u'; *presents gift*

who knows? she might end up saying it to u!!

hope i helped and good luck(:
awww!! i say do something really special to show that you like her. both of ur familes will surely understand if you show that you are really true.
tell her you like her a lot see were it goes
She probably does like you, just scared about the teen relationship thing too. Maybe she's bent on society that teen relationships hurt and don't last, and she doesn't want to risk being hurt.

I would just take it slow with her, and it will all unfold in time. Try to spend more time with her and wait for the perfect moment to express how you truly feel. She will express it too.

Don't be too persistent though, she will feel suffocated and feel like you're obsessed. She will be embarrassed.

All in all, be patient and good things will come!

Hope this helps!
take her out. not like a date, because if her parents are not to shabby about the idea then they might turn into exorcist or something, but invite her sister and your sister that way they wont get the wrong idea...that way you can get to know her and win points with her sister and her family because you included her younger sister...start off slow, she seems very focus on what she wants to do (even thought she 15.5; you gotta start somewhere)..dont be trying to do much because of course the younger sisters will be watching...give her hints and say stuff in codes...hell text her lol...but dont and i repeat DO NOT SAY YOU LOVE HER UNTIL YOU KNOW THE FEELING IS MUTUAL...this can put any girl in a very weird position...and be yourself...make her like you for you!!!

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I need some girl advice...pronto :)?

okay i met this girl through myspace..talked a bit on there and moved to texting...this is the first girl i have really ever pursued (i'm shy) so i am extremely inexperienced in this situation. anyways, we haven't really spoken about dating stuff like what type of people we look for or anything like that (i want to though); just basically interests we both have and share...okay here's my question: should i mention to her that she's the only girl i have really pursued or really ever tried to get to know? and that i really like talking to her?..the reason i am asking this is because i don't want to come off too strong and or as a desperate/lonely dude. would you be weirded out about a guy that has never really had a girl friend at the age of 22 O.o (she's 20 btw)? should i say anything or just forget about it? this girl is super cool and i don't want to blow it..thanks.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.

Need some general girl advice? Anyone?

I need some girl advice...pronto :)?

okay i met this girl through myspace..talked a bit on there and moved to texting...this is the first girl i have really ever pursued (i'm shy) so i am extremely inexperienced in this situation. anyways, we haven't really spoken about dating stuff like what type of people we look for or anything like that (i want to though); just basically interests we both have and share...okay here's my question: should i mention to her that she's the only girl i have really pursued or really ever tried to get to know? and that i really like talking to her?..the reason i am asking this is because i don't want to come off too strong and or as a desperate/lonely dude. would you be weirded out about a guy that has never really had a girl friend at the age of 22 O.o (she's 20 btw)? should i say anything or just forget about it? this girl is super cool and i don't want to blow it..thanks.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.

Dating a ';unsure'; girl.... Advice please?

Well i've been dating this girl for about 3-4 weeks. The first week was mostly phone calls/ text / internet chatting 24/7 like literally. Then the 2nd week we met up, hooked up and act like gf/bf. But things are slowing down. (none the less good tho...) She tells me things are moving to fast... i agree but i think we have a special thing going and we should just ride the wave.

These past weeks, i've noticed we talk/ chat a lot less like its more level now? But its because she makes it that way.. and i really don't understand. We profess how much we like each other but she always comes voices her insecurities. (she was scared from a prior relationship) What am i suppose to do? I really like her, and dont want to lose her. So i try not to pry and initiate convo's. I've tried but i dont want to end up causing irreversible travesties.

Im ready and willing but she tells me things like... ';some days i feel like committing and some days i dont'; What am i suppose to do? Im also worried that since i need alot of attention and affection i might lose her during this hiatus. The 24/7 chatting was supplementing that need but since thats gone what else do i have left to stay?Dating a ';unsure'; girl.... Advice please?
i don麓t even care what you have to say about this girl... get away from unsure girls, been there done that, never going back.

insecurity leads to A LOT of problemsDating a ';unsure'; girl.... Advice please?
I think that best thing you can do is try to be her friend, then you can move forward from there. If shes worth your time then you shouldn't mind spending some time building up trust
IT's true what people said above me- unsure girls are bad bad news.
give her time
too much effort mate, you gotta decide if she's worth it
First give her some space and let her think real hard about this.

Like the other answer has said ';Unsure women leads to lots of confusing and heartache';.

It's true, i've been through the same **** too and all it did was hurt me. So best advice i can give you is let her be for a bit, give her a few weeks. Chill with her like you normally would. If she still feels strange about it, just tell her how you feel, make it seem like you mean the world to her and that you would do most anything for her and be by her side when she needs it most. Say it from the heart like you really mean it.

If she still feels unsure about you and acts in a strange way that makes you feel extremely uncomfortable....best thing you can do is just move on, it would be her lose if she lost the man that would give the world to her, not yours.

Help girl advice? ----------- I SAID TO HER ';I LIKE YOU';?

okay i told this girl i really like ';i like you'; - she replied to me i also like like you.......... :)

Now here is where im confused? - everyone says were always flirting - laughing touching each other etc ....... always together basically ........! (thats what others think and say to me)

She said to me although I like you ';I dont think anything should happen';? ........... :|

Bear in mind im pakistani shes indian ---------%26gt; Different religion/culture I dont know if that affects anything? - were both 17 studying at college.

But if she liked me why would she say ';i dont think anything should happen though';

Problem is i want to be with her but when she said that I was like ';whaat'; ?

Can someone please explain to me in detail - if she likes me why would she say that?

Thanks folks i really appreciate your answers

And please be serious!Help girl advice? ----------- I SAID TO HER ';I LIKE YOU';?
She likes you as a friend. Don't make her feel suffocated, lay off a bit.Help girl advice? ----------- I SAID TO HER ';I LIKE YOU';?
culture should never make a difference, you probably just have a bad habit or something that puts her off, but tbh don't bother asking her if you do because she won't notice it or won't be able to explain it and it will just make things awkward, try to erase your personality a bit, it will be boring at first but once you make your new personality it will make all the difference, obviously this sounds very silly and you don't have to do it but i did it and it worked so i dunno, do what you think is best.

or you could just ask her why she doesn't want to go out with you
hmmmm....i would only say that to a guy if i meant physical love...maybe she likes you and is a bit unsure about the relationship as it is early stages...i think you ask her clearly to go out with you, and ask/tell her whatever is on your mind. i think she definatley likes you though, but maybe she is a bit nervous about the new relationship that is going to grow between you??? best thing to do id to tell/ask her...good luck! =) hope i helped
i think that she likes you as a friend but thats all you are to her,just enjoy being her friend its tough but if you was to push it further you may end up loosing her as a friend too,
she probably really like you, but thinks it might be too hard to have a relationship because of all of the religious/cultural differences you mentioned.
maybe she's talkign about doing the nasty.. you know what i mean ;) and she might just want to be a virgin or something... or i could be completely wrong... ask her about it.... :0)

Need girl advice for tomorrow morning! 10 points?

