I need girl advice! Please help me?

I have been good friends with a girl since 4th grade. we are now sophomores and will both be 16 soon. I know i like her a lot. But does she like me? She isn't allowed to go out with anyone until she is 16. I have been waiting all these years and not gone out with anybody else. She will be 16 soon and I'm wondering if i should keep waiting or if I should start looking for someone else. She has never admitted who she likes, although her friends and family says she likes me. So what should i do? Also, idk if this matters or not but she is not a girly girl.I need girl advice! Please help me?
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Honestly, if that many people say she does, then there probably is a little spark. You just need to find the right way to make it ignite into a flame.





The day she turns sixteen, offer to do something with her that she loves to do. Completely make the time all about her and doing what she desires, for this will put her into a great mood with you. Perhaps even after, let her know how you feel.





I'm not saying go on your knee and propose, but tell her how long you've liked her and such. Chances are, she'll feel really wanted, and every girl loves to feel that way.





That's so sweet for you to care that much...if she doesn't have feelings for you, then she's absolutely insane.I need girl advice! Please help me?
I think that you should keep waiting. I think it will totally steal her heart when you tell her that you have been waiting and not dating this whole time because you wanted to wait until she was 16 and could date. Believe me-that is too sweet and if she doesn't fall for that then I think her lost. Also, how would you feel knowing you waited all this time and threw it away almost when getting close to what you wanted. Don't give up when being so close. Just keep on being around her. By the way, alot of times, girls know when guys like them. Wait, tell her you waited, then take her out and show her that you have liked and cared about her since 4th grade. I think it is worth the wait on you and her behalf. Good Luck!!!!!
I think it is very sweet that you have waited for her this long. That being said, if you still feel the same way about her, what's the harm in waiting a little longer for her? She should acknowledge that you waited for her for so long, and if her peers and family says she likes you, it is a very good chance that she does. Go for it.
DONT GIVE UP! those 6 years of waiting for her will go to waste! on her 16th birthday, get her a present, along with red roses, that says ';happy 16th birthday, my unrequited love';


[say something LIKE that, this is kinda corny, though you can use it if you want]





besides, youre not sure of her feelings, and the worst thing that could happen is her saying, 'thank you for waiting all these years, but i like someone else.'





so be a man and tell her as soon as she turns 16
If she is not a girly girl, she might liked you but too shy to do anything about her feelings and you have to do the 1st move.





But since you been friends with her for a long time, she might just think of you as a best friend, so to be sure you need to ask your self this :





1. Is she look happier when I'm around?


2. Is she asking for me when I didn't contact her?


3. Is she kinda nervous when I looked at her?





If the answer of the above questions is YES.


You better make the first move and ask her out on a REAL DATE.





I hope this helps.
Ask her out before she turns 16 and starts looking for someone else herself.





She probably likes you and is just too scared to admit it.





Ask her out, if she says she rather not, then be her friend.





6 months is not too much... maybe make her you ';promise to gf';?





Another way of saying: We're dating without your parents approval right now, so lets say it's not official, but date anyways and make it official when you turn 16.
Well, she seems to be shy about her feelings.


Waiting for her like you did was really sweet and that proves that it's more than just a silly little week long crush that most teenagers/elementary school kids get.


You should confess to her.


She seems as though she might.


But, flirt with her a little first.


If she flirts back then she does like you or if she goes all blushy and such that means she does.


But, if she's like ';ew. dude, I love you like a big bro';, drop it...


It's better to stay friends with her than to ruin it by pursuing an unrequited affection.
i think you should wait too...but its def a good sign that her family and friends say that she likes you. and since she isn't a girly girl she probably isn't very open about who she likes or any ';girl'; stuff. so if her friends and family can tell by her actions, you're in. but wait a little longer for the right time
How long before she turns 16?





okay, then definitely you can wait..6mo isn't really that long. You waited 7yrs whats 6months?? Wow, impressive...I'm sure that made a statement to her fam!! oh and according to what you stated, ';fam %26amp; friends says she likes me.'; you know she probably does.





';Love will stand the test of time.';
Tell her that she looks really beautiful on her birthday.





