so theres this girl who i really like but she has a boyfriend but now they're on the verge of breaking up any time now. should i let her know how i feel now or wait a little bit? i dont know what to say too or anything that'll make it obvious.Girl advice?
Just be around! Attention will make her feel better, but not too much! She will be too busy by getting her life back on track.Girl advice?
start flirting with her more but don't tell her how you feel until way later on when you are in a relationship with her if it gets to that point, if you tell her how you feel about her before the two of you are together, she is going to classify you into the desperate nice guy category and you will then be stuck in the friend zone forever. Do what jerks do without being an asshole like a jerk, be confident, be a leader in the relationship, be unpredictable, treat her like you've known her for a long time and she's like a best friend, that way you won't be nervous around her. Hope I helped you and good luck.
Wait until she is single, and when she is upset about the break up, be there to comfort her.
wait till she is completley single
Saturday, July 31, 2010
Girl advice?
Ok its really uncomfortable being in the same room as your ex when she wants to get back together. i want to also but when ever i get see her i run away. What to do??Girl advice?
There is only one thing to do and that is let her know how you feel.... because if you dont... one day your gonna run and when you try to go back and get her she isnt gonna be there.Girl advice?
If you can't take the face to face by accident thing, how about either planning to meet her or sending her a letter, or an email. Anything! Just let her know now, before she gives up on you. Do it now, or you will regret it!trilogy
There is only one thing to do and that is let her know how you feel.... because if you dont... one day your gonna run and when you try to go back and get her she isnt gonna be there.Girl advice?
If you can't take the face to face by accident thing, how about either planning to meet her or sending her a letter, or an email. Anything! Just let her know now, before she gives up on you. Do it now, or you will regret it!
Girl Advice?
I've been into this girl for a while now. We're supposed to go see a movie on Saturday night. How do I know if it's a date or not?Girl Advice?
Who cares? I mean if you are going to spend time with her then it does not really matter. You can get to know eachother, and talk or whatever. Anyway, if you keep it as a casual thing, it will make both of you less uncomfortable, and if it all goes well, at the end of the night say, would you like to go out again sometime. You should be able to tell from her answer whether she in interested in dating or just being friends.Girl Advice?
Your going to the moves if it is only her and you then it is probobly a date. If you feel like its a date when the film end tern to her and kiss her on the cheek. it will work
Well if its just the two of u it usally means it is a date
if the two of you are alone.....bam.....its a date!!.............if you/she invited other people to go along.......crash.....it ain't a date.......easy as that!! :) peace
going to movie is a date i think
Well if she is the one who said that u guys should go to the movies then it sounds llike she asked u out on a date. what u should do is act like u r on a date. buy her popcorn or wutever and slowly get romantic with her. if she gets your flow then it is a date, if not then i guess she just wants to be friends. Or u could call her and remind her about the movies and when you say bye say ';it a date then.'; and if she says alright then it is a date.
i would guess that it is a date but i wouldnt be so sure, just ask her an she will tell you the truth, but if u like her and she likes ou then it is definitely a date.
movies?duh, it's a date!!I don't go to the movies with some guy for the hell of it!
Ask her.
it's a date
just enjoy the time as it is just a movie !
then if you enjoy ur self then ask her for another night out !
oh dont say the word '; date';
could be a big mistake , have fun !
now and then , frappie
Its a date, but who is the one who started talking about the movie first/......
It probably is.
Going to the movies sounds like a date to me.... have fun.
Maybe if you treat it like a date without making it an OFFICIAL date, she'll dig you even more.
If you asked her out as pals, then she won't be expecting anything, so do something a little ';unexpected'; but not corny like candles or flowers.
PS Candles and flowers arent corny, they just would be on the first date.
it doesnt matter, just enjoy your time with her.
It sounds like you guys are going out on a date to me.. but if you're not so sure then just ask her
Try to hold her hand and if she pulls away
She's only into you as a friend
Not too sure. I't would seem like a date to me if a guy invited me to a movie... :) Have fun...
just ask her if this is considered a date or not, if not, make her pay her own way in.
Who cares? I mean if you are going to spend time with her then it does not really matter. You can get to know eachother, and talk or whatever. Anyway, if you keep it as a casual thing, it will make both of you less uncomfortable, and if it all goes well, at the end of the night say, would you like to go out again sometime. You should be able to tell from her answer whether she in interested in dating or just being friends.Girl Advice?
Your going to the moves if it is only her and you then it is probobly a date. If you feel like its a date when the film end tern to her and kiss her on the cheek. it will work
Well if its just the two of u it usally means it is a date
if the two of you are alone.....bam.....its a date!!.............if you/she invited other people to go along.......crash.....it ain't a date.......easy as that!! :) peace
going to movie is a date i think
Well if she is the one who said that u guys should go to the movies then it sounds llike she asked u out on a date. what u should do is act like u r on a date. buy her popcorn or wutever and slowly get romantic with her. if she gets your flow then it is a date, if not then i guess she just wants to be friends. Or u could call her and remind her about the movies and when you say bye say ';it a date then.'; and if she says alright then it is a date.
i would guess that it is a date but i wouldnt be so sure, just ask her an she will tell you the truth, but if u like her and she likes ou then it is definitely a date.
movies?duh, it's a date!!I don't go to the movies with some guy for the hell of it!
Ask her.
it's a date
just enjoy the time as it is just a movie !
then if you enjoy ur self then ask her for another night out !
oh dont say the word '; date';
could be a big mistake , have fun !
now and then , frappie
Its a date, but who is the one who started talking about the movie first/......
It probably is.
Going to the movies sounds like a date to me.... have fun.
Maybe if you treat it like a date without making it an OFFICIAL date, she'll dig you even more.
If you asked her out as pals, then she won't be expecting anything, so do something a little ';unexpected'; but not corny like candles or flowers.
PS Candles and flowers arent corny, they just would be on the first date.
it doesnt matter, just enjoy your time with her.
It sounds like you guys are going out on a date to me.. but if you're not so sure then just ask her
Try to hold her hand and if she pulls away
She's only into you as a friend
Not too sure. I't would seem like a date to me if a guy invited me to a movie... :) Have fun...
just ask her if this is considered a date or not, if not, make her pay her own way in.
Girl advice?
i like this girl and i'm pretty sure she likes me too. so how do i tell her short of a note.
if you've been asked out and you said yess what did he sayGirl advice?
Well, Bud Get her Number and that will give her a hint and call her up and see how that goes and weather you call and ask her out or ask her out in person is tottally Up to you..and what to say afterwards is really tough, I went blank when My girl said yes =oGirl advice?
he ask if there was any place i would like to go
just kinda flirt and ask her to hang out with you when you have nothing planned. but dont come on too strong until later. stay kinda distant but still availiable. goodluck! :)
just ask her to go see a movie or dinner. make a casual plan and the rest will follow
just be as nice as you can and tell her that you are feeling her and ask her what she thinks about that. if you are scared to talk to her in person send her an e-mail.
Be yourself. You can do it. :) Make a poetry that has the meaning of asking her out..! ;)
if you dont want to tell her than ask a friend to do it. it worked for a guy friend of mine. you either ask one of her friends to tell her or your friends. but i suggest one of hers. it works better. if she says yes, give her your phone number and tell her to call. then say see u latter and compliment her. it works with us girls all the time
well,if you know she likes you then ask her out.just go up to her and ask her out.when i was asked out,my boyfriend had said';,listen,i really like you and if you like me,will you go out with me?';and obviously i said yes.Good Luck!!!
Whell hey Billy Bob! You should jes paint y'alls names on a water tower or overpass. You know, like Billy Bob Luvs Charlene. Or mow yer name in her yard.
Tell her she's beautiful.The rest is up to you.
NOTE FORM: I would really like to get to know you better and I was wondering is you wanted to go out with me because I really like you and I hope you like me too.
Then it said at the bottom in a heart
Yes or No? NOT NOTE FORM: PS. I hope you get the girl that you wanted to go out with you!:)
if you've been asked out and you said yess what did he sayGirl advice?
Well, Bud Get her Number and that will give her a hint and call her up and see how that goes and weather you call and ask her out or ask her out in person is tottally Up to you..and what to say afterwards is really tough, I went blank when My girl said yes =oGirl advice?
he ask if there was any place i would like to go
just kinda flirt and ask her to hang out with you when you have nothing planned. but dont come on too strong until later. stay kinda distant but still availiable. goodluck! :)
just ask her to go see a movie or dinner. make a casual plan and the rest will follow
just be as nice as you can and tell her that you are feeling her and ask her what she thinks about that. if you are scared to talk to her in person send her an e-mail.
Be yourself. You can do it. :) Make a poetry that has the meaning of asking her out..! ;)
if you dont want to tell her than ask a friend to do it. it worked for a guy friend of mine. you either ask one of her friends to tell her or your friends. but i suggest one of hers. it works better. if she says yes, give her your phone number and tell her to call. then say see u latter and compliment her. it works with us girls all the time
well,if you know she likes you then ask her out.just go up to her and ask her out.when i was asked out,my boyfriend had said';,listen,i really like you and if you like me,will you go out with me?';and obviously i said yes.Good Luck!!!
Whell hey Billy Bob! You should jes paint y'alls names on a water tower or overpass. You know, like Billy Bob Luvs Charlene. Or mow yer name in her yard.
Tell her she's beautiful.The rest is up to you.
NOTE FORM: I would really like to get to know you better and I was wondering is you wanted to go out with me because I really like you and I hope you like me too.
Then it said at the bottom in a heart
Yes or No? NOT NOTE FORM: PS. I hope you get the girl that you wanted to go out with you!:)
Girl advice?
ok well i have a friend i see every week and she made me text one of her friends (they both live 2 hours away) and now me and her friend talk alllllll the time and we like eachother and were bf gf now and im meeting her for the first time tommorrow and im scared and what should i do?Girl advice?
aww that's cute well you should put on something nice so they have a good impression of you. Just be yourselfGirl advice?
awwww! that is so cute! sorry for not really helping
:)
aww that's cute well you should put on something nice so they have a good impression of you. Just be yourselfGirl advice?
awwww! that is so cute! sorry for not really helping
:)
Girl advice?
I don't think she likes me like *that*, but tell me what you think...
I've known her like two and a half years now...and recently we were talking about guy and wha she finds attractive. She's like ';I'm attracted to muscley skinny white boys, that's why I was initially attracted to you.'; Then she realized I'm not so skinny, since I have *some* blubber on my tummy.
Anyway, I just got a circumcision, and she just dropped off something she made for my pen!s. A little beanie for the head of my pen!s with a smiley face on it.
What do you think it means when a girl makes your pen!s a hat after he got skin cut off??Girl advice?
i am still stuck on the fact taht you ';just'; got a circumcisionGirl advice?
maybe she's making a joke?
I've known her like two and a half years now...and recently we were talking about guy and wha she finds attractive. She's like ';I'm attracted to muscley skinny white boys, that's why I was initially attracted to you.'; Then she realized I'm not so skinny, since I have *some* blubber on my tummy.
Anyway, I just got a circumcision, and she just dropped off something she made for my pen!s. A little beanie for the head of my pen!s with a smiley face on it.
What do you think it means when a girl makes your pen!s a hat after he got skin cut off??Girl advice?
i am still stuck on the fact taht you ';just'; got a circumcisionGirl advice?
maybe she's making a joke?
Girl advice?
been talking to this girl on match. winked at her, she winked back, started emailing on june 4th. two emails ago i said i have some baseball tickets if she wanted to go with my friends and i. i said maybe meet up first another day before the game. she replied back, with, ';baseball! good choice. we should meet up first before for sure. what day is the game?';
do you think she's interesting in a friendly way, date way, and/or a you've-got-potential-for-datin... kind of way?
Also, since she said ';we should meet a day before the game for sure,'; do you think that means she wants some one-on-one time just me and her?
What I wrote back: ';the game is july 17th, the tuesday. so what do you wanna do, where do you wanna meet?';
She replied back tonight w/: ';i'm actually going to the game w/ my sister on the 18th, but i wouldn't mind at all going on the 17th too. i'm pretty much free this whole weekend, and next week after 7:30.';Girl advice?
Yes u r potentially going out already, but ur just adding icing to the cake. Keep doin wat ur doin and dont stop. And in case ur wondering she does like u. But sooner or later u gtta spend some alone time with her without ur friends cuz she is gonna think shes just another friend.Girl advice?
dude your an idiot you tell her let's meet up before game she says ok,now you think she want's you all alone. 2nd we all knew as by reading your post no one was showing up but you.
you never had any friend's going. if i was her i would stay far away from you. to me your an internet perv and need seriuos help.
cnt be arsed to read it
If she is on a dating site then I suspect that is what she is thinking. Just don't make her feel uncomfortable. Be yourself and you should be fine.
Good luck!
Your first date will be when you meet her before the game. After you meet her you'll get a better feel as to whether or not she's thinking of you as a friend or it you are dating material. Don't get too anxious just meet her and see where it goes from there.
Well you need to know what you want it to be, then act like that's what it is. If you want it to be a date open the door for her, buy her dinner stuff like that. If not than don't. Things like this are yes confusing, but if she's a girl like me than she's not about to set the standard of the date, she's just along for the ride. By that I mean she's not going to be the one to take it to the date level. If you want it there take it there. But as for the night before don't take her to a movie, she probably wants to talk to you and get to know you better. You can't do that at a movie. Take her to dinner or to an art show or something like that where it will be fun but give you plenty chances to talk.
i think you need to chillax and just let things go with the flow. you need to let things just fall into place. dont rush it or try and interepret it. thats how you fall on your face. but good luck! :
Looks like shes ready for the ol' in out in out.
It sound like you could be a potential bf. It sounds like she likes you.
sounds like shes ready to hook up ;)
do you think she's interesting in a friendly way, date way, and/or a you've-got-potential-for-datin... kind of way?
Also, since she said ';we should meet a day before the game for sure,'; do you think that means she wants some one-on-one time just me and her?
What I wrote back: ';the game is july 17th, the tuesday. so what do you wanna do, where do you wanna meet?';
She replied back tonight w/: ';i'm actually going to the game w/ my sister on the 18th, but i wouldn't mind at all going on the 17th too. i'm pretty much free this whole weekend, and next week after 7:30.';Girl advice?
Yes u r potentially going out already, but ur just adding icing to the cake. Keep doin wat ur doin and dont stop. And in case ur wondering she does like u. But sooner or later u gtta spend some alone time with her without ur friends cuz she is gonna think shes just another friend.Girl advice?
dude your an idiot you tell her let's meet up before game she says ok,now you think she want's you all alone. 2nd we all knew as by reading your post no one was showing up but you.
you never had any friend's going. if i was her i would stay far away from you. to me your an internet perv and need seriuos help.
cnt be arsed to read it
If she is on a dating site then I suspect that is what she is thinking. Just don't make her feel uncomfortable. Be yourself and you should be fine.
Good luck!
Your first date will be when you meet her before the game. After you meet her you'll get a better feel as to whether or not she's thinking of you as a friend or it you are dating material. Don't get too anxious just meet her and see where it goes from there.
Well you need to know what you want it to be, then act like that's what it is. If you want it to be a date open the door for her, buy her dinner stuff like that. If not than don't. Things like this are yes confusing, but if she's a girl like me than she's not about to set the standard of the date, she's just along for the ride. By that I mean she's not going to be the one to take it to the date level. If you want it there take it there. But as for the night before don't take her to a movie, she probably wants to talk to you and get to know you better. You can't do that at a movie. Take her to dinner or to an art show or something like that where it will be fun but give you plenty chances to talk.
i think you need to chillax and just let things go with the flow. you need to let things just fall into place. dont rush it or try and interepret it. thats how you fall on your face. but good luck! :
Looks like shes ready for the ol' in out in out.
It sound like you could be a potential bf. It sounds like she likes you.
sounds like shes ready to hook up ;)
Girl advice?
.i had a first date tonight with a girl i 'met' online. known her two months... one month on match, one month on myspace.. in which she requested me on and sent me a msg first. i mentioned meeting up few weeks ago, just saying we should sometime, and that i enjoy talking to her. she said ' i like talking to you too' and agreed we should meet up. a week later she brought it up.. i asked her what shes doing that next week, she said, 'hanging out with you silly.' i was on vacation, which she knew about, so i replied 3/4 days later, to find a good time to meet up. she said she was getting over a cold... 3 days later she emails me saying shes all better and says ';maybe we could talk on the phone. what do you think? and arrange to meet up.';
i reply with yes and my cell#, and then she gives hers. we've been txting back n forth. so today around noon or 1pm she txted me (havent talked on phone yet) and said she had to cancel and shes really sorry, that she has to get a tooth pulledGirl advice?
go ahead and just call her. leave her a sweet voice msg if she doesn't pick up (she might be asleep from the meds, or otherwise busy).
then after you two get on the phone at the same time, ask her out on an official date. maybe to a fast food place, or maybe you and your friends could meet up with her and her friends at the mall, so it's more of a comfortable situation for her.Girl advice?
it sounds very weird that she keeps on changing plans whenever they r already set. i wouldnt trust someone who keeps on making up excuses.
im sorry to tell u this,but she's making lame excuses maybe cuz she's not ready to meet up with u! whats up with that?like everytime u wanna meet up something happens? honey, screw it,if she doesnt wanna meet up with u,u should know there's something wrong..