So I've known that this girl had liked me for about a week, (found out from one of her friends) and i sort of liked her back, but didn't do anything about it. So tonight she found out and confronted me about it on myspace. I asked her if she was mad that i didn't confront her about it as soon as i found out, and she said no, but she though it was a good reason to think i didn't have similar feelings for her, which i do

so instead of asking her out on myspace, i told her i'd meet her before school tomorrow, but i have no idea how im going to approach this, i need help

also, this would be my first relationship (but not hers) so any general first girlfriend advice is appreciated! we're both 15Need girl advice for tomorrow morning! 10 points?
Just be you're self man, i remember the nerves yous to sh*t me off,but you should be alrightNeed girl advice for tomorrow morning! 10 points?
Be honest! Tell her that you were a little too shy or uncertain to ask her out right away, but that you *do* like her and you'd like to go out with her... and then ask her if she wants to sit with you at lunch or whatever you 15 year old rascals do these days. Best of luck to you!
well, for one thing, you have to go, you cant blow her off or she will be very mad. you should start a conversation with her, get to know her in person, not just on the computer, if that goes well, say, do you wanna hang out some time, maybe see a movie. if she is interested still she will say yes, and then just set it up from there.

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I met this gorgeous girl at a party and talked to her with a group of friends but sort of figured she was out of my reach. I invited her friend to another party the next night and told her to bring the girl I was interested in (casually, she didn't think I was interested).

That night at the party me, my friends, and these girls and their friends all played drinking games and ended up doing truth or dare (like middle school kids, I know hah) and I ended up getting dared to make out with the girl I was interested in. I played it cool and said it was up to her and she came over to me and we made out.

As she was leaving I got her number and texted her later that night to make sure she got home alright. She seemed grateful that I was nice enough to do that. BTW, her and I are both in a sort of business club together. Ok so here is the question...I want to see her again obviously and I thought about calling her and saying hey whats up, some ppl from our business group are getting together for dinner, I was going to see if you wanted to come and bring some friends?

Any comments, critiques? I was going to include the ';bring some friends'; part to make her realize that I'm not making it a date, I just want to get to know her better and vice versa. Another question is if I want the dinner to happen tonight (I got her number 2 nights ago), what time should I call? Serious replies only please, don't waste your or my time by saying stupid stuff..Need Girl Advice!!!!?
It really seems like you have it all together. And my guess is she is kinda fond of you too if she let you make out with her (truth or dare, hehe :)).

If you want to see her before the group dinner maybe try something more casual that has the option of becoming more. I suggest coffee, its a relaxed atmosphere and can last for 10 mins or 2 hrs depending on how well (and comfortable) things are going. I would, call her up talk to her about the dinner and add in ';Im thinking about going down to [insert nice coffee place here] and don't really care to go alone, can I buy you a cup?'; Coffee is better then drinks, you don't want her to think ';is he trying to get me drunk?'; because you never know what someones baggage is.

Good luck! I wish I had a man lost in thoughts about how to see me.

Just a note about ';out of reach'; I used to really like this guy, but he seemed so stand offish around me, I figured he wasn't interested so I never said anything about my attraction for fear it would mess up a fun group friendship. Come to find out later he thought I was ';out of reach';, funny how that works.Need Girl Advice!!!!?
Yoo, you obviously like her. Good idea by inviting her friends. Get to know her better by using the dinner, then by mysteriously saying ';WTF nobody is here. . .'; and use that as an excuse to get together and hopefully get into a relationship for ya. Cheers, and good luck. Im in a situation with a girl too :)
I would go for it. It depends on her personality, but if you feel comfortable, then do it. To call her about dinner... call at a reasonable time ( you don't want to seem pushy or obsessed), but do give her enough time to ready herself or to make up her mind. Good luck. I hope this helps a bit.
give it a couple of days, then in the middle of the day send her a random text saying 'hey, how are you ? :)' then casually ask her what shes doing at the weekend, if she says nothing, ask her out on a date :)

good luck!
call her up (dont do it in a text) and ask her.

the bring the friends thing is a good idea, but if you're wanting this to move a long, just bring her. you need some one on one time with her away from her friends. she obviously is at least a little interested you or she wouldn't of made out with you (unless she was totally trashed) so go for it! the girl thinks you're considerate for making sure she got home alright, so she'll think you're sweet, but if you ask just her she'll know you're brave and what girl doesnt want a sweet, brave guy?
you should really ask her out
well if you really like this girl call her or text her but not to much because then she will think your weird and just ask her !
Call her ASAP, if not she'll have other plans
Yoou shouldnt be so nervous to make it a date girls are flattered when they're liked and if you play it to cool she might think you dont like her but defiantley dont hesitate to see her again maybe say do you wanna do something alone NOT CINEMA girls find that realli like do you wanna have sex! Mor elike do you wanna go for a walk something just nice and then see if you hit it off but you should see if your friends and her get on so you dont get future problems
That sounds like a good idea, but after awhile, you can't make your dates that casual. when you go to the meeting, just focus on her as much as you can (without being too obvious) and get to know her a little bit. If it's meant to be, the rest should play itself out.

yeah i think thats a great idea she likes you maybe too

Help! I need girl advice?

I have been friends with a girl since 4th grade(we are now sophomores). I have always liked her, she has never admitted her she likes, so I have never told her that I like her. She can't date until she turns 16(next MAY). Should I tell her that I like her now or wait until then. I don't want to wait too long and have it be too late. We text all the time, and talk once in a while. She isn't a girly girl BTW. I don't know what to do, I don't want it to be too late for us to have a chance. Any suggestions?Help! I need girl advice?
I think you should at least tell her how you feel and see if she feels the same way about you. (:

Anyone give some Girl advice anyone...?

Well I'm an upperclassmen and I've never had gf before so I guess I can say Im new to all of this in a way. Recently I got extemely drunk and had a change of mind when I thought about my life. wierd huh?

I was tired of not taking advantages in my life and talking to the girls I have liked in the past. as of now, I talk to a couple of girls but the oone i talk to the most lives in another state.. so yea. We have met in the past a couple of times and seemed to get along..

we talked a lot about different things.. so Ive come to the point where I talk to her on the internet only and ive run out of things to talk about. It has mostly reduced to a hi, whats up, bye thing. should I cut it and run or should I try to find some commen ground? thanksAnyone give some Girl advice anyone...?
i think you have run out of things to talk about because you are not actually together doing things and experiencing things together, you don't have enough history under your belts to be able to make something work long distance, you don't know the most intimate parts about each other (no, i'm not talking about sex) if you were in a position to be able to see each other frequently, like a couple times a week, then yes i think you would have a shot at making this work. but because you are trying to evolve a relationship over the internet, it likely won't work because it is all dependant on what you have to say..being in or establishing a relationship requires face time too, not just phone or internet..if you really like her and have the financial means to see her more often then yes, quite possibly this can work. but if you are expecting to learn all about each other online you are going to have a hard time sweetie. i would take what you have learned and experienced from her friendship and apply that to whomever may come into your life now, where you live. you seem down to earth and rational, you will not have a problem whatsoever finding a girlfriend, you have the most important idea down pat..finding common ground. i hope this helps you a little bit, best of luck to you hun :)

*hugs*Anyone give some Girl advice anyone...?
You should try to meet up. If you can meet, see how things go. See if you are attracted to her, wanting to be affectionate towards her, have a great conversation, undrstanding.

