I need girl advice. I've never had issues wiith this before, but now it's diffferent.?

There's this girl that goes to my school who i really like. She is friends with one of my friends, and i tried having him talk to her for me, but just ended up flirting with her. She comes to my lunch sometimes for another one of her friends, and every time i talk to her i get tongue tied, my words twist, and i sound retarded.





What i'm asking, is how can i get this girl to know me? how can i woo her, i guess you could say. We dont really have the opportunity to talk much. She isnt like most girls, who start liking a boy when they first meet due to looks, or so i think. But maybe she just doesnt find me attractive. I willl post a picture of me later. But for now, how can I pursue this?I need girl advice. I've never had issues wiith this before, but now it's diffferent.?
My advice to you is to get to know her bit by bit.


Start by waving to her and saying ';Hi'; when she walks by you in the halls.


At lunch or breaks, try making small talk with her.


Recent movies, subjects you like or dislike, stuff like that.


But when you actually start a conversation with her, try not to talk to much. It'll make you sound like .. i don't know the word to describe it, but it'll be awkward if you're doing most of the talking.


If you could, you could ask to walk her home (if she walks home) . But first, find out if she walks with friends, then I don't think it would be a good idea. It'll be better to walk with her when she's alone. Try not to act stalkerish O.O


Find your common interests, and stuff.





Sometimes it's cute when guys get tongue tied. But try thinking about what you'll say to her before hand.





I don't think it really matters at how you look physically, unless you're hideous.. not saying you are. I don't think you're hideous though. But anyways, girls like guys with a good attitude, and treats people nicely.





.. eh, that's all I could think of. GOOD LUCK ;)


I hope my advice helped?





and I hope I didn't write too much. :]I need girl advice. I've never had issues wiith this before, but now it's diffferent.?
first getting someone else to talk to a girl for you is a bad idea other than that get what you are going to say before you start to talk





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first don't let anybody ask for u, go and ask her out or in a nice way


just be like hey what are you doing this weekend? do you wanna hang out or something?


and if she said she has something ask about a day that she don't have anything to do and if it didn't work talk to her on face book, e-mail what ever and tell her.





btw, nice sweet words will pull her heart to u.
Well, I'm a girl too, and I think you should just be yourself! I know everyone says this , but it's true. She might not feel the same way about you, but no matter what, don't ever, EVER change yourself for her. What if she starts to like the changed you, and then when you guys are going out she sees that's not really who you are. Busted, that's what.





Another piece of advice is that you should always laugh something off, like when you get tounge-tied. We all know that's normal. She probably does too. Just say sorry, and start over. Rehearse something in your head bfore you say it, and then let it slowly come out.





You said you don't have the opportunity to talk much, so try to find more time... where's her locker? What's her schedule? Walk over to her and ask her where her next class is.





In the end, you might not get the girl. But then again still you might. So be yourself, talk slowly, and find out more about her. Maybe later on in the relationship you can tell her you like her. Just know that no matter what happens, you are going to find someone someday who you'll love and be with happily. And it could be her, but it might not be.
I'd say, get to know her first. Like her for who she is. See if you guys have anything in common. Especially know what she likes to do, then you can invite her to do these things with you...great places would be bowling or watching movies. Also, stop telling your friends to talk to her for you, because she doesnt know you're the one who wants to get to know her better or is interested in her, so she might even start to notice your friends more! Good luck! By the way, it's very natural to be shy and tongue-tied around someone you like, but be brave and have confidence. Most girls like guys who have a wonderful inside rather than outside appearance.
you need to have some confidence and it's ok if you're nervous. you can start off slowly. like - greet her. good morning/afternoon (her name) and how are you? start off like that and then you can ease it into a conversation. don't worry, your confidence will build up. talking to her would be much easier once you know a little about her.
just ask her out





here answer this question which can make our lives easier !!!





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Im in the same situation but im the girl :) lol


girls like boys who will just be there self and just ask her out if you don't feel brave enough just get to no her a bit first then ask her x





All Girls want the boys to ask them out :) x
confidence is key. girls love a guy with confidence.


don't get a friend to talk to her, talk to her yourself. when your talking to her try to calm down, if you get tongue tied just take a breath and continue. don't be nervous, shes just a girl.





when you get to know her, ask her to hangout.
Well if you get really tong tied then why dont you start by talking to her over myspace or facebook to break the ice and then when you're comfortable enought talk to her in person.
Girls like a guy who knows exactly what to say, so when you're sitting around whining because you're bored like most teens, think about what to say. And not all girls just care about looks you know!