There is this girl and i need girl advice?

ok here we go. there is this girl at school i like her and she likes me. we have been talking for about two months and she tells me all the time that she likes me, but when i asked her out she said i will go out with you in the future but right now i just want to get to know you. is that girl talk for back off i dont really want you around or is she serious? we are both 17There is this girl and i need girl advice?
she probably is just nervous about taking the next step and doesnt want to loose a friend if it doesnt work out... this is normal





do something really romantic... like buy her flowers and randomly give them to her or write a cute poem and read it to her





this will make her fall for you





good luck :)There is this girl and i need girl advice?
In my opinion If a girl really likes you, she would jump at the chance to be with you but thats just me. Ask her about her recent relationship it might have something to do with that, because I had a friend who went through a really bad break up in which she felt that she had rushed into a relationship and they guy she was with ended up being REALLY clingy. So when she found another guy she was afraid to go out with him because she didnt want to rush into it like she did with her first boyfriend. I say just be patient for a while and if she still doesnt want to go out with you then let her know that you'er not going to wait for her forever.
She wants to get to know you as a person before she lets herself fall in love you. If you want to date her, ask her to let you know when she is ready for a boyfriend. In the meantime, just continue to talk and get a group together to go bowling or skating or to grab a bite and include her in the group. That way you can go out with her without the pressure of a date and while she can still get to know you.
basically she should just go out with you if she likes you. SHE CAN'T like you if she doesn't know you that well, so what more she wants to know?


i think it's best for her to go out with you so she can learn more since you guys are in a relationship and can talk things through and other type of feelings. otherwise, it's just going to be a friend to friend conversation, nothing more she's going to find out.


i just think she's confused.
Honestly? You can't really ask us because we dont know her.. if she seems really nice and honest, then she's probably just serious and wants to get to know you better. If you think thats it, then make a better effort to get to know her! If she seems like she's the type of person to lead you on, then find someone else.? At 17 there's going to be plenty of girls out there. I'm sure you have plenty of options! If you think she's serious, but you dont want to wait, then find someone else but stay friends with the girl who rejected you because maybe in the future, you guys will go out.





Good Luck!
hey im 17 to! well im not the commitment type of guy so my best advice to you is to keep talking to her if you like her as much as you say you do, but just keep in mind you guys are gettin to know each other try not to fall for her.


if you do or already fell for her then ask her out again cuz it has been 2 months she should know you by now
Girls dont have their heads on strait until they hit about 25. Same goes for you, teenage boy. You have the rest of your life to be tied down to one woman buddy, just have some fun and don't get all caught up in being ';exclusive'; or whatever. You should focus on studying so you can get a good job, then the girls will come naturally..because chicks dig guys who can take them to dinner, buy a house, etc. Focusing on getting a girlfriend at your age is the perfect recipe to end up a total loser.They should print THAT in a textbook.
heyy, im a 17 year old girl and my boyfriend is 20 and we have been together for a little over a year now and he did the same thing to me except he kept me going for 3 months so if you get off at 2 youre lucky ha ha. any way after we started dating i asked him why he waited so long to make a move and he told me that in his past relationships he just rished right into them and they didnt end well and he wanted to make sure we would last..i thought it was sweet, so maybe try asking if she has had any relationships in the past that left her uneasy but if it goes a long time and you guys still havent started dating and she says i dont wanna lose you as a friend, thats your sign that its not gunna happen. goodluck ;)
Don't wait around for her....





I'm almost positive she's not waiting for you. A line like that could only mean she has other interests or she's not interested enough in you.





You say that you both like each other but really think about this - who likes who more ? Who said I like you first ?





Also do you give her things ? (She could be using you)


Does she not want to be seen publicly with you ?
nah,, she wants you.





i'd say.....





she's been hurt before and doesnt want to rush into anything! Staying friends for a while means that she and you can really get to know each other before yous get all serious! If you really like her, and if you can stay in a relationship happily without sex for a while then you should give her all the time she needs, and just let her know exactly how your feeling for her!
In my opinion, this kind of behavior seems attention-seeking.


I've had experience with Girls who've hunted for attention in a similar way, and to be honest after a while it seems like they're so out of reach even though you had feelings for one-another.


I'd just tell her straight and if she still gives the same explanation then I'd just move on. Hope this helps!
It seems like she's not exactly ready for a relationship. Maybe she's been screwed over by some guys, and really wants to get to know you before committing to you. If you really like her, then stick with it. But don't let it last too long, because then it will just be like she's leading you on.
Maybe a date at the moment is moving a little too fast for her. When she says she wants to get to know you that is exactly what she means. So instead of a ';date'; plan a day to ';hang out'; in a casual setting. It could even be a more comfortable situation if you two go with a group hang out.
I think she is serious..she may have some mixed feelings and wants to ensure she really likes you seriously before she takes it to the next level with you...she may also just want to focus on other things at this point in her life..like school or family..and just doesn't have time for a relationship right now
I think that she wants to get to know you better before you date and this a good thing in my opinion :) it's never really good to rush anything. I think it kind of shows that she is serious about being with you which is great. So have fun and get to know eachother more. Good luck
She most definitley have her guard up and maybe from her past relationships she Dont wanna get hurt. So she's still out there Lookin and Pickin around yaknow? She wanna See what else is better Out there. She likes you but Perhaps has another friend on the side she Still wanna Get to know more.
She is definitely not telling you to back off. I think she just doesn't want to rush into anything. Its pretty clear she's not the type you are going to bang on the first date. If you like her enough, you will be patient and help her to get to know you better like she says.
She's probably scared and intimidated about getting into a relationship as are all young adults are.





Or perhaps she isn't allowed to go out until shes 18 or something. That was always a problem with relationships when I was in high school a year ago.
id say shes serious. i like to get to know my guys as well. for real. so i would take it seriously if i were you. why else would she say she likes you? just for he health? no shes being honest. (:





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well it could be either one. but in my opinion i think she just doesnt know what she wants. you need to be straight up. ';whats the deal? why are you waiting so long.';
uhhh, she may be serious, and she may be not wanting you, but i don't think she would tell you that she likes you all the time and then not want you lol.
Well if she is actually trying to get to know you and is spending time with you maybe she is interested in getting to know you first. If she has been ignoring you completly maybe you should back off
I mean like bro,





Give her a chance to get to know you more. You cant rush into being a relationship cause something wrong might happen you know, So don't rush it man, that time will come.
Just get to know her better, ask her questions about her life and what she likes and tell her stuff about you. Let her get to know you better.
to me it sounds she's either


A)not ready for a relationship right now(just give her some time)


B)doesn't want to rush into it


C)just wants to know as much about you as possible
she's probably telling you the truth she just wants to get to know you more so hang out and become best friends and then later on down the road ask her out again
Sorry it depends on the person %26amp; I don't know her. But I can't see where she would try to keep you around at all if she didn't like you.
it sounds like she has other choices and right now she's trying to figure out who to choose. You should definitely move on.
Just work on getting to know her like you said, and maybe let her make the next move. When she's ready to go out with you, she'll let you know one way or another.


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i think shes probably serious. i know plenty of girls that need to truly know someone before they make it official.
At 17 dont worry about girlfriends and all that crap. I tell you, women can kill. Poontang's expensive. That's why when it comes to chicks, I just screw them and leave them. I'd say ';get out of my bedroom, poontang, before you suck my life dry!';