It's hard when it's distance. You were probably really excited before and when that haapens, you talk about everything in the books until it runs dry.

You are still young. I would also continue to talk to women around your school. Don't limit yourself, because the fact is, she is in another state. If it's meant you all will make it happen.
if conversation has died down mutually then it may be that you two are either keeping an intentional distance or that there isnt that much common interests between the two of you. either way it sounds like like the internet interaction has reached its end. Try to meet up and if its the same then you'll know.
A relationship (no matter what kind it is) needs growth.. if it seems as if it can't grow anymore, then you're only dwelling in dead weeds. I'd say tell her that this friendship has gotten has far as it an and end it on an honest, but kind note. Just running away will only make you seem like a coward. She at least deserves some closure.
If your that interested in her ;; take a weekend off or aside for jus her and have like a little date and she if conversation builds from there if you feel that it's not goin anywhere well then move on..but if she seems interested like yu then keep tryin and find things to talk about like movies..sports...uhmm stuff happenin in the world her school?..job ?? anything and hope everything will work out
dont give up.there are plents of things to talk about.school family. favorite things to do.once you get talking it becomes a lot easier to keep conversation going.i think your just shy and not used to it.theres always a chance just relax and once your calm the words will be easier
Uhh, if you have nothing to say, you have nothing to say. So ';cut and run'; I suppose. You're not gonna get with this girl if that's what you're asking.
you just need to get laid my friend
Send her nudies
Well, if I were you, I'd go around your school and look for some people there. Who knows, you might find someone! :D
ugh i guess leave her n find someone in ur state dude

Need some serious girl advice:?

I go to college and study biology with plenty of girls in my class, 70- 80% girls. However im not too quiet but some times i am. But when i speak i speak with confidence.

My teacher jokes around alot aswell and picks on a few people in particular. However there is one girl i like and some other girls i;d like to be friends with.

How do i joke around more and talk to them. One of them who i want to be friends with always keeps looking at me. Shes the one i want to be friends with. She and her friend are the most talkative and control the class and the ones the teacher picks on and teases.

So what approach do i take. Should i be cocky and i dnt think so being rude will help right?

Any help will be good.Need some serious girl advice:?
hmmm... well you could definetly start small.

you know, call them about homework one day or ask them for help in class.

Since i'm a girl, i think its easier for me to talk with a guy if they are really easy going. Don't be uptight. most girls dont really like that

Good Luck!Need some serious girl advice:?
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I need some Girl Advice.....?

There's this girl who I have known since high school (8 plus years) and were are very close friends. However during times in college I have been extremely attracted to her. We go out together on occasion but there is no sense of anything other than friendship. I want to break that and try to cross the line from friends to a relationship. What advice do you guys/ladies have to help me in this situation....

What would be the best way to break the ice and explain how I feel to her.....I need some Girl Advice.....?
I've been in this situation before. I'm a girl, and my best guy friend started liking me. When I heard this from a friend, I was a little overwhelmed at first because I didn't want to ruin our friendship because it was so amazing. However, over time, I started talking to friends and asking for their advice on whether I should go through with going out with him. My friend said that I never know what experience I will get out of it; maybe he could be the one? So I did, and I ended up extremely happy.

My point is, talk to some people you trust about it; just to let the feelings out to see if you're comfortable saying it. Then, tell her. You never know what can happen. What if she gives you a chance and you guys completely hit it off? If you've been friends with her THIS long and you know her, you probably know that she'll really adore you. :)

Hope that helped. I need some Girl Advice.....?
First you probably want to see if she might feel the same for you. Think back and see if there are any hints that she has ever given you as far as you and her goes. Think, what kind of guys has she gone for in the past? Are they anything like you, looks, personality, ETC..? If that all checks out, surprise her with flower one of these days and sit her down and come clean. She is either going to turn you down, and if she does if you still want to keep your friendship be cool, DON'T flip. Or she will feel the same about you and say yes.
just say to her that u want to be more than a best friend.she will catch wat u mean..

u'll never know till u ve tried

I need some ';girl advice';...?

I'm emailing this girl on a dating site. We have been sending lengthy emails back and forth a few times. I mentioned surgery, she said what for, and I told her (circumcision), and said how I know it's usually for babies but my doc recommended it so I decided to ';take it like a man, lol.'; Then I told her if she had any questions out of curiosity she could ask.

I can tell she is still interested from her reply...but in response to the surgery she said, ';You are very brave for going through a circumcision at your age. And no, no questions/comments about it. Enough said.';

Do you think it was a weird subject for her? Awkward? Girls what would you be thinking in that situation?I need some ';girl advice';...?
Yep. That subject is a little weird. There is a such thing as Too Much Information.I need some ';girl advice';...?
Yeah - I'd be curious why you'd want to do that as an adult. That's a pretty personal thing to share with someone.

That was nice of you to tell her she could ask you questions, but she probably felt uncomfortable and is probably questioning things with or about you now.

I don't know why you'd want to get that done other than to look like other guys or to not scare away unexposed women.

Don't tell her anything else that might freak her out...at least not now.
i think she just doesnt care too much about it. although she probably isnt being a ***** about it either? come on, do you really want to have a lengthy conversation about a circumcision at your age before you even meet her or sleep with her? only sluts would sit there and gush over it without having met you.
Quite honestly, I believe it's more of a personal issue. I'm far from prudish, but it's not really a subject of interest for me. It's nice that you can share that with her, but I wouldn't want to be chatting about it. Nothing against you though, I just feel that way.
It's just a surgery, that's all. Why would she have more questions? Just drop the subject, lol, it's no big deal.

If it was me, I would think ';Good, he's had the procedure. Moving on.';
You should've waited until you got to know her a little better. Because you mentioning that might have creeped her out a little bit since you have barely sent a few messages to each other.
I wouldn't mind talking about it with someone I knew a lot better. It's not really that weird of a subject, except when you're just starting to talk to someone.

Slow down, buddy.
It sounds like she artfully dodged a conversation that could have ended up in a place she didn't want to go. Namely, discussing sex. Let it be.
TROLL

sad internet dating hahaha
she is probably waiting for you to tell her what you want her to know, and doesnt like to pry, I guess
I would be thinking ';why is this guy telling me about getting his penis snipped?';
*akward silence and thumb twiddling';

Soooooooo . . . how bout that television ?