On that 16th birthday, tell her that she's beautiful. Every woman likes to be called beautiful, no matter how tom-boyish they are. That will light a spark in her head. Also, give her a hug. Smile, and work really hard at getting her attention. Flirt with her, she will get the message, and theres about a 9/10 chance that she likes you too! Good luck!
Think about the possibility of awkwardness after you tell her. If she doesn't feel the same....would she feel weird after and be distant? If she feels the same then great, date her, but at the same time you have to think....what if you break up? Do you think that would be awkward afterwards? It's really hard to go back to the same friendship with someone after you date and it doesn't work out.
go for it when shes 16 if she seems interested i mean you have known her for so long so you're already on a level of a good friendship...flirt with her, is shes blushy or flirts back then shes prob into you. watcha got to loose if you've never been in a relationship before??if shes a tomboy maybe play some kind of sport with her like tennis..you'd probably have a lot of fun and its flirty..i say wait for her at least until shes 16 and if shes not interested keep looking=]
omg you ahve waited this long, keep waiting! dont give up, no matter waht the day she turns 16 go for it. if her family and everyone says she likes you, im sure she does, this is coming from a 16 year old girl! you could have a little fairy tail story, just wait for her, i bet seh likes you! tell me how everyting works out... if you need more help message me! good luck!
Well if you are shy than i would just write her and if she is shy i would write her. Girl like notes anyway! no matter what age they are. I would just tell her how you feel. She probable likes you back and if you dont say anything to her and you move on you will see her with other guys ';the girl you have been waiting forever for'; And you will regret it so much.
You sound like a very sensitive and kind young man who wants to do the right thing....if you like her that much then wait for 6 months when both of you will be the right age. Believe me time flies....and 6 months is not that long .....it doesn't matter if she is a sporty type person....I'm sure there is something about her that attracts you to her.....some females are not comfortable in fancy clothes....but they are still the same as other girls....with the same feelings.





Best wishes,


Mama Jazzy Geri
Do you know how much it would mean to her if you told her that you've been waiting for her all this time?...IT WOULD MEAN THE WORLD TO HER!!





It's completely adorable. Just tell her how pretty she looks on her birthday, always complement her, flirt a TON, and she will get the hint.





At some point of the day on her birthday, take her outside..go on a nice long walk and just tell her how you feel. You will feel great!





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well u've been waiting for her these whole years so why wouldn't wait for her for another few months,,u've got nothing to lose by waiting a few more months,,but the most important is just follow ur bliss,,if your heart tells u to wait then follow what ur heart says,,don't let urself regret anything in the end of the day,,





good luck!!





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well if you have been waiting all these years for her there is no reason why you shouldn't wait a little bit longer for her. You should tell her that you have liked her all this time, she will probably think that it's sweet that you have waited for her.
If she likes you it would be better for you to wait because you are still young. In other words that you still have time to give her space. This is if you are ready for serious relationships it takes a lot of commitment and patience.
ASK HER TO GO SOMEWHERE IM SURE IF YOU HAVE BEEN HER FRIEND FOR THAT LONG SHE WILL GO OUT WITH YOU IF HER FAMILY AND FRIENDS SAYS SHE LIKES YOU TAKE A CHANCE AND ASK HER OUT SHES ALMOST 16 AND IM SURE SHELL DATE YOU
dude im 16 right now and as a fellow teenager im telling you to wait for her 16 b day.. if only i was in ur position, i would be one of the happiest guys on earth you lucky SOB
I think that you should definitely wait for her. If you have been waiting for this long than I think you can wait 6 more months and see what happens.


Good luck! =)
well, if her friends and family are telling you, and she won't tell who she likes, you should most definitely give it a shot!
Take the chance, ask her out.





same thing i did, to the girl i like.





just do it.
Wait!!!. If you've waited that long and she's turning 16 soon than it'd be kinda dum not to wait just a little longer to ask her something you've been waiting ages to ask..^0^
Wait it out man cause it might be worth it.





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She probably likes you to. Just ask her out. What do you have to lose? You're only young once. Go for it.
I think you should ask her if she would ever go out with you so that you will know if she likes you or not and if she doesn't then you could move on.
hmmm. so u really like her.


and u have waited and not gone out with anyone.


and all her friends and family say she likes u.


wow this is tough.
try it....u have nothing to loose...


its ok to loose your pride over someone u love...


dont loose your love tho over your pride....
Ask her if she would like to go out sometime maybe to dinner and a movie. See how she reacts.