Back off and let her come to you, I think she is playing games with you.
maybe she put up pictures of someone else on myspace and is afraid you'll think she's fat/ugly/etc.
if you want to call her then don't text her and ask her just call her. enough bouncing around. just reading your question was annoying. aren't you getting tired of making plans just for her to be like ';oops sorry, got a tooth pulled';...';oops sorry I forgot I have to shampoo my hair';...';oh sorry I have to cancel, I have a hangnail.';?
I cant believe I just read all that...
wow this is really something. well, give her a chance. she is not feeling well and your just going to blow her off. i mean its not her fault that she gets sick. maybe you should give her some time. if she is lying about being sick then i believe she is just shy and nervous about meeting up. but you and her should continue to text each other if u 2 are having fun communicating. good luck and remember ';PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE';...
She wouldn't bring it up if she didn't want to meet you. You should absolutely text her to see if she feels up to talking on the phone. She is probably wondering why you haven't wanted to call her yet. If she keeps canceling on you then maybe you should worry but once is nothing big, stuff comes up with everyone.trilogy
i reply with yes and my cell#, and then she gives hers. we've been txting back n forth. so today around noon or 1pm she txted me (havent talked on phone yet) and said she had to cancel and shes really sorry, that she has to get a tooth pulledGirl advice?
go ahead and just call her. leave her a sweet voice msg if she doesn't pick up (she might be asleep from the meds, or otherwise busy).
then after you two get on the phone at the same time, ask her out on an official date. maybe to a fast food place, or maybe you and your friends could meet up with her and her friends at the mall, so it's more of a comfortable situation for her.Girl advice?
it sounds very weird that she keeps on changing plans whenever they r already set. i wouldnt trust someone who keeps on making up excuses.
im sorry to tell u this,but she's making lame excuses maybe cuz she's not ready to meet up with u! whats up with that?like everytime u wanna meet up something happens? honey, screw it,if she doesnt wanna meet up with u,u should know there's something wrong..
Back off and let her come to you, I think she is playing games with you.
maybe she put up pictures of someone else on myspace and is afraid you'll think she's fat/ugly/etc.
if you want to call her then don't text her and ask her just call her. enough bouncing around. just reading your question was annoying. aren't you getting tired of making plans just for her to be like ';oops sorry, got a tooth pulled';...';oops sorry I forgot I have to shampoo my hair';...';oh sorry I have to cancel, I have a hangnail.';?
I cant believe I just read all that...
wow this is really something. well, give her a chance. she is not feeling well and your just going to blow her off. i mean its not her fault that she gets sick. maybe you should give her some time. if she is lying about being sick then i believe she is just shy and nervous about meeting up. but you and her should continue to text each other if u 2 are having fun communicating. good luck and remember ';PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE';...
She wouldn't bring it up if she didn't want to meet you. You should absolutely text her to see if she feels up to talking on the phone. She is probably wondering why you haven't wanted to call her yet. If she keeps canceling on you then maybe you should worry but once is nothing big, stuff comes up with everyone.
Girl advice?
been talking to this girl on match for almost 2 months now...and like 3 weeks ago she requested me as a friend on myspace and so we've been talking on there. total, we've sent like 25 emails back and forth. at least. she commented how she likes i'm down to earth and family oriented, she said ';i like talking to you too'; after i said i enjoyed talking to her. i then said ';we should meet up sometime'; and she agreed, then askin me when i was free to do so and asked ';maybe after finals?'; (we'rre college students---22 and 21 yrs old). most recently i said ';so what r u doing next week?'; and she said ';hanging out with you silly...no really idk yet.'; im not sure but dont girls say ';silly'; to guys when they're flirting/really into them?
She just sent me this reply tonight few hrs ago: ';He was your friend? How awkward. Yeah, we should meet up. I'm just trying to get over a cold right now. It's too nice a weekend to be inside sick. Oh well, I guess there will be other niGirl advice?
she definitely likes you
She just sent me this reply tonight few hrs ago: ';He was your friend? How awkward. Yeah, we should meet up. I'm just trying to get over a cold right now. It's too nice a weekend to be inside sick. Oh well, I guess there will be other niGirl advice?
she definitely likes you
Girl , advice?
hello , i am going out today with a girl and a freind of ours , and recently the girl has admitted she likes me bur the thing is she does love another boy , has anyone got any tips for me so i can win her over ? thanks
DannyGirl , advice?
It can't work if she loves someone else- sorry.
She's admitted that you are a good friend whom she likes but her heart belongs to someone else and matters of the heart are stronger bonds than we give credit to.
It's admirable that you care for her, but why would you jeopardize your own happiness when the girl isn't in love with you?Girl , advice?
Basicly, just be yourself.
You dont want her to fall for someone your not.
Just be nice, listen to her and make her laught (thats always a gooden :P)
Just act normally, be relaxed and have fun.
If she dsnt liek you for who you are then theres no point bothering with her :)
xx
Just be really nice to her get to know here and ty be interested in what she has to say don't act too foolish around (as sometimes this can be a turn off) most importantly be confident
Good luck hope she sees you as a potential bf
if theres a will theres a way!!!!just be your self
DannyGirl , advice?
It can't work if she loves someone else- sorry.
She's admitted that you are a good friend whom she likes but her heart belongs to someone else and matters of the heart are stronger bonds than we give credit to.
It's admirable that you care for her, but why would you jeopardize your own happiness when the girl isn't in love with you?Girl , advice?
Basicly, just be yourself.
You dont want her to fall for someone your not.
Just be nice, listen to her and make her laught (thats always a gooden :P)
Just act normally, be relaxed and have fun.
If she dsnt liek you for who you are then theres no point bothering with her :)
xx
Just be really nice to her get to know here and ty be interested in what she has to say don't act too foolish around (as sometimes this can be a turn off) most importantly be confident
Good luck hope she sees you as a potential bf
if theres a will theres a way!!!!just be your self
I need girl advice. Plz help me!?
Ok im in 8th Grade. I met this girl over the summer, and then on the first day of school, i found out that not only does she go to my school, she's in some of my classes. I know her really well and i want to ask her to be my girlfriend. I need to know what to say, so it doesn't sound awkward. I REALLY like this girl and i want it to work between us. We talk to each other a lot, and we make each other laugh. Do you think she likes me? Do you think she can tell that i like her? What are the exact words i should say when i ask her out? Should i actually take her out somewhere? Or should i just ask her to be my girlfriend? Any advice is GREATLY appreciatedI need girl advice. Plz help me!?
aww thats so sweet! okay what you need to do is, not make it such a big deal first off! i mean i know it probably is a big thing but you need to be cool about it, if you panic you'll make her panic! just say it really cooly (practice if you need to :P:P) to her like ';Hey Sarah, you wanna go out somewhere this friday? just the two of us? :)'; %26amp; then take her somewhere nice %26amp; appropriate for your age, even the movies would be good! %26amp; at dinnner, if she hasn't asked if this is a date by yet, you ask her like ';so you do know this is a date right?';, if she says something sweet/cute then YES %26amp; you should give a sweet peck good night %26amp; say to her ';we should do this again sometime';. but if she gets awkward or something when you ask her, NOO the relationship route is NOT right for you two! anyways good luck!%26lt;33I need girl advice. Plz help me!?
It sounds like she likes you! I mean, not every girl allows any guy to just talk to her and maybe she is feeling the same way about you. how bout these phrases,
(after a good laugh) ';i really like you_____, and i was wondering if ou'd like to hang out sometime,'; or,
(walking with each other) ';____, i really like you. i was wondering if you would like to, you know, be more than friends?';
i hope i helped! i am a girl and these slow, soft moves would work on me!
be blunt, the best thing you can do is tell her how you feel, you say you talk and laugh with each other, it sounds like you get on really well. just tell her how you feel, tell her anywhere, DONT TAKE HER ANYWHERE, that will make you seem pathetic, just say that you like her, and ask her out, if she says no, you can continue being the best of freinds:)
Hang out with her more, invight her over to play some video games or do something that she likes to do . Get to know her better and just have fun:) to ask her out to be your girlfriend you should just tell her you reaally like her and you would like to be more than friends :)
its a long shot but trust me its worth a try, im a girl myself trust me
Good luck!
Well i think you have a better chance of getting a yes from her if you two are alone so no one can interrupt you. Also before you ask her out, you should let her know how you are truly feeling about her. In addition to all of this, you should look her in the eye when your talking to her and show her that you have a lot of confidence because to girls, that's really attractive.
Hope i helped =]
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Just ask her out. If you are always talking to her and joking with her you should already be comfortable around her. It's not as easy as I am making it sound, but that's all it really is. If you really like her (and if she talks to you alot then she has at least thought about it), just ask her.
Only you can say the right words as something from one of us will sound strange coming out of you.
Having said that the next time you and her are talking ask her if she would like to see a movie or do skating or whatever you think she would be interested in
advice one ....be urself !
advice two ....say it from ur heart !
advice three....u're in the eight grade now , when u *** to the 12th grade u will be looking back and laughing at this qts u've posted up ( whether u're still with her or not )
advice four....love is an infatuation ( if u ever fall in love or this develops into love )
advice five ....lighten up !
advice six ...dont listen to a wrd i'm saying ! ( hahaha just kidding abt this one )
Ask her to a movie and if she says yes and the night goes good then say, ';Hey ________, I really like you. You are an amazing girl. Would you like to be my girlfriend?'; Good luck... i think she likes you.
ok if u really know her i mean really good ask her to be your best friend not girl friend she will think that u r a lesbiann just ask her to be your best friend hope that helps u
Hmm...do you have a cafeteria?
If so, ask her if you could buy her lunch, or ask her to a casual place.
If all goes well, say ';hey, I was wondering...';.
Good Luck!! :]
take her out somewhere and get a rose and neel down and ask her but remeber only on valebtines day thats what i did and now i love her..
When your hanging out together one day just tell her. If she likes you then that's great if she says no then she's not the girl for you.
ask her to go to starbucks or something.
show her some special attention first. if she responds well, then go for it. if she doesn't, then don't waste your time
I'm not a girl
just be like ';hey wanna go out?';
I wouldnt say flat out will you be my girlfriend. i would be like hey i was planning on seeing this movie, wanna come?
I think you should ask her to go places like to the movies and everything like three times before you ask her out,
then you will know wether it would work if you both seem to have a great time,
make sure its just you two ( :
I think there's a big chance of her liking you! ( :
She might be able to tell if you like her, when I was in Middle School I could tell a lot of the time when someone liked me
Just say hey do you wanna go see a movie this weekend, just me and you?
And then afterwards say will you be my girlfriend?
Don't say hey wanna go out with me?
Cause wanna be my girlfriend is so much sweeter and girls like it better ( :
create a solid relationship first...dont rush into it...chill with her a couple times...make sure she has fun...show her what kind of person you really are...then when you think youve showed her what type of person you are...just go in for the kill...just make sure you have confidence...confidence will help a lot...and remember...if you get tunred down...dont lose hope...just keep flirting and eventually,shell see a side in you that will make her interested...or you could just move on to another girl =]...my cousin had the same problem and i gave him my advice...it worked really well for him
aww thats so sweet! okay what you need to do is, not make it such a big deal first off! i mean i know it probably is a big thing but you need to be cool about it, if you panic you'll make her panic! just say it really cooly (practice if you need to :P:P) to her like ';Hey Sarah, you wanna go out somewhere this friday? just the two of us? :)'; %26amp; then take her somewhere nice %26amp; appropriate for your age, even the movies would be good! %26amp; at dinnner, if she hasn't asked if this is a date by yet, you ask her like ';so you do know this is a date right?';, if she says something sweet/cute then YES %26amp; you should give a sweet peck good night %26amp; say to her ';we should do this again sometime';. but if she gets awkward or something when you ask her, NOO the relationship route is NOT right for you two! anyways good luck!%26lt;33I need girl advice. Plz help me!?
It sounds like she likes you! I mean, not every girl allows any guy to just talk to her and maybe she is feeling the same way about you. how bout these phrases,
(after a good laugh) ';i really like you_____, and i was wondering if ou'd like to hang out sometime,'; or,
(walking with each other) ';____, i really like you. i was wondering if you would like to, you know, be more than friends?';
i hope i helped! i am a girl and these slow, soft moves would work on me!
be blunt, the best thing you can do is tell her how you feel, you say you talk and laugh with each other, it sounds like you get on really well. just tell her how you feel, tell her anywhere, DONT TAKE HER ANYWHERE, that will make you seem pathetic, just say that you like her, and ask her out, if she says no, you can continue being the best of freinds:)
Hang out with her more, invight her over to play some video games or do something that she likes to do . Get to know her better and just have fun:) to ask her out to be your girlfriend you should just tell her you reaally like her and you would like to be more than friends :)
its a long shot but trust me its worth a try, im a girl myself trust me
Good luck!
Well i think you have a better chance of getting a yes from her if you two are alone so no one can interrupt you. Also before you ask her out, you should let her know how you are truly feeling about her. In addition to all of this, you should look her in the eye when your talking to her and show her that you have a lot of confidence because to girls, that's really attractive.
Hope i helped =]
please answer mine:
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Just ask her out. If you are always talking to her and joking with her you should already be comfortable around her. It's not as easy as I am making it sound, but that's all it really is. If you really like her (and if she talks to you alot then she has at least thought about it), just ask her.
Only you can say the right words as something from one of us will sound strange coming out of you.
Having said that the next time you and her are talking ask her if she would like to see a movie or do skating or whatever you think she would be interested in
advice one ....be urself !
advice two ....say it from ur heart !
advice three....u're in the eight grade now , when u *** to the 12th grade u will be looking back and laughing at this qts u've posted up ( whether u're still with her or not )
advice four....love is an infatuation ( if u ever fall in love or this develops into love )
advice five ....lighten up !
advice six ...dont listen to a wrd i'm saying ! ( hahaha just kidding abt this one )
Ask her to a movie and if she says yes and the night goes good then say, ';Hey ________, I really like you. You are an amazing girl. Would you like to be my girlfriend?'; Good luck... i think she likes you.
ok if u really know her i mean really good ask her to be your best friend not girl friend she will think that u r a lesbiann just ask her to be your best friend hope that helps u
Hmm...do you have a cafeteria?
If so, ask her if you could buy her lunch, or ask her to a casual place.
If all goes well, say ';hey, I was wondering...';.
Good Luck!! :]
take her out somewhere and get a rose and neel down and ask her but remeber only on valebtines day thats what i did and now i love her..
When your hanging out together one day just tell her. If she likes you then that's great if she says no then she's not the girl for you.
ask her to go to starbucks or something.
show her some special attention first. if she responds well, then go for it. if she doesn't, then don't waste your time
I'm not a girl
just be like ';hey wanna go out?';
I wouldnt say flat out will you be my girlfriend. i would be like hey i was planning on seeing this movie, wanna come?
I think you should ask her to go places like to the movies and everything like three times before you ask her out,
then you will know wether it would work if you both seem to have a great time,
make sure its just you two ( :
I think there's a big chance of her liking you! ( :
She might be able to tell if you like her, when I was in Middle School I could tell a lot of the time when someone liked me
Just say hey do you wanna go see a movie this weekend, just me and you?
And then afterwards say will you be my girlfriend?
Don't say hey wanna go out with me?
Cause wanna be my girlfriend is so much sweeter and girls like it better ( :
create a solid relationship first...dont rush into it...chill with her a couple times...make sure she has fun...show her what kind of person you really are...then when you think youve showed her what type of person you are...just go in for the kill...just make sure you have confidence...confidence will help a lot...and remember...if you get tunred down...dont lose hope...just keep flirting and eventually,shell see a side in you that will make her interested...or you could just move on to another girl =]...my cousin had the same problem and i gave him my advice...it worked really well for him
I NEED GIRL ADVICE GIVE ME UR HOLY WORDS?
theres this girl on my after school bus that likes me im not sure shes realy the one that try thing of a conversation to have with me she allways tells me to sit next to her shes hot but im not sure wat i should talk to her about or if she likes me i beat up her X-boy freind i did not know lol left him with a black eye anyways wat should i say does she like me?she whispers things in spanish to her friend alot.. PLEASE GIV ME UR HOLY ADVICE. im not that good at conversations cuz shes to hot wat should i say???I NEED GIRL ADVICE GIVE ME UR HOLY WORDS?
you can ask her questions. ask her if she saw a movie, any random movie that you like. that always helps restart a conversation. :)
%26amp; i would say that she likes you. :)I NEED GIRL ADVICE GIVE ME UR HOLY WORDS?
Look in the real world.
Decode this lyrics '; You'll see ';
';Girl';
';Roses are red';
';Love';
';Love is love';
';Love is blue';
';Still got the blues for you';
Luke 21.30-36
Luke 24.44-45,47-48
Revelation 22.13-17
What do you think?
just start a conversation and then it will always lead to another part of a conversation. keep doing and you'll see if she interested.
duuhhhhh!! she really likes you! oh and talk about....... funny things that someone said or what a teacher did(:
you can ask her questions. ask her if she saw a movie, any random movie that you like. that always helps restart a conversation. :)
%26amp; i would say that she likes you. :)I NEED GIRL ADVICE GIVE ME UR HOLY WORDS?
