okay i met this girl through myspace..talked a bit on there and moved to texting...this is the first girl i have really ever pursued (i'm shy) so i am extremely inexperienced in this situation. anyways, we haven't really spoken about dating stuff like what type of people we look for or anything like that (i want to though); just basically interests we both have and share...okay here's my question: should i mention to her that she's the only girl i have really pursued or really ever tried to get to know? and that i really like talking to her?..the reason i am asking this is because i don't want to come off too strong and or as a desperate/lonely dude. would you be weirded out about a guy that has never really had a girl friend at the age of 22 O.o (she's 20 btw)? should i say anything or just forget about it? this girl is super cool and i don't want to blow it..thanks.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
i wouldn't tell her that your inexperienced. she might think your weird or something. i wouldn't really talk to her about the dating thing yet. arrange somewhere cool to meet. like a movie or someplace like that. so you two can meet each other and see if you really like her. go on dates for a little while to make sure shes into you and you get to know her well. then ask her if she wants to start dating you.I need some girl advice...pronto :)?
you should tell her she will probably take that as a good thing and will be like thanks so go for it and plz tell me how it goes thanks
Hi! If i were in your position i wouldnt tell her just yet....she may feel like she has a ton of pressure on her because of that..maybe wait a little bit until you are better friends than tell her! Good luck!!
Ok I am a 23 yr old girl and I am tryong to put myself in your girls shoes haha. I would say on the first or second date when it is typical normal questions about previous relationships I would say casually and CALM that you haven't had a serious g/f. Say it that way so she does't think you are unexperienced, even though you might be. If you say she is the first girl you have ever pursued then she might be a little taken back because not knowing what you want. Just don't bring up your past or lack there of. That topic just comes out casually. Good Luck you seem like a sweety and will do fine.
You don't need to tell her you've never had a girlfriend... and you don't need to make it a big deal. If you want a date... take her to the movies... but her ticket... and get some candy to share... you wont be stuck trying to make conversation the whole time because you'll be watching the movie. And some girls like shy guys, but try to come out of your shell just a little bit.
well obviously she likes you. so don't blow it. just keep on being yourself b/c she likes you how you are. if i were you i wouldn't go telling her right off the bat that you haven't ever pursued girl before, she might think that you are desperate. tell her after a while. just be you and everything will fall into place.
No comments:
Post a Comment