If you understand what my answer is now :P
If you're being serious, why would you tell her such a thing?
awkward.......
awkward...
very awkward
I sure as hell wouldn't wanna talk about that
sounds shady ...dont meet her anywhere
This is a famous Jonas Brothers quote which is true for that girl: AWKWARD!
I wouldn't wanna know either.
Dumb@ss why would you even bring that up?
my friend..

you're screwed
i think it was kind of awkward for her, but at least she respects that you did that rather than just think you are some kind of freak for it. i would be thinking...well, probably just that same thing she wrote..and thinking its a bit awkward

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Need some general girl advice? Anyone?

I need some girl advice...pronto :)?

okay i met this girl through myspace..talked a bit on there and moved to texting...this is the first girl i have really ever pursued (i'm shy) so i am extremely inexperienced in this situation. anyways, we haven't really spoken about dating stuff like what type of people we look for or anything like that (i want to though); just basically interests we both have and share...okay here's my question: should i mention to her that she's the only girl i have really pursued or really ever tried to get to know? and that i really like talking to her?..the reason i am asking this is because i don't want to come off too strong and or as a desperate/lonely dude. would you be weirded out about a guy that has never really had a girl friend at the age of 22 O.o (she's 20 btw)? should i say anything or just forget about it? this girl is super cool and i don't want to blow it..thanks.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.

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ok here we go. there is this girl at school i like her and she likes me. we have been talking for about two months and she tells me all the time that she likes me, but when i asked her out she said i will go out with you in the future but right now i just want to get to know you. is that girl talk for back off i dont really want you around or is she serious? we are both 17There is this girl and i need girl advice?
she probably is just nervous about taking the next step and doesnt want to loose a friend if it doesnt work out... this is normal

do something really romantic... like buy her flowers and randomly give them to her or write a cute poem and read it to her

this will make her fall for you

good luck :)There is this girl and i need girl advice?
In my opinion If a girl really likes you, she would jump at the chance to be with you but thats just me. Ask her about her recent relationship it might have something to do with that, because I had a friend who went through a really bad break up in which she felt that she had rushed into a relationship and they guy she was with ended up being REALLY clingy. So when she found another guy she was afraid to go out with him because she didnt want to rush into it like she did with her first boyfriend. I say just be patient for a while and if she still doesnt want to go out with you then let her know that you'er not going to wait for her forever.
She wants to get to know you as a person before she lets herself fall in love you. If you want to date her, ask her to let you know when she is ready for a boyfriend. In the meantime, just continue to talk and get a group together to go bowling or skating or to grab a bite and include her in the group. That way you can go out with her without the pressure of a date and while she can still get to know you.
basically she should just go out with you if she likes you. SHE CAN'T like you if she doesn't know you that well, so what more she wants to know?

i think it's best for her to go out with you so she can learn more since you guys are in a relationship and can talk things through and other type of feelings. otherwise, it's just going to be a friend to friend conversation, nothing more she's going to find out.

i just think she's confused.
Honestly? You can't really ask us because we dont know her.. if she seems really nice and honest, then she's probably just serious and wants to get to know you better. If you think thats it, then make a better effort to get to know her! If she seems like she's the type of person to lead you on, then find someone else.? At 17 there's going to be plenty of girls out there. I'm sure you have plenty of options! If you think she's serious, but you dont want to wait, then find someone else but stay friends with the girl who rejected you because maybe in the future, you guys will go out.

Good Luck!
hey im 17 to! well im not the commitment type of guy so my best advice to you is to keep talking to her if you like her as much as you say you do, but just keep in mind you guys are gettin to know each other try not to fall for her.

if you do or already fell for her then ask her out again cuz it has been 2 months she should know you by now
Girls dont have their heads on strait until they hit about 25. Same goes for you, teenage boy. You have the rest of your life to be tied down to one woman buddy, just have some fun and don't get all caught up in being ';exclusive'; or whatever. You should focus on studying so you can get a good job, then the girls will come naturally..because chicks dig guys who can take them to dinner, buy a house, etc. Focusing on getting a girlfriend at your age is the perfect recipe to end up a total loser.They should print THAT in a textbook.
heyy, im a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is 20 and we have been together for a little over a year now and he did the same thing to me except he kept me going for 3 months so if you get off at 2 youre lucky ha ha. any way after we started dating i asked him why he waited so long to make a move and he told me that in his past relationships he just rished right into them and they didnt end well and he wanted to make sure we would last..i thought it was sweet, so maybe try asking if she has had any relationships in the past that left her uneasy but if it goes a long time and you guys still havent started dating and she says i dont wanna lose you as a friend, thats your sign that its not gunna happen. goodluck ;)
Don't wait around for her....

I'm almost positive she's not waiting for you. A line like that could only mean she has other interests or she's not interested enough in you.

You say that you both like each other but really think about this - who likes who more ? Who said I like you first ?

Also do you give her things ? (She could be using you)

Does she not want to be seen publicly with you ?
nah,, she wants you.

i'd say.....

she's been hurt before and doesnt want to rush into anything! Staying friends for a while means that she and you can really get to know each other before yous get all serious! If you really like her, and if you can stay in a relationship happily without sex for a while then you should give her all the time she needs, and just let her know exactly how your feeling for her!
In my opinion, this kind of behavior seems attention-seeking.

I've had experience with Girls who've hunted for attention in a similar way, and to be honest after a while it seems like they're so out of reach even though you had feelings for one-another.

I'd just tell her straight and if she still gives the same explanation then I'd just move on. Hope this helps!
It seems like she's not exactly ready for a relationship. Maybe she's been screwed over by some guys, and really wants to get to know you before committing to you. If you really like her, then stick with it. But don't let it last too long, because then it will just be like she's leading you on.
Maybe a date at the moment is moving a little too fast for her. When she says she wants to get to know you that is exactly what she means. So instead of a ';date'; plan a day to ';hang out'; in a casual setting. It could even be a more comfortable situation if you two go with a group hang out.
I think she is serious..she may have some mixed feelings and wants to ensure she really likes you seriously before she takes it to the next level with you...she may also just want to focus on other things at this point in her life..like school or family..and just doesn't have time for a relationship right now
I think that she wants to get to know you better before you date and this a good thing in my opinion :) it's never really good to rush anything. I think it kind of shows that she is serious about being with you which is great. So have fun and get to know eachother more. Good luck
She most definitley have her guard up and maybe from her past relationships she Dont wanna get hurt. So she's still out there Lookin and Pickin around yaknow? She wanna See what else is better Out there. She likes you but Perhaps has another friend on the side she Still wanna Get to know more.
She is definitely not telling you to back off. I think she just doesn't want to rush into anything. Its pretty clear she's not the type you are going to bang on the first date. If you like her enough, you will be patient and help her to get to know you better like she says.
She's probably scared and intimidated about getting into a relationship as are all young adults are.

