I need girl advice...(Please help)?

Ok so here's the situation, I'm really good friends with this one girl I like.





Here's some details of our friendship:





1.) I'm usually the one who starts the conversation whenever i talk to her but when we start talking she's really in to the conversation. (Good or bad?)


2.) She's boy crazy but I'm the guy she talks to about her problems. Unlike the other guys.





Her:


1.) She loves sports, she's smart, and very friendly.


2.) I only see her at school.


3.) She's somewhat self-centered but not all the time.





Me:


1.) I also love sports, in her honor classes, and friendly.


2.) I'm the crazy, weird guy in school who tries to have fun whenever he can.


3.) I'm very out-going but shy when it comes to relationships





I NEED WAYS TO ASK HER OUT mostly. (Ex. Alone at school?)





I really like this girl and just need help getting the relationship to start. I would appreciate any advice you give me. 10 pts to the person that helps me the most. ThxI need girl advice...(Please help)?
It's totally fine that you begin the conversations. You may not know this, but some girls have a problem with starting a conversation with a boy. We think that if they wanted to talk, then they would say something first. I'm one of those girls.





Anyway, it's good that she's into the conversation as well. If she didn't care then she would answer with things like ';lol'; ';true'; or other one word answers. One word answers from girls means ';stop talking to me.'; So, she's not brushing you off. Yay!





Additionally, it's really good that you're in her classes and are into sports too. It's great when you have things in common, it gives you something to talk about and more of a connection.





As for the asking out part. Some girls feel like they're on the spot if they're just randomly asked out, and they don't know what to say. I suggest casually bringing something along the lines of a relationship up to see how she would respond. It's better for both of you to feel it all out first before jumping right in. She'll feel more comfortable and prepared, and I think you will be too.





Ok so this is really long but I really hope this helps you. Good luck and keep your head high!I need girl advice...(Please help)?
Simple. Go up to her and ask her to lunch or coffee something. She will say yes based on what you are sharing. If she is really into the conversation obviously that is a GREAT thing. Bottom line, you got to make the move because you are the man. Be confident.


Leave her a note in her locker or something if you feel to nervous to approach her in person. But it's sexier to come up in person.
Just be straight forward with her. Ask her how she feels about you. Let her know that you are starting to have feelings for her and want to see her happy and not go through all this misery she is going through. Ask her if she feels safe and secured when she is with you. Let her know how you feel about those sad stories she has. Good Luck
Just invite her to your house to watch a movie, or to the movies or something... THEN after that if you have a good time---- then ask her out.


Otherwise it might come out of the blue for her, and she might not realize what you're going for. Don't shock her. Be smooth!
need help? dude just do a leap of faith and GO for it. ask her out spontainiously.. but not over the phone i say.





then again.. the relationships i've been in started because i let it slip the i liked her in a myspace bulletin.
If you have to start the conversation every time, then she's not interested. If she liked you, she'd start talking to you more often.
ur probaly stuck in da friend zone...but just be like ';u wanna go 2 da movies or something 2 hang out....when u get her alone tell her how u feel';
ask her out at the park
OH MY GOD!!


thats so weird, because im going through the same thing..except im the girl in the situation..





i'd like it if he asked me out../:
If she talks to you about her guy problems she probably thinks of you as just a friend. (im not sure if your saying she talks to you about her problems or about her boy problems.)
From a female point of view, first of all, this is very sweet...


and i'm assuming you have her phone number or way to contact her...


If not, that's the first step. If so, and you're nervous about approaching her at school, just hang out somewhere casual as friends. That'll take the stress off.


Drop little hints about how much you have in common, how much fun you're having, etc.


When she mentions other guys, subtly say something that'll imply she wouldn't have those problems with you.


Like I said, you seem like a sweet guy, so just be calm, and subtly let her know you're interested.


Worst case scenario, she may not feel the same...but, if you hold back awhile, there won't be damage to the friendship, and hey, she may warm up to the idea...


Good luck!!
well it sounds like you are afraid to ask her out. Most likely afraid of her reaction and/or losing her as a friend. By the sound it, she is into you but doesnt want people to think she likes the ';weirdo'; so she tries to hide it by acting like your her specail guy friend that she doesnt like like that. Catch my drift? The best way at this point is to ask her out is in person on a Friday when school is over before yall go home. Either way that would end good. Let me explain. If she says yes, then yall can do something together because its the weekend. If she says no, then you wont have to see her for like 2 days because bieng around her would be kinda weird after her rejecting you.
Well first of all,


you need to find out if she likes you or not, because if she dosnt and you ask her out without you knowing her view on you. you could be shot down.


To ask her if she likes you


1) ask her flat out if your brave


2) Ask her who she likes then tell her you kinda like her , if she likes you too, then she will admit to it there ! :)





and if you find out she dosnt like you. then thats okay. there are plenty of other girls out there, take it as a learing experience





if she does like you


then just start hinting as a relationship


like :





1) so are u thinking of dating?


2) just a question ,do you think you would ever date me ?





and so on. and if the answers are positive, then next time you seee her, say


hey , ever thought of dating a guy like me ?


or something like that





do it when your alone.


1 ) invite her for a walk


2) go to the park


3) at school.





Hope i helped ! :)
Bro. You need a mentor.


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In my humble opinion, it's too late for this girl. She already thinks of you in a certain way. You'll NEVER get around that now. A woman knows within the first 15 seconds of meeting you whether or not she'd sleep with you.


You need to start from scratch bud.


Dont try kickin it to girls who are out of your league. It's the girl who should have the crush on you.


NOTHING HAPPENS UNLESS SHE LIKES YOU FIRST!!!!!!


You can't be shy %26amp; confident at the same time. And confidence is the number one requirement for success.