Girl Advice?

About a month ago, my girlfriend whom I've been with on and off for the past 2 1/2 left me. She left because we really didn't have anything in common and because I have problems and would get mentally abusive. I never meant to hurt her and I told her as much and most of the abuse stemmed from stuff she did to me like cheating on me. Anyway after we broke up, she wanted to remain friends, but she treats me like crap. She never call to talk which I would like her to do because I'm having some health problems that are really worrying me. I asked her why she lied about being my friend and she said that we have nothing in common. Out of all her friends, I'm the only one that isn't into what she's into, and I don't like getting shunted aside because of it. I never let that difference come between us, I was just happy being with her. When we broke up, I asked her to not just jump into another relationship (which she has a tendency of doing) and she didn't right away, but I found out mondayGirl Advice?
You can be a friend, a lover and a loved one, but you shouldn't have to suffer. It doesn't do anyone any good. It's a tough lesson to learn, but you can't save someone if they don't want to be saved. Use your gifts wisely. Remember you have five senses: vision, hearing, touch, taste, and smell put God 1st and don't suffocate her or she will use your kindness for granted and eat you up and spit you out. Be a leader and not a follower. Don't ever worry about what the next man thinks; always be your-self. I know it's hard to let go but you can develop anxiety and panic attacks preety soon if you don't be a man and get yourself together a woman needs a strong man not someone who's going to run up behind them call her and tell her one more time how you feel but this time mean what you say You are a good person remember that okay. Here's a quot I go by: ';I don't know the key to success, but the key to failure is trying to please everyone';. Hope this will help and make you stronger keep Your Head Up!Girl Advice?
Let's say this very clearly: SHE'S YOUR EX.


OK - let's say it again: SHE'S YOUR EX.





Do you get it? It's none of your business and what you're doing right now is called stalking. Quit calling her. Don't worry about who she's dating. Forget about what she's doing and move on for yourself.
She is not worth any of this if she treats you like that...Find someone new who will actually treat you better
Dude you need to let it go. You sound as though you are begging her for attention. Pick up the pieces and move on.
Well if she doesn't want to talk to u. Don't even bother talking to her den. Find another friend who wants to be ur friend.
Toxic... too much DRAMA... end it and don't be friends, find another
well i know its hard but you need to let her go. if she has cheated on you that much then if yall did happen to get back together she would more then likely cheat on you. And confessing your feelings for her probably wouldn't change anything because she has someone else and she will want to be with them. She may just laugh at you for telling her or something.
maybe you should just let the relationship cool down for a bit. say hey every once in a while via text or e-mail but only every few weeks or so- REGARDLESS of how much you miss her. once a few months have passed maybe suggest hanging out with a few mutual friends so she doesn't feel as if it's a date and backs out. but before you back off, let her know that you're there for her no matter what- and stick to that. because if this new guy kicks her to the curb, you'd have to be there if you want another chance with her. meanwhile, since you mentioned mental abuse, i'd suggest that you seek professional psychological help. i am NOT calling you crazy. i see a psychologist and a psychyatrist... it actually helps. hope you're holding up okay. :)
First of all nobody should be abused for any reason even cheating. Now I'm sorry that you got stuck with such a jewel but if you want to be happy you must let her go. Obviously she does not want anything with you and even though it hurts, you are much better off without some one who treats you like crud and cheats. There are good people in the world but to get to the good ones you have lose the bad ones. Also, if I were you and she cheated on me and treated me like crap I would have dropped her a long time ago. You are important as a person and deserve to be treated with respect.