Or perhaps she isn't allowed to go out until shes 18 or something. That was always a problem with relationships when I was in high school a year ago.
id say shes serious. i like to get to know my guys as well. for real. so i would take it seriously if i were you. why else would she say she likes you? just for he health? no shes being honest. (:

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well it could be either one. but in my opinion i think she just doesnt know what she wants. you need to be straight up. ';whats the deal? why are you waiting so long.';
uhhh, she may be serious, and she may be not wanting you, but i don't think she would tell you that she likes you all the time and then not want you lol.
Well if she is actually trying to get to know you and is spending time with you maybe she is interested in getting to know you first. If she has been ignoring you completly maybe you should back off
I mean like bro,

Give her a chance to get to know you more. You cant rush into being a relationship cause something wrong might happen you know, So don't rush it man, that time will come.
Just get to know her better, ask her questions about her life and what she likes and tell her stuff about you. Let her get to know you better.
to me it sounds she's either

A)not ready for a relationship right now(just give her some time)

B)doesn't want to rush into it

C)just wants to know as much about you as possible
she's probably telling you the truth she just wants to get to know you more so hang out and become best friends and then later on down the road ask her out again
Sorry it depends on the person %26amp; I don't know her. But I can't see where she would try to keep you around at all if she didn't like you.
it sounds like she has other choices and right now she's trying to figure out who to choose. You should definitely move on.
Just work on getting to know her like you said, and maybe let her make the next move. When she's ready to go out with you, she'll let you know one way or another.

~G~
i think shes probably serious. i know plenty of girls that need to truly know someone before they make it official.
At 17 dont worry about girlfriends and all that crap. I tell you, women can kill. Poontang's expensive. That's why when it comes to chicks, I just screw them and leave them. I'd say ';get out of my bedroom, poontang, before you suck my life dry!';

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Help! I need girl advice?

Anyone give some Girl advice anyone...?

I need some girl advice!?

i am thirteen and i havent started my period yet, but all my friends have and they have all had sex and they say how great it is when you're with the right person, but whenever i get offered( don't ask me why i'm not exactly pretty) i always chicken out..... i dont know wether im scared or i just want to do it with someone who i actually like and know he wont stab me in the back straight away :( xxI need some girl advice!?
Hi Ellie,

Ok, lets start with your concerns over your period. Girls start at different ages, and it's perfectly normal for you to have not started your period yet. Don't worry.

If nothing happens within a year or so, I would then think about seeing your doctor.

Secondly, about the other girls who are having sex at 13. Now, some of them may be and I would guess that most of them are not. You say that you have chickened out from having sex, which means that you don't want to. That's fine.

It's perfectly OK to be different from your friends in some ways, the world would be dull if we were all the same. A lot of people like to wait until they are in a relationship before they have sex for the first time so that they trust the person that they are with. It's OK to wait, it's OK to do what you want, just make sure that you do what YOU want and not what you think you should do. You only get one first time.

Remember sex is something that your body is designed to do as an adult, and before you get your period, ie you are not sexually mature and it is not a good idea.

Having sex for the first time is such an important event in your life, you will always remember it and you will always remember who it was with. You may want to look back on your first time with a smile rather than with regret.

I would like to respond to one of the other answers. Someone said that if you have sex before your first period you will never be able to have kids. That is just not true.

LI need some girl advice!?
your 13! im sorry but thats not right atall to be even thinking about it.

so what if your friends have (but personally i doubt they even have, people will say absolute anything to become popular or make themselves feel better) you shouldnt feel the need to have sex just because they say its good and they have. your 13 for crying out loud!

be a normal 13 year old girl, hang around with your friends, have a laugh. but sex thats just not necessary at such a young age. i know nowadays people are losing there virginity's at a young age, and maybe you feel pressured into doing it,

and about your period, dont be bothered about that atall.

i know loads of girls that didnt start til they were 15-16.

and anyway, trust me. the later you start your period, the better. not exactly the most amazing thing in the world.

and im not being rude or anything. but at your age, you will probably never find 'the right person'. the only thing lads at your age want you for is to get in your knickers. so why give them that satisfaction? a girl who does nothing with a lad and keeps her dignity is much a better person than a girl who does everything just to fit in with friends. trust me.

be sensible. dont make a wrong mistake. you could really regret it.
at thirteen i don't think any girl is mature enough to cope with a sexual relationship. many young people claim they have had sex when they hav'n't as they think it makes them look 'big'. everyone starts puberty at different times, so don't worry about your periods. i work in a school, and i would say most thirteen year olds are virgins of both sexes. my advice... wait until YOU are ready for a relationship, never try and compete with 'friends' or indeed feel the odd one out, you are right in wanting to wait until the right person comes along
Take your time, dont rush in to having sex. It may sound old fashioned, but treat your body like a temple. It only takes one time to get a vanerial disease or get pregnant. And you not getting your period is ok, your body is just taking its time. There is nothing wrong with you.

Please listen to this, you are not cool, to have sex early. Be someone different and wait. You will respect your self more and so will the boys.

Take care
You sound very mature for 13. Don't let those people who are not mature make you wonder about yourself. DS is right, people lie! You just stick with what your decisions. You are smart, you will know when it is the right time and you are right for wanting a guy who will treat you nicely. Who wants to be totally humiliated? I am proud of you for thinking of more than just the present moment. You keep taking care of yourself, you are doing fine and will be happy with yourself when you are older, like in your 20s.
At 13 you shouldn't even be thinking about sex.let me ell you if your friends have had sex already they are very silly.wait until your much older . there is a saying i have always belived in, it goes somethin like this, be the one everyone wants not the one everyones had.

hope you do wait im 32 so im not that old but i fell in love at 15 had my forst child at 16 then another at 17 then my last one at 30,but i was one of the lucky ones im still with the dad of my children he was my first and i love him more today than i ever have,some of my friends though had children yong ended up in bad relationships and have really messed up lives.
Alright, well I am sure that it is really hard for you to hear all of that from your friends, but you need to be strong and say no every time. Just wait until you are much, much older. Imagine if your parents found out! Just wait until after you get married. I think that it would be really dumb to ruin your life based on one night. Imagine how happy you will be when are you are not the pregnant one between all of your friends!
For GODS sake, enjoy your childhood whilst you can. Why do you want to grow up so fast and get into the complicated and painful business of sex and love? Just stick to a snog for now...