Look in the real world.
Decode this lyrics '; You'll see ';
';Girl';
';Roses are red';
';Love';
';Love is love';
';Love is blue';
';Still got the blues for you';
Luke 21.30-36
Luke 24.44-45,47-48
Revelation 22.13-17
What do you think?
just start a conversation and then it will always lead to another part of a conversation. keep doing and you'll see if she interested.
duuhhhhh!! she really likes you! oh and talk about....... funny things that someone said or what a teacher did(:
Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this...?
Well, I recently got into an accident and my old girlfriend felt bad and came back to help me out with everything and told me that she likes me again and wants to date again once her life settles down, So its been a week or so since that. And shes been different, not talking the same or talking even at all to me on msn or text etc. And I know her facebook password so I went on one night to see what was going on and saw in her inbox that she has been talking to some guy that she hasn't met yet that lives an hour or so away from here. They are going to meet soon and by what I was reading, sounds like they are going to try and get together if they like each other when they hangout. They talk all the time and are really chummy. I have broken done and lost it and have really been trying to talk to her but she is avoiding me because she doesn't want me to find out I think.
So basically, Once i can get ahold of her should I ask her to come over again and try to get her back with me again and pretend like I don't know about this? Or do I invite her over and tell her that I know whats going on and try to talk it out with her? Or do I not invite her over and let her have a piece of my mind next time I talk with her?
I really don't know what to do, I love this girl with all my heart and sounds like this guy does too and I don't know what to do to get things back to normal again.
What should I do? Advice please? And don't tell me to drop her because I'm not going to do that, I need to know a way to get this situation fixed before I lose my mind over here.
This girl really likes attention and must have everyone talk to her as if they think shes god. And btw, don't worry about me going on her facebook, she doesn't know or anything so don't comment about that.
ALSO I JUST FOUND OUT A MINUTE AGO THAT SHES MEETING HIM NEXT WEEKEND AT HIS HOUSE!!!! :(
I go back to school on monday and got exams all this week, This will be my first time talking to her in awhile now and last time I saw her was weeks ago when she was here taking care of me.
WHAT IS MY APPROACH AT SCHOOL? What do I do?
Thanks!Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this...?
even if you get this girl, she is likely to cheat you.Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this...?
No one deserves to be anyone's second stringer.
You don't want to be with someone who feels like she ';settled'; being with you.
Move on, you're better off.
ask her if theres someone else but dont tell her you went through her facebook shel think you dont trust her even if you dont just dont let her think you dont if that makes sense if shes sais theres no one else leave her shes obviosuly lying what else would she lie about EVERYTHING :(
look just let it play out the way she wants it. maybe she'll change her mind maybe she wont. if she comes back to you her heart has always been yours if she doesn't her heart was never your to begin with.
Invite her over and pretend like you don't know anything. If she is acting strange then ask her what's bothering her and maybe she will tell you about the guy. If everything seems fine talk to her like you used to in the past and ask her to be your g/f. If she declines, well at least you tried. Good Luck!
You should let her go,
for god sakes, she's interested in someone else
maybe she wanted you back, but she changed her mind up once she met this guy or got closer to him..
I suggest you to see someone else and get over her
sounds like she misses you but doesn't respect you enough to stop talking to other guys. i would forget about her and let her come to you. i also would try and find another girl who will appreciate you
So basically, Once i can get ahold of her should I ask her to come over again and try to get her back with me again and pretend like I don't know about this? Or do I invite her over and tell her that I know whats going on and try to talk it out with her? Or do I not invite her over and let her have a piece of my mind next time I talk with her?
I really don't know what to do, I love this girl with all my heart and sounds like this guy does too and I don't know what to do to get things back to normal again.
What should I do? Advice please? And don't tell me to drop her because I'm not going to do that, I need to know a way to get this situation fixed before I lose my mind over here.
This girl really likes attention and must have everyone talk to her as if they think shes god. And btw, don't worry about me going on her facebook, she doesn't know or anything so don't comment about that.
ALSO I JUST FOUND OUT A MINUTE AGO THAT SHES MEETING HIM NEXT WEEKEND AT HIS HOUSE!!!! :(
I go back to school on monday and got exams all this week, This will be my first time talking to her in awhile now and last time I saw her was weeks ago when she was here taking care of me.
WHAT IS MY APPROACH AT SCHOOL? What do I do?
Thanks!Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this...?
even if you get this girl, she is likely to cheat you.Trouble with a girl, Need girls advice on this...?
No one deserves to be anyone's second stringer.
You don't want to be with someone who feels like she ';settled'; being with you.
Move on, you're better off.
ask her if theres someone else but dont tell her you went through her facebook shel think you dont trust her even if you dont just dont let her think you dont if that makes sense if shes sais theres no one else leave her shes obviosuly lying what else would she lie about EVERYTHING :(
look just let it play out the way she wants it. maybe she'll change her mind maybe she wont. if she comes back to you her heart has always been yours if she doesn't her heart was never your to begin with.
Invite her over and pretend like you don't know anything. If she is acting strange then ask her what's bothering her and maybe she will tell you about the guy. If everything seems fine talk to her like you used to in the past and ask her to be your g/f. If she declines, well at least you tried. Good Luck!
You should let her go,
for god sakes, she's interested in someone else
maybe she wanted you back, but she changed her mind up once she met this guy or got closer to him..
I suggest you to see someone else and get over her
sounds like she misses you but doesn't respect you enough to stop talking to other guys. i would forget about her and let her come to you. i also would try and find another girl who will appreciate you
Need some girl advice please....?
I will start from the beginning. My best friend started dating this girl about a year and ';cheated'; on her with another girl (ended up having sex with this other girl multiple times) the relationship ended and both of them sorta went their opposite ways. I got to know this girl a lot since my best friend was dating her. so we have been friends for a while. Over the past few months we have been hanging together a lot but i didn't see her as anything more than a friend.
Recently, I have started to like her.......a lot. We talk on the phone and go to movies a lot and always hang out on weekends and stuff. And the past week ';I believe'; we have been gettin closer. Physically and emotionally (if thats what you want to say). we both tell each other our problems and all that and we both listen. Ive also noticed we have been like sittin close together in like the back of a car if we are driving around with friends. I even put my arm on the seat behind her so i was really close to her.
The problem I am having is that i can't really tell if she likes me or if she just sees me as a friend. (I have been in a few friend zones before) i cant really tell. She is leaving for a cruise early this morning so last night she said she wanted to hang out before she left. we drove around town talking (but then my best friend and her ex got in...i dunno why..he just did cuz he wanted to talk to me about stuff and ended up stayin with us for a while) She is gone for a week and i just want to sit down and figure out what to do about her. I don't want to tell her how i feel and then her freak out and we not be friends anymore. any advice???Need some girl advice please....?
flirt with her and see if she flirts back with utrilogy
Recently, I have started to like her.......a lot. We talk on the phone and go to movies a lot and always hang out on weekends and stuff. And the past week ';I believe'; we have been gettin closer. Physically and emotionally (if thats what you want to say). we both tell each other our problems and all that and we both listen. Ive also noticed we have been like sittin close together in like the back of a car if we are driving around with friends. I even put my arm on the seat behind her so i was really close to her.
The problem I am having is that i can't really tell if she likes me or if she just sees me as a friend. (I have been in a few friend zones before) i cant really tell. She is leaving for a cruise early this morning so last night she said she wanted to hang out before she left. we drove around town talking (but then my best friend and her ex got in...i dunno why..he just did cuz he wanted to talk to me about stuff and ended up stayin with us for a while) She is gone for a week and i just want to sit down and figure out what to do about her. I don't want to tell her how i feel and then her freak out and we not be friends anymore. any advice???Need some girl advice please....?
flirt with her and see if she flirts back with u
Help please...girl advice?
so there's this girl...
haha
I'm pretty confident that we both like each other, but i think it's really awkward because neither of us are out of the closet and don't want to be the creepy lesbian girl who hits on straight girls...I only have one class with her other than that I just see her in the halls all the time and at lunch (where she's always surrounded by ppl). So anyways, I really want to say something to her but I don't know what- anyone have any ideas on how to break the ice? I think we both know that we both know that there is some serious chemistry floating in the air, and I REALLY don't want to screw this up...I'd have thought she would have taken the first step but she doesn't seem to be and i don't want to waste any more time...any ideas?Help please...girl advice?
hmm maybe try confronting her or just make a move and start kissing her when she is alone i guessHelp please...girl advice?
It would be pretty weird to just come out and try to ';pick her up'; so I would try to hang out with her for a while. R u friends with these ppl who surround her, if so then go hang with them and then you'll get a better vibe and maybe some alone time to both tell each other what you guys think of each other. Good luck to you.
I'd get to know her a little better, maybe ask her to a movie or just to hang out? Once you guys have more alone time you might not be as hesitant to show your true feelings. Good luck!
I've been convinced that my crush likes me too, only to find I was wrong. Girl, guy, doesn't matter. Maybe send her a note or an email, or invite her over after school to hang out, or something.
good luck =)
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uh go for it
See if she's in any clubs/organizations that maybe you could join too.
When you see her in the hallway/alone, compliment her on something that she's wearing or carrying. Tell her it's oh so cute, where'd she get it, you've always wanted one like that; that'd give u a chance to start on conversation.
Pretend you have an assignment for class where you have to survey X number of people on a topic [my bf's psyc class had to do a survey where they went around asking people how much sleep they got the previous night, on scale 1-10 how sleepy did they feel at the moment, etc], or perhaps you could actually incorporate a survey into a class assignment/project. take this as a chance to talk to her
if you're involved in any clubs and do any fund raisers, you can always go to her and see if she'll buy whatever you're selling, if she likes you she should talk to you, even if she doesn't end up buying anything
haha
I'm pretty confident that we both like each other, but i think it's really awkward because neither of us are out of the closet and don't want to be the creepy lesbian girl who hits on straight girls...I only have one class with her other than that I just see her in the halls all the time and at lunch (where she's always surrounded by ppl). So anyways, I really want to say something to her but I don't know what- anyone have any ideas on how to break the ice? I think we both know that we both know that there is some serious chemistry floating in the air, and I REALLY don't want to screw this up...I'd have thought she would have taken the first step but she doesn't seem to be and i don't want to waste any more time...any ideas?Help please...girl advice?
hmm maybe try confronting her or just make a move and start kissing her when she is alone i guessHelp please...girl advice?
It would be pretty weird to just come out and try to ';pick her up'; so I would try to hang out with her for a while. R u friends with these ppl who surround her, if so then go hang with them and then you'll get a better vibe and maybe some alone time to both tell each other what you guys think of each other. Good luck to you.
I'd get to know her a little better, maybe ask her to a movie or just to hang out? Once you guys have more alone time you might not be as hesitant to show your true feelings. Good luck!
I've been convinced that my crush likes me too, only to find I was wrong. Girl, guy, doesn't matter. Maybe send her a note or an email, or invite her over after school to hang out, or something.
good luck =)
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uh go for it
See if she's in any clubs/organizations that maybe you could join too.
When you see her in the hallway/alone, compliment her on something that she's wearing or carrying. Tell her it's oh so cute, where'd she get it, you've always wanted one like that; that'd give u a chance to start on conversation.
Pretend you have an assignment for class where you have to survey X number of people on a topic [my bf's psyc class had to do a survey where they went around asking people how much sleep they got the previous night, on scale 1-10 how sleepy did they feel at the moment, etc], or perhaps you could actually incorporate a survey into a class assignment/project. take this as a chance to talk to her
if you're involved in any clubs and do any fund raisers, you can always go to her and see if she'll buy whatever you're selling, if she likes you she should talk to you, even if she doesn't end up buying anything
I need girl advice fast?
so i just moved and i have been studying body language at home at night and like how to talk to girls well i was wonderiing if this sounds good to ask a girl to tha movies
okay so we see eachother in the hall or library and then i walk up to her and say hey someone told me you saw ......... and then she replies no so i say back oh i think it looks good wut about u
then she says ......... then i say well maybe we could go see it some time then she says ........ and then i say okay can i have your # and i will tell u when i can pick u up then she says ........ and i say yea okay call u later then bye
but i have had alot of practice with this i went to tha skatin rink one night to test my skills and i got an e-mail and 2 phone numbers and for two of my friends (they are girls) i went and asked this guys friend (wich were girls if he was single and then carried on a steady conversation for a while) if he was single for my friends
so yea that is all of the practice i have had and my 7 girlfriends (i am only 12)I need girl advice fast?
You cannot plan out the entire conversation you will have in advance. I guarantee you, the girl will throw you off by the second sentence by not giving the response you scripted.
Besides, even if you can somehow predict her responses, you will sound as if you are reading off a script, which you are. That's creepy.
okay so we see eachother in the hall or library and then i walk up to her and say hey someone told me you saw ......... and then she replies no so i say back oh i think it looks good wut about u
then she says ......... then i say well maybe we could go see it some time then she says ........ and then i say okay can i have your # and i will tell u when i can pick u up then she says ........ and i say yea okay call u later then bye
but i have had alot of practice with this i went to tha skatin rink one night to test my skills and i got an e-mail and 2 phone numbers and for two of my friends (they are girls) i went and asked this guys friend (wich were girls if he was single and then carried on a steady conversation for a while) if he was single for my friends
so yea that is all of the practice i have had and my 7 girlfriends (i am only 12)I need girl advice fast?
You cannot plan out the entire conversation you will have in advance. I guarantee you, the girl will throw you off by the second sentence by not giving the response you scripted.
Besides, even if you can somehow predict her responses, you will sound as if you are reading off a script, which you are. That's creepy.
What sould i advice my girl friend to wear most generally.?
i want that ppl should not look her with odd eyes..What sould i advice my girl friend to wear most generally.?
How this question raised in your brain?
Give her full liberty to wear what she want %26amp; let her take her own experience.
She will learn herself.What sould i advice my girl friend to wear most generally.?
she'll be comfortable with anything she wears as long as u say that u like watever she wears, regardless of wat other people think.
Nothing
clothes that are not allowed other peolpe share her with you even with their eyes.
just say her to dress sensibly with out revealing too much.....
and just be normal as everyone is.....
the dress in which see looks nice ,feel comfortable and protected
wtf...?
black clothes
jeans and top
your daughter should wear what she wants....
How this question raised in your brain?
Give her full liberty to wear what she want %26amp; let her take her own experience.
She will learn herself.What sould i advice my girl friend to wear most generally.?
she'll be comfortable with anything she wears as long as u say that u like watever she wears, regardless of wat other people think.
Nothing
clothes that are not allowed other peolpe share her with you even with their eyes.
just say her to dress sensibly with out revealing too much.....
and just be normal as everyone is.....
the dress in which see looks nice ,feel comfortable and protected
wtf...?
black clothes
jeans and top
your daughter should wear what she wants....
Need some girl advice ASAP! Help!?
My girlfriend is a little emotional right now and wants to have that talk. I love her and we’ve been going out for a little over 6 months. I have just two questions. Please help me out.
First she is a little mad at me because I’m not into this lounge cover band she enjoys so much. She’s been following these guys for years and will drive incredible distances to see them. They’re just all right but I can see why the ladies think they’re so incredible. Personally I rather she just go with her girlfriends but she’s now taken me for the fourth time to see this band, more then a 45 minute drive away last night and now I’m tired at work all day. One time we drove almost two hours to see them in a hotel lounge. She asked me again what I thought of them. And I told her that they’re “not my cup of tea”. And now she is all upset. She has had problems with past boyfriend being insanely jealous of this band. I just think they simply suck and aren’t worth the drive or my time. She has followed them for year and has befriended them and some of their groupies. How do I tell her I really don’t want to see this band anymore? I want to just say your friend’s band really sucks but not appeared to be insecure.
Next since we are past that 6-month time now. She wants to know what are future will be. Other then being forced to see that crappy band she is an awesome woman. I see her in my future and I think she could be the one. How do I tell her I see a future for us but not make any promises of marriage? Because I think you’ve got to know somebody for a few years before you make that jump.
Keep in mind her being upset may be hormonal. The band really does suck thou.Need some girl advice ASAP! Help!?
Communication is the key.
Just sit her down and tell her that you think its awesome that she has been loyal to this band and you want her to enjoy them as much as she can, but you dont feel the same way and by you going with her all the time, its hypocritical, and thats something you dont want to be. Let her know that when ever you go with her, and have to pretend you are enjoying the show, you feel like you are lying to her.
Hopefully she will understand but really, this obsession she has seems a little more deep rooted than just the band.
Did she start stalking them during a major life change (ie becomming independant, just out of a bad relationship, after a death, or a big move?) could explain her hang up on this band.
As far as the future goes, plan an event in the future (say 6-8 months from now) a holiday or an event and tell her about it.
