I Need some girl to girl advice. homecoming+boyfriend+hotel room=sex!?

o.k. well homecoming is in about a week, i'm really excited but kinda nervous, mainly because i'm going to be going with the guy i've liked since 9th grade, (i'm only in the 10th but still), we've been going out for only 3 weeks now, but we've been talking for the past year, but haven't made it official until now. After homecoming we're going to go to a hotel party, he bought us our own room for after the party though, i'm not sure if he's expecting us to have sex or something, but i'm not really sure if i want to have sex. I'm a virgin 100%, never been close to having sex, or really even thought about it until now (i've never even had the guts to use a tampon). Should i just wait and see what happens? i mean maybe he isn't expecting us to have sex, just wanted to spend the night together. Or should i ask him or tell him how i feel? What would you do?


sorry it's in the wrong section, i just want some advice from women who've been through things beforeI Need some girl to girl advice. homecoming+boyfriend+hotel room=sex!?
DO NOT HAVE SEX WITH HIM!! You should not even stay in that hotel room with him to prevent the chance of it even happening. Ya you've been talking 4 a long time but you've only been dating 4 less than 1 month. That is way way too soon. You 2 should definitely talk about this 2 thoughI Need some girl to girl advice. homecoming+boyfriend+hotel room=sex!?
Ask him before if he's expecting sex and if you don't want to make sure he knows that before you go to this hotel room with him because if you tell him when you're there he might feel rejected and it get awkward. you probably shouldn't just wait and see what happens because if you're not sure what you want, you might regret it later and feel angry or hurt. Its your first time, you probably want it to be a good memory
dont do it u have only been dating for 3 weeks now that is way to soon i lost my virginity about 3 months ago with my first b/f n yea very emotional im still with him tho n im 18 if u do have sex with him u r going to regret it big time plus the first time having sex hurts so much it feels like someone is sticking a knife in ur vagina not a good feeling make sure its with someone u love
Tell him your parents want you home. Don't have sex with him. I'm marrying the one and only and I am happy I never experienced the pain my friends have when the first guy they did it with turned out to be a jerk.
You Dont Have To Feel Pressured Into Having Sex With Him, But if You Feel That You're Ready To Make That Commitment Then You Should Go For It!


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If course hes expecting to have sex, if you don't want to do it tell him you are not planning on sleeping with him.
if you dont want sex then say no


but if you do ahve sex make sure he wears a condom and if it slips down during the sexual intyercourse stop and pull it back up !
if you're not ready for sex, or to potentially be assaulted sexually.





DO - NOT - GO
get someone 21 or older to buy some liquor and get drunk in the motel room
ask him what the hay he is doing renting a room for





honesty helps!
Do you really believe there is some other reason a boy dates a girl? Sorry to be the one to tell you. 8~)
jus go with it. . . if yooh start to feel uncomfortable stop. dont do sumthin jus to make him happy.
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just dont do it.
well 1. I would talk to him about it, or yah just wait to see what happens!!!
how did he get a hotel room anyway, if you're both underage? Sounds like some irresponsible parents wanting to be ';friends'; with the kids.


And if he is of age, it may be illegal for you to have sex!





If you don't want to have sex, you should not stay in the room with him. You may get wrapped up in it at the time and agree to something you will regret. OR you may be sexually assaulted, and that's something you will live with for the rest of your life.





You should talk to him ASAP and tell him that you do not feel that you're ready to have sex yet. There's nothing wrong with you feeling that way, actually you're being smart! Talking to him as soon as you can might save him some money since he could try to sell the room to someone else or cancel the reservation. And if he has a problem with it and gets angry or tries to pressure you to change your mind, it might be time to look for a new boyfriend!





I was your age when I first had sex, and even tho I'm still with the guy 6 years later, I sometimes wish we had waited and saved ourselves the worry every month that I was pregnant. Plus, your first time will likely hurt and not be very enjoyable!





Good luck and have fun at your dance!!