You don't have to do what your friends do, be your own person, do what you feel comfortable with... you'll go further in life
DONT HAVE SEX!!!

listen to me!! seriousy!! im not ur mom, im a complete stranger and believe me when i tell you its NOT worth having sex when your 13...omigod, i cant believe kids that age do that...do you have any idea how much it increases your chances of getting cancer when youre older?! wait for someone who will make it actually MEAN something other than being like your friends, who you will probably not even be in touch with in a few years time...

as for your period, wait till youre 16, and then get worried. dont worry about it, all it is is a pain in the neck..your better off without it for now.
Look, yur friends can rub it in all they want about it ..it's not that great they're prolly jus tryin to make u lose your virginity so they can have somethin against you... stay who u are ignore wat they do cause premarital sex is against God although the majority of girls have already had sex, they lost their innocence and totally regret it... Good Luck!..
one;

don't have sex before you start your period, you won't be able to have kids.

two;

none of your friends have had sex, they're just saying that to look cool.

you'll start your period when you start it.

and don't have sex until it's with someone you love or you'll regret it.
If your scared to do it.then your obviously not ready to do it.im 22 and i lost my virginity when i was 14 because all the girls were doing it.i regret it and gutted about ever since. it cos i wasent ready and the boyfriend i had was pushing me to do it.you never forget your first time.oh how i wish i could.

so do it wen your ready.you will now when your ready cos your gut will tell you when its right.
underage sex is never a good idea hun

dont follow ur mates maybe u shud watch the story about a girl called kizzy who got prgnant at 13 she had a load of abuse thrown at her fo gettin pregnant so young the best thing to do is to wait til ur old enuf u mite regret it later if u have underage sex now
13 is way too young to be having sex...

you dont want to be the type of girl that has a baby when she's 16.

wait for the right boy to come along... there is no need to rush things... sex isn't that bigger deal, just make sure to wait for the right guy. its not all its cracked up to be.
you are thirteen....please do not have sex. It is a descision you will probably regret for the rest of your life unless you marry the boy you sleep with.

Wait some time. Having sex is not like holding hands or kissing...rethink the peer pressure fo ryour own good.
k girl let me tell u something ur periods stuff is natural and u cannot help it

but u feeling to have sex at age of thirteen is not so good plz think twice before u act and ur friends r they sick i think they might be lying to u so plz dont listen to them and take care
Dont worry!! lots of girls havent started yet anyway.

yeahh i have a friend who said they have had sex... yhh rightt!! If i was you i wouldnt worry about it. also i wouldnt say its a good thing have sex at thirteen.

:) xx
you're too young to have sex. and it's against the law. don't do it unless you're ready. ignore your friends. don't be pressured into anything. good luck.
wtf is your problem ?

you're thirteen ?

first off; not to be harsh but you don't even have your period... haha and you are thinking about having sex ?

god help you..
ur friends are lying sex at 13 is never great... ur too young anyway... but luckily ur smart.. wait for the right guy...when ur older who knows how to treat a woman right and then it will be great... right now it will just be messy and embarrassing
I bet they haven't had sex ;]

People will say pretty much anything to be popular...
your friends are probably not even having sex. dont feel pressured babes, save yourself. you'll know when it feels right (: x
You'll never regret saying ';no';

Don't let yourself be pressured in to that.
right what i say is wait for the right person...u don't wanna be those girls who has been round the block a few times....also its not chickening out......
13? What the he!! is wrong with you and your freinds, go away!
you 13 and your debating whether or not you should have sex????

gd help you...

Im a girl and falling for this girl , advice?

i think i like girls but never came out. the thing is i am a virgin so i have yet to find out what i like. and another thing is that in the past i was kind of homophobic. like i was afraid of women and idk i still kind of am but cant explain it. and now im really confused about that.i have fallen 4 my best friend and i kno i have no chance with her.i am pretty sure she is straight,but i cant help it.i think im in love with her and it just hurts to kno i probably will never have a chance. .. and like its just hard to get her off my mind. when i wake up in the morning and when i go to sleep at night. she has this smile that i just cant even explain how it makes me feel when i see her.i think shes an angel.i would do anything for her.and she totally leads me on when shes drunk she has kissed me a couple times b4. and i just hate my life so much bcuz i can never get wat i want. my life was all wrong from the start. at least if i was a guy id have somewhat of a chance. but no its not that way.i really just want 2 get over her.and the only way i can get over someone is if i fall for someone else.Im a girl and falling for this girl , advice?
hey...i know ALL TOO WELL what ur going through...i would go over to my friends house, like, all the time and somewhere along the way...i fell in love with her...i know that i have no chance and i die a little everyday when i see her with her boyfriend and when i hear wat they did the night before...i know that YOU are seeking help...i just want you to know that...there are others in ur position...and i know that you dont wanna hear about some scientific crap (Don) because scientist dont know excactly what ur feeling...well i agree that if you 'come out' and tell her... she might get freaked out and ur relationship with her might wither away...and you dont wanna keep it in...because its killing you on the inside...i have to go now...but...contact me...i might be able to help you... born-a-baby@hotmail.comIm a girl and falling for this girl , advice?
hey awww..hugs.does she ever give you this feeling like she might like you too. like staring or something. have you ever told her youre bi or something. hey if you wanna talk about this more im me: lilylove@live.com maybe i can help you clear youre head by talking.
Discount the drunken fooling around . Consider having a talk w her about your feelings . If she pushes you away , at least you tried to take it to the next level . You might never forget this girl , so dont drive yourself nuts trying to .
wel... u can ask hr is she is straight,bio,or lesbo but dont git to nervous bout it!!!!!
maybe it is just a phase. a few years ago i used to kind of have a little bit of a crush on one of my girl friends. but i still fancied a boy at the same time and still found boys more attractive than girls. i wasn't like sexually attracted to her. or anything but i kind of fancied her a little bit. but a soon grew out of that phase after about a couple of weeks. if you still find yourself attracted to boys and that its probably just a phase. you are most likely to grow out of it if you are in your teens its probably just a little same-sex crush. which is nothing to worry about. a lot of teenagers get same sex crushes when there going through puberty or sometimes if there not so you know its nothing to worry about. don't let it bring you down or anything. instead of like being totally obsessed with her and not thinking about any ones else. keep your options open and try to see a few boys but if its not working maybe you are lesbian or bi. but like you shouldn't be ashamed of being lesbian or bi. just because your not like your friends doesn't mean you should be ashamed or anything. hope that helped. and good luck. X
Don, you copy and paste this answer into every single post who talks about someone being gay or bi, try a sincere answer.
You should know that, especially during puberty, many people have same sex feelings. It is considered normal. It does not mean you are gay...merely having same sex feelings. You should also know that you will have personality changes...possibly into your twenties and maybe even into your thirties. Again, this is all normal. Trying to establish your sexual orientation during this period is like calling yourself a football fan before you've ever even seem the first game. Take your time. There's no rush. You are doing the right thing by asking questions. I would recommend that you speak with your parents if you think they will be supportive of you. You know them better than anyone else. If you don't feel comfortable speaking to your parents...speak with your family doctor. He should be able to address your concerns...if he doesn't or can't, he will refer you to someone who can. You should also have the option of your school counselor. Doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists and school counselors should be confidential. Ask if you're not sure. Your sexual orientation shouldn't overly concern you...don't stress about it. You are what you are...if you're heterosexual, then you're heterosexual...if you're bisexual, then you're bisexual...and, if you're gay, then you're gay. You sexual orientation/identity is not an abnormality nor a disease...it's just your sexual inclination. Again, it's not something to get stressed about. Take your time and enjoy yourself, you're just beginning a wonderful journey through life...don't rush it. You will look back over these years with fondness...just relax.