Say ';ive got something really special planned for us......its a holiday to .................! I thought it would be a really great way to celebrate us and get some quality time together. Im looking into all the options now so make sure you can get time off work in 6months or so, cos id hate to have to cancel'; this way, you are showing her that you are thinking about the future, and that you want her to be in your future, and that you are so confident that your relationship is going to last that you are making plans for early next years already.........but without mention of marrige.
Good luckNeed some girl advice ASAP! Help!?
Be honest. Tell her like/love you but I prefer you see the band with your girlfriends. How about something me and you can do that is special just for us. Like Once a month a picnic at the park. Or dinner by moonlight!
Honestly, I think you should just be straight with her and tell her that you honestly don't enjoy the bands style of music but you go because you want to be with her. Try taking her to some shows that are in your taste, that way you could maybe make a compromise. Sometimes you have to do things in a relationship to make your partner happy- that doesn't mean you always have to go.
In a healthy relationship you should be able to get over something as trivial as a difference in taste. You should just try to let her know that you don't mind her going and will go with her every once in a blue moon if she really wants you too, but other than that you don't really care for the music and don't want to go as frequently as you have been.
If she can't accept that, there may be a deeper problem.
On the future thing, (if you can get past the music issue) I would say just tell her you love being around her and really want to work to make it last. (Some variation of that)
That's vague enough to not imply marriage but I think good enough to let her know you want some sort of future.
First she is a little mad at me because I’m not into this lounge cover band she enjoys so much. She’s been following these guys for years and will drive incredible distances to see them. They’re just all right but I can see why the ladies think they’re so incredible. Personally I rather she just go with her girlfriends but she’s now taken me for the fourth time to see this band, more then a 45 minute drive away last night and now I’m tired at work all day. One time we drove almost two hours to see them in a hotel lounge. She asked me again what I thought of them. And I told her that they’re “not my cup of tea”. And now she is all upset. She has had problems with past boyfriend being insanely jealous of this band. I just think they simply suck and aren’t worth the drive or my time. She has followed them for year and has befriended them and some of their groupies. How do I tell her I really don’t want to see this band anymore? I want to just say your friend’s band really sucks but not appeared to be insecure.
Next since we are past that 6-month time now. She wants to know what are future will be. Other then being forced to see that crappy band she is an awesome woman. I see her in my future and I think she could be the one. How do I tell her I see a future for us but not make any promises of marriage? Because I think you’ve got to know somebody for a few years before you make that jump.
Keep in mind her being upset may be hormonal. The band really does suck thou.Need some girl advice ASAP! Help!?
Communication is the key.
Just sit her down and tell her that you think its awesome that she has been loyal to this band and you want her to enjoy them as much as she can, but you dont feel the same way and by you going with her all the time, its hypocritical, and thats something you dont want to be. Let her know that when ever you go with her, and have to pretend you are enjoying the show, you feel like you are lying to her.
Hopefully she will understand but really, this obsession she has seems a little more deep rooted than just the band.
Did she start stalking them during a major life change (ie becomming independant, just out of a bad relationship, after a death, or a big move?) could explain her hang up on this band.
As far as the future goes, plan an event in the future (say 6-8 months from now) a holiday or an event and tell her about it.
Say ';ive got something really special planned for us......its a holiday to .................! I thought it would be a really great way to celebrate us and get some quality time together. Im looking into all the options now so make sure you can get time off work in 6months or so, cos id hate to have to cancel'; this way, you are showing her that you are thinking about the future, and that you want her to be in your future, and that you are so confident that your relationship is going to last that you are making plans for early next years already.........but without mention of marrige.
Good luckNeed some girl advice ASAP! Help!?
Be honest. Tell her like/love you but I prefer you see the band with your girlfriends. How about something me and you can do that is special just for us. Like Once a month a picnic at the park. Or dinner by moonlight!
Honestly, I think you should just be straight with her and tell her that you honestly don't enjoy the bands style of music but you go because you want to be with her. Try taking her to some shows that are in your taste, that way you could maybe make a compromise. Sometimes you have to do things in a relationship to make your partner happy- that doesn't mean you always have to go.
In a healthy relationship you should be able to get over something as trivial as a difference in taste. You should just try to let her know that you don't mind her going and will go with her every once in a blue moon if she really wants you too, but other than that you don't really care for the music and don't want to go as frequently as you have been.
If she can't accept that, there may be a deeper problem.
On the future thing, (if you can get past the music issue) I would say just tell her you love being around her and really want to work to make it last. (Some variation of that)
That's vague enough to not imply marriage but I think good enough to let her know you want some sort of future.
Like this girl at school.. Need Girl Advice Help Please?
So I like this girl at school. And I notice her looking at me alot either in the hallway or in class. In the hallway she glances back really quick.. In the classroom she has her knees my direction and is looking at me or in my direction.. Now she started going out with this other guy at my school like 5 days ago.... There is a dance at my school soon and I don't know if I should ask her out or not. Before she started going out with the guy she said that she didn't want to go out with the guy because school is about to end and she doesn't think he will get anywhere in life. No one knows that I like her though.. Should I ask her to the dance, wait until they break up and ask her during summer, or ask her out next school year?Like this girl at school.. Need Girl Advice Help Please?
I think you should start talking to her now and ask her out after they break up if they break up before the end of the year or if they don't break up before the end of the school year ask her over the summer. If it seems like she's waiting for you to ask her out so she can break up with her boyfriend then go for it! But still she shouldn't have a bf just to have a bf!Like this girl at school.. Need Girl Advice Help Please?
just go for it and ask her now if she really doesn't like the guy shes with now she will dump him and take u Good Luck!!!
I think you should start talking to her now and ask her out after they break up if they break up before the end of the year or if they don't break up before the end of the school year ask her over the summer. If it seems like she's waiting for you to ask her out so she can break up with her boyfriend then go for it! But still she shouldn't have a bf just to have a bf!Like this girl at school.. Need Girl Advice Help Please?
just go for it and ask her now if she really doesn't like the guy shes with now she will dump him and take u Good Luck!!!
Girl advice?
I have a friend who i've had a crush on for over a year. I'm sure she knows that i like her because her friends and my friends have either told her or hinted to her. When I ask her to hang out sometimes she says ';yes'; and sometimes she says she is too busy or has other plans. So i dont know exactly how she feels about me. Another thing is that I'm always the one to call her or ask her to hang out, she has never called me or asked me to do anything. How do you think she feels about me?Girl advice?
she either likes you and is shy
or thinks you're annoying.
i'd tell you to ask her outtrilogy
she either likes you and is shy
or thinks you're annoying.
i'd tell you to ask her out
Guys and Girl, advice please?
So I am not over my ex, the break up was hard and my best friend knows that.
My ex was at my neighbors house for the night, so he came to my place and is now downstairs with my best friend.
My best friend laughs at all of his not-funny jokes and touches her hair a lot, so I know she is flirting with him, but she is the reason I broke up with him: she always says how retarded he is.
And now, downstairs she is flirting with him and it is 12:24AM and she is being very obnoxious and loud and my mom just walked in a yelled at me for screaming and trashing my room, only it was really my best friend who did that and now she is pissed at me because I won't talk to her.
I just need advice, please!?
p.s. don't say that ';well then obviously this best friend is not your best friend';
I just need advice to survive the rest of the night and tomorrow with my ex and my friendGuys and Girl, advice please?
. Poor Babyyyy!!! I'll be thinkin' 'bout U 2nite. 'k?
And girlz will be girlz, always trying to get the other 'Soccer Chicks' guy. sniff.
This just leaves room for U to move on, NO regrets.
Growin' up is a beetch, ain't it?Guys and Girl, advice please?
uve already given the answer but u need an advice meditate n indulge in some loud music or better move out for the time
u need to find your self a new BF, she sounds like B.....
My ex was at my neighbors house for the night, so he came to my place and is now downstairs with my best friend.
My best friend laughs at all of his not-funny jokes and touches her hair a lot, so I know she is flirting with him, but she is the reason I broke up with him: she always says how retarded he is.
And now, downstairs she is flirting with him and it is 12:24AM and she is being very obnoxious and loud and my mom just walked in a yelled at me for screaming and trashing my room, only it was really my best friend who did that and now she is pissed at me because I won't talk to her.
I just need advice, please!?
p.s. don't say that ';well then obviously this best friend is not your best friend';
I just need advice to survive the rest of the night and tomorrow with my ex and my friendGuys and Girl, advice please?
. Poor Babyyyy!!! I'll be thinkin' 'bout U 2nite. 'k?
And girlz will be girlz, always trying to get the other 'Soccer Chicks' guy. sniff.
This just leaves room for U to move on, NO regrets.
Growin' up is a beetch, ain't it?Guys and Girl, advice please?
uve already given the answer but u need an advice meditate n indulge in some loud music or better move out for the time
u need to find your self a new BF, she sounds like B.....
I need girl advice on this?
i know i screwed up, but i need your help. i lied to my best friend. he got his face slapped by this girl, and i told him i knew how to block it. she swung her hip out at the same time placing her hand on her hip and used the other hand and slapped his face. he was totally frozen. i asked him why he didn't block the slap, and he said he can't cuz of how they do it. i told him i guaranteed i can block that. then a girl used it on me too. hip to the side, left hand on the hip, and her right hand got me on the cheek, there was no way to block her hand i was stuck too! but i lied and told him a girl tried it on me and i blocked it! so he's like ';good, than god somebody finally knows how to, now show me how to block it, 2 girls got me with it and i can't.'; so i showed him a way to block that, and a way to duck. but they're bogus! now he went and showed a friend of ours those moves, cuz he got smacked like that once too, but he comes up and says 'dude, you think you can block it from Melissa?'; she's one of the popular girls, a cheerleader type. and i said ';oh, easily!'; so he says for me to go up and do something to make her use it on me too, cuz BOTH OF THEM have got slapped by her! if she uses that move against me, i'll get slapped! i can't block it, i dunno how to! it confuses me so i can't! but they won't believe what i showed them until they see her try it on me! how can i block that move? what do i do?I need girl advice on this?
Lift ya hand up in the way, like mega quick when her face and her hand move do it straight away then twist the handI need girl advice on this?
let her slap u like she slapped ur friends.
ur pathetic.
slap her back the slag
Lift ya hand up in the way, like mega quick when her face and her hand move do it straight away then twist the handI need girl advice on this?
let her slap u like she slapped ur friends.
ur pathetic.
slap her back the slag
Urgent question (need girl-to-girl advice!)?
I am 17 and have never been kissed. I am going on a date w/ my bf 2nite, and i know he's going to make it romantic and he's going to try and kiss me. I'm very excited and ready for my 1st kiss. The thing is, I lead a very sheltered life, not allowed to watch any romance movies, etc...neways i would really appreciate it if someone could give me some useful steps for kissing-i don't mean for a quick kiss, i mean steps for carrying out a deep kiss so that i know how to make out...my friend just keeps saying ';move your lips back and forth on his'; but that's too vague and not helpful! i thoroughly appreciate any tips you can give-thanx!!!!!!Urgent question (need girl-to-girl advice!)?
Press your lips to his, and sort of open and close your mouth with his. Like the answerer above me said, copy him! Move together.
If you are making out, use your tongue to gently caress his tongue, too. Swirl it around his, imagine that you are pleasuring his tongue with yours. Lick his lips softly, look into his eyes.
Good luck! Have fun!Urgent question (need girl-to-girl advice!)?
I always would stress out like you about a simple thing like thing like this, and people would say ';when i happens you will know what to do.'; I always thought that this never helped. But trust me coming from someone that was in the same situation like you, it WILL come naturally. The first part will most definitely be ackward considering you are doing it for the first time, but you will soon know what you are doing :]
take a deep breath
make sure your eyes are closed while you kiss him
use your tongue like your licking an ice cream cone -you don't want to dart your tongue in and out of his mouth just slide it in smoothly and kiss him - but don't bite him or anything like that just keep it simple. you will know what feels right and what doesnt.
really you will find it comes naturaly..but since you seem really nervous about messing up..just let him lead and follow...(your right your friend was vague)...after a little while of kissing put your hand on the back of his neck...pretty much just let him lead..best of luck on your first kiss....(my first kiss with my now husband was great and yes ...i was nervous)
yeah, it really does come naturally..and you will probably be a little confused. but just tell him its your first time and he'll lead you through it. its a complete piece of cake when you got it down. and you will probably get it down the 2nd or 3rd time. just dont freak out. good luck.
Ok, this is going to be vague as well, but just copy what he does. If your bf knows that you've never been kissed, then don't worry. If you worry about it too much, something is going to go wrong. Just relax when you kiss him. It'll be fine. Just follow his lead. Hope I helped some
You could try to be cute about it, and when he leans in and pecks ya giggle a little and tell him it's your first kiss and your unsure what to do. And then ask him to teach you!
if he tries tongue, go with it. Don't hold back, first kiss!! Be with him, enjoy it. If you're sheltered , break open. You're 17, just do it! I'm not saying get in bed, just live, but keep some limits!
wow no romance movies that messed up. but your friends are pretty much right just move your lips up and down, back and forth on his.
If you don't want to kiss just feel him up and skip the kiss
he'd like that
GO TO YOUTUBE and search kissing. I bet you could find some makeout scenes on there.
honestly it comes naturally, just relax and try and copy him
relax try to copy him
I'm not a girl, but I can help you with expectations. First of all, you need to let him move in like the first 90% of the distance. When he does this you finish off the rest of the distance. As for what initiates it, you'll look at each other for a moment. Then things kind of get very quiet. You should make him feel like the only choice is to kiss you just by the way you look at him. Also, the first kiss usually decides if you proceed with the relationship believe it or not. Even if you never kissed a guy or not, you'll know whether or not he's a bad kisser. As far as the length of kiss, that will be determined by how into it ya'll get.
hey Honey
1st of all thats so cute lol
YOU sound just like me
when I was 17
Im 21 now
and I always thought that there were tips and steps for kissing
But the TRUTH is there isnt
you just have to realx and go with the moment and with how you feel
Take it slow and make sure you are positive and peaceful
also make sure you have a nice breathe and don’t over think everything he will lead you the right way Guys always do that just go with the flow baby Good luck Littel one and just have fun ok
You will be ok when I first kissed my boyfriend he was shock because I was so good he thought that I kissed so many other guys before him but I didn’t he was my 1st lol so don’t worry you might be a wonderful kisser just be positive
it's important to be relaxed and be yourself. lips are incredibly sensitive areas of the body, and it's likely that your boyfriend will sense if you're nervous or not. try cuddling beforehand to get you in the mood. look deep into his eyes and give him a quick brush with your lips, to let him know you want to be kissed romantically (trust me, guys can be pretty dense!) then go for it. tilt your head one way, hopefully he'll go the other and just 'massage' his lips with yours. when you feel comfortable, part his lips with your tongue and lock your tongue with yours. don't worry if it doesnt go right first time - the best part about kissing is practice! good luck :)
Been there, though im younger than yu i can offer the experiences i have been through. With kissing, the first ones bound to be acward...its a part of life, but here are some tiips to make it as un-acwars as possible..
Keep your eyes closed, atleast long enough so u no his are too so you can peek and see how funny he looks.
Open your mouth a little, you dont want to assume he wants tounge until he stickks it in your mouth.
I dont know how to expain to use yur tounge...but tickle the top of his mouth with the tip of your tounge, and wrestle with his tounge.
When your about done, gently bite his lip, it will giv u a sexy feeling and deff,. turn him on:]
good luck!
Kissing and making out is natural. Some people are bad kissers only because they try too hard! Do it how you think it should be done.
Kissing can be done in different ways, but most commonly just by puckering the lips, slightly turning your head, and making contact. Some people don't enjoying the puckering (even thought you're supposed to do that) and rather just lean in and then make the contact. I find not puckering to be better since it doesn't feel as stiff.
Making out is exactly what your friend says. It starts with the kiss, but it's about the same when trying to get the hang of it. You do move your lips back and forth on his and it's as simple as that. Start off easy by moving slowly to avoid an awkward moment and then it will become easy as tieing your shoes! You can do certain things such as run your hands through your partner's hair, closing your eyes, using tongue, and kissing the neck when you improve at it.
Don't worry. It's something everyone has to face at one point in their life, and we all feel/felt the same about it! Good luck!
Press your lips to his, and sort of open and close your mouth with his. Like the answerer above me said, copy him! Move together.
If you are making out, use your tongue to gently caress his tongue, too. Swirl it around his, imagine that you are pleasuring his tongue with yours. Lick his lips softly, look into his eyes.
Good luck! Have fun!Urgent question (need girl-to-girl advice!)?
I always would stress out like you about a simple thing like thing like this, and people would say ';when i happens you will know what to do.'; I always thought that this never helped. But trust me coming from someone that was in the same situation like you, it WILL come naturally. The first part will most definitely be ackward considering you are doing it for the first time, but you will soon know what you are doing :]
take a deep breath
make sure your eyes are closed while you kiss him
use your tongue like your licking an ice cream cone -you don't want to dart your tongue in and out of his mouth just slide it in smoothly and kiss him - but don't bite him or anything like that just keep it simple. you will know what feels right and what doesnt.
really you will find it comes naturaly..but since you seem really nervous about messing up..just let him lead and follow...(your right your friend was vague)...after a little while of kissing put your hand on the back of his neck...pretty much just let him lead..best of luck on your first kiss....(my first kiss with my now husband was great and yes ...i was nervous)
yeah, it really does come naturally..and you will probably be a little confused. but just tell him its your first time and he'll lead you through it. its a complete piece of cake when you got it down. and you will probably get it down the 2nd or 3rd time. just dont freak out. good luck.
