Urgent question (need girl-to-girl advice!)?

I am 17 and have never been kissed. I am going on a date w/ my bf 2nite, and i know he's going to make it romantic and he's going to try and kiss me. I'm very excited and ready for my 1st kiss. The thing is, I lead a very sheltered life, not allowed to watch any romance movies, etc...neways i would really appreciate it if someone could give me some useful steps for kissing-i don't mean for a quick kiss, i mean steps for carrying out a deep kiss so that i know how to make out...my friend just keeps saying ';move your lips back and forth on his'; but that's too vague and not helpful! i thoroughly appreciate any tips you can give-thanx!!!!!!Urgent question (need girl-to-girl advice!)?
Press your lips to his, and sort of open and close your mouth with his. Like the answerer above me said, copy him! Move together.





If you are making out, use your tongue to gently caress his tongue, too. Swirl it around his, imagine that you are pleasuring his tongue with yours. Lick his lips softly, look into his eyes.





Good luck! Have fun!Urgent question (need girl-to-girl advice!)?
I always would stress out like you about a simple thing like thing like this, and people would say ';when i happens you will know what to do.'; I always thought that this never helped. But trust me coming from someone that was in the same situation like you, it WILL come naturally. The first part will most definitely be ackward considering you are doing it for the first time, but you will soon know what you are doing :]
take a deep breath





make sure your eyes are closed while you kiss him





use your tongue like your licking an ice cream cone -you don't want to dart your tongue in and out of his mouth just slide it in smoothly and kiss him - but don't bite him or anything like that just keep it simple. you will know what feels right and what doesnt.
really you will find it comes naturaly..but since you seem really nervous about messing up..just let him lead and follow...(your right your friend was vague)...after a little while of kissing put your hand on the back of his neck...pretty much just let him lead..best of luck on your first kiss....(my first kiss with my now husband was great and yes ...i was nervous)
yeah, it really does come naturally..and you will probably be a little confused. but just tell him its your first time and he'll lead you through it. its a complete piece of cake when you got it down. and you will probably get it down the 2nd or 3rd time. just dont freak out. good luck.
Ok, this is going to be vague as well, but just copy what he does. If your bf knows that you've never been kissed, then don't worry. If you worry about it too much, something is going to go wrong. Just relax when you kiss him. It'll be fine. Just follow his lead. Hope I helped some
You could try to be cute about it, and when he leans in and pecks ya giggle a little and tell him it's your first kiss and your unsure what to do. And then ask him to teach you!
if he tries tongue, go with it. Don't hold back, first kiss!! Be with him, enjoy it. If you're sheltered , break open. You're 17, just do it! I'm not saying get in bed, just live, but keep some limits!
wow no romance movies that messed up. but your friends are pretty much right just move your lips up and down, back and forth on his.
If you don't want to kiss just feel him up and skip the kiss


he'd like that
GO TO YOUTUBE and search kissing. I bet you could find some makeout scenes on there.
honestly it comes naturally, just relax and try and copy him
relax try to copy him
I'm not a girl, but I can help you with expectations. First of all, you need to let him move in like the first 90% of the distance. When he does this you finish off the rest of the distance. As for what initiates it, you'll look at each other for a moment. Then things kind of get very quiet. You should make him feel like the only choice is to kiss you just by the way you look at him. Also, the first kiss usually decides if you proceed with the relationship believe it or not. Even if you never kissed a guy or not, you'll know whether or not he's a bad kisser. As far as the length of kiss, that will be determined by how into it ya'll get.
hey Honey


1st of all thats so cute lol





YOU sound just like me


when I was 17


Im 21 now


and I always thought that there were tips and steps for kissing


But the TRUTH is there isnt


you just have to realx and go with the moment and with how you feel


Take it slow and make sure you are positive and peaceful





also make sure you have a nice breathe and don’t over think everything he will lead you the right way Guys always do that just go with the flow baby Good luck Littel one and just have fun ok


You will be ok when I first kissed my boyfriend he was shock because I was so good he thought that I kissed so many other guys before him but I didn’t he was my 1st lol so don’t worry you might be a wonderful kisser just be positive
it's important to be relaxed and be yourself. lips are incredibly sensitive areas of the body, and it's likely that your boyfriend will sense if you're nervous or not. try cuddling beforehand to get you in the mood. look deep into his eyes and give him a quick brush with your lips, to let him know you want to be kissed romantically (trust me, guys can be pretty dense!) then go for it. tilt your head one way, hopefully he'll go the other and just 'massage' his lips with yours. when you feel comfortable, part his lips with your tongue and lock your tongue with yours. don't worry if it doesnt go right first time - the best part about kissing is practice! good luck :)
Been there, though im younger than yu i can offer the experiences i have been through. With kissing, the first ones bound to be acward...its a part of life, but here are some tiips to make it as un-acwars as possible..





Keep your eyes closed, atleast long enough so u no his are too so you can peek and see how funny he looks.





Open your mouth a little, you dont want to assume he wants tounge until he stickks it in your mouth.





I dont know how to expain to use yur tounge...but tickle the top of his mouth with the tip of your tounge, and wrestle with his tounge.





When your about done, gently bite his lip, it will giv u a sexy feeling and deff,. turn him on:]





good luck!
Kissing and making out is natural. Some people are bad kissers only because they try too hard! Do it how you think it should be done.





Kissing can be done in different ways, but most commonly just by puckering the lips, slightly turning your head, and making contact. Some people don't enjoying the puckering (even thought you're supposed to do that) and rather just lean in and then make the contact. I find not puckering to be better since it doesn't feel as stiff.





Making out is exactly what your friend says. It starts with the kiss, but it's about the same when trying to get the hang of it. You do move your lips back and forth on his and it's as simple as that. Start off easy by moving slowly to avoid an awkward moment and then it will become easy as tieing your shoes! You can do certain things such as run your hands through your partner's hair, closing your eyes, using tongue, and kissing the neck when you improve at it.





Don't worry. It's something everyone has to face at one point in their life, and we all feel/felt the same about it! Good luck!