Need some girl advice. Just read it.?

Ok so theres this girls see and ive gone up to her and talked to her yesterday. Im not sure if she knows i like her and im kinda scared about making girls know i like them but thats another issue and another story.





any ways i saw her again in class today, should i have gone up to her and spoken to her. would that look like im desperate. even though that might seem unreasonable to say.





Yesterday we were talking for a decent time and she was doing as much talking as i was even though i think i messed that up too.





I think im gonna see her tomorrow and i think we might talk for a bit more time than last time. what should i do or talk about. where should my head be. i know im not suppose to make sure a big deal out of it like there will be no other. for me its hard to find a girl i have real interest in.





Im not scared of talking to her i just dont want to mess up. put your self in my shoes what would you do.





Im in college btw. and i know i asked this already.Need some girl advice. Just read it.?
ok so obviously you like this girl alot and maybe she does have interest in you but maybe not yet... and yes girls do like when guys come up to them and have something to talk about but idk she might be the shy type but whichever she is you should go and try to talk to her... and you should talk to her about idk maybe something random and cute maybe shell like that then if not just be yourself and dont worry if she likes you she should like you for who you are... but dont put on a face where you think you are cool.. i hate that when guys do that it drives me nuts.. so be yourself and you should be just fine...=)Need some girl advice. Just read it.?
As freaked out as you might be if you try to plan what your going to say you'll end up screwing it up even worse no one can tell you what to talk about. I can give you a suggestion to help get the conversation started take something that you talked about the first time or anytime that you have talked to her. And try to find some common likes and dislikes. And another thing I can tell you is be yourself a girl can tell when your trying to hard so try to relax as much as you can and BE YOURSELF!!!!! Hope this helps.
Whatever you do, try not to act insecure, it's an immediete turnoff for most girls, and guys. It's in our nature. Try asking her what she wants to do when she's all done with school, I'm sure it'll spark a conversation, and just whatever comes to mind. And most importantly, be yourself, that's what wins girls over the most more than anything.
okay first thing to do is stop thinking so much lol. just take things slow for a while. even though you like her i would just keep talking to her and getting to know her a lot. be around her whenever possible. don't worry about what she will think so much, what happens happens. become really good friends with her and then see how things are.
just talk to her like u would a friend...with out call her a dude or a man. cuz then see'd think u only see her as a friend and thats all u'll get. just don't be so nervous about it. talk about anything. when she gets to know you wel enough...ask her out.
No. It's not desperate to talk to her. You and her are both human beings, so it'll just be like two humans talking. Ask her about herself. Don't be too direct, but let her get the hint that you are interested.
Brother-man, you just need to be yourself. I have had similar problems in the past with things like this. Just talk. Believe it or not, she is probably just as nervous as you are.
just keep the lines of communication open. be yourself, and if it happens that she continues talking to you, ask her out.
Be confident in yourself and just be yourself.
It doesn't make you desperate that you talk to her a lot. If I were you I'd try to talk to her almost everyday to show that you're interested. If she's all alone be there to talk just don't make it obvious that you're trying to talk to her everyday. If she looks sad ask what's wrong. Just do anything you can to show that you care. When you feel that you guys are becoming pretty close stop going to her and if she starts coming to you then that means she's making an effort to talk to you and be around you meaning she probably likes you. Then you'll be more comfortable and you can ask her out, if she doesn't like you in that way then it's okay ask her if you guys can still be friends.
wow this was a long problem to read and basically it came down to the last sentence to figure out what was the problem... so here it is...








you need to stop thinking so much and just relax... take a deep breath and just talk to the girl...








ask her for her number and text her, this is your best choice because clearly you have a hard time talking to her face to face.. this way there won't be any awkward silent moments lol








don't worry about messing things up because if that's the attitude you have than she will feel it and you will mess things up!!





just be yourself!!!
I think youre worrying more than you need to. And by doing that she will see that and THATS whats gonna freak her out.


If youve had no problem talking to her up to this point, then you will not have any in future conversations. Dont think about what to talk about or what to say and if you should say this or when you should say what. You cant rehearse this kind of thing b/c then it will come out that way-rehearsed. Just follow your heart. The conversation will just flow. Especially if you guys have already hung out, continuing convos are easier than new ones. Each time you hang with her, youll get more comfortable. Next time you talk to her, and the end of the convo, ask her out. She should know you like her already. And no time like the present! Just be yourself, youll be cool!


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