Ok, this is going to be vague as well, but just copy what he does. If your bf knows that you've never been kissed, then don't worry. If you worry about it too much, something is going to go wrong. Just relax when you kiss him. It'll be fine. Just follow his lead. Hope I helped some
You could try to be cute about it, and when he leans in and pecks ya giggle a little and tell him it's your first kiss and your unsure what to do. And then ask him to teach you!
if he tries tongue, go with it. Don't hold back, first kiss!! Be with him, enjoy it. If you're sheltered , break open. You're 17, just do it! I'm not saying get in bed, just live, but keep some limits!
wow no romance movies that messed up. but your friends are pretty much right just move your lips up and down, back and forth on his.
If you don't want to kiss just feel him up and skip the kiss
he'd like that
GO TO YOUTUBE and search kissing. I bet you could find some makeout scenes on there.
honestly it comes naturally, just relax and try and copy him
relax try to copy him
I'm not a girl, but I can help you with expectations. First of all, you need to let him move in like the first 90% of the distance. When he does this you finish off the rest of the distance. As for what initiates it, you'll look at each other for a moment. Then things kind of get very quiet. You should make him feel like the only choice is to kiss you just by the way you look at him. Also, the first kiss usually decides if you proceed with the relationship believe it or not. Even if you never kissed a guy or not, you'll know whether or not he's a bad kisser. As far as the length of kiss, that will be determined by how into it ya'll get.
hey Honey
1st of all thats so cute lol
YOU sound just like me
when I was 17
Im 21 now
and I always thought that there were tips and steps for kissing
But the TRUTH is there isnt
you just have to realx and go with the moment and with how you feel
Take it slow and make sure you are positive and peaceful
also make sure you have a nice breathe and don’t over think everything he will lead you the right way Guys always do that just go with the flow baby Good luck Littel one and just have fun ok
You will be ok when I first kissed my boyfriend he was shock because I was so good he thought that I kissed so many other guys before him but I didn’t he was my 1st lol so don’t worry you might be a wonderful kisser just be positive
it's important to be relaxed and be yourself. lips are incredibly sensitive areas of the body, and it's likely that your boyfriend will sense if you're nervous or not. try cuddling beforehand to get you in the mood. look deep into his eyes and give him a quick brush with your lips, to let him know you want to be kissed romantically (trust me, guys can be pretty dense!) then go for it. tilt your head one way, hopefully he'll go the other and just 'massage' his lips with yours. when you feel comfortable, part his lips with your tongue and lock your tongue with yours. don't worry if it doesnt go right first time - the best part about kissing is practice! good luck :)
Been there, though im younger than yu i can offer the experiences i have been through. With kissing, the first ones bound to be acward...its a part of life, but here are some tiips to make it as un-acwars as possible..
Keep your eyes closed, atleast long enough so u no his are too so you can peek and see how funny he looks.
Open your mouth a little, you dont want to assume he wants tounge until he stickks it in your mouth.
I dont know how to expain to use yur tounge...but tickle the top of his mouth with the tip of your tounge, and wrestle with his tounge.
When your about done, gently bite his lip, it will giv u a sexy feeling and deff,. turn him on:]
good luck!
Kissing and making out is natural. Some people are bad kissers only because they try too hard! Do it how you think it should be done.
Kissing can be done in different ways, but most commonly just by puckering the lips, slightly turning your head, and making contact. Some people don't enjoying the puckering (even thought you're supposed to do that) and rather just lean in and then make the contact. I find not puckering to be better since it doesn't feel as stiff.
Making out is exactly what your friend says. It starts with the kiss, but it's about the same when trying to get the hang of it. You do move your lips back and forth on his and it's as simple as that. Start off easy by moving slowly to avoid an awkward moment and then it will become easy as tieing your shoes! You can do certain things such as run your hands through your partner's hair, closing your eyes, using tongue, and kissing the neck when you improve at it.
Don't worry. It's something everyone has to face at one point in their life, and we all feel/felt the same about it! Good luck!
I need Girl advice! Please help!?
I have been good friends with a girl since 4th grade. we are now sophomores and will both be 16 soon. I know i like her a lot. But does she like me? She isn't allowed to go out with anyone until she is 16. I have been waiting all these years and not gone out with anybody else. She will be 16 soon and I'm wondering if i should keep waiting or if I should start looking for someone else. She has never admitted who she likes, although her friends and family says she likes me. So what should i do? Also, idk if this matters or not but she is not a girly girl. and she will be 16 in 6 monthsI need Girl advice! Please help!?
well you wait until now, so why not wait 6 more month! And plus all her friends and family say she likes you, so what do you got to lose??I need Girl advice! Please help!?
Take the chance...If she likes you good you got 16 months left what's the point you waited this long 6 months is much more of a difference...just wait...Hope this helps
well you wait until now, so why not wait 6 more month! And plus all her friends and family say she likes you, so what do you got to lose??I need Girl advice! Please help!?
Take the chance...If she likes you good you got 16 months left what's the point you waited this long 6 months is much more of a difference...just wait...Hope this helps
Need some girl advice! Tampon issues!?
I'm 13 and I started my period last year. I went to a pool party today (I'm on my period) and I couldn't use a pad and I wanted to keep myself sanitary. My mom showed me how to put a tampon in, and I did it successfully. It wasn't uncomfortable or anything. (It was my first time using one.) But after the party, I tried to take it out and there was a LOT of resistance. Every time I pulled on the string, it almost burned, it hurt so badly. It was painful to the point where I actually moaned loud enough that my mom came running into the bathroom to guide me. I eventually got it out, but it really hurt.
It doesnt hurt now (down there) but I was wondering if someone could give me some advice or tips on how to take a tampon out without it hurting so badly!!
Thanks.Need some girl advice! Tampon issues!?
They hurt like that when they are dry. You must have used one with too much absorbency for the amount of your flow. Try using the smaller ones and not taking them out when they are still too dry.Need some girl advice! Tampon issues!?
If it hurts or is uncomfortable then its not in right, put it in at a 45 degree angle and make sure its all the way in before you push it in, if that made sense. Also, you put you fingers at the bottom of it instead of the string then it might be easier to take it out, just wash your hands really well. Playtex sport tampons are most comfortable btw.
it normally does that when it hasnt been in long or it is dry. normally if i give mine a tug and it feels like it is going to cause my pain i leave it in for a little longer if it hasnt been 8 hours so i wont get tss. hope i helped.
emilyelisabeth
Sometimes a tampon can hurt coming out if it isn't very saturated (wet). Since you were swimming with it, though, I don't think it was dry. Maybe you just can't use tampons. Some women can't and you may be one of them.
Use one with less absorbency.
were you using a absorbancy which was too high? i find it hurts a LOT just like you described if you used say a super tampon but only needed a regular to light tampon
when it hurts too take it out, and theres resistance, the tampon is still pretty dry. Try a ';light days'; or ';juniors'; one
It doesnt hurt now (down there) but I was wondering if someone could give me some advice or tips on how to take a tampon out without it hurting so badly!!
Thanks.Need some girl advice! Tampon issues!?
They hurt like that when they are dry. You must have used one with too much absorbency for the amount of your flow. Try using the smaller ones and not taking them out when they are still too dry.Need some girl advice! Tampon issues!?
If it hurts or is uncomfortable then its not in right, put it in at a 45 degree angle and make sure its all the way in before you push it in, if that made sense. Also, you put you fingers at the bottom of it instead of the string then it might be easier to take it out, just wash your hands really well. Playtex sport tampons are most comfortable btw.
it normally does that when it hasnt been in long or it is dry. normally if i give mine a tug and it feels like it is going to cause my pain i leave it in for a little longer if it hasnt been 8 hours so i wont get tss. hope i helped.
emilyelisabeth
Sometimes a tampon can hurt coming out if it isn't very saturated (wet). Since you were swimming with it, though, I don't think it was dry. Maybe you just can't use tampons. Some women can't and you may be one of them.
Use one with less absorbency.
were you using a absorbancy which was too high? i find it hurts a LOT just like you described if you used say a super tampon but only needed a regular to light tampon
when it hurts too take it out, and theres resistance, the tampon is still pretty dry. Try a ';light days'; or ';juniors'; one
I need girl advice. Help please!!?
See, theres a girl that I really like. I hang around with her and her BEST friend. One week she went on vacation and I stopped hanging around her friend. When she came back her best friend told her that I didn't hang around her at all. Now her best friend hates me because I ';used her'; to make a better friend with the girl I like. Now, the girl I like is starting to not like me because her friend hates me and doesn't want me to hang around her anymore. Help me please so that her best friend is OK with me and doesn't hate me anymore, and that I can be better friends with the girl I like and she can be my GF.I need girl advice. Help please!!?
...... you seem to be heading for problems,
drop her and find someone else for a better relationship.I need girl advice. Help please!!?
hmmm. Well if yout sure she isn't jealous then you might just try talking to the girl u like and her bff.. seperatly!!
Like normally I think its a little awkward to just go up to someone and ask them why their mad at me. What I'd do is ask the girl you like why she's mad at you. Let her explain--don't interrupt or jump to conclusions. After she tells you explain why you didn't really talk to her friend and apologize. Then in a separate time I'd ask her bff why she's mad at you. Again, let her explain why she's mad and tell her explain herself. Then tell her that whatever you did to upset her, it was an accident and you'll ';change';.
I know this sounds kinda corny and stuff.. but believe me, this is what girls like to hear :P And just keep talking to the girl you like... but maybe after a while invite her to a movie or to your school football or soccer or w/e game. Eventually after you spend more time with her she'll most likely start liking you. :P
Hope this helps!! Good luck!!trilogy
...... you seem to be heading for problems,
drop her and find someone else for a better relationship.I need girl advice. Help please!!?
hmmm. Well if yout sure she isn't jealous then you might just try talking to the girl u like and her bff.. seperatly!!
Like normally I think its a little awkward to just go up to someone and ask them why their mad at me. What I'd do is ask the girl you like why she's mad at you. Let her explain--don't interrupt or jump to conclusions. After she tells you explain why you didn't really talk to her friend and apologize. Then in a separate time I'd ask her bff why she's mad at you. Again, let her explain why she's mad and tell her explain herself. Then tell her that whatever you did to upset her, it was an accident and you'll ';change';.
I know this sounds kinda corny and stuff.. but believe me, this is what girls like to hear :P And just keep talking to the girl you like... but maybe after a while invite her to a movie or to your school football or soccer or w/e game. Eventually after you spend more time with her she'll most likely start liking you. :P
Hope this helps!! Good luck!!
Need some girl advice...please help ladies?
Ok so I can't stop thinking about this beautiful girl...Last night we hung out and I think she likes me but I don't know. She showed all the signs (touching me, playing with her hair, getting really close to me, etc...) and we hung out all day yesterday. We ended up getting a hotel room and was drinking and just hanging out until the sunrise. I didn't care about having sex with her but I just wanted to kiss and make out with her last night but it didn't happen. We were snuggling in bed and was holding each other when we woke up today. Does she like me? Should I have made the first move to kiss her? I feel like she was just being nice to me or something...Or am I just being insecure? What should I do next time I see her?Need some girl advice...please help ladies?
all i can say is ask herNeed some girl advice...please help ladies?
Okay, she obviously likes you. Next time you're with her, give her some hints that you like her, you only have one life, so live it! :)
she likes you alot! trust me! get her a bouquet of flowers for the next time you see her and invite her on a more romantic date and place where you can get closer to her! if you have know her for a long time and you become bf and gf, you should probably have sex...good luck!
I think people are to eager to jump into bed with anyone they just happen to fancy.I would say she was most likely being very sensible.You want to be careful.Ending up alone like that of your very young is tempting danger....however in those situations there are no rules I dont think to who shud or shudent make the first move...and it is most likely better that you did not as she will more likely respect you for just giving her what she needed at that moment..some affection and with man she could trust not to take or expect anything more...at that time....
obviously she likes you. as for making the move, just don't be sleazy and change how you would normally act around her--it'll come off as you trying to get sex. just kiss her when the right moment comes and see where that takes you. i wouldn't advise having sex as it seems like you're early in the game and that always complicates things. good luck!
go kiss her!!
omg that is hard to belive you didnt already!!!!
ummmm if the chick got a room with you, then YEAHHH im guessing she likes you and shes waiting for you to make the move!!!!!!! obviously shes willing if shes spooning with you! duh
Yeah I'm pretty sure she totally digs you. Next you should make the move to kiss her. I think you are being a tad insecure, but if a girl gets a hotel room with you then YEAH she likes you.
all i can say is ask herNeed some girl advice...please help ladies?
Okay, she obviously likes you. Next time you're with her, give her some hints that you like her, you only have one life, so live it! :)
she likes you alot! trust me! get her a bouquet of flowers for the next time you see her and invite her on a more romantic date and place where you can get closer to her! if you have know her for a long time and you become bf and gf, you should probably have sex...good luck!
I think people are to eager to jump into bed with anyone they just happen to fancy.I would say she was most likely being very sensible.You want to be careful.Ending up alone like that of your very young is tempting danger....however in those situations there are no rules I dont think to who shud or shudent make the first move...and it is most likely better that you did not as she will more likely respect you for just giving her what she needed at that moment..some affection and with man she could trust not to take or expect anything more...at that time....
obviously she likes you. as for making the move, just don't be sleazy and change how you would normally act around her--it'll come off as you trying to get sex. just kiss her when the right moment comes and see where that takes you. i wouldn't advise having sex as it seems like you're early in the game and that always complicates things. good luck!
go kiss her!!
omg that is hard to belive you didnt already!!!!
ummmm if the chick got a room with you, then YEAHHH im guessing she likes you and shes waiting for you to make the move!!!!!!! obviously shes willing if shes spooning with you! duh
Yeah I'm pretty sure she totally digs you. Next you should make the move to kiss her. I think you are being a tad insecure, but if a girl gets a hotel room with you then YEAH she likes you.
Some shy girl advice?
Beginning of this summer, I let this shy girl know that I liked her, wanted her number, and hopefully take her out sometime. She said she liked me as a friend and hoped to continue to be friends(don't have her number). I thought she liked me, but I suppose all those ';IOI's'; was just her trying to be friendly.
Since school started, she like looks away then looks back at me a few times, or she will stare at me when she thinks I don't see her, or when I'm near her she will start touching her hair and whatever. I think the most contact I've had with her this school year was when I smiled at her yesterday and she gave a ';sort of'; smile back. After that she would look at me quickly and touch her hair.
So do you think she really wanted to stay friends or is she just uncomfortable around me?Some shy girl advice?
Wow. Ummmm, yeah I use LOl's with guys all the time %26amp;%26amp; that doesn't mean I like him, that's was just me being friendly with him. I think she prolly didn't like you before, but now she may be catching feelings for you. I know when I liked this one boy I would look at him all the time when I though he didn't notice, then when he would look at me I would smile and look away. I'm also a very shy girl.LOL sooo yeah I think she likes you now.=) You should ask her or try %26amp;%26amp; ask her out again. Never know, she may give you a completely different answer!=)
Since school started, she like looks away then looks back at me a few times, or she will stare at me when she thinks I don't see her, or when I'm near her she will start touching her hair and whatever. I think the most contact I've had with her this school year was when I smiled at her yesterday and she gave a ';sort of'; smile back. After that she would look at me quickly and touch her hair.
So do you think she really wanted to stay friends or is she just uncomfortable around me?Some shy girl advice?
Wow. Ummmm, yeah I use LOl's with guys all the time %26amp;%26amp; that doesn't mean I like him, that's was just me being friendly with him. I think she prolly didn't like you before, but now she may be catching feelings for you. I know when I liked this one boy I would look at him all the time when I though he didn't notice, then when he would look at me I would smile and look away. I'm also a very shy girl.LOL sooo yeah I think she likes you now.=) You should ask her or try %26amp;%26amp; ask her out again. Never know, she may give you a completely different answer!=)
I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
I have been dating my girl for about 10 months, we love eachother and used to have alot of fun, but when I got my own place (just moved for college) she started staying with me every night, and we started to argue and become angry with eachother alot more, but we kept it in and never fought.
She recently moved all her stuff into my place. I was completley fine with it, no big deal to me, but now she is saying that she thinks we moved to fast, and that she should move back out since we argue pretty much every day...
I am worried that she won't ever want to live me now, that she will never be ready to again..
I don't want to loose her, but I am worried..should I be?
Thanks.I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
Well with all relationships you expect to fight a little or disagree on things but fighting every day does not sound good. Yous both need to sit down and talk about why you both just cant agree to disagree with each other. Men and Woman will always have different views on things so you both need to meet half way. I don't think its a matter of you both moving to fast its the fact that you need to communicate on a level in which you can both meet in the middle. There this saying that you always truly get to know someone when you live with them. If she wants to move out then let her but gentle remind her that you both are better off trying to live together to see if the relationship will work. Hope i have helped good luck and never give up on the person you truly love
She recently moved all her stuff into my place. I was completley fine with it, no big deal to me, but now she is saying that she thinks we moved to fast, and that she should move back out since we argue pretty much every day...
