Im a girl and falling for this girl , advice?

i think i like girls but never came out. the thing is i am a virgin so i have yet to find out what i like. and another thing is that in the past i was kind of homophobic. like i was afraid of women and idk i still kind of am but cant explain it. and now im really confused about that.i have fallen 4 my best friend and i kno i have no chance with her.i am pretty sure she is straight,but i cant help it.i think im in love with her and it just hurts to kno i probably will never have a chance. .. and like its just hard to get her off my mind. when i wake up in the morning and when i go to sleep at night. she has this smile that i just cant even explain how it makes me feel when i see her.i think shes an angel.i would do anything for her.and she totally leads me on when shes drunk she has kissed me a couple times b4. and i just hate my life so much bcuz i can never get wat i want. my life was all wrong from the start. at least if i was a guy id have somewhat of a chance. but no its not that way.i really just want 2 get over her.and the only way i can get over someone is if i fall for someone else.Im a girl and falling for this girl , advice?
hey...i know ALL TOO WELL what ur going through...i would go over to my friends house, like, all the time and somewhere along the way...i fell in love with her...i know that i have no chance and i die a little everyday when i see her with her boyfriend and when i hear wat they did the night before...i know that YOU are seeking help...i just want you to know that...there are others in ur position...and i know that you dont wanna hear about some scientific crap (Don) because scientist dont know excactly what ur feeling...well i agree that if you 'come out' and tell her... she might get freaked out and ur relationship with her might wither away...and you dont wanna keep it in...because its killing you on the inside...i have to go now...but...contact me...i might be able to help you... born-a-baby@hotmail.comIm a girl and falling for this girl , advice?
hey awww..hugs.does she ever give you this feeling like she might like you too. like staring or something. have you ever told her youre bi or something. hey if you wanna talk about this more im me: lilylove@live.com maybe i can help you clear youre head by talking.
Discount the drunken fooling around . Consider having a talk w her about your feelings . If she pushes you away , at least you tried to take it to the next level . You might never forget this girl , so dont drive yourself nuts trying to .
wel... u can ask hr is she is straight,bio,or lesbo but dont git to nervous bout it!!!!!
maybe it is just a phase. a few years ago i used to kind of have a little bit of a crush on one of my girl friends. but i still fancied a boy at the same time and still found boys more attractive than girls. i wasn't like sexually attracted to her. or anything but i kind of fancied her a little bit. but a soon grew out of that phase after about a couple of weeks. if you still find yourself attracted to boys and that its probably just a phase. you are most likely to grow out of it if you are in your teens its probably just a little same-sex crush. which is nothing to worry about. a lot of teenagers get same sex crushes when there going through puberty or sometimes if there not so you know its nothing to worry about. don't let it bring you down or anything. instead of like being totally obsessed with her and not thinking about any ones else. keep your options open and try to see a few boys but if its not working maybe you are lesbian or bi. but like you shouldn't be ashamed of being lesbian or bi. just because your not like your friends doesn't mean you should be ashamed or anything. hope that helped. and good luck. X
Don, you copy and paste this answer into every single post who talks about someone being gay or bi, try a sincere answer.
You should know that, especially during puberty, many people have same sex feelings. It is considered normal. It does not mean you are gay...merely having same sex feelings. You should also know that you will have personality changes...possibly into your twenties and maybe even into your thirties. Again, this is all normal. Trying to establish your sexual orientation during this period is like calling yourself a football fan before you've ever even seem the first game. Take your time. There's no rush. You are doing the right thing by asking questions. I would recommend that you speak with your parents if you think they will be supportive of you. You know them better than anyone else. If you don't feel comfortable speaking to your parents...speak with your family doctor. He should be able to address your concerns...if he doesn't or can't, he will refer you to someone who can. You should also have the option of your school counselor. Doctors, psychologists, psychiatrists and school counselors should be confidential. Ask if you're not sure. Your sexual orientation shouldn't overly concern you...don't stress about it. You are what you are...if you're heterosexual, then you're heterosexual...if you're bisexual, then you're bisexual...and, if you're gay, then you're gay. You sexual orientation/identity is not an abnormality nor a disease...it's just your sexual inclination. Again, it's not something to get stressed about. Take your time and enjoy yourself, you're just beginning a wonderful journey through life...don't rush it. You will look back over these years with fondness...just relax.