Saturday, July 31, 2010

Girl advice?

.i had a first date tonight with a girl i 'met' online. known her two months... one month on match, one month on myspace.. in which she requested me on and sent me a msg first. i mentioned meeting up few weeks ago, just saying we should sometime, and that i enjoy talking to her. she said ' i like talking to you too' and agreed we should meet up. a week later she brought it up.. i asked her what shes doing that next week, she said, 'hanging out with you silly.' i was on vacation, which she knew about, so i replied 3/4 days later, to find a good time to meet up. she said she was getting over a cold... 3 days later she emails me saying shes all better and says ';maybe we could talk on the phone. what do you think? and arrange to meet up.';


i reply with yes and my cell#, and then she gives hers. we've been txting back n forth. so today around noon or 1pm she txted me (havent talked on phone yet) and said she had to cancel and shes really sorry, that she has to get a tooth pulledGirl advice?
go ahead and just call her. leave her a sweet voice msg if she doesn't pick up (she might be asleep from the meds, or otherwise busy).





then after you two get on the phone at the same time, ask her out on an official date. maybe to a fast food place, or maybe you and your friends could meet up with her and her friends at the mall, so it's more of a comfortable situation for her.Girl advice?
it sounds very weird that she keeps on changing plans whenever they r already set. i wouldnt trust someone who keeps on making up excuses.
im sorry to tell u this,but she's making lame excuses maybe cuz she's not ready to meet up with u! whats up with that?like everytime u wanna meet up something happens? honey, screw it,if she doesnt wanna meet up with u,u should know there's something wrong..
Back off and let her come to you, I think she is playing games with you.
maybe she put up pictures of someone else on myspace and is afraid you'll think she's fat/ugly/etc.


if you want to call her then don't text her and ask her just call her. enough bouncing around. just reading your question was annoying. aren't you getting tired of making plans just for her to be like ';oops sorry, got a tooth pulled';...';oops sorry I forgot I have to shampoo my hair';...';oh sorry I have to cancel, I have a hangnail.';?
I cant believe I just read all that...
wow this is really something. well, give her a chance. she is not feeling well and your just going to blow her off. i mean its not her fault that she gets sick. maybe you should give her some time. if she is lying about being sick then i believe she is just shy and nervous about meeting up. but you and her should continue to text each other if u 2 are having fun communicating. good luck and remember ';PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE';...
She wouldn't bring it up if she didn't want to meet you. You should absolutely text her to see if she feels up to talking on the phone. She is probably wondering why you haven't wanted to call her yet. If she keeps canceling on you then maybe you should worry but once is nothing big, stuff comes up with everyone.
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