I am worried that she won't ever want to live me now, that she will never be ready to again..
I don't want to loose her, but I am worried..should I be?
Thanks.I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
Well with all relationships you expect to fight a little or disagree on things but fighting every day does not sound good. Yous both need to sit down and talk about why you both just cant agree to disagree with each other. Men and Woman will always have different views on things so you both need to meet half way. I don't think its a matter of you both moving to fast its the fact that you need to communicate on a level in which you can both meet in the middle. There this saying that you always truly get to know someone when you live with them. If she wants to move out then let her but gentle remind her that you both are better off trying to live together to see if the relationship will work. Hope i have helped good luck and never give up on the person you truly love
I need girl advice! Please help me?
I have been good friends with a girl since 4th grade. we are now sophomores and will both be 16 soon. I know i like her a lot. But does she like me? She isn't allowed to go out with anyone until she is 16. I have been waiting all these years and not gone out with anybody else. She will be 16 soon and I'm wondering if i should keep waiting or if I should start looking for someone else. She has never admitted who she likes, although her friends and family says she likes me. So what should i do? Also, idk if this matters or not but she is not a girly girl.I need girl advice! Please help me?
Aww.
Honestly, if that many people say she does, then there probably is a little spark. You just need to find the right way to make it ignite into a flame.
The day she turns sixteen, offer to do something with her that she loves to do. Completely make the time all about her and doing what she desires, for this will put her into a great mood with you. Perhaps even after, let her know how you feel.
I'm not saying go on your knee and propose, but tell her how long you've liked her and such. Chances are, she'll feel really wanted, and every girl loves to feel that way.
That's so sweet for you to care that much...if she doesn't have feelings for you, then she's absolutely insane.I need girl advice! Please help me?
I think that you should keep waiting. I think it will totally steal her heart when you tell her that you have been waiting and not dating this whole time because you wanted to wait until she was 16 and could date. Believe me-that is too sweet and if she doesn't fall for that then I think her lost. Also, how would you feel knowing you waited all this time and threw it away almost when getting close to what you wanted. Don't give up when being so close. Just keep on being around her. By the way, alot of times, girls know when guys like them. Wait, tell her you waited, then take her out and show her that you have liked and cared about her since 4th grade. I think it is worth the wait on you and her behalf. Good Luck!!!!!
I think it is very sweet that you have waited for her this long. That being said, if you still feel the same way about her, what's the harm in waiting a little longer for her? She should acknowledge that you waited for her for so long, and if her peers and family says she likes you, it is a very good chance that she does. Go for it.
DONT GIVE UP! those 6 years of waiting for her will go to waste! on her 16th birthday, get her a present, along with red roses, that says ';happy 16th birthday, my unrequited love';
[say something LIKE that, this is kinda corny, though you can use it if you want]
besides, youre not sure of her feelings, and the worst thing that could happen is her saying, 'thank you for waiting all these years, but i like someone else.'
so be a man and tell her as soon as she turns 16
If she is not a girly girl, she might liked you but too shy to do anything about her feelings and you have to do the 1st move.
But since you been friends with her for a long time, she might just think of you as a best friend, so to be sure you need to ask your self this :
1. Is she look happier when I'm around?
2. Is she asking for me when I didn't contact her?
3. Is she kinda nervous when I looked at her?
If the answer of the above questions is YES.
You better make the first move and ask her out on a REAL DATE.
I hope this helps.
Ask her out before she turns 16 and starts looking for someone else herself.
She probably likes you and is just too scared to admit it.
Ask her out, if she says she rather not, then be her friend.
6 months is not too much... maybe make her you ';promise to gf';?
Another way of saying: We're dating without your parents approval right now, so lets say it's not official, but date anyways and make it official when you turn 16.
Well, she seems to be shy about her feelings.
Waiting for her like you did was really sweet and that proves that it's more than just a silly little week long crush that most teenagers/elementary school kids get.
You should confess to her.
She seems as though she might.
But, flirt with her a little first.
If she flirts back then she does like you or if she goes all blushy and such that means she does.
But, if she's like ';ew. dude, I love you like a big bro';, drop it...
It's better to stay friends with her than to ruin it by pursuing an unrequited affection.
i think you should wait too...but its def a good sign that her family and friends say that she likes you. and since she isn't a girly girl she probably isn't very open about who she likes or any ';girl'; stuff. so if her friends and family can tell by her actions, you're in. but wait a little longer for the right time
How long before she turns 16?
okay, then definitely you can wait..6mo isn't really that long. You waited 7yrs whats 6months?? Wow, impressive...I'm sure that made a statement to her fam!! oh and according to what you stated, ';fam %26amp; friends says she likes me.'; you know she probably does.
';Love will stand the test of time.';
Tell her that she looks really beautiful on her birthday.
On that 16th birthday, tell her that she's beautiful. Every woman likes to be called beautiful, no matter how tom-boyish they are. That will light a spark in her head. Also, give her a hug. Smile, and work really hard at getting her attention. Flirt with her, she will get the message, and theres about a 9/10 chance that she likes you too! Good luck!
Think about the possibility of awkwardness after you tell her. If she doesn't feel the same....would she feel weird after and be distant? If she feels the same then great, date her, but at the same time you have to think....what if you break up? Do you think that would be awkward afterwards? It's really hard to go back to the same friendship with someone after you date and it doesn't work out.
go for it when shes 16 if she seems interested i mean you have known her for so long so you're already on a level of a good friendship...flirt with her, is shes blushy or flirts back then shes prob into you. watcha got to loose if you've never been in a relationship before??if shes a tomboy maybe play some kind of sport with her like tennis..you'd probably have a lot of fun and its flirty..i say wait for her at least until shes 16 and if shes not interested keep looking=]
omg you ahve waited this long, keep waiting! dont give up, no matter waht the day she turns 16 go for it. if her family and everyone says she likes you, im sure she does, this is coming from a 16 year old girl! you could have a little fairy tail story, just wait for her, i bet seh likes you! tell me how everyting works out... if you need more help message me! good luck!
Well if you are shy than i would just write her and if she is shy i would write her. Girl like notes anyway! no matter what age they are. I would just tell her how you feel. She probable likes you back and if you dont say anything to her and you move on you will see her with other guys ';the girl you have been waiting forever for'; And you will regret it so much.
You sound like a very sensitive and kind young man who wants to do the right thing....if you like her that much then wait for 6 months when both of you will be the right age. Believe me time flies....and 6 months is not that long .....it doesn't matter if she is a sporty type person....I'm sure there is something about her that attracts you to her.....some females are not comfortable in fancy clothes....but they are still the same as other girls....with the same feelings.
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
Do you know how much it would mean to her if you told her that you've been waiting for her all this time?...IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO HER!!
It's completely adorable. Just tell her how pretty she looks on her birthday, always complement her, flirt a TON, and she will get the hint.
At some point of the day on her birthday, take her outside..go on a nice long walk and just tell her how you feel. You will feel great!
=]
well u've been waiting for her these whole years so why wouldn't wait for her for another few months,,u've got nothing to lose by waiting a few more months,,but the most important is just follow ur bliss,,if your heart tells u to wait then follow what ur heart says,,don't let urself regret anything in the end of the day,,
good luck!!
^________^
well if you have been waiting all these years for her there is no reason why you shouldn't wait a little bit longer for her. You should tell her that you have liked her all this time, she will probably think that it's sweet that you have waited for her.
If she likes you it would be better for you to wait because you are still young. In other words that you still have time to give her space. This is if you are ready for serious relationships it takes a lot of commitment and patience.
ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE IM SURE IF YOU HAVE BEEN HER FRIEND FOR THAT LONG SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU IF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAYS SHE LIKES YOU TAKE A CHANCE AND ASK HER OUT SHES ALMOST 16 AND IM SURE SHELL DATE YOU
dude im 16 right now and as a fellow teenager im telling you to wait for her 16 b day.. if only i was in ur position, i would be one of the happiest guys on earth you lucky SOB
I think that you should definitely wait for her. If you have been waiting for this long than I think you can wait 6 more months and see what happens.
Good luck! =)
well, if her friends and family are telling you, and she won't tell who she likes, you should most definitely give it a shot!
Take the chance, ask her out.
same thing i did, to the girl i like.
just do it.
Wait!!!. If you've waited that long and she's turning 16 soon than it'd be kinda dum not to wait just a little longer to ask her something you've been waiting ages to ask..^0^
Wait it out man cause it might be worth it.
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She probably likes you to. Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? You're only young once. Go for it.
I think you should ask her if she would ever go out with you so that you will know if she likes you or not and if she doesn't then you could move on.
hmmm. so u really like her.
and u have waited and not gone out with anyone.
and all her friends and family say she likes u.
wow this is tough.
try it....u have nothing to loose...
its ok to loose your pride over someone u love...
dont loose your love tho over your pride....
Ask her if she would like to go out sometime maybe to dinner and a movie. See how she reacts.
Aww.
Honestly, if that many people say she does, then there probably is a little spark. You just need to find the right way to make it ignite into a flame.
The day she turns sixteen, offer to do something with her that she loves to do. Completely make the time all about her and doing what she desires, for this will put her into a great mood with you. Perhaps even after, let her know how you feel.
I'm not saying go on your knee and propose, but tell her how long you've liked her and such. Chances are, she'll feel really wanted, and every girl loves to feel that way.
That's so sweet for you to care that much...if she doesn't have feelings for you, then she's absolutely insane.I need girl advice! Please help me?
I think that you should keep waiting. I think it will totally steal her heart when you tell her that you have been waiting and not dating this whole time because you wanted to wait until she was 16 and could date. Believe me-that is too sweet and if she doesn't fall for that then I think her lost. Also, how would you feel knowing you waited all this time and threw it away almost when getting close to what you wanted. Don't give up when being so close. Just keep on being around her. By the way, alot of times, girls know when guys like them. Wait, tell her you waited, then take her out and show her that you have liked and cared about her since 4th grade. I think it is worth the wait on you and her behalf. Good Luck!!!!!
I think it is very sweet that you have waited for her this long. That being said, if you still feel the same way about her, what's the harm in waiting a little longer for her? She should acknowledge that you waited for her for so long, and if her peers and family says she likes you, it is a very good chance that she does. Go for it.
DONT GIVE UP! those 6 years of waiting for her will go to waste! on her 16th birthday, get her a present, along with red roses, that says ';happy 16th birthday, my unrequited love';
[say something LIKE that, this is kinda corny, though you can use it if you want]
besides, youre not sure of her feelings, and the worst thing that could happen is her saying, 'thank you for waiting all these years, but i like someone else.'
so be a man and tell her as soon as she turns 16
If she is not a girly girl, she might liked you but too shy to do anything about her feelings and you have to do the 1st move.
But since you been friends with her for a long time, she might just think of you as a best friend, so to be sure you need to ask your self this :
1. Is she look happier when I'm around?
2. Is she asking for me when I didn't contact her?
3. Is she kinda nervous when I looked at her?
If the answer of the above questions is YES.
You better make the first move and ask her out on a REAL DATE.
I hope this helps.
Ask her out before she turns 16 and starts looking for someone else herself.
She probably likes you and is just too scared to admit it.
Ask her out, if she says she rather not, then be her friend.
6 months is not too much... maybe make her you ';promise to gf';?
Another way of saying: We're dating without your parents approval right now, so lets say it's not official, but date anyways and make it official when you turn 16.
Well, she seems to be shy about her feelings.
Waiting for her like you did was really sweet and that proves that it's more than just a silly little week long crush that most teenagers/elementary school kids get.
You should confess to her.
She seems as though she might.
But, flirt with her a little first.
If she flirts back then she does like you or if she goes all blushy and such that means she does.
But, if she's like ';ew. dude, I love you like a big bro';, drop it...
It's better to stay friends with her than to ruin it by pursuing an unrequited affection.
i think you should wait too...but its def a good sign that her family and friends say that she likes you. and since she isn't a girly girl she probably isn't very open about who she likes or any ';girl'; stuff. so if her friends and family can tell by her actions, you're in. but wait a little longer for the right time
How long before she turns 16?
okay, then definitely you can wait..6mo isn't really that long. You waited 7yrs whats 6months?? Wow, impressive...I'm sure that made a statement to her fam!! oh and according to what you stated, ';fam %26amp; friends says she likes me.'; you know she probably does.
';Love will stand the test of time.';
Tell her that she looks really beautiful on her birthday.
On that 16th birthday, tell her that she's beautiful. Every woman likes to be called beautiful, no matter how tom-boyish they are. That will light a spark in her head. Also, give her a hug. Smile, and work really hard at getting her attention. Flirt with her, she will get the message, and theres about a 9/10 chance that she likes you too! Good luck!
Think about the possibility of awkwardness after you tell her. If she doesn't feel the same....would she feel weird after and be distant? If she feels the same then great, date her, but at the same time you have to think....what if you break up? Do you think that would be awkward afterwards? It's really hard to go back to the same friendship with someone after you date and it doesn't work out.
go for it when shes 16 if she seems interested i mean you have known her for so long so you're already on a level of a good friendship...flirt with her, is shes blushy or flirts back then shes prob into you. watcha got to loose if you've never been in a relationship before??if shes a tomboy maybe play some kind of sport with her like tennis..you'd probably have a lot of fun and its flirty..i say wait for her at least until shes 16 and if shes not interested keep looking=]
omg you ahve waited this long, keep waiting! dont give up, no matter waht the day she turns 16 go for it. if her family and everyone says she likes you, im sure she does, this is coming from a 16 year old girl! you could have a little fairy tail story, just wait for her, i bet seh likes you! tell me how everyting works out... if you need more help message me! good luck!
Well if you are shy than i would just write her and if she is shy i would write her. Girl like notes anyway! no matter what age they are. I would just tell her how you feel. She probable likes you back and if you dont say anything to her and you move on you will see her with other guys ';the girl you have been waiting forever for'; And you will regret it so much.
You sound like a very sensitive and kind young man who wants to do the right thing....if you like her that much then wait for 6 months when both of you will be the right age. Believe me time flies....and 6 months is not that long .....it doesn't matter if she is a sporty type person....I'm sure there is something about her that attracts you to her.....some females are not comfortable in fancy clothes....but they are still the same as other girls....with the same feelings.
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
Do you know how much it would mean to her if you told her that you've been waiting for her all this time?...IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO HER!!
It's completely adorable. Just tell her how pretty she looks on her birthday, always complement her, flirt a TON, and she will get the hint.
At some point of the day on her birthday, take her outside..go on a nice long walk and just tell her how you feel. You will feel great!
=]
well u've been waiting for her these whole years so why wouldn't wait for her for another few months,,u've got nothing to lose by waiting a few more months,,but the most important is just follow ur bliss,,if your heart tells u to wait then follow what ur heart says,,don't let urself regret anything in the end of the day,,
good luck!!
^________^
well if you have been waiting all these years for her there is no reason why you shouldn't wait a little bit longer for her. You should tell her that you have liked her all this time, she will probably think that it's sweet that you have waited for her.
If she likes you it would be better for you to wait because you are still young. In other words that you still have time to give her space. This is if you are ready for serious relationships it takes a lot of commitment and patience.
ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE IM SURE IF YOU HAVE BEEN HER FRIEND FOR THAT LONG SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU IF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAYS SHE LIKES YOU TAKE A CHANCE AND ASK HER OUT SHES ALMOST 16 AND IM SURE SHELL DATE YOU
dude im 16 right now and as a fellow teenager im telling you to wait for her 16 b day.. if only i was in ur position, i would be one of the happiest guys on earth you lucky SOB
I think that you should definitely wait for her. If you have been waiting for this long than I think you can wait 6 more months and see what happens.
Good luck! =)
well, if her friends and family are telling you, and she won't tell who she likes, you should most definitely give it a shot!
Take the chance, ask her out.
same thing i did, to the girl i like.
just do it.
Wait!!!. If you've waited that long and she's turning 16 soon than it'd be kinda dum not to wait just a little longer to ask her something you've been waiting ages to ask..^0^
Wait it out man cause it might be worth it.
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She probably likes you to. Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? You're only young once. Go for it.
I think you should ask her if she would ever go out with you so that you will know if she likes you or not and if she doesn't then you could move on.
hmmm. so u really like her.
and u have waited and not gone out with anyone.
and all her friends and family say she likes u.
wow this is tough.
try it....u have nothing to loose...
its ok to loose your pride over someone u love...
dont loose your love tho over your pride....
Ask her if she would like to go out sometime maybe to dinner and a movie. See how she reacts.
I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
I have been dating my girl for about 10 months, we love eachother and used to have alot of fun, but when I got my own place (just moved for college) she started staying with me every night, and we started to argue and become angry with eachother alot more, but we kept it in and never fought.
She recently moved all her stuff into my place. I was completley fine with it, no big deal to me, but now she is saying that she thinks we moved to fast, and that she should move back out since we argue pretty much every day...
