Anyone give some Girl advice anyone...?

Well I'm an upperclassmen and I've never had gf before so I guess I can say Im new to all of this in a way. Recently I got extemely drunk and had a change of mind when I thought about my life. wierd huh?





I was tired of not taking advantages in my life and talking to the girls I have liked in the past. as of now, I talk to a couple of girls but the oone i talk to the most lives in another state.. so yea. We have met in the past a couple of times and seemed to get along..





we talked a lot about different things.. so Ive come to the point where I talk to her on the internet only and ive run out of things to talk about. It has mostly reduced to a hi, whats up, bye thing. should I cut it and run or should I try to find some commen ground? thanksAnyone give some Girl advice anyone...?
i think you have run out of things to talk about because you are not actually together doing things and experiencing things together, you don't have enough history under your belts to be able to make something work long distance, you don't know the most intimate parts about each other (no, i'm not talking about sex) if you were in a position to be able to see each other frequently, like a couple times a week, then yes i think you would have a shot at making this work. but because you are trying to evolve a relationship over the internet, it likely won't work because it is all dependant on what you have to say..being in or establishing a relationship requires face time too, not just phone or internet..if you really like her and have the financial means to see her more often then yes, quite possibly this can work. but if you are expecting to learn all about each other online you are going to have a hard time sweetie. i would take what you have learned and experienced from her friendship and apply that to whomever may come into your life now, where you live. you seem down to earth and rational, you will not have a problem whatsoever finding a girlfriend, you have the most important idea down pat..finding common ground. i hope this helps you a little bit, best of luck to you hun :)


*hugs*Anyone give some Girl advice anyone...?
You should try to meet up. If you can meet, see how things go. See if you are attracted to her, wanting to be affectionate towards her, have a great conversation, undrstanding.


It's hard when it's distance. You were probably really excited before and when that haapens, you talk about everything in the books until it runs dry.


You are still young. I would also continue to talk to women around your school. Don't limit yourself, because the fact is, she is in another state. If it's meant you all will make it happen.
if conversation has died down mutually then it may be that you two are either keeping an intentional distance or that there isnt that much common interests between the two of you. either way it sounds like like the internet interaction has reached its end. Try to meet up and if its the same then you'll know.
A relationship (no matter what kind it is) needs growth.. if it seems as if it can't grow anymore, then you're only dwelling in dead weeds. I'd say tell her that this friendship has gotten has far as it an and end it on an honest, but kind note. Just running away will only make you seem like a coward. She at least deserves some closure.
If your that interested in her ;; take a weekend off or aside for jus her and have like a little date and she if conversation builds from there if you feel that it's not goin anywhere well then move on..but if she seems interested like yu then keep tryin and find things to talk about like movies..sports...uhmm stuff happenin in the world her school?..job ?? anything and hope everything will work out
dont give up.there are plents of things to talk about.school family. favorite things to do.once you get talking it becomes a lot easier to keep conversation going.i think your just shy and not used to it.theres always a chance just relax and once your calm the words will be easier
Uhh, if you have nothing to say, you have nothing to say. So ';cut and run'; I suppose. You're not gonna get with this girl if that's what you're asking.
you just need to get laid my friend
Send her nudies
Well, if I were you, I'd go around your school and look for some people there. Who knows, you might find someone! :D
ugh i guess leave her n find someone in ur state dude