Tuesday, July 27, 2010

Girl Advice??? PLEASE help!?

me and this girl hung out for the first time yesterday and got some lunch and played some basketball. I'm pretty sure we were flirting back and forth but it was kind of a blind meeting so I think it was moreover a date. What would classify this as a date? Also, I really like talking to her and text her randomly during the day. How much texting is too much? I want to show her that I am interested and try to schedule our next meeting, but don't want to annoy her. She works and goes to school so I asked a couple days ago if i was bothering her and she said I could text her at work it doesn't matter. Does anybody have any advice for me? advice about texting and calling also?Girl Advice??? PLEASE help!?
dude chill girls don't care about all that just call like 2 times if she doesn't answer leave her alone only text 3times and Take her to the park nice and romantic but comfortable%26gt; ;pGirl Advice??? PLEASE help!?
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ask when she is free and if you like her that much ask if she wants to go on a date with you.


good luck
Right, first things first. Don't get so worked up about it. The biggest ruin-er of chances is when you get very excited about it and show it to the girl. Text her only when she texts you, but don't seem too close, play it hard to get. Because she seems to allow you to text her at almost any time, there is definitely interest, not to mention the basketball fun. It wasn't a date, a date is only defined if you and she both agree that it is a date. In general, texting or calling more than 2 times per day unless she instigates it is a bit much., Also, texting more than 9 times per week is also too much. You want her to come to you. She obviously has interest, but you don't want to slip into the ';just friends'; criterion. Find some even that she is interested near her general area, such as a concert, and invite her saying that ';I am going to (insert event here), would you like to join me? I have an extra ticket.'; If she seems to have a good time and still seems very interested, ask her to another neutral event where it doesn't put any extra effort or connotation on either person. If she agrees for 3 or so dates, and still seems very interested, move on to something less neutral, such as a movie. If it works well, you have a good chance of making it work well.





Good luck and have fun!





Hope this helps

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