PLEASE help! Girl advice!!?

I was communicating w/ this girl on match.com last week and we exchanged like 8 emails. Seems she was flirting a little, saying things like, ';Sounds like you need someone memorable in your life to enjoy things...we'll work on that.'; And I gave her my cell phone. We had a pretty good lepore going on and she would send some decent sized emails...we talked about random stuff. She said she was visiting her parents last weekend...so that's why she didn't return my last email on Friday. But she's been on twice since Monday and hasn't replied...what gives? The only thing I can think of is in her last email last week at the end she asked what I was doing that day...I replied with ';getting surgery'; at the end of the email. She didn't reply b/c she was at her parents...but she's been back since Monday.


She does seem busy with all the home work and stuff she mentioned...but I think she lost interest for some reason.


What do you think? How long should I wait before forgetting her?PLEASE help! Girl advice!!?
I would assume that if she was visiting her parents, maybe she didn't have a chance to give an in-depth reply to your e-mail so she was waiting for the right time. I know at times I get very busy with work and school; all I do is check e-mail and daily stuff and get back to REPLYING to e-mails and that sort of thing later. Also, it is only Tuesday (well, here officially Wednesday). If she has been back since Monday, that is not a lot of time.





I think because it is an online type of thing and you two aren't that serious right now, just give her space. She probably isn't taking everything as serious as you may be. So, give her space and she will get back to you when she can.





For now, keep yourself distracted and don't worry.PLEASE help! Girl advice!!?
Generally, if this situation had happened in novels or movies, the girl would have faced an inevitable accident so that she could not have replied. But in reality, she maybe has lost time or interests to contact with you any more. It is possible that the girl felt boring and need someone to talk with last week but she finds something more meaningful to do than meeting you this week. Since girls always change their minds unpredictably, it's a common phenomenon.
Maybe she's married.
I would say just give her some space: don't bug her with a lot of messages, just let her come around if and when she is ready. BUT, you can just ask her directly what she is thinking and did you say something wrong that upset her!! People appreciate honest communcation and humility: having the courage to ask what you might have done wrong, can be a definite ';plus'; in your favor!!
Sometimes when someone emails me i read it and totally forget to reply, try emailing something different like how have u been lately nd stuff like that
Uhh! Were you really getting surgery that day!?! She probably took that personal and felt like you didn't wanna be bothered so she's trowing it right back at you!!
she was probably playing head games.just dont contact her,let her be the one to get back to you, if she really wants to stay in touch with you, she will ,if not, f**k it,there are other girls out there.good luck!
Well dude, if you have her number i suggest you call her. If you dont then just be patient. If she doesnt get back at ya then she doesnt get back at ya, ya know? Its not the end of the world.


Or maybe you could email her saying '; hey email me back when you get this, I havent heard from you in a while, just seeing how youre doing.';
i think she likes to poop too much so she doesn't have time for you okay?
my mom does this to guys not really through e-mail but she will never call a guy or call them back even if she really likes him she always waits for them to call her and she looks forward so maybe u should give her a call and my ex bf did that we had a horrible break up but i occassionally message him to check and see if hes okay and well talk and talk he will bring up good stuff then he will just stop responding ill say screw it but if it concerns u enough do something about it ask simple questions like whats up ive been worried blah blah





PS i get pissed at my mom when she does that junior high crap (not calling) so dont jump to conclusions or assume the worst
If you had long messages going and she actually says what you said she does. Then she is probably just having a hard time getting to replying to your message.





Give her some time, you make it seem like she is really interested, so I would assume she is. Patience is all you need. She will reply.





Good luck!
WHy does it matter, it was just chat room talk? Go to a bar and meet some real girls.
I'd make one last attempt to email her and if she doesn't reply, then move on. Who knows what happened. She may have lost interest, she may have met someone else.
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I would not forget her. Some times people get overwhelmed with there life and maybe she didn't see you messaged her, or maybe she was so used to it she took it for granted.





Wait a few days, maybe a week, and then send her a flirty ';hey'; surgery went well





most likely if she's interested you will get one back, maybe it was alot for her this week and she just wanted to give you some space
Girls are weird like that. I'll tell you about my experiences and I think she sounds like me.





Well one i would chat to guys also and because I had a boyfriend would not take it any further, so I would email for fun only and guilty as charged give false hope but this is when I was younger.





another situation is where she got scared when you said you wanted to meet up because no matter how many emails you are a stranger and she may not be interested like that.





third scenario is I believe some people can go days without responding as they dont know what to say or dont have the time and I think you should just let her respond to you when and if shes ready.





If you keep messaging she will think you are weird, desperate or a stalker.





I think this girl was only playing around as she was bored and probably was bored like I used to do when I was younger.





Hope I have helped
what happened? shes a woman thats wt happened. You have to guess everything and if u guess wrong its ur fault lol. dw bout it
maybe she was freaked out. or maybe shes one of those busy types with cellphones. or maybe shes not interested, you just gotta wait and be patient, these things take time, especially when youre trying to find your match.