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Please make an appointment with your GP.

there is something seriously wrong with you - why do you keep asking the same question over and over again!

Show off your natural beauty
Oh no not you again

The other day you was Sarah and now your Leanne.

Why don't you just f*ck off and leave us alone. Freak.

And I'm a nice person usually.
Leave the zoo and join America.
somethings on her head.

possibly a birds nest..
I think you may have leprosy.
at first i thought dominatrix lol
Clean yourself up and i will ask you out
What is wrong with you?
get out more?

I'm getting fed up of looking at you.
To leave us alone.

NOW
Is she that Sarah C girl..??

Chances of this girl calling me? Girl advice needed?

so i went to Guess today to shop for some clothes, and they were like 5-6 girls working there, but as soon as i stepped foot this girl kept chatting me up and talking to me. we ended up talking for like 30 min about there styles and made fun of retarded clothes they had there . we talked alot and got along pretty good. she kept making side jokes such as ';i should be your personal clothing bff'; and ';we should shop for each others style';

well when i was checking out, as she rung me up, she kept smilling and etc. and when she put my clothes in the bag, she asked me for my number. i was going to ask her for hers, but she asked me first, but only thing is that i never got hers!

so what are the chances of her calling/texting me? shes very pretty and i wanna get something with her . how long would she take to call me if she wanted to?

this happened on thursdayy btwChances of this girl calling me? Girl advice needed?
If she doesnt call with in the week of you giving it to her. Your not getting a call. If you like her. Make an excuse to re-go to the store.Chances of this girl calling me? Girl advice needed?
Ugh, she probably will get around to texting/calling you, but I think she's just toying.

Someone who actually likes you wouldn't be so brazen to display it outwardly, especially if you guys only met for some minutes.
Like the other person said, if she doesn't call within a week she won't call at all. Just go back to the store. Is there any chance that she thought you were gay? ';Personal clothing bff's'; and shopping together don't really sound like boyfriend/girlfriend kinda things...

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OK GUYS what attracts you on about a girl? ADVICE AND TIPS?

hi im from australia and i just interested what attracts most guy? i like this guy in my class and i really need a way for him to focus on me more without acctully telling him i like him. SO should i do my or mess it up more.should i tone my body up more. PLEASE HELP IREALLY LIKE HIM. guyS SOME TIPS AND OR ADVICE

LUV YA THANKS XXXOK GUYS what attracts you on about a girl? ADVICE AND TIPS?
Just casually flirt with him. If he can't pick up on the fact that you like him then he your probably going to be disapointed when you manage to start something up with him.

Basically to get our attention you need to have looks that we find attractive. Unfortunatly the sick reality is if we don't find you physically appealing at all then we probably won't want to have anything to do with you. (Judging from your SN you probably won't have any problems there).

Next you need to have a likeable personality. If your cold and closed off then the only guys that are going to be able to reach you are the so-called players. Then your going to sprout off about how trashy guys are and how you want a nice man, then a bunch of wimpy hopeless romantics will be knocking at your door with flowers and eventually you'll get tired of them to.

*huff**huff**huff* Alright

Well good luckOK GUYS what attracts you on about a girl? ADVICE AND TIPS?
Depends wat kinda guy he is....if he likes to get laid..turn him on....if he's just one of those nice guys...be nice and just be urself...
for me it is her stomach flat is good sign that she is fit and i look for cleanliness
First of all if you have a Australian accent you are half way there. Anyway you are a girl you got all the power.
ask for his help with your homework...make sure you show a little skin...get his brain thinking about you...flirt with him while you study together and maybe make a move for the kiss!
Confidence and poise.
nice ****

puts my **** in her mouth
1st of all, how old are you? Every guy is different- EVERY guy! If you are going to play the guessing game- you're gonna be awhile. The best approach- ask him what he looks for in a girl. Ask HIM, not your friends or his friends or anybody else. If he says legs, show your leg and ask his opinion on what he thinks. If he doesn't get it, niether will you. Be blunt, upfront and to the point. Don't waste your time w/ him. If he says no- know this, there will be at least 5 other guys who will say YES!
PERSONALITY %26amp; just don't fake!!!
Put your hair down, wear loop earrings, and lipgloss, slippers or high heeled shoes, and a short skirt. Look at him and make some eye contact. If he touches you in a non sexoffinding, or sexofinding (whichever you like) way, let him and cuddle/physical with him. When you leave from him, hug and give him a kiss. Don't forget to smell ok
just stay as u r. b urself.
well.. most guys honestly.. like hot sexy big plumpy future of lust with flawless curves of chaos that goes through the shallow and thin layers of command central inside the brain of a guy....

the point is you must be god damn hot!!!
Just talk to him. Us guys are really easy.

Thigh and cleavage never hurt either.
just be yourself but act flirty. be confident but not cocky
What attracts a man? ok, lets see. Well, it depends which way she is going. You got the answer. concentrate on the main issues, leave the sideissues.

You think this girl likes me? girl advice needed plz?

I JUST REALIZED I WROTE A LOT AND NOT EVEN ENOUGH TO DESCRIBE BUT PLZ HELP SORRY

Now just normally i dont ask for girl advice but this girl is something else.She is driving me crazy and i think i have a small crush on her.I also think she likes me too but recently im just not sure.

Well this girl is beautiful and me and her share something. last year before summer we hung out a lot after school and wed laugh and stuff.And shed ask me some stuff like

';Do you only like me for my big boobs?'; (cause she actually has a nice body )

and id say ';no, dont think of me like that. thats not all i like. i like your smile, your personality and everything else';

what do you think she meant?like me?

She makes me jealous because at least 10 guys are over her but she dont take nobody.thats something about me that im not all over her hugging her and touching her like all the boys.

any ways since the summer was over we havent really talked much. also i do this thing that if girls are talking to me i kinda shortly ignore them and then just smotthly turn my head and say ';huh?'; its hot you should see me in action

anyways i did this thing were she tried to hug me and i pushed her off me and she just walked away mad.and we aint talk for days until today but just a few words.

besides that i also kinda ignore girls but mostly her in the hallways .not completely ignore them but just dont look at them directly, let them look at me and then just talk. and then she DID IT TO MEand so we never talk evrytime we see each other . isee her lookin at me though and coming near me to get my attention, even bumping me sumtimes.any ways wat do yu think?does she like me?wat should i do?i ve had other girls but shes something else!!!helpYou think this girl likes me? girl advice needed plz?
wow ok the whole ignoring thing? not really a turn on? like at all? if some guy did that to me i'd actually be pretty pissed off. And if you said you dont treat her like other guys treat her maybe she thought you'd treat her different then the other girls. if i were you then i'd apologize to her and be pretty flat out with the apology. Then i'd change what i was doing and start to pay alot of attention to her. seriously a girl will fall in love with you if you are GENERALLY INTERESTED IN HER. no guy seems to get that if your concerned when im upset, you ask me about my day, and just generally respect me and value me as a person i am guarenteed to fall in love with you.