I am worried that she won't ever want to live me now, that she will never be ready to again..
I don't want to loose her, but I am worried..should I be?
Thanks.I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
Well with all relationships you expect to fight a little or disagree on things but fighting every day does not sound good. Yous both need to sit down and talk about why you both just cant agree to disagree with each other. Men and Woman will always have different views on things so you both need to meet half way. I don't think its a matter of you both moving to fast its the fact that you need to communicate on a level in which you can both meet in the middle. There this saying that you always truly get to know someone when you live with them. If she wants to move out then let her but gentle remind her that you both are better off trying to live together to see if the relationship will work. Hope i have helped good luck and never give up on the person you truly love
She recently moved all her stuff into my place. I was completley fine with it, no big deal to me, but now she is saying that she thinks we moved to fast, and that she should move back out since we argue pretty much every day...
I am worried that she won't ever want to live me now, that she will never be ready to again..
I don't want to loose her, but I am worried..should I be?
Thanks.I NEED GIRL ADVICE!!! My girlfriend moved in, but now regrets it...thinks we moved to fast...?!!?!?!?!?!?
Well with all relationships you expect to fight a little or disagree on things but fighting every day does not sound good. Yous both need to sit down and talk about why you both just cant agree to disagree with each other. Men and Woman will always have different views on things so you both need to meet half way. I don't think its a matter of you both moving to fast its the fact that you need to communicate on a level in which you can both meet in the middle. There this saying that you always truly get to know someone when you live with them. If she wants to move out then let her but gentle remind her that you both are better off trying to live together to see if the relationship will work. Hope i have helped good luck and never give up on the person you truly love
I need girl advice! Please help me?
I have been good friends with a girl since 4th grade. we are now sophomores and will both be 16 soon. I know i like her a lot. But does she like me? She isn't allowed to go out with anyone until she is 16. I have been waiting all these years and not gone out with anybody else. She will be 16 soon and I'm wondering if i should keep waiting or if I should start looking for someone else. She has never admitted who she likes, although her friends and family says she likes me. So what should i do? Also, idk if this matters or not but she is not a girly girl.I need girl advice! Please help me?
Aww.
Honestly, if that many people say she does, then there probably is a little spark. You just need to find the right way to make it ignite into a flame.
The day she turns sixteen, offer to do something with her that she loves to do. Completely make the time all about her and doing what she desires, for this will put her into a great mood with you. Perhaps even after, let her know how you feel.
I'm not saying go on your knee and propose, but tell her how long you've liked her and such. Chances are, she'll feel really wanted, and every girl loves to feel that way.
That's so sweet for you to care that much...if she doesn't have feelings for you, then she's absolutely insane.I need girl advice! Please help me?
I think that you should keep waiting. I think it will totally steal her heart when you tell her that you have been waiting and not dating this whole time because you wanted to wait until she was 16 and could date. Believe me-that is too sweet and if she doesn't fall for that then I think her lost. Also, how would you feel knowing you waited all this time and threw it away almost when getting close to what you wanted. Don't give up when being so close. Just keep on being around her. By the way, alot of times, girls know when guys like them. Wait, tell her you waited, then take her out and show her that you have liked and cared about her since 4th grade. I think it is worth the wait on you and her behalf. Good Luck!!!!!
I think it is very sweet that you have waited for her this long. That being said, if you still feel the same way about her, what's the harm in waiting a little longer for her? She should acknowledge that you waited for her for so long, and if her peers and family says she likes you, it is a very good chance that she does. Go for it.
DONT GIVE UP! those 6 years of waiting for her will go to waste! on her 16th birthday, get her a present, along with red roses, that says ';happy 16th birthday, my unrequited love';
[say something LIKE that, this is kinda corny, though you can use it if you want]
besides, youre not sure of her feelings, and the worst thing that could happen is her saying, 'thank you for waiting all these years, but i like someone else.'
so be a man and tell her as soon as she turns 16
If she is not a girly girl, she might liked you but too shy to do anything about her feelings and you have to do the 1st move.
But since you been friends with her for a long time, she might just think of you as a best friend, so to be sure you need to ask your self this :
1. Is she look happier when I'm around?
2. Is she asking for me when I didn't contact her?
3. Is she kinda nervous when I looked at her?
If the answer of the above questions is YES.
You better make the first move and ask her out on a REAL DATE.
I hope this helps.
Ask her out before she turns 16 and starts looking for someone else herself.
She probably likes you and is just too scared to admit it.
Ask her out, if she says she rather not, then be her friend.
6 months is not too much... maybe make her you ';promise to gf';?
Another way of saying: We're dating without your parents approval right now, so lets say it's not official, but date anyways and make it official when you turn 16.
Well, she seems to be shy about her feelings.
Waiting for her like you did was really sweet and that proves that it's more than just a silly little week long crush that most teenagers/elementary school kids get.
You should confess to her.
She seems as though she might.
But, flirt with her a little first.
If she flirts back then she does like you or if she goes all blushy and such that means she does.
But, if she's like ';ew. dude, I love you like a big bro';, drop it...
It's better to stay friends with her than to ruin it by pursuing an unrequited affection.
i think you should wait too...but its def a good sign that her family and friends say that she likes you. and since she isn't a girly girl she probably isn't very open about who she likes or any ';girl'; stuff. so if her friends and family can tell by her actions, you're in. but wait a little longer for the right time
How long before she turns 16?
okay, then definitely you can wait..6mo isn't really that long. You waited 7yrs whats 6months?? Wow, impressive...I'm sure that made a statement to her fam!! oh and according to what you stated, ';fam %26amp; friends says she likes me.'; you know she probably does.
';Love will stand the test of time.';
Tell her that she looks really beautiful on her birthday.
On that 16th birthday, tell her that she's beautiful. Every woman likes to be called beautiful, no matter how tom-boyish they are. That will light a spark in her head. Also, give her a hug. Smile, and work really hard at getting her attention. Flirt with her, she will get the message, and theres about a 9/10 chance that she likes you too! Good luck!
Think about the possibility of awkwardness after you tell her. If she doesn't feel the same....would she feel weird after and be distant? If she feels the same then great, date her, but at the same time you have to think....what if you break up? Do you think that would be awkward afterwards? It's really hard to go back to the same friendship with someone after you date and it doesn't work out.
go for it when shes 16 if she seems interested i mean you have known her for so long so you're already on a level of a good friendship...flirt with her, is shes blushy or flirts back then shes prob into you. watcha got to loose if you've never been in a relationship before??if shes a tomboy maybe play some kind of sport with her like tennis..you'd probably have a lot of fun and its flirty..i say wait for her at least until shes 16 and if shes not interested keep looking=]
omg you ahve waited this long, keep waiting! dont give up, no matter waht the day she turns 16 go for it. if her family and everyone says she likes you, im sure she does, this is coming from a 16 year old girl! you could have a little fairy tail story, just wait for her, i bet seh likes you! tell me how everyting works out... if you need more help message me! good luck!
Well if you are shy than i would just write her and if she is shy i would write her. Girl like notes anyway! no matter what age they are. I would just tell her how you feel. She probable likes you back and if you dont say anything to her and you move on you will see her with other guys ';the girl you have been waiting forever for'; And you will regret it so much.
You sound like a very sensitive and kind young man who wants to do the right thing....if you like her that much then wait for 6 months when both of you will be the right age. Believe me time flies....and 6 months is not that long .....it doesn't matter if she is a sporty type person....I'm sure there is something about her that attracts you to her.....some females are not comfortable in fancy clothes....but they are still the same as other girls....with the same feelings.
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
Do you know how much it would mean to her if you told her that you've been waiting for her all this time?...IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO HER!!
It's completely adorable. Just tell her how pretty she looks on her birthday, always complement her, flirt a TON, and she will get the hint.
At some point of the day on her birthday, take her outside..go on a nice long walk and just tell her how you feel. You will feel great!
=]
well u've been waiting for her these whole years so why wouldn't wait for her for another few months,,u've got nothing to lose by waiting a few more months,,but the most important is just follow ur bliss,,if your heart tells u to wait then follow what ur heart says,,don't let urself regret anything in the end of the day,,
good luck!!
^________^
well if you have been waiting all these years for her there is no reason why you shouldn't wait a little bit longer for her. You should tell her that you have liked her all this time, she will probably think that it's sweet that you have waited for her.
If she likes you it would be better for you to wait because you are still young. In other words that you still have time to give her space. This is if you are ready for serious relationships it takes a lot of commitment and patience.
ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE IM SURE IF YOU HAVE BEEN HER FRIEND FOR THAT LONG SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU IF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAYS SHE LIKES YOU TAKE A CHANCE AND ASK HER OUT SHES ALMOST 16 AND IM SURE SHELL DATE YOU
dude im 16 right now and as a fellow teenager im telling you to wait for her 16 b day.. if only i was in ur position, i would be one of the happiest guys on earth you lucky SOB
I think that you should definitely wait for her. If you have been waiting for this long than I think you can wait 6 more months and see what happens.
Good luck! =)
well, if her friends and family are telling you, and she won't tell who she likes, you should most definitely give it a shot!
Take the chance, ask her out.
same thing i did, to the girl i like.
just do it.
Wait!!!. If you've waited that long and she's turning 16 soon than it'd be kinda dum not to wait just a little longer to ask her something you've been waiting ages to ask..^0^
Wait it out man cause it might be worth it.
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She probably likes you to. Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? You're only young once. Go for it.
I think you should ask her if she would ever go out with you so that you will know if she likes you or not and if she doesn't then you could move on.
hmmm. so u really like her.
and u have waited and not gone out with anyone.
and all her friends and family say she likes u.
wow this is tough.
try it....u have nothing to loose...
its ok to loose your pride over someone u love...
dont loose your love tho over your pride....
Ask her if she would like to go out sometime maybe to dinner and a movie. See how she reacts.trilogy
Aww.
Honestly, if that many people say she does, then there probably is a little spark. You just need to find the right way to make it ignite into a flame.
The day she turns sixteen, offer to do something with her that she loves to do. Completely make the time all about her and doing what she desires, for this will put her into a great mood with you. Perhaps even after, let her know how you feel.
I'm not saying go on your knee and propose, but tell her how long you've liked her and such. Chances are, she'll feel really wanted, and every girl loves to feel that way.
That's so sweet for you to care that much...if she doesn't have feelings for you, then she's absolutely insane.I need girl advice! Please help me?
I think that you should keep waiting. I think it will totally steal her heart when you tell her that you have been waiting and not dating this whole time because you wanted to wait until she was 16 and could date. Believe me-that is too sweet and if she doesn't fall for that then I think her lost. Also, how would you feel knowing you waited all this time and threw it away almost when getting close to what you wanted. Don't give up when being so close. Just keep on being around her. By the way, alot of times, girls know when guys like them. Wait, tell her you waited, then take her out and show her that you have liked and cared about her since 4th grade. I think it is worth the wait on you and her behalf. Good Luck!!!!!
I think it is very sweet that you have waited for her this long. That being said, if you still feel the same way about her, what's the harm in waiting a little longer for her? She should acknowledge that you waited for her for so long, and if her peers and family says she likes you, it is a very good chance that she does. Go for it.
DONT GIVE UP! those 6 years of waiting for her will go to waste! on her 16th birthday, get her a present, along with red roses, that says ';happy 16th birthday, my unrequited love';
[say something LIKE that, this is kinda corny, though you can use it if you want]
besides, youre not sure of her feelings, and the worst thing that could happen is her saying, 'thank you for waiting all these years, but i like someone else.'
so be a man and tell her as soon as she turns 16
If she is not a girly girl, she might liked you but too shy to do anything about her feelings and you have to do the 1st move.
But since you been friends with her for a long time, she might just think of you as a best friend, so to be sure you need to ask your self this :
1. Is she look happier when I'm around?
2. Is she asking for me when I didn't contact her?
3. Is she kinda nervous when I looked at her?
If the answer of the above questions is YES.
You better make the first move and ask her out on a REAL DATE.
I hope this helps.
Ask her out before she turns 16 and starts looking for someone else herself.
She probably likes you and is just too scared to admit it.
Ask her out, if she says she rather not, then be her friend.
6 months is not too much... maybe make her you ';promise to gf';?
Another way of saying: We're dating without your parents approval right now, so lets say it's not official, but date anyways and make it official when you turn 16.
Well, she seems to be shy about her feelings.
Waiting for her like you did was really sweet and that proves that it's more than just a silly little week long crush that most teenagers/elementary school kids get.
You should confess to her.
She seems as though she might.
But, flirt with her a little first.
If she flirts back then she does like you or if she goes all blushy and such that means she does.
But, if she's like ';ew. dude, I love you like a big bro';, drop it...
It's better to stay friends with her than to ruin it by pursuing an unrequited affection.
i think you should wait too...but its def a good sign that her family and friends say that she likes you. and since she isn't a girly girl she probably isn't very open about who she likes or any ';girl'; stuff. so if her friends and family can tell by her actions, you're in. but wait a little longer for the right time
How long before she turns 16?
okay, then definitely you can wait..6mo isn't really that long. You waited 7yrs whats 6months?? Wow, impressive...I'm sure that made a statement to her fam!! oh and according to what you stated, ';fam %26amp; friends says she likes me.'; you know she probably does.
';Love will stand the test of time.';
Tell her that she looks really beautiful on her birthday.
On that 16th birthday, tell her that she's beautiful. Every woman likes to be called beautiful, no matter how tom-boyish they are. That will light a spark in her head. Also, give her a hug. Smile, and work really hard at getting her attention. Flirt with her, she will get the message, and theres about a 9/10 chance that she likes you too! Good luck!
Think about the possibility of awkwardness after you tell her. If she doesn't feel the same....would she feel weird after and be distant? If she feels the same then great, date her, but at the same time you have to think....what if you break up? Do you think that would be awkward afterwards? It's really hard to go back to the same friendship with someone after you date and it doesn't work out.
go for it when shes 16 if she seems interested i mean you have known her for so long so you're already on a level of a good friendship...flirt with her, is shes blushy or flirts back then shes prob into you. watcha got to loose if you've never been in a relationship before??if shes a tomboy maybe play some kind of sport with her like tennis..you'd probably have a lot of fun and its flirty..i say wait for her at least until shes 16 and if shes not interested keep looking=]
omg you ahve waited this long, keep waiting! dont give up, no matter waht the day she turns 16 go for it. if her family and everyone says she likes you, im sure she does, this is coming from a 16 year old girl! you could have a little fairy tail story, just wait for her, i bet seh likes you! tell me how everyting works out... if you need more help message me! good luck!
Well if you are shy than i would just write her and if she is shy i would write her. Girl like notes anyway! no matter what age they are. I would just tell her how you feel. She probable likes you back and if you dont say anything to her and you move on you will see her with other guys ';the girl you have been waiting forever for'; And you will regret it so much.
You sound like a very sensitive and kind young man who wants to do the right thing....if you like her that much then wait for 6 months when both of you will be the right age. Believe me time flies....and 6 months is not that long .....it doesn't matter if she is a sporty type person....I'm sure there is something about her that attracts you to her.....some females are not comfortable in fancy clothes....but they are still the same as other girls....with the same feelings.
Best wishes,
Mama Jazzy Geri
Do you know how much it would mean to her if you told her that you've been waiting for her all this time?...IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO HER!!
It's completely adorable. Just tell her how pretty she looks on her birthday, always complement her, flirt a TON, and she will get the hint.
At some point of the day on her birthday, take her outside..go on a nice long walk and just tell her how you feel. You will feel great!
=]
well u've been waiting for her these whole years so why wouldn't wait for her for another few months,,u've got nothing to lose by waiting a few more months,,but the most important is just follow ur bliss,,if your heart tells u to wait then follow what ur heart says,,don't let urself regret anything in the end of the day,,
good luck!!
^________^
well if you have been waiting all these years for her there is no reason why you shouldn't wait a little bit longer for her. You should tell her that you have liked her all this time, she will probably think that it's sweet that you have waited for her.
If she likes you it would be better for you to wait because you are still young. In other words that you still have time to give her space. This is if you are ready for serious relationships it takes a lot of commitment and patience.
ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE IM SURE IF YOU HAVE BEEN HER FRIEND FOR THAT LONG SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU IF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAYS SHE LIKES YOU TAKE A CHANCE AND ASK HER OUT SHES ALMOST 16 AND IM SURE SHELL DATE YOU
dude im 16 right now and as a fellow teenager im telling you to wait for her 16 b day.. if only i was in ur position, i would be one of the happiest guys on earth you lucky SOB
I think that you should definitely wait for her. If you have been waiting for this long than I think you can wait 6 more months and see what happens.
Good luck! =)
well, if her friends and family are telling you, and she won't tell who she likes, you should most definitely give it a shot!
Take the chance, ask her out.
same thing i did, to the girl i like.
just do it.
Wait!!!. If you've waited that long and she's turning 16 soon than it'd be kinda dum not to wait just a little longer to ask her something you've been waiting ages to ask..^0^
Wait it out man cause it might be worth it.
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She probably likes you to. Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? You're only young once. Go for it.
