Need Some GIrl Advice?

I am 16 and not the most popular kid. For the last few years I haven't had a great reputation. Now it isn't that bad. I am just one of those invisible kids (at least with the girls). A lot of guys in school talk me and stuff you know but no girls. And also I don't really even hang out with any guys from school. How can I change this? How can I get girls to like me and want to hang out? Thanks.Need Some GIrl Advice?
So here's my story. In high school, I had a similar experience as you, but ';opposite';--I mostly hung out with girls and not really guys. However, I went on a mission trip to Mexico and met a guy I really liked, and a few months later we started dating and we've been together for three years now. So, I was able to meet a guy I liked because I was doing an activity I enjoyed and so was he, and I got to observe his character while we worked together. I would encourage you to get involved in different activities so that you can get to know more people in general, and to take the initiative to talk to people and introduce yourself--to both guys and girls, because it is good to have a good balance there. If you want to hang out more with those guys from school, take the initiative to ask them if they want to hang out. If you want a girl's perspective on how to get more girls to want to hang out with you, then these are the things that personally make me want to hang out with a guy: guys who talk to me and are interested in who I am and show concern about how I'm doing; guys who are generally nice to everybody, not just me, and ones who put others before themselves; guys who deeply respect girls in general and don't just want a relationship or sex. Maybe you can think about the good qualities you have and try to show those to people around you, and work on any qualities about yourself that you don't like as much. Don't get discouraged if there aren't instant results. Be happy for the friends you do have, even if there aren't girls yet.Need Some GIrl Advice?
My best advice is just to be comfortable, and make an effort to talk to them more and be more social and make an effort to hang out with guys you get along with, cuz chances are, they have several girl's as friends, and can introduce you to them.
If you start talking to some girls, they will notice you...


I went through the same expierience, and making friends with people you want to go out with helps a lot! hope this helps!
Well I am 14 and Like if your talking with your friends around a girl kinda hit something(not so loud just enough to get her attention.) and Then look at her and give a flirty smile and then look away and if she looks back look at her again and smile again and when he is done talking to u go ove rthere and Like say ';Hi u were kinda looking at me....I'm so and so'; and just go with that!