Sorry I gave such a long answer but it was a long question. please please please please please give me some male advice on my question?http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>You think this girl likes me? girl advice needed plz?
You should have never pushed her off in the first place dude...

Girl advice please help!!!!!!?

ok so i've know this girl for a while and the we've hung out before but latley i havent been able to see her because i've been having prior engagments like hockey and work or family. and i've blown her off several times bc of those things. anyway we've talked and i still havent flat out told her i like her. but yesterday we were supposed to hangout and i couldnt and i felt SO bad that i had to cancel again. and i told her how sorry i felt and she said she completly understands and that she can tell that i care (which i do) and that im the nicest guy ever. so what i wanna know is does it seem like she likes me or am i still a friend? do you guys think i should go for her?Girl advice please help!!!!!!?
You'll never know till you tell her how you feel! From what you've said it sounds like she's chrushin on you. Life is too short to hold back.

Girl advice needed. Thanks?

Whenever i have f'd this girl i have been seeing, I end up f'n her ,slow, deep and sensual. After a bit i try to rear up a little so i can find a faster rhythm and really 'bang' her, sometimes she lets this happen till completion, most of the time she will pull me intowards her and start kissing me because she knows I cannot bang hard and kiss at the same time.

Don't get me wrong I like this, but do i take this as a sign she really prefers not to get 'banged'?

I for some reason find it takes a LOT longer to *** when we do it long and slow and get a little self consious about length of time after a while (she also cums alot however we do it)

thanks for adviceGirl advice needed. Thanks?
give her one for meGirl advice needed. Thanks?
hhmmm oka well, if your trying to ';bang'; her and she pulls you in for a kiss or something then it probably hurts her. but if shes pulling you IN towards her like your thing more in her than maybe she wants it more.

umm, you would really have to ask her.

'personally' i like to be ';banged'; because i could feel it SOO much better [not that its small, i mean its a REALLY good size] but i pull him in towards me for he could know i want it more. but it all depends on your girl!!
Ask her if shes good and if so can you go to town. If she doesn't understand, let her know that for you a real good orgasm depends on how far you shoot and when you bang on her it feels best. Now she might tell you it hurts, and it might, if so find a position where it won't hurt when you do it. Once a girl has *** a few times she should be ready to let you. That is, if she is not faking it. Most are.
Holy crap your stupid. if your making her *** then be happy with your performance.

and yes most girls prefer to have actually intimacy rather then have you slam your c*ck into us till we cry. ok

Being ';Banged'; isn't all that pleasurable unless you really know what your doing. (which you obviously don't.)
I *think* what she's trying to tell you is that you're crap at rooting. Boring soft sex is also the hardest to mess up.

Try watching some more pornographic films/animals having sex, and ask yourself ';How do *they* do it?';.
Your selfish and inconsiderate
It's really hard to tell.

Um.

To be honest if my b/f does something I dislike I'll distract him by doing something like that, but the only way to be sure is by asking her.
if you can't figure out sex maybe you shouldn't be having it. maybe you could introduce her to a guy who doesn't have to ask really stupid questions
omg
im not sure what your Q is
getting ';banged'; is probably not fun for her. That does not feel good or do anything for girls, it just makes the guy look pathetic if thats all he does- likes hes a horny little 17 year old that doesn't know what he's doing. If she is pulling you in to kiss take a hint she doesn't want to lie there and get banged like shes some hooker off the street or some object you are trying to get off on. Do a combo of going slow and some sort of meduim speed. Don't just go all fast and make her not enjoy it, then she will just think you suck in bed.

Help please...girl advice?

so there's this girl...

haha

I'm pretty confident that we both like each other, but i think it's really awkward because neither of us are out of the closet and don't want to be the creepy lesbian girl who hits on straight girls...I only have one class with her other than that I just see her in the halls all the time and at lunch (where she's always surrounded by ppl). So anyways, I really want to say something to her but I don't know what- anyone have any ideas on how to break the ice? I think we both know that we both know that there is some serious chemistry floating in the air, and I REALLY don't want to screw this up...I'd have thought she would have taken the first step but she doesn't seem to be and i don't want to waste any more time...any ideas?Help please...girl advice?
Is she also lesbian or bi..? If she is then i say you shouldnt waste anymore time. You can either appraoch this two ways

---%26gt; either start a freindship with her first ( get to know her a little, hows she like, what she like /dislikes etc.) %26amp; see how you feel about her then OR

---%26gt; go in for the kill..lol so basically pulling her aside sometime and tell her exactly how you feel about her ( chemistry thats b/w you two) and ask what she thinks of you

So guess that jus my sugestions . You said u didnt want to waste time so i gues you hav to do something at least...might be hard but, give it a go -- you've got nothing to lose!!!

Good LucK! xxooHelp please...girl advice?
For goodness sake!

Honesty is what is required. Approach her.

Tell her your interested in her and that your

';Gay';.

The worst that can happen is that she will

reject your advance telling you she is

heterosexual.

What have you got to loose?
Why not ask her over to your house sometime? Seems harmless enough. Casually bring up the subject if the right moment ever occurs. You will know by the way she talks what or who she is interested in. If you can't decide ask what her views on this are?
well ask her if she likes any movies. talk to her was she is interested that is not in school. talk to her about stuff that people might know. then just ask if she wants to go get some ice cream or movies.
well i'd hope she's not sending off the wrong vibe...but if u feel that way i think it would be completely harmless for u to bring the subject up whenever u get some sort of alone time w/ her...don't write a note, that's for sure...but since ur both not fully out (like me) then i would definitely consider that u guys discuss wut values u have and things of that matter. Since I haven't yet found the girl for me, I'm not exactly sure how it would go if you guys date. I mean, its gonna be found out somehow...i believe its possible to hide for a while but sooner or l8r u'll get tired of it and stop caring wut ppl think...which is definitely how i'm feeling @ the moment...but i have told my mom and a close friend %26amp; her mom. I don't plan to let it be known to my whole family yet 'til i'm 18 and outta the house, cuz then they cannot tell me who to be or what not to be...and by then i really won't give a damnn about their feelings about me, i'd jus rather spare myself the drama for now, u kno? so if i do find that special someone b4 my time (18) then i'll tell them the same thing, and they'll jus meet the ppl who know i'm gay rather than the ppl who don't accept my lifestyle.

If i were in ur situation and i knew there was some sort of attraction between me and another chick, i'd definitely go for it, and even if u get rejected, @ least u tried and failed rather than sat back and wondered. I seem to have not much of a problem approaching someone i like, and i'm not sure why. But maybe before lunch or during ur class u could ask her if you guys could meet and have a tlk or if you could sit w/ her @ lunch. Then maybe, with that opportunity, if she says yeeh, then u could bring up the conversation or whatever. Her body language and expressions and or opinions on whatever you ask her might let you know whether or not shes gay, ready to commit, or even be in a relationship w/ u.

hope this helps u!!

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