I think you should ask her if she would ever go out with you so that you will know if she likes you or not and if she doesn't then you could move on.
hmmm. so u really like her.
and u have waited and not gone out with anyone.
and all her friends and family say she likes u.
wow this is tough.
try it....u have nothing to loose...
its ok to loose your pride over someone u love...
dont loose your love tho over your pride....
Ask her if she would like to go out sometime maybe to dinner and a movie. See how she reacts.
I need girl advice. please help?
im so weird. ok, so im in 7th grade and i guess you could say im average. im small chested. which does not bother me at all. i have my period, so my face is breaking out bad. im no ashamed of myself and im totally happy with where i am. my grades are good and i have so many friends. so i just wanna be a little cooler. i mean like how should i dress for middle school and any tips. i'll take any tips on this. please no negative feedback i dont have time. thx so muck. best answer, 10pts.I need girl advice. please help?
well remember, youre only in middle school, so you dont want to dress too much like an adult, or too much older than your age, a mistake i think alot of young girls are making these days. i guess what i can tell you, is that a great pair of jeans can take you anywhere. if a pair of jeans fits you well, are comfortable, and are appropriate for your body tpe, youre good to go. but never try to be something youre not. wear whatever you feel confident in. confidence = coolness in my book.I need girl advice. please help?
I remember the akwardness in middle school, but I also remember that was the year I became a ';cool kid';. I would just stay up on todays style. Rock some clothes that you see at the mall, just dont go to extreme and make sure you feel comfortable in them. Oh and for your face, if your parents can afford it get some proactive, it works great and will make you more confident. I know it is tuff to fit in sometimes but just remember that you are just perfect the way you are!!
Oh and I always like to do something totally different with my hair, try a new style or cut!! good luck girl!!
Try teenmagazine.com for ideas (:
Just be yourself. Dress in what you like and are comfortable in and be glad that you have friends and just chill with them. You dont want to start trying to dress a certain way in order to ';fit in'; and look ';cool'; cause in the end, you will be giving off a false impression of who you are. When you get a little older and get out of grade school and high school, you will discover that most people could care less about how you dress, they care more about having a good personality.
ok, I'm not sure if this is what you're looking for, but here we go:
-be yourself! trying to be someone else will just end in losing self-confidence, self-knowledge, possibly some of your greatest friends, etc. don't care too much about what people think, because the people who don't like you don't matter in the end.
-wear what you think is cute/fun and not necessarily what ';everyone else'; is wearing. if you need inspiration, look through magazines and stuff but don't copy exactly what the models wear because that's just tacky. and don't break the school dress code.
-if your parents and school allow it and you personally want to, wear SOME makeup. don't overdo it, because that's just tacky. A little lip gloss or balm and curling your lashes (with maybe a little mascara) is nice.
-have fun and make a ton of memories!
when i was in 7th grade
i went thru the same thing.
soo no worries. im in 10th
now. but as far as dressing its all up to you
every one has their own style
its just about wear what you like
and what you feel comfortable in.
for example my style is like skinny legs and some Jordans/dunks
spike belt/chain and a tee
that may not work because thats not your style or
something your use to. just goof around
untill you find the style that is Simply you
:)
Haha weird I'm the same way. Try and make friends with the popular people maybe. Get at least one hoodie or t-shirt from Hollister and a person willl remember you as prep. And preps are the popular people. Just do what the cool kids do. And that doesn't mean drugs or sex. Don't change who you are though.
I don't think you can dress how people that don't know you would tell you to dress. If you want to be ';cooler'; you need to be comfortable in your own skin, which it seems you are, AND dress as a reflection of your inner self.
well remember, youre only in middle school, so you dont want to dress too much like an adult, or too much older than your age, a mistake i think alot of young girls are making these days. i guess what i can tell you, is that a great pair of jeans can take you anywhere. if a pair of jeans fits you well, are comfortable, and are appropriate for your body tpe, youre good to go. but never try to be something youre not. wear whatever you feel confident in. confidence = coolness in my book.I need girl advice. please help?
I remember the akwardness in middle school, but I also remember that was the year I became a ';cool kid';. I would just stay up on todays style. Rock some clothes that you see at the mall, just dont go to extreme and make sure you feel comfortable in them. Oh and for your face, if your parents can afford it get some proactive, it works great and will make you more confident. I know it is tuff to fit in sometimes but just remember that you are just perfect the way you are!!
Oh and I always like to do something totally different with my hair, try a new style or cut!! good luck girl!!
Try teenmagazine.com for ideas (:
Just be yourself. Dress in what you like and are comfortable in and be glad that you have friends and just chill with them. You dont want to start trying to dress a certain way in order to ';fit in'; and look ';cool'; cause in the end, you will be giving off a false impression of who you are. When you get a little older and get out of grade school and high school, you will discover that most people could care less about how you dress, they care more about having a good personality.
ok, I'm not sure if this is what you're looking for, but here we go:
-be yourself! trying to be someone else will just end in losing self-confidence, self-knowledge, possibly some of your greatest friends, etc. don't care too much about what people think, because the people who don't like you don't matter in the end.
-wear what you think is cute/fun and not necessarily what ';everyone else'; is wearing. if you need inspiration, look through magazines and stuff but don't copy exactly what the models wear because that's just tacky. and don't break the school dress code.
-if your parents and school allow it and you personally want to, wear SOME makeup. don't overdo it, because that's just tacky. A little lip gloss or balm and curling your lashes (with maybe a little mascara) is nice.
-have fun and make a ton of memories!
when i was in 7th grade
i went thru the same thing.
soo no worries. im in 10th
now. but as far as dressing its all up to you
every one has their own style
its just about wear what you like
and what you feel comfortable in.
for example my style is like skinny legs and some Jordans/dunks
spike belt/chain and a tee
that may not work because thats not your style or
something your use to. just goof around
untill you find the style that is Simply you
:)
Haha weird I'm the same way. Try and make friends with the popular people maybe. Get at least one hoodie or t-shirt from Hollister and a person willl remember you as prep. And preps are the popular people. Just do what the cool kids do. And that doesn't mean drugs or sex. Don't change who you are though.
I don't think you can dress how people that don't know you would tell you to dress. If you want to be ';cooler'; you need to be comfortable in your own skin, which it seems you are, AND dress as a reflection of your inner self.
I need girl advice really badly, please?
I've never been kissed, been on a date, or had a girlfriend (though I came close a few time) and I'm 16
I'm fairly socially awkward, quiet, shy, and I like to think that I'm relatively good looking, I'm really bad with conversation, although i can talk fairly well once I get going, and I can actually be pretty funny sometimes
Any helpful advice?
I mean really helpful, not just the same ';Be more social and talk more'; specifics would be nice.I need girl advice really badly, please?
text a girl first that seems to break the ice. then hangout just the two of you though. that way its less akward. there is nothing wrong with being shy and quiet you just gotta find a girl thats into that kind of guy. im sure there are some girls that you have your eye on. talk to them online first move it to texting then hangout .. that way your moving at a slower pace thats more comfortable to you. and then hopefully youll be able to come out of your shell a little bit on a date (:I need girl advice really badly, please?
Glad u dont look like your avatar.. I think the key is to be spontaneous and natural and when its right youll know it. First you have to get yourself into a situation with a girl? guy? Lke ask them to a basketball game or a movie is a great place to make out! make it scarey and shell snuggle up toyou.. You cant just go up to her and say will you kiss me.. there has to be some level of a connection. and at your age most likely you will be making the first move. Its simply a matter of comfort and connection.. see how she feels about it.. when you show consideration and interest, she will probably respond to it.
I'm fairly socially awkward, quiet, shy, and I like to think that I'm relatively good looking, I'm really bad with conversation, although i can talk fairly well once I get going, and I can actually be pretty funny sometimes
Any helpful advice?
I mean really helpful, not just the same ';Be more social and talk more'; specifics would be nice.I need girl advice really badly, please?
text a girl first that seems to break the ice. then hangout just the two of you though. that way its less akward. there is nothing wrong with being shy and quiet you just gotta find a girl thats into that kind of guy. im sure there are some girls that you have your eye on. talk to them online first move it to texting then hangout .. that way your moving at a slower pace thats more comfortable to you. and then hopefully youll be able to come out of your shell a little bit on a date (:I need girl advice really badly, please?
Glad u dont look like your avatar.. I think the key is to be spontaneous and natural and when its right youll know it. First you have to get yourself into a situation with a girl? guy? Lke ask them to a basketball game or a movie is a great place to make out! make it scarey and shell snuggle up toyou.. You cant just go up to her and say will you kiss me.. there has to be some level of a connection. and at your age most likely you will be making the first move. Its simply a matter of comfort and connection.. see how she feels about it.. when you show consideration and interest, she will probably respond to it.
Sick Baby girl, advice appreciated!?
My baby has been sick she is 2 1/2 years old. Today is th 4 day(shes been to the doc and ER in the past few days), she hasn't thrown up in almost 26 hours and no diarrhea in 10 hours. She has been drinking (little soda, apple juice %26amp; lots of water) shes eaten some fishies. She been crying of stomach pain brought her to the doc and she checked her out and said it was cramping.. just give her tylenol which seems to help some what. She went into a screaming fest and said ';my poopy hurts'; and then you could hear his stomach turn and then she was fine.. went to change her and it was just a ton of pee! That was 3 hrs ago and she has not peed since.. she is know going through the whole cramping thing again.. and shes been drinking about the same amount as she was when she was diarrheaing but she doesn't seem to make tears anymore.. I'm very worried... pleaes tell me anything that might help!Sick Baby girl, advice appreciated!?
No, no Karo, it is for constipation.
I think she just has a bug and from what you say she is drinking, it may be hurting her stomach. Soda's can cause gas and be hard on the stomach acids esp when there is no food in there and apple juice is what you drink when are constipated so it will not help w/ the diarrhea it can make it worse.
It sound's like a lot of gas, I would try that. When it is sudden tummy aches that stop suddenly that it usually the reason. It is good she is peeing and 3 hrs is not a long time ago, I think she is on her way to getting better. She needs to drink pedialite or Gatorade, they have them in Popsicles now, lay off the soda's (unless it's diet sprite) and don't worry about eating too much now. Her appetite will improve in a day or so.Sick Baby girl, advice appreciated!?
Have you tryed giving her some kayro syrup?
Here it what you do put a teaspoon and a half in her cup with her favorite drink mix it up and give it to her. It will help.
My 3 year old had the same thing. The doctor said no to soda or any carbonated drinks... this causes the stomach to get upset. I tried the little sips of drinks esp. gatorade (sorry about the spelling)... Mine daughter was still in pain... so I took her back and they told me not to feed her anything or give her anything to drink for at least 12 hours... so whatever bug is in her body would come out - that actually worked for me. After that, you slowly start introducing the rice or toast and see how she reacts to it.
If you are concern at anytime go to the hospital, don't wait. Use your own judgement
What's her temp?
Try an after-hours clinic. There is probably one in the nearest large town. They are much faster and less expensive than the ER, but they'll send you to the ER if needed. My daughter likes the pediatric one we go to. They have satellite TV in every room so she can watch her favorite channel!
**The BRAT diet is bananas, rice, applesauce, and toast. Don't give it to her until her stomach settles.
No more goldfish until her stomach is completely settled. Tell her they are making her tummy be naughty and her tummy doesn't like them right now. Keep up with the liquids. For variety you might try Pedialyte or Gatorade or pear juice. Check the diaper again and see if it's wet.
If she doesn't wet in 5 more hours, or if she really seems dehydrated, she needs to be seen again. You'll need to stay up or get up to check on her, but you are probably doing that anyway. If she loses consciousness, call an ambulance immediately (not likely, but theoretically possible). Or you could take her to the nearest fire station with a medic, and ask the medic if she needs the ER.
my little guy (3 months) was really sick like that and I had him at the dr and ER four times in a week and there was nothing they could do. Then my almost 3 yr old got it too. It sounds like it is just a stomach bug. You could try the b.r.a.t diet. I think it is bread, rice, applesauce, and . . . I don't remember what the t is. Those are all stomach friendly foods. Just keep offering fluids so she doesn't get dehydrated and it is completely normal for little ones appetite to go away when they don't feel well. After a few days she should be ok - and possibly want to eat a ton more to make up for the last few days! Good luck - I know how hard it is when they are sick!
Shes got cramps from crying and stressing. Both of you should calm down. Put a movie on and lay down and watch it.
Give her toast with Corn syrup(it will help her have regular bowel movements, the right amount.)
Does she have a fever? if she does give her some Tylenol, don't let her wear any blanket, and cool cloths under her arm pits. If t doesn't go down, get a sheet and put cold water on it lay it on her(she needs to get cold)
Again, if its not working talk her to the ER, they will fix this.
(remember to tell them everything you did.)
If she starts throwing up give her sodium crackers. and ginger ale.
If she gets diarrhoea. she has to go as much as possible(She WILL get dehydrated if you don't give her lots of water.) She has a bug and its gotta come out.
Shes just peeing because of all the fluids.
(Check her temperature)
Get her to stop crying, its whats giving her cramps.
Get her to lay down and watch a movie or something. She needs to relax and keep her mind off of it(She can tell that your stressed out too, so you need to relax too.). It may pass.
(When you give her ginger ale stir it wil a metal spoon for about five minutes to get it flat. This will help with her stomach, and won't be so hard on her tummy.)
Hope she feels better soon! =)
No, no Karo, it is for constipation.
I think she just has a bug and from what you say she is drinking, it may be hurting her stomach. Soda's can cause gas and be hard on the stomach acids esp when there is no food in there and apple juice is what you drink when are constipated so it will not help w/ the diarrhea it can make it worse.
It sound's like a lot of gas, I would try that. When it is sudden tummy aches that stop suddenly that it usually the reason. It is good she is peeing and 3 hrs is not a long time ago, I think she is on her way to getting better. She needs to drink pedialite or Gatorade, they have them in Popsicles now, lay off the soda's (unless it's diet sprite) and don't worry about eating too much now. Her appetite will improve in a day or so.Sick Baby girl, advice appreciated!?
Have you tryed giving her some kayro syrup?
Here it what you do put a teaspoon and a half in her cup with her favorite drink mix it up and give it to her. It will help.
My 3 year old had the same thing. The doctor said no to soda or any carbonated drinks... this causes the stomach to get upset. I tried the little sips of drinks esp. gatorade (sorry about the spelling)... Mine daughter was still in pain... so I took her back and they told me not to feed her anything or give her anything to drink for at least 12 hours... so whatever bug is in her body would come out - that actually worked for me. After that, you slowly start introducing the rice or toast and see how she reacts to it.
If you are concern at anytime go to the hospital, don't wait. Use your own judgement
What's her temp?
Try an after-hours clinic. There is probably one in the nearest large town. They are much faster and less expensive than the ER, but they'll send you to the ER if needed. My daughter likes the pediatric one we go to. They have satellite TV in every room so she can watch her favorite channel!
**The BRAT diet is bananas, rice, applesauce, and toast. Don't give it to her until her stomach settles.
No more goldfish until her stomach is completely settled. Tell her they are making her tummy be naughty and her tummy doesn't like them right now. Keep up with the liquids. For variety you might try Pedialyte or Gatorade or pear juice. Check the diaper again and see if it's wet.
If she doesn't wet in 5 more hours, or if she really seems dehydrated, she needs to be seen again. You'll need to stay up or get up to check on her, but you are probably doing that anyway. If she loses consciousness, call an ambulance immediately (not likely, but theoretically possible). Or you could take her to the nearest fire station with a medic, and ask the medic if she needs the ER.
my little guy (3 months) was really sick like that and I had him at the dr and ER four times in a week and there was nothing they could do. Then my almost 3 yr old got it too. It sounds like it is just a stomach bug. You could try the b.r.a.t diet. I think it is bread, rice, applesauce, and . . . I don't remember what the t is. Those are all stomach friendly foods. Just keep offering fluids so she doesn't get dehydrated and it is completely normal for little ones appetite to go away when they don't feel well. After a few days she should be ok - and possibly want to eat a ton more to make up for the last few days! Good luck - I know how hard it is when they are sick!
Shes got cramps from crying and stressing. Both of you should calm down. Put a movie on and lay down and watch it.
Give her toast with Corn syrup(it will help her have regular bowel movements, the right amount.)
Does she have a fever? if she does give her some Tylenol, don't let her wear any blanket, and cool cloths under her arm pits. If t doesn't go down, get a sheet and put cold water on it lay it on her(she needs to get cold)
Again, if its not working talk her to the ER, they will fix this.
(remember to tell them everything you did.)
If she starts throwing up give her sodium crackers. and ginger ale.
If she gets diarrhoea. she has to go as much as possible(She WILL get dehydrated if you don't give her lots of water.) She has a bug and its gotta come out.
Shes just peeing because of all the fluids.
(Check her temperature)
Get her to stop crying, its whats giving her cramps.
Get her to lay down and watch a movie or something. She needs to relax and keep her mind off of it(She can tell that your stressed out too, so you need to relax too.). It may pass.
(When you give her ginger ale stir it wil a metal spoon for about five minutes to get it flat. This will help with her stomach, and won't be so hard on her tummy.)
Hope she